OK UP but I'm assuming this is in a queer context not straight heterosexual? Also I think every one of our sexuality is formed in at least awareness of the prevalence of rape, if not direct experience?
OoO I just find women wanting to play rape with other women empowering, whereas male on female rape fantasy in the context of society today not. No doubt I am being hideously offensive, as ever. I'll go crawl back under my rock, pardon me.
But I will say HB I can tick both those boxes too, ya know.