So, I mentioned to my gay male friend that I'm bi. We were talking about going to a gay club together - him being single and not really having gay mates to go with. Then he tells me I might meet "a female friend" - never mind the fact that I am happy with a guy right now!
Then he tells me that my "situation" reminds him of a man he knows who is in an unhappy marriage with a woman, desperately in love with a man and afraid to come out!
So yeah, totally like me! Not.
Is it so incomprehensible that a person can be attracted to both sexes but prefer one of them? It seems like if you prefer the same sex it is fine bc you're an honorary gay, but if you prefer the opposite, obviously you're a faithless sleazy cheating voyeuristic fake douchebag. There was an unfortunate thread yesterday that I didn't bother reading in the end ..
I find it rather strange that the feelings of a straight partner do not matter! It's only a boring straight person, you can break their heart that's fine.
And as for using people, I have always been drawn to straight women - so guess who gets hurt!
There seems to be no point in straight-ish people doing anything but pretending to be completely straight. I hate that people are always paying lip service to sexuality being so varied and fluid .. Yes as long as it's one of the approved versions of that.