Well, how to help :
..there used to be a Gay kind of Meeting Group over at London Friend, Caledonian Road, Central London, Sunday arvos. They may 'let' in women, it is a South Asian group, for gay men but..this may have changed, it might well be 'mixed' now.
ALSO..there the !Completely Totally Truly Wonderful FABULOUS Club Kali - which has been running since !Lord knows when..down Tufnell Park/Dartmouth Hill.
IF YOU EVER WANT A FCKN ROLLICKING GOOD TIME, IT'S THE PLACE TO BE : G-R-E-A-T PEOPLE, MUSIC MOSTLY INDIAN STYLE BUT CROWD BUSTERS, FRIENDLY, ATTITUDE FREE, A DAMN GOOD PERFECTLY STOMPING NIGHT OUT! NOT A S-H-A-D-E LESS THAN THAT!!
So..it would be reasonable expect see other 'gay Asians' there, too - i'd class myself as one of them, haven't been there a-while but TOTALLY ENJOYED MEHSELF AND ABSOLUTELY DANCED MYSELF SILLY WHEN THEY HOSTED THE GAY AND LESBIAN FILM FESTIVAL GALA AND THE TWO NIGHTS BEFORE @ THE SOUTHBANK BFI.
THEY K-N-O-W HOW TO DO A FAB NIGHT OUT. THEY ARE GAY THEMSELVES! IT'S A ROARING FEST OF ATHOUSAND MILES AN HOUR JOB..BUT, AT WORST YOU'LL HAVE THE BEST NIGHT YOU'VE EVER HAD, BEST YOU'LL MEET L-O-A-D-S PEOPLE!!
THE ONLY OTHER EVENT I COULD POSSIBLY BUT EVER COMPARE IT TOO IS : ONE EUROPRIDE YEARS AGO, WHEN I WAS YOUNG > PARIS HELD IT AND THE EVER BRILLIANT DAVID MORALES AND FELIX HOUSECAT AND THE GOD "TODD TERRY" WERE THE DJ'S.
THAT IS WHERE WE COMPARE CLUB KALI. I PROMISE YOU! YOU'LL MEET LOADS OF YOUR OWN THERE, TOO..PLUS EVERYBODY ELSE, FROM LONDON PLUS ALL OVER THE WORLD.