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what a strange evening. what a strange week.

^ yep. and a constant need for explanations just closes down possibilities.

Firstly I think me and Leka knew the same 'hump on the thigh' woman.  Dreary beyond belief.

Secondly, picture the scene,
newly out lady (not me, I'd had had 4 women by this point) ..
the nice lady comes to visit saying she is so looking forward to her first time.  My heart wasn't really in it but I felt I should oblige.
I go to the loo and return to find her reclined on my bed smiling invitingly in a nicely pressed M and S nightie.
The nice lady appears to be paralysed from the neck down so, at rather a loss, I go for it rather energetically.
Four hours later she makes a small sound that indicates perhaps she has had enough. She hobbles to the loo looking as if she has been assaulted.
She hugs me all night in a way that suggests she may wish to get wed.

Next morning whilst eating toast in the kitchen she emerges to say sitting is rather painful.  I help her to the station apologising profusely.

To add insult to injury she messaged me a few months later to say she had met a lovely 'gentle' and kind woman.

I would follow what your baby wants not what the books say. If he's on solids at 5.5 months he is probably full up and prefers solids to milk. In terms of fluids you can see if they are dehydrated by looking at the nappies. One of mine loves water but the other one will only drink it when she really needs it.

Me? for buying a cd? Or was that a different random disclosure altogether?

Are cds very old fashioned now? I don't like virtual music. I like a physical thing. But obviously, vinyl would be the best.

capitalism certainly doesn't work, not for the majority of humans and certainly not for the rest of the planet.  maybe it's worth trying something radical, seeing as we have nothing to lose and everything to gain...

I'd really like to come but may be late or may not be able to make it at all...so I hope I''ll find you if I can come.I've been to Pout a couple of times and its good fun and friendly.JudyG

You quaint old-fashioned thing, you!

I had a few teacher crushes in senior school ( from the age of 11 - 16 ). The first ones I remember were my cookery and needlework tutors. I can't remember now exactly what they looked like as I was 11 at the time. Both were feminine and I guess good looking in conventional terms. Both came across as confident and self assured, and unfortunately both were really unpleasant and spiteful individuals underneath the 'packaging'. I had a couple of other teacher crushes to a lesser extent, who again were very similar to the above. The only one that stood out as different to my childhood 'crush type' was my English teacher. Again, she was very pretty and feminine ~ but not an a-hole. No, instead she was very encouraging and saw/created the potential in me. It was, I'm sure, due to her, at least in part ( a very large part! ) that I came top in my English exams out of my entire year. I actually looked forward to going to her lessons, and when she winked and double clicked her tongue at me ( it was the 80's, you could do cheesy things like that and get away with it! ) it made my tummy flip! I never cared what any teacher thought of me, but I always remember the look of disappointment from her when I turned up to her lesson about 15 minutes late after I'd been involved in a huge physical fight ( which resulted in me having a nose bleed and burst blood vessel in my eye - and hair that resembled a birds nest!! ) I cleaned up before I would enter her lesson. But it was obvious she knew.

Thinking about it now, the only girl I had a crush on at school ( it was an all girl school ) was at the age of 14, and the girl in question was also 'beautiful' but had a really unpleasant side - though she really did like me and actually sussed out that I fancied her ( aaannnndd that's a whole other story! )

So, in answer to the OP's question - yes, now that I've been made to think about it, I have unfortunately and regrettably in adult life been drawn to similar women as my school crushes. B*gger it!! It's not always been the case 100% of the time though. Every so often the 'English teacher' scooches into the picture 

You're being very..."loud"...just now. I don't mind, honest, it's just that I can't do anything about this until you do. The ball is in your court dearheart xxx