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Re: Looking for love in 2015? Post here.
« Reply #870 on: Feb 01, 2015, 02:36:00 PM »
It's february. There's no excuse not to flirt!

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« Reply #871 on: Feb 01, 2015, 04:59:22 PM »
Ah had a look on pink sofa but can't freaky afford it right now..

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« Reply #872 on: Feb 01, 2015, 05:00:21 PM »
This bloody phone! 'Can't really afford' gah
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« Reply #873 on: Feb 01, 2015, 10:27:44 PM »
It's february. There's no excuse not to flirt!

Yes there is. I can't flirt to save my life!  ::)
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« Reply #874 on: Feb 01, 2015, 11:06:09 PM »
i think I'm a great date! Other than the fact that I:
- don't want to co-habit, or get married
- won't give up friends / family / alone time / jetting off on a single jaunt to NY or wherever
- am irritatingly independent, and run my own ship
- like to do what I like, and partner has to accept (or not)

On the plus side, I won't:
- take you for a ride financially
- be unfaithful, or string you along
- play mind games
- expect you to do anything I wouldn't myself
- limit your freedom to do whatever it is you need to self-actualise
and
- am pretty kind, most of the time
- and sorted. (mostly)

Not everyone enjoys this level of freedom or is prepared to give it, but I can. That's about it.

Everything else is pretty normal! (whatever the heck that is)
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« Reply #875 on: Feb 02, 2015, 11:20:07 AM »
I have put myself back on pof in anyone wants to see a fuller profile.  Username satsumas.

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« Reply #876 on: Feb 02, 2015, 11:43:37 AM »
What's pof?
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« Reply #877 on: Feb 02, 2015, 11:51:16 AM »
Plenty of fish, it's a bit of a pants dating site but I fund it has more traffic up our end of the country than Pink Sofa and the like.

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« Reply #878 on: Feb 02, 2015, 01:03:36 PM »
Ah, do you have to pay to use that?
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« Reply #879 on: Feb 02, 2015, 01:10:48 PM »
No, it's free.

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« Reply #880 on: Feb 02, 2015, 02:31:09 PM »
Have joined up to give it a try, username tradink
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« Reply #881 on: Feb 02, 2015, 09:08:20 PM »
i know this is going to sound like an odd question that i should probably know the answer to by now BUT do u think flirting is for -

letting someone know that u fancy them

making someone u fancy feel good about themselves and therefore more likely to feel good towards u for doing it (i.e. to make the fancying bit more likely to be reciprocal)

or both?? i've always assumed only the first.

and is complimenting someone on (e.g.) their clothes flirting?

probably should go on another thread but i am not sure which.  8)

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« Reply #882 on: Feb 02, 2015, 09:12:57 PM »
I've been wondering the same things for ages, interested to hear what others here think about this! :)

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« Reply #883 on: Feb 02, 2015, 09:18:19 PM »
First one yes, I reckon so.
Second one, umm don't think so. If they want to flirt back that's up them, although they might be a bit shy about saying something first.
Third, if they are on a date or equivalent then yes, you are saying you appreciate their taste (or that you've been looking at their bum),
anything that says you enjoy being around them counts I think.
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Re: Looking for love in 2015? Post here.
« Reply #884 on: Feb 02, 2015, 09:21:50 PM »
I think complimenting on clothes can be done flirtily, but is general. I will compliment anyone on their clothes, then again I will compliment on hair or if the person is looking well.

Please don't tell me this is flirty  ???