I can't do this all inclusive thinking that GB likes.
Oh c'mon. Since when is a basic premise of YKIOK a GB thing? I never get why this is difficult: some people will have kinks that you're not into. But guess what? Unless those are people with whom you are playing, it doesn't actually harm or concern you. And actually I have some kinks my last serious partner wasn't particularly immediately drawn towards. So I reframed them in terms of stuff he did
like, and hey presto, he was able to meet me in them. But either way he managed to not judge me in an 'OMG WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU' sort of way. So that's always nice. Y'know...a bit of kink positivity.
I kind of think of it as good manners. I try to mostly save my moral outrage for Tory politics, not other people's consensual fun & assume however the hell people want to consensually fuck or play, it's entirely their business and if it makes them feel good/meets their needs, cool. And if they can afford me the same courtesy, I generally appreciate it.