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Re: Deal Breakers
« Reply #45 on: May 18, 2017, 09:11:12 PM »
God yeah, no animal haters.

Also, no one with a cat allergy.
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Then they came for Piers Morgan and I said he's over there behind the sofa.'

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Re: Deal Breakers
« Reply #46 on: May 20, 2017, 05:43:31 PM »
I can't believe how often personal hygiene comes up   :-X

The "I'm being a total attention seeking inconsiderate arse because I had trauma in my childhood" type
But all couched in incomprehensible psychobabble terms of course

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Re: Deal Breakers
« Reply #47 on: May 20, 2017, 10:08:45 PM »
"I'm being a total attention seeking inconsiderate arse because I had trauma in my childhood"

Isn't this everyone?

Too short.

Bad breath.

Passive/aggressive.

Not butch.

Desertion (!)

Being an assclown.

Lack of intelligence.

No sexual chemistry / crap in bed / sexually withholding.

Control dramas.

Narcissistic / lack of self awareness.

Emotional immaturity.

Power games (non-consensual).

Poor communication.

Dishonesty.

Shall I go on? 

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Re: Deal Breakers
« Reply #48 on: May 21, 2017, 09:50:23 AM »
Is it my imagination or are people reflecting? :o
Oh dear, aaanywaay....... ::)
'Too short' really, how short is too short?
Perhaps I should have said too tall, I feel intimidated by tall women;oh well, wouldn't do for us all to be the same. :)
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Re: Deal Breakers
« Reply #49 on: May 21, 2017, 09:54:19 AM »
Oh and perhaps petty thread hijackers  airing their hate for past relationships in public. :-\
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Re: Deal Breakers
« Reply #50 on: May 21, 2017, 10:12:18 AM »
Oh and perhaps petty thread hijackers  airing their hate for past relationships in public. :-\

That's a bit harsh Scouser!
I think a lot of the people replying on this thread are mentioning things which may have been deal breakers in previous relationships, isn't that part of the point? Hardly a thread hijack!

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Re: Deal Breakers
« Reply #51 on: May 21, 2017, 01:27:18 PM »
I don't think so
Everyone has trauma
It's the ones who make it their raison d'etre and determinedly lead truncated lives while never taking responsibility for their own actions affecting all those in their orbit

assclown
Now that's one I hadn't heard

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Re: Deal Breakers
« Reply #52 on: May 21, 2017, 08:06:54 PM »
Oh and perhaps petty thread hijackers  airing their hate for past relationships in public. :-\

That's a bit harsh Scouser!
I think a lot of the people replying on this thread are mentioning things which may have been deal breakers in previous relationships, isn't that part of the point? Hardly a thread hijack!
Perhaps, just thought it was getting rather bitter!
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Re: Deal Breakers
« Reply #53 on: May 22, 2017, 07:39:50 PM »
Oh and perhaps petty thread hijackers  airing their hate for past relationships in public. :-\

That's a bit harsh Scouser!
I think a lot of the people replying on this thread are mentioning things which may have been deal breakers in previous relationships, isn't that part of the point? Hardly a thread hijack!
Perhaps, just thought it was getting rather bitter!

Too short (for me) is usually 5' 8" or below.

One thing on my list (desertion!) is from a past relationship.

The rest are things I have reflected on, or have learnt from past relationships.

It would seem sensible to learn from the past in planning a new relationship.

I think the approach of saying what you are looking for in a positive way is helpful. I'm really not sure how many dealbreakers I would actually put into an OLD profile.

 

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Re: Deal Breakers
« Reply #54 on: May 22, 2017, 10:28:31 PM »
"I'm being a total attention seeking inconsiderate arse because I had trauma in my childhood"

Isn't this everyone?

Mz B, I think everyone has issues, but read Grey's comment to mean the people who always play the victim card: those people who flare in rage or crumble in tears if called on their behaviour....there's always a *reason* and very rarely any action to mend the same.