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SM Dykes
« on: Nov 18, 2017, 01:36:27 PM »
Hi, can I ask please if SM dykes is still going? I looked via Facebook and the search engines but had no luck. I used to be on Fetlife but came off as I was sick of being inundated with unwanted dick-pics and couples wanting threesomes (maybe I need I grow a thicker skin but anyway...). Thank you :)

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Re: SM Dykes
« Reply #1 on: Nov 18, 2017, 01:43:30 PM »
Hi Karen, YES they are still going but don;t seem to post on info on GB anymore  :-\ for a while I posted info on the meet-ups, but just as a 'so you know' thing, I'm not part of organising the group!

There is a meetup TODAY (Saturday 18th)  6:00 PM 8:00 PM   

Agree FL can be difficult with all of the unwanted approaches, I find since I changed my profile pic to an image that isn't a person it's been less.

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Re: SM Dykes
« Reply #2 on: Nov 18, 2017, 01:56:10 PM »
Hi there,thank you for the reply, I saw today's event listed provisionally on a London events calendar but couldn't get it confirmed anywhere. Would you know please if they are ok with newcomers just popping in out of nowhere or if someone needs to be contacted?
Also point taken about the picture, trouble is you put one on to attract a girlfriend and every male in the country beats a path to you (while you think "where's the ladies??"). Might try a similar approach to yours in the future!

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Re: SM Dykes
« Reply #3 on: Nov 18, 2017, 02:03:15 PM »
I've always just turned up, never spoke to anyone first.
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Re: SM Dykes
« Reply #4 on: Nov 18, 2017, 02:14:18 PM »
^^^^ Same, defo ok to turn up and have found it welcoming to newcomers.

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Re: SM Dykes
« Reply #5 on: Nov 18, 2017, 02:18:06 PM »
That's great, thank you Pure evil and Millicent :)

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Re: SM Dykes
« Reply #6 on: Nov 18, 2017, 02:29:00 PM »
Have fun!
I would go too, but I'm away this weekend.
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Re: SM Dykes
« Reply #7 on: Nov 19, 2017, 06:21:13 PM »
Cheers, it was fun and very enlightening (had no idea how much I was missing out on). The ladies were lovely and I'll be going to the next one on December 16th. I'll probably go to a few more of these before attending an actual event (jokes about showing me the ropes...ooh, please...very welcome!)

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Re: SM Dykes
« Reply #8 on: Nov 30, 2017, 10:43:10 AM »
Would anyone in the know mind posting a few more details here about the next meet-up? Thanks :)
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Re: SM Dykes
« Reply #9 on: Nov 30, 2017, 11:00:52 AM »
Copied from the event on FL:

"Date & Time:
Saturday, December 16, 2017 6:00 PM 8:00 PM   
Location:
London Friend
86 Caledonian Rd London N1 9DN   
Cost:
Donations welcome to support the venue
Dress code:
Whatever you feel comfy in
Description:
Our monthly easygoing social for lesbian, bisexual and female bodied queer BDSM-ers. We are trans inclusive and welcome genderqueer and intersex persons who feel they still have links to the women's community.
Cross dressing and TV alone does not give access to the group.
Venue is wheelchair accessible.
We welcome new folks and regulars alike. If you are new and would like be in touch beforehand, feel free to contact us first.
Our group profile with further info is here: https://fetlife.com/users/1719417
We are very grateful to London Friend [http://londonfriend.org.uk] for allowing use of their venue. London Friend is a charity supporting the health and wellbeing of LGBT people. They rely on donations so please do so if you can afford it.
We will have tea and coffee - any biscuits or cakes you'd like to bring will be very welcome! This is an alcohol-free event."

Edited to add a post from the group posts:
"SM Dykes December Munch

And hey, there are nice SM Dykes interested in meeting for Club DVS THIS Friday if you just can't wait until the munch to hang out with friendly perverts. Check the discussion here if you'd like to join them: https://fetlife.com/groups/42402/group_posts/11713645 "


(The easiest way to keep track is to join the group on FL.)
« Last Edit: Nov 30, 2017, 02:44:23 PM by millicent »
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Re: SM Dykes
« Reply #10 on: Nov 30, 2017, 04:29:06 PM »
Thanks millicent, much appreciated.
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Re: SM Dykes
« Reply #11 on: Jan 13, 2018, 01:00:24 PM »
There's a munch on January 20th, same details as above, can't recall if there is a special theme.

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Re: SM Dykes
« Reply #12 on: Jan 13, 2018, 09:39:41 PM »
It's a knife play workshop this month :D :D :D

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Re: SM Dykes
« Reply #13 on: Mar 07, 2018, 09:14:17 PM »
Copy pasted from FL - (I don't have anything to do with organising this event)

Next SM Dykes Meeting

Saturday, March 17, 2018 6:00 PM 8:00 PM 
Location:    
London Friend
86 Caledonian Rd London N1 9DN 
Cost: Donations welcome to support the venue
Dress code: whatever you feel comfy in
Description: Our monthly easygoing social for lesbian, bisexual and female bodied queer BDSM-ers. We are trans inclusive and welcome genderqueer and intersex persons who feel they still have links to the women's community.
Cross dressing and TV alone does not give access to the group.
Venue is wheelchair accessible.

We welcome new folks and regulars alike. If you are new and would like be in touch beforehand, feel free to contact us first

Our group profile with further info is here: https://fetlife.com/users/1719417

We are very grateful to London Friend [http://londonfriend.org.uk] for allowing use of their venue. London Friend is a charity supporting the health and wellbeing of LGBT people. They rely on donations so please do so if you can afford it.

We will have tea and coffee - any biscuits or cakes you'd like to bring will be very welcome! This is an alcohol-free event.

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Re: SM Dykes
« Reply #14 on: May 26, 2018, 07:30:22 PM »
I've always been curious about going to one of these gatherings but can't find anything up to date? I live in the North West and I believe the local SM Dykes isn't running anymore...

Does anyone know about any future events that are happening?