Why on earth would you *not* belong on this thread Phuck? I would have thought that it should be welcoming to all who have any kind of parenting/familial role, and are involved in the lives of youngsters.
I should probably update my details:
I live in Colchester, and share parenting of our nearly 10yr old son (aka Sprout) with my ex-wife, K, since we separated in April 2015.
Long-term RF member (it was a bloody lifeline whilst TTC and in the first few years!)