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Offline Suzi

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Re: Sex no strings
« Reply #15 on: Jul 16, 2017, 02:00:33 PM »
I don't know-  The older I get, the more I realise that the best sex for me is with an emotional connection. Doesn't mean you can't enjoy "no strings", but the intensity you get from being emotionally involved is on another level.

Offline lisbeth

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Re: Sex no strings
« Reply #16 on: Jul 16, 2017, 11:15:40 PM »
The thing is, sometimes we just want to have uncomplicated sex between consenting adults, as we don't want to be involved in all the emotional entanglement of a relationship...

In the past I came out of a relationship and was by all means not ready for another and without looking, met someone and we enjoyed (with one woman only) just meeting up, chatting, spending fun time, including having sex...We both agreed to it and knew the rules and boundaries and yes if either one feels it's not working for them anymore, they have to get out, otherwise it will become  mess and complicated.

I know it does not work for all, but people have sex all the time without necessarily having an emotional involvement...

I am at that stage again and would love to meet someone for uncomplicated times together:-)