yes indeed, as grey said. the idea of a couple has attracted me on a very abstract level, but not so much on a practical level. even when i think i like it, i actually don't generally speaking.
re LfL, i wasnt arguing against a relationship, but more for that i really enjoy so much alonetime and there is so much that i just don't like in a relationship - as in all those things that other people do seem to like. i cannot imagine a relation where i could be myself, but if it would be possible, then that would be great. in a way, though, i don't think others would call that a relation.
personally, i'm not for or against singledom, or coupledom, or exclusive relationships or poly-relations or any of all of that sort. why need to have a judgment, i don't really see the point? all of us just have preferences, which might change as well. i'm for relating and i wish i would have more friends i could relate and connect to on a deep and caring level (and i have in the past). and maybe that could be romantic, maybe it is friendship, i have family members i feel that way about.