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Re: Dear *
« Reply #69975 on: Jan 22, 2018, 12:01:32 PM »
^No, they donít though, they love the ego trip and feeling in control. I know, been there, done that.

 Dear the father of my child
 Those are my conditions, tough shit if you donít like them. Iím calling the shots. Nobody has equipped me with the knowledge or the tools to deal with this, Iím doing what I think is right, and no amount of excuses or half baked reassurances are going to sway me from it, and no amount of throwing things back in my face will change my mind either. Itís high time you stood up and took responsibility for yourself, instead of leaning on everybody else, then blaming them for your own inadequacy. I have sought help to deal with the problems caused by my illness (that by the way I didnít cause) now itís time for you to do the same.  Thatís the way itís going to be, because I say it is. Iím not giving in to you this time. I donít care if you hate me with the burning intensity of a thousand suns, thatís your problem, not mine. My problem is protecting my child, and I fully intend to do so.       
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Re: Dear *
« Reply #69976 on: Jan 22, 2018, 01:18:15 PM »
Slanthy

well done for standing your ground
ďExpectations are resentments under construction.Ē
― Anne Lamott

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Re: Dear *
« Reply #69977 on: Jan 22, 2018, 09:47:55 PM »
^^ agreed!!

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Re: Dear *
« Reply #69978 on: Jan 26, 2018, 07:36:20 PM »
Dear *

I literally cannot do this anymore- sometimes to have the just accept enough Is enough and moving on is the right thing that do! - they say the hardest decision are never easy- but weíre going around in circles and crossing boundaries we shouldnít be Iím just simply not happy anymore and have to do whatís right for the both of us.

You drive me crazy but I simply cannot Blurr the lines anymore.

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« Reply #69979 on: Jan 26, 2018, 08:51:04 PM »
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ďExpectations are resentments under construction.Ē
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Re: Dear *
« Reply #69980 on: Feb 01, 2018, 02:50:11 AM »
Dear non gb

I do not respond to attention seekers and those who belittle others.  You are spiteful.

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Re: Dear *
« Reply #69981 on: Feb 06, 2018, 09:43:13 AM »
Dear Plaiting Fog,

Good to see you back, and I especially love your allotment question in CMD  ;D. How is your allotment, by the way?

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« Reply #69982 on: Feb 06, 2018, 08:44:58 PM »
Thanks, LfL: it's good to be back  :)

Allotment is just peeping out of its dormancy. I am fixing buildings and clearing paths etc. I built a leaf mould cage last Autumn which is filled with leaves which are doing their thing. I am clearing wood in carloads to burn on my log fire. I overwintered onions and four different types of garlic (including elephant garlic) which I hope will come to something. I have chatted to the old men in caps and discussed the chitting of potatoes. But it is snowing lightly today so think it will be a while until I can really get going.

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Re: Dear *
« Reply #69983 on: Feb 06, 2018, 11:29:27 PM »
Brrr!

Thanks for the update!

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Re: Dear *
« Reply #69984 on: Feb 08, 2018, 10:08:34 AM »
Dear optician

I  do not feel i can continue with you.   I need to find someone i can trust and who will see me on Saturdays and who doesn't overcharge me.
« Last Edit: Feb 08, 2018, 11:11:29 AM by cigarettes and matches »

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Re: Dear *
« Reply #69985 on: Apr 18, 2018, 12:26:46 AM »
****** ************* *****
I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong that transwomen aren't shouting at me to suck their balls. - Hhayt

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« Reply #69986 on: Apr 18, 2018, 07:50:36 AM »
Dear Wolfie,

Sorry I didn't reply to your (possibly rhetorical) question in another thread about which was worse. I spent some time thinking about your question, but apparently didn't actually post a reply.

I am really sorry things are so hard for you.

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Re: Dear *
« Reply #69987 on: Apr 24, 2018, 02:05:39 AM »
Lust for Life :) x
What did you decide?
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Re: Dear *
« Reply #69988 on: Apr 24, 2018, 10:46:15 PM »
Well, that was it, it was a very tricky question. I wanted to say it was better to be well enough to want more, but I could see the attraction of not being disappointed/frustrated.

Does your answer change from time to time?

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Re: Dear *
« Reply #69989 on: Apr 25, 2018, 01:12:03 AM »
It flip flops shamelessly yeah:) 
I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong that transwomen aren't shouting at me to suck their balls. - Hhayt