Author Topic: What makes someone 'wife material'?  (Read 3965 times)

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Re: What makes someone 'wife material'?
« Reply #45 on: May 01, 2017, 08:47:26 AM »
"There's a lid for every pot" implies that there's only one perfect match for you and you have to go round matching pots and lids before you find the one made for you. I don't believe that. I think you can meet somone you love/tolerate and are vaguely compatible with and make it work, if there's loads of chemistry and you have that heady in love feeling then that's a bonus and makes you think it was written in your stars. Of course there's nothing wrong with being single but if you are hoping for a relationship and people keep telling you your soulmate is just round the next bloody corner after a while you just want to smack them with a baseball bat.

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Re: What makes someone 'wife material'?
« Reply #46 on: May 01, 2017, 09:18:16 AM »
A friend of mine has just met her soulmate
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Re: What makes someone 'wife material'?
« Reply #47 on: May 01, 2017, 12:11:33 PM »
Well, again, c&m, that one example doesn't mean it's true.
I agree some people may well find their soulmate (or the person they think is their soulmate - time will tell), but there is no guarantee, no matter how hard you look.
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Re: What makes someone 'wife material'?
« Reply #48 on: May 01, 2017, 01:10:58 PM »
My gran told me not to bother looking for a soul-mate.  'it's limiting, love'

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Re: What makes someone 'wife material'?
« Reply #49 on: May 01, 2017, 07:17:08 PM »
I think the question should be.. What makes you think YOU will be a *good wife* ?
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Re: What makes someone 'wife material'?
« Reply #50 on: May 01, 2017, 08:09:06 PM »
I agree with your gran, Sorted.

And you too, Ougie. Do you think you are good wife material? ;)
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Re: What makes someone 'wife material'?
« Reply #51 on: May 01, 2017, 09:23:00 PM »
Totally... Practically perfect really... Hah... I think it is best to be positive about these things...  :D

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Re: What makes someone 'wife material'?
« Reply #52 on: May 02, 2017, 01:03:23 AM »
I'm sure you are perfectly right :D
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Re: What makes someone 'wife material'?
« Reply #53 on: May 02, 2017, 06:51:05 AM »
Hah ;)...

On a more serious note..

I think what makes good wife material for one person might not be the same for another.. I think most couples just fall in love and try and make the best of it..and lots of it is down to pure luck and in some cases just hard graft..

You only have to look at the Happy and single thread to see how difficult it is mixing and matching people with different needs wants and desires and not to mention at what stage and age they are in life and their own personal circumstances.. never mind being a "good wife"...
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Re: What makes someone 'wife material'?
« Reply #54 on: May 03, 2017, 06:55:09 PM »
I'm not sure if there is such material and pretty sure there shouldn't be.

The first definition I find when I google material is

"the matter from which a thing is or can be made"

For me that implies making a wife, nuff said.



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Re: What makes someone 'wife material'?
« Reply #55 on: May 15, 2017, 01:15:33 AM »
I loath ironing, if she likes it and is happy to do mine, she's in with a chance....
all the other stuff matters too! ;)
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Re: What makes someone 'wife material'?
« Reply #56 on: Jun 21, 2017, 01:55:53 AM »
Hah ;)...

On a more serious note..

I think what makes good wife material for one person might not be the same for another.. I think most couples just fall in love and try and make the best of it..and lots of it is down to pure luck and in some cases just hard graft..

You only have to look at the Happy and single thread to see how difficult it is mixing and matching people with different needs wants and desires and not to mention at what stage and age they are in life and their own personal circumstances.. never mind being a "good wife"...

I agree.