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MsNomer:
So you've been dumped, or had to break off something that was problematic for some reason or other, but you care a great deal for (possibly love) the other former member of your howeverly-defined-communion and don't especially want to let go of the warm fuzzy feelings of being wanted and valued and mattering, nor the comfort of intimate conversation and casual touch, nor the orgasms with a bit more meaning than the average. It's definitely done, or definitely needs to be done, however, so you're moving past it.

What are your early moves?


How do you get over it?


What about when the person may also be a friend?


What about when you may have to see the person every day?


Hypothetically speaking.

Sorted:
Oh MsN,

Sucks, innit.

The only way that works for me - the only way - is a clean break and lots of distractions.  Even we're friends.   

If I had to work with some person - I'd have to go into ultra-professional mode - we talk about work that's it.  I'd explain why - they'd understand and play the game.

I feel for you - it's vile.  Xx

MsNomer:
Everything always seems so bright and sunny in the beginning...tricksy bitches!

I think you might be right. Distance is the only thing that's gotten me over anyone in the past. Poop. It's so stupid. You have to make a conscious decision to pull away from something that makes you feel good and to crawl into emptiness and disconnectedness in contrast. I think this is the design flaw of the human race...that things that are good for us are painful. How stupid. Isn't pain there to tell us things aren't so good...like when you sit on a stove or slice off a limb?

What about drugs? Are there any drugs that do the trick?

Ooh, I don't know about distractions though. I can never manage that. I always just sleep as much as possible, stay cozy and nestled in soft things with entertainment options both cathartic and humourous on standby. And Harry Potter. And Buffy.

Grey:

--- Quote from: MsNomer on Jun 08, 2012, 12:07:13 PM ---What about drugs? Are there any drugs that do the trick?


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no
that will only give you two problems

are you going to let Red Canna do some wicked matchmaking for you?

kerfufflegoblin:
I make an effigy of said person and stick it with pins until I feel better.

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