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Sexting and where to find itů
« on: Jun 05, 2015, 08:33:09 AM »
So, um, if somebody wanted to find actual proper queer women for sexting, either casually or perhaps on an ongoing basis, where on the internet would one find people interested in that?  It doesn't seem to be the sort of thing you would put on a dating or social site and practical reasons mean I can't meet new people IRL first and then go from there...   
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Re: Sexting and where to find itů
« Reply #1 on: Jun 05, 2015, 11:04:02 AM »
A chat room might be a good place to find someone who would be up for this. To be honest if you wrote the right kind of profile on OKcupid or somewhere I think you'd definitely have takers. Not sure about quality control though. If it was me I think lolz and apostrophe abuse would put me off my stride. Not that I'm judging ahem and I do like a good wild madly misspelled sext. But with lolz I couldn't pretend not to notice and it would be a bit of a cold shower.

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Re: Sexting and where to find itů
« Reply #2 on: Jun 05, 2015, 12:04:18 PM »
apostrophe abuse

:D.  It would put you off the self abuse?

Thank you, MzB.  What kind of chat room though?   There are some very thinly-disguised Friend Finder apps where people post looking for this but they are peopled by teenagers and quasi-teenagers with whom you *have* to use lolz and in2 and hun or you'll sound like their history teacher. 

Maybe I should try OKC; I think I'm wary of it because, while I have had beautiful and moving sextings with real life people, I just don't see how you could go about propositioning something of this kind on a dating site without sounding completely tacky and seedy.  And I am tacky and seedy, but sometimes I find myself pining for something with a bit more emotional depth.  Maybe I should just say all that?
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« Reply #3 on: Jun 05, 2015, 01:38:20 PM »
Yes, say it all. And develop an efficient quality control system. And be *specific* about your sext tastes. You could even experiment in private chat rooms - ie have chat room dates, to see if you get on. The GB chat room is always empty.  8)

Oh, and Brenda/Scissr apps? Have chat rooms? Maybe.

Good luck!

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Re: Sexting and where to find itů
« Reply #4 on: Jun 05, 2015, 02:07:52 PM »
So you want me to bare my sexual soul in GB chat and just hope no third party comes in?

*Takes notes*
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Re: Sexting and where to find itů
« Reply #5 on: Jun 05, 2015, 03:07:07 PM »
Sounds fun! But I think there might be a private room option.  ;D

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Re: Sexting and where to find itů
« Reply #6 on: Jun 05, 2015, 04:06:09 PM »
Aha!

 Should I just put it in Purr Lounge?
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Re: Sexting and where to find itů
« Reply #7 on: Jun 05, 2015, 11:33:50 PM »
Yes.
Ask for a sexter in GB, you may get lucky.

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Re: Sexting and where to find itů
« Reply #8 on: Jun 05, 2015, 11:50:17 PM »
Yes, once again I thank Providence for GB.  GB and OKC are so far the only places I have found in the ENTIRE INTERNET that do not consist of an uninterrupted stream of "cheeky mad crazy gals lookin fer loving ladys cuz i bin hurt 2 meny times, dunno what else to say if u wanna no anything just ask i dont bite".  I SEARCHED THE WHOLE INTERNET.

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Re: Sexting and where to find itů
« Reply #9 on: Jun 06, 2015, 01:02:17 AM »
So fxcking depressing.
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Re: Sexting and where to find itů
« Reply #10 on: Jun 06, 2015, 01:36:51 PM »
I no rite

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Re: Sexting and where to find itů
« Reply #11 on: Jun 06, 2015, 06:49:51 PM »
Are the Gaydar girls chat rooms not still going?
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Re: Sexting and where to find itů
« Reply #12 on: Jun 06, 2015, 08:12:40 PM »
Mm, maybe, but I can't access them on Android.  GG these days has only about seven people on the entire site.  I'm thinking Tinder. 
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Re: Sexting and where to find itů
« Reply #13 on: Jun 06, 2015, 08:37:32 PM »
Last weekend (purely in the interest of research for those who ask on GB)  I asked some 30 year old lezzer friends, where they meet people these days and they said Tinder. Gaydar seems to be dead.

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« Reply #14 on: Jun 07, 2015, 12:43:58 PM »
Yes, once again I thank Providence for GB.  GB and OKC are so far the only places I have found in the ENTIRE INTERNET that do not consist of an uninterrupted stream of "cheeky mad crazy gals lookin fer loving ladys cuz i bin hurt 2 meny times, dunno what else to say if u wanna no anything just ask i dont bite".  I SEARCHED THE WHOLE INTERNET.

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