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I met her but...
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« Reply #1 on: Oct 21, 2015, 12:59:08 AM »
I weighed everything up. I still like her so much and want to build up good relationship with her. I should be the way I am and hopefully she will like me....But if she won't, then such is life. I'll look for a right person for me again!
Thank you for listening to my feelings xxx



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« Reply #2 on: Oct 21, 2015, 02:19:28 PM »
 But you don't know that she doesn't like you, you just think she doesn't.  Surely if she wasn't interested she wouldn't have asked to see you again?  Looks aren't everything you know. Just go with the flow and see what happens, you might be surprised. 

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« Reply #3 on: Oct 21, 2015, 02:41:34 PM »
Indeed.  You're making it sound like you should be kept chained up in a shed, in the dark.  Take it cheesy, and if nothing comes of it think of the driving experience. 

Sorry, having a 'devil may care' day.  Good luck of course.  :D
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« Reply #5 on: Oct 21, 2015, 03:54:40 PM »
Hello Chewwy

Thank you so much for your response. Yes, it was really good driving practice! Lol
I lost the way once although I have got sat nav!

I'll just see if she really asks me to meet up again. And then if it happens, ill enjoy having a good time with her!
Thank you again for your message, Chewwy xx


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« Reply #6 on: Oct 21, 2015, 09:49:21 PM »
You will be fine.   Just go with the flow

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« Reply #7 on: Oct 21, 2015, 10:15:25 PM »
Was there anything else apart from talking a lot that made you think she wasn't attracted to you? It sounds understandable she may have just been nervous the first time.  She must have known what you looked like already?

Even though you have spoken a lot and feel as though you have a connection online that's different to in person so she may just need time to adjust to that. Hope it works out as you'd like and if not then as you say you can find someone better suited to you.  :)

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« Reply #8 on: Oct 21, 2015, 11:05:05 PM »
Hello old burned

Thank you Yes, 'go with the flow' this is what I need! xxx


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« Reply #10 on: Oct 22, 2015, 08:57:49 PM »
Well it sounds a good sign if she gave you a call. I think it's easy to imagine someone as something they aren't if you feel an attraction but only know them online, so maybe she wasn't quite what you were expecting either? That doesn't have to mean there's no future in it. It's just being realistic and aware that you may have built up a picture that will need adjusting when you meet.


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« Reply #11 on: Oct 22, 2015, 10:26:46 PM »
Yes...you are absolutely right. She wasn't quite what I was expecting...but I still do like her...Anyway, I'll have to try to be more realistic I guess...
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« Reply #12 on: Oct 23, 2015, 11:53:20 PM »
I was very negative about situations because I didn't have confidence about myself. But she was so patient about my negativities and told me that she still wanted to get to know me better! And she said that she liked my giggle! (I'm just like a school girl to be happy like this! Silly me!) I think I'll be more positive about us and try to build up beautiful relationship with her!

I didn't expect that I could meet someone who I like so much and want to be with so much online. I think that I'm super lucky to have met her. So I won't waste my good luck anymore!
Thank you for reading my post and listening to my feelings again.

PS Thank you for your supportive messages, Slantrhyme, Chewwy, oldbutnew and Musicality. You all are my stars!


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