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Beautiful steps! - getting to know each other
« on: Oct 28, 2015, 11:58:17 PM »
I completely enjoyed meeting with her second time! Both of us were less nervous and I was totally happy to be just next to her. Watching DVD, having Indian, chatting, joking, laughing and giggling....nothing was special, but with her, all was precious and happy moment for me. It was my best birthday ever
I want to be her best friend, lover and the one who understands her the most in the world!

Could you tell me how beautiful your steps when getting to know your partner? It must have been wonderful


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Re: Beautiful steps! - getting to know each other
« Reply #1 on: Oct 29, 2015, 08:04:40 AM »
That sounds great, birdwatching.

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Re: Beautiful steps! - getting to know each other
« Reply #2 on: Oct 29, 2015, 12:37:28 PM »
Thank you, Musicality.
It was a really lovely day!

We talked about being very good friends each other first and then see what will happen between us. She said it needs to be 'spontaneous'. I like her idea very much. I do remember that the first woman (she was straight) who I loved was a very good friend of mine and my feelings to her naturally grew...

I haven't had such a wonderful time with someone for a long long time! Loads of laughing and giggling! I loved it. I do hope she too enjoyed... I still feel so warm and sweet


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« Reply #3 on: Oct 29, 2015, 02:20:03 PM »
 When I saw the title of this thread I thought it was a Val thread.  ;D
Re the OP: I just remember lots of snogging and sex.  ;)   

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« Reply #4 on: Oct 29, 2015, 03:13:58 PM »
Slantrhyme x


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Re: Beautiful steps! - getting to know each other
« Reply #5 on: Oct 29, 2015, 07:59:49 PM »
Sounds like a good idea to get know each other first and then see what happens naturally.

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Re: Beautiful steps! - getting to know each other
« Reply #6 on: Oct 29, 2015, 09:14:48 PM »
Hi Musicality

Frankly speaking, I thought (expected) that 'things' happened quickly because I have hard that lesbians' relationship happens so quickly like they meet , have sex, live together and finish in very short time (sorry if it might be prejudice..). And honestly I do want to be in bed with a woman cause I have never had an experience. It must be wonderful....
But now I like her idea and am happy to follow it. I want to have more laughing and giggling with her and want to know her deeply



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« Reply #7 on: Oct 29, 2015, 09:28:00 PM »
 Oh don't get me wrong, we didn't jump into bed straight away, that was the fourth date.
 I wouldn't take too much notice about what you've heard lesbian relationships to be like, or whatever. Every relationship is different, so I'd just go with the flow and see what happens.  Try not to rehome too many cats in the first month though  ;)
Btw,  i've been with my girlfriend for more than two years and we are still not living together, so they're not all stereotypical. I don't even have a cat and  neither does she.   

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« Reply #8 on: Oct 29, 2015, 09:49:36 PM »
in my last relationship we were in bed on the first date. together for four years and got three cats and two dogs and she came with 2 children. 9 bloody mouths i had to feed, clothe, keep save and i had the duty of mowing the blinking orchards, all bloody 3 of them. never again will i move in with someone. i learnt my leasson the hard way.

but good luck with your first lady Birdwatching. lady love is wonderful. :)

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Re: Beautiful steps! - getting to know each other
« Reply #9 on: Oct 29, 2015, 09:53:25 PM »
Hi Slantrhyme

Yes, you're right. All relationships are different and I should throw away the stereotype ideas. I'm sorry if I offended you and other people here.

Thank you for your response
 
PS I don't mind having cats! I'm a cat lover x



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« Reply #10 on: Oct 29, 2015, 10:08:57 PM »
 I shouldn't think you've offended anybody here. God, some of the crap that gets written on GB…  I know, because I've written a fair bit of it myself.  ;)

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Re: Beautiful steps! - getting to know each other
« Reply #11 on: Oct 29, 2015, 10:17:13 PM »
Hello Kish

Wow...such an experience!
But it sounds you are a lovely person! I like you a lot

I'm not sure if she will ask me to be in bed...but I want her to be my first (and last) woman. Wish me luck



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Re: Beautiful steps! - getting to know each other
« Reply #12 on: Oct 29, 2015, 10:29:51 PM »
Hi Slantrhyme

Thank you. You are so sweet.

I'm very happy with and want to know various opinions from experienced and non-experienced (like me!) women about what I want to know. So please let me hear your honest thoughts and feelings, Slantrhyme! All will be my lovely teacher! Thanks


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