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Offline KarenVee

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Newbie here, sub sick of men muscling in
« on: Nov 12, 2017, 02:46:04 PM »
Hello, thought I'd introduce myself with a relevant topic. My name's Karen, I'm 37 and I live in the gay desert that is Clacton (there's literally nothing here for LGBT).
I've been trying various different dating sites but irrespective of whether they are more general (for all orientations) or gay specific or more specialist (I have a kink), there are always straight men just waiting to waste my time, try it on and sabotage things. My question is are there any organisations for those of us that identify as both LGBT and have a fetish as the ones I've looked up (including SM Dykes) appear to have gone. Been really disappointed with online dating of late and I'm just fed up with the usual suspects lol! Anyhow, nice to meet you all :)

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Re: Newbie here, sub sick of men muscling in
« Reply #1 on: Mar 05, 2018, 07:06:14 PM »
Yeah ... whatever happened to SM Dykes?  Anybody knows? Did we all just 'grow up' and stopped playing?

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Re: Newbie here, sub sick of men muscling in
« Reply #2 on: Apr 03, 2018, 04:22:45 PM »
As far as I know/remember it was still going in 2015 definitely and I think it may have stopped in 2016/2017. I think the organisers were putting in a shitload of work and not many people were turning up/helping out.