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Re: Soft butch etc
« Reply #30 on: Apr 30, 2016, 11:38:15 PM »
And did you mind it / the label Pars?
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Re: Soft butch etc
« Reply #31 on: May 01, 2016, 10:08:15 AM »
Ah no. Not at all. Soft butch feels totally right. Or androgynous.

Absolutely hate being called a femme. That feels like being misgendered.

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Re: Soft butch etc
« Reply #32 on: May 01, 2016, 03:08:08 PM »


Although I also like to drag it up with lipstick and earrings and I become much tougher.

could you expand on this a bit more Pars?

I found that sense of being in yourself once you know who you are is amazing
although I do know folk who feel powerful shape shifting gendering 

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Re: Soft butch etc
« Reply #33 on: May 05, 2016, 07:48:16 PM »
I used to be a fat butch.

I'll explain. People thought I was doing a butch kind of thing because I was fat. Now, I seem to be acknowledged. Still don't get any though. Oh woe, what is to become of me.

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Re: Soft butch etc
« Reply #34 on: May 12, 2016, 11:34:56 PM »


Although I also like to drag it up with lipstick and earrings and I become much tougher.

could you expand on this a bit more Pars?

I found that sense of being in yourself once you know who you are is amazing
although I do know folk who feel powerful shape shifting gendering

It was a very instinctive comment, but yes, a toughness. I'll try to think next time I do it. Maybe because it's a bit unnatural?

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Re: Soft butch etc
« Reply #35 on: May 13, 2016, 08:31:30 PM »
^ it's powerful to deconstruct subvert and play with different facets of gender

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Re: Soft butch etc
« Reply #36 on: Jun 14, 2016, 10:57:24 PM »
I told a couple of male colleagues at work this week that I feel neither male or female. It was quite nice, saying that out loud.

I spose I might be one of these soft butches. I dunno.

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Re: Soft butch etc
« Reply #37 on: Jun 14, 2016, 10:59:22 PM »
Maybe.
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