Author Topic: What brings out the sub in you?  (Read 2972 times)

Offline wildwitch

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Re: What brings out the sub in you?
« Reply #15 on: Feb 25, 2015, 12:02:43 AM »
It's the look in the eye, tone of voice. I melt with firm, warm humour and directness.
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Re: What brings out the sub in you?
« Reply #16 on: Mar 14, 2015, 11:13:04 PM »
Someone who is super sexy :D  My current partner and I had some wild switchy play before we had a baby, and it was all about having fun.  I wouldn't be impressed with someone who took themselves too seriously or got all grabby. 
 
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Re: What brings out the sub in you?
« Reply #17 on: Mar 23, 2015, 10:58:43 PM »
Energy more Alpha and Dominant than my own.
A discreet but firm approach from behind and the feeling of a crotch bulge pressing against me.
Hand on the small of my back
A deep guttural growl in my ear from my Dominant when aroused ( NOT an Eartha Kitt type purr *Squick*) don't know why but that growl timed just right, somehow feels sexually animalistic  :-[ a real turn on for me.
A look to bring me back into line.
A command given by subtle movements/looks or head nods, no one else would notice but me due to our connection and my training.

My submission is my gift to my perfect fit but no 1 "act" or empty word alone could make me give it up freely to just anyone claiming to be such an individual.
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Re: What brings out the sub in you?
« Reply #18 on: Mar 27, 2015, 05:37:05 PM »
Certain uniforms.

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Re: What brings out the sub in you?
« Reply #19 on: Mar 27, 2015, 08:23:42 PM »
Dominance.
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Re: What brings out the sub in you?
« Reply #20 on: Mar 27, 2015, 11:50:21 PM »
The right kind of person, probably.
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Re: What brings out the sub in you?
« Reply #21 on: Mar 31, 2015, 01:27:58 AM »
How someone interacts with me. The psychology of it all. Certain phrases. Trust.

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Re: What brings out the sub in you?
« Reply #22 on: Apr 19, 2015, 01:04:45 PM »
Someone who can pull off the pretence of not caring whilst leaving me feeling very cared for.

She'll be a raving butch naturally.  :)

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Re: What brings out the sub in you?
« Reply #23 on: Apr 19, 2015, 02:20:15 PM »
Someone who can pull off the pretence of not caring whilst leaving me feeling very cared for.


I like this description a lot :)

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Re: What brings out the sub in you?
« Reply #24 on: Sep 16, 2015, 05:17:06 PM »
All these descriptions are certainly pressing the right buttons in me. What lovely thoughts being associated with submission. Stimulates the mind, all this..

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Re: What brings out the sub in you?
« Reply #25 on: Dec 28, 2015, 11:02:37 PM »
Looking at me over the top of her lowered glasses.....

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Re: What brings out the sub in you?
« Reply #26 on: Dec 28, 2015, 11:49:05 PM »
Ditto!
One day I'll laugh about this!😑

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Re: What brings out the sub in you?
« Reply #27 on: Dec 28, 2015, 11:51:30 PM »
 :)

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Re: What brings out the sub in you?
« Reply #28 on: Jan 03, 2016, 09:30:18 AM »
Being bitten  ;D