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Splitting up with lover
« on: Oct 08, 2013, 05:52:29 PM »
I am so sad my loverand i split up in July and I still have his stuff at mine. He said he wanted us to stay friends but is really busy with his five year old son and his band at the moment. So I don't know if or when I'll see him again and he lives so close by its such a shame. We met at Central Saint Martins when we both studied film there years ago and stayed friends on and off for years.  :'(
« Last Edit: Oct 08, 2013, 05:54:55 PM by Miaow »
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Re: Splitting up with lover
« Reply #1 on: Oct 09, 2013, 01:57:39 PM »
Oh, (((Miaow))), I'm sorry. You must miss him a lot.
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Re: Splitting up with lover
« Reply #2 on: Oct 09, 2013, 02:21:03 PM »
Breakups are rubbish.  Commiserations. 

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Re: Splitting up with lover
« Reply #3 on: Oct 15, 2013, 08:18:13 PM »
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Re: Splitting up with lover
« Reply #4 on: Jan 12, 2014, 07:45:59 AM »
He called me on 30th December and said he wanted tomeet up. I called him back and he said hes been unwell after Xmas. But we'll meet up again soon.
« Last Edit: Jan 12, 2014, 08:06:21 AM by Miaow »
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Re: Splitting up with lover
« Reply #5 on: Jan 16, 2014, 04:25:43 AM »
Good luck wih your meetup miaow, hope hings go smoothly so you can either work things out and get back together. If not then at least stay friends, the unawkward kind as thats more comfortable and sane :)
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Re: Splitting up with lover
« Reply #6 on: Jan 16, 2014, 11:52:47 AM »
-hugggggggs- I hope meeting up goes well
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Re: Splitting up with lover
« Reply #7 on: Jan 23, 2014, 06:14:20 AM »

Thanksxx It went well we met up yesterday and it was very passionate. Now he's asked me to come to his studio in a week's time. We had a wonderful chat too.
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Re: Splitting up with lover
« Reply #8 on: Jan 23, 2014, 07:09:29 PM »
Awesome, glad it went well ;D
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Re: Splitting up with lover
« Reply #9 on: Feb 07, 2014, 06:43:24 PM »
My ex and I split up and I haven't seen him for nearly fine years.
During this time I have gone back to women. I'm wondering am I actually a lesbian, as I have always thought about women, even when I have been In a relationship with a man.
I am feeling very confused at the mom.ent, cos I miss him.
But think that is just cos I miss her so much.  I am starting to think that maybe the reason I could never make it work in male relationships is because subconsciously I always wanted to be in a proper out in the open relationship with a woman, but just didn't have the bottle!
Did I keep drifting back into relationships with men because it was easier, and more socially accepted, plus I wanted children with a man I loved?
Started asking myself a lot of questions lately, all getting a bit deep!