I haven't read all of this .. no doubt it has gone well off topic by now
BUT I just cannot stop myself snapping at anyone who whines about their age ..
at 48 I was told I had inoperable stage 4 bowel cancer ... nearly 6 years later I have been through an enormous amount of treatment and the quality of some of those years has been severely compromised by the treatment regimes, but I have defied the odds and cancer has not taken me off, yet .....
dja know what, you will not find me moaning about my approaching 54th birthday ... oh no.