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Re: Dungeon Dear *
« Reply #3045 on: Apr 12, 2010, 06:13:36 PM »
Quote from: pure evil on Apr 09, 2010, 11:04:10 AM
dear *,
now im thinking of a workshop on the physiology of bruising, why some areas and tools bring up bruises immediately, why others take a long time to come to the surface, why some bruises hurt, the different colours of bruises.... i can clearly envisage a bunch of perves sitting around en-rapt in discussion and the slide show could be so pretty!.

Yum!  :D :P

Dear KF,
I didn't like wanky man.
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Re: Dungeon Dear *
« Reply #3046 on: Apr 12, 2010, 08:27:45 PM »
Quote from: Pilar on Apr 12, 2010, 06:13:36 PM
Dear KF,
I didn't like wanky man.

you know what, i thought it was a pretty family values kind of night myself - pretty quiet - tho i saw a lot of people smiling at the end of the night.

could i suggest that if there is something in the club you don't like or that makes you feel uncomfortable you mention it to one of the hosts at the time??

i spoke to every person in the club that night, most more than once, there wasn't to my knowledge a 'wanky man'.
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Re: Dungeon Dear *
« Reply #3047 on: Apr 14, 2010, 09:29:39 PM »
Quote from: pure evil on Apr 12, 2010, 08:27:45 PM
Quote from: Pilar on Apr 12, 2010, 06:13:36 PM
Dear KF,
I didn't like wanky man.

you know what, i thought it was a pretty family values kind of night myself - pretty quiet - tho i saw a lot of people smiling at the end of the night.

could i suggest that if there is something in the club you don't like or that makes you feel uncomfortable you mention it to one of the hosts at the time??

i spoke to every person in the club that night, most more than once, there wasn't to my knowledge a 'wanky man'.

Hmm think that passed me by too...my first trip to KF..whilst sadly very empty fantastic set from DJ and great space would make me venture back! ;D
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« Reply #3048 on: Apr 15, 2010, 05:47:06 PM »
Quote from: pure evil on Apr 12, 2010, 08:27:45 PM
Quote from: Pilar on Apr 12, 2010, 06:13:36 PM
Dear KF,
I didn't like wanky man.

you know what, i thought it was a pretty family values kind of night myself - pretty quiet - tho i saw a lot of people smiling at the end of the night.

could i suggest that if there is something in the club you don't like or that makes you feel uncomfortable you mention it to one of the hosts at the time??

i spoke to every person in the club that night, most more than once, there wasn't to my knowledge a 'wanky man'.

It was an old man who was wanking off to women having sex. He went to the 2 play spaces in alcoves at various time during the night and wanked off to what was going on. At one point 2 women stopped what they were doing when he sat next to them to wank off. Yes, I should've mentioned it to a host on the night or maybe the 2 women who stopped what they were doing because of him should've mentioned it to a host but I think it was their first visit. Besides, isn't it a host's job to check what's going on throughout the night?

Not saying I didn't enjoy the night or that it wasn't a friendly atmosphere etc. Just that he made me feel uncomfortable and I'm telling you that now. Maybe I should've said something on the night, it's true but then nobody did did they? Not even the ones that stopped playing because of him.
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« Reply #3049 on: Apr 15, 2010, 11:20:36 PM »
^^^^
what i see as the point of saying something at the time is if you or other people aren't up for talking to other people around you about behaviour you feel uncomfortable with (or if that person doesn't listen) ....then im HAPPY to approach people who are pushing other peoples limits and to make sure they either change how they behave or i will kick them out of the space.

i can't be everywhere at once - and i do find it hard to understand why people will be passive about something that makes them uncomfortable....really....what is that about??. i cannot advocate enough how important i think it is for people to say what they want and to take up space for themselves.

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« Reply #3050 on: Apr 18, 2010, 10:04:29 PM »
dear dotty,
im still dreaming of the knife shop.  :P
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« Reply #3051 on: Apr 19, 2010, 02:02:32 PM »
Quote from: pure evil on Apr 15, 2010, 11:20:36 PM
^^^^
what i see as the point of saying something at the time is if you or other people aren't up for talking to other people around you about behaviour you feel uncomfortable with (or if that person doesn't listen) ....then im HAPPY to approach people who are pushing other peoples limits and to make sure they either change how they behave or i will kick them out of the space.

i can't be everywhere at once - and i do find it hard to understand why people will be passive about something that makes them uncomfortable....really....what is that about??. i cannot advocate enough how important i think it is for people to say what they want and to take up space for themselves.

Point taken. I'd definitely say something if something like that were to happen again.
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Re: Dungeon Dear *
« Reply #3052 on: Apr 19, 2010, 09:07:32 PM »
Dear *

Omg, I was reminded today how goood you look. Esp in your work uniform. There's something just a little bit too hot about having paramedic as one's job title. Operate on me :P
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« Reply #3053 on: Apr 20, 2010, 03:57:24 PM »
dear *,
if a canulla or two should fall off the cart.......  ;)
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« Reply #3054 on: Apr 25, 2010, 11:44:43 AM »
dear *,
ick....that's mommy isn't it.
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« Reply #3055 on: Apr 25, 2010, 01:24:52 PM »
dear dotty,
YAY! so happy about the extended travels.  ;D
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« Reply #3056 on: Apr 27, 2010, 02:02:42 PM »
dear jailbait,
so that's a no to the tyre iron then?.... heh!
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« Reply #3057 on: Apr 27, 2010, 03:39:08 PM »


Yummmm... tire irons...



You ALWAYS have the best ideas!! (I do want to introduce my shear-like in size big seamptress scissors into play though...)
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« Reply #3058 on: Apr 27, 2010, 08:08:20 PM »
Quote from: Arig on Apr 27, 2010, 03:39:08 PM
(I do want to introduce my shear-like in size big seamptress scissors into play though...)

Aren't you worried about blunting them? Not even a tiny bit worried?
<-- extremely protective of my dressmaking shears

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« Reply #3059 on: Apr 27, 2010, 11:19:05 PM »

^^^ I would get a second pair!
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