People using SM speak when they are NOT! ...
what is sm speak?
SM ... the Sado-Masochism bit in BDSM ... Bondage/Discipline/Sado/Masochism ...so the language used in this niche Sexual community.
... I mean people pretending to be into sado-masochism when they are not.
... Pretending to have a knowledge of SM that comes from experience when they have no such experiences
.... Actually finding it all a TURN OFF ... the stuff going on in the Dungeon. A bit like the *please don't scare the horses* types
... Using SM speak to put out an air of
coolness where there is none
Should explain it ... I get more upset that I can't make out if they really are COOL
about it because the internet gives BLUFFERS enough info to pretend and they get away with it, INITIALLY until they get really offended.