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Title: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Feb 14, 2015, 08:48:31 AM
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2942547/50-Shades-Grey-soft-REAL-bondage-83-year-old-lesbian-dominatrix-keeps-housewife-lover-submissive-French-chateau-attacks-blockbuster.html

 :D

I love how her hard limit is 'irreversible blood loss'.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Groke on Feb 14, 2015, 08:49:21 AM
Daily Wail. Can't click.  :(
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Feb 14, 2015, 08:52:42 AM
Worth it, Scullster. Click it!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Groke on Feb 14, 2015, 08:54:28 AM
Hard limit.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Feb 14, 2015, 12:19:02 PM
Is this Random Disclosures as in 'showing off'? Cos if so, I am playing here on Friday night...just me, my cute boi and an evil butch co-top. Cannot. Wait.

http://www.fetishpoint.at/fetish-bdsm-play-location

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Feb 14, 2015, 12:21:01 PM
^^^ looks lovely I will keep it in mind for next time I'm in town.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Groke on Feb 14, 2015, 12:24:22 PM
Is this Random Disclosures as in 'showing off'? Cos if so, I am playing here on Friday night...just me, my cute boi and an evil butch co-top. Cannot. Wait.

http://www.fetishpoint.at/fetish-bdsm-play-location

kitty

Looks nice.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Feb 14, 2015, 12:38:03 PM
Is this Random Disclosures as in 'showing off'? Cos if so, I am playing here on Friday night...just me, my cute boi and an evil butch co-top. Cannot. Wait.

http://www.fetishpoint.at/fetish-bdsm-play-location

kitty

Oh WOW.

I have all the jealouses.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: nismat on Feb 14, 2015, 01:02:26 PM
Wow. that looks comprehensive! Something for everyone there  ;)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: scouser on Feb 14, 2015, 01:03:34 PM
Yes! :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Feb 21, 2015, 09:31:14 PM
Oh.my.eyes ..... feeling very Rutger Hauer, not in a good way.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Feb 23, 2015, 09:31:54 PM
I spent my last of the amazon vouchers the salt mines gave me on a DVD of this:

http://drafthousefilms.com/film/r-100

It's what they would have wanted. Probably.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Feb 23, 2015, 11:57:01 PM
I spent my last of the amazon vouchers the salt mines gave me on a DVD of this:

http://drafthousefilms.com/film/r-100

It's what they would have wanted. Probably.

Heh! 'a slew of vengeful dominatrices ' ...this is like a murder of crows, no?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Feb 25, 2015, 12:50:49 AM
Goodness. Life is interesting at the moment.

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: sherb... on Feb 26, 2015, 06:44:23 AM
what is the difference between the Dungeon and the Vault.  I don't post in either but wondered what the difference is.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Groke on Feb 26, 2015, 07:33:19 AM
At the moment, Sherb, very little. People are posting vaulty stuff in the dungeon.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Guineapig on Feb 26, 2015, 09:23:43 AM
The question piqued my interest.
I know what it says on the area descriptor, but who choose the words?

I think of a vault as a place to put something valuable, to keep it safe. It conjures up a sense of agency and autonomy. I put XYZ in the vault.

Dungeon makes me think, punishment, lack of agency, hopelessness and misery.

Like being in an oubliette.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: nismat on Feb 26, 2015, 09:58:21 AM
what is the difference between the Dungeon and the Vault.  I don't post in either but wondered what the difference is.

My perception of it is that the Vault is more general sex/longing stuff. Whereas the Dungeon is more specifically sub/dom(me) and BDSM interests. Your less vanilla leanings  ;) Not of interest to everyone.

But yes, it's all got a bit more mixed up recently. Although both spaces should be "safe" spaces to share information that wouldn't then be used against you in any way for external discussion, on other boards or elsewhere. And no judging/sex-shaming. Both of these things have happened recently  ::)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Musette on Feb 26, 2015, 11:08:04 AM
I see it as the Vault being a 15 rating while the Dungeon is an 18.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Jeepster on Feb 26, 2015, 11:12:50 AM
Ok, I've been off the 'scene' for years but pray, do tell,  what does vanilla leanings mean?

 ???
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: sherb... on Feb 26, 2015, 11:14:46 AM
what is the difference between the Dungeon and the Vault.  I don't post in either but wondered what the difference is.

My perception of it is that the Vault is more general sex/longing stuff. Whereas the Dungeon is more specifically sub/dom(me) and BDSM interests. Your less vanilla leanings  ;) Not of interest to everyone.

But yes, it's all got a bit more mixed up recently. Although both spaces should be "safe" spaces to share information that wouldn't then be used against you in any way for external discussion, on other boards or elsewhere. And no judging/sex-shaming. Both of these things have happened recently  ::)

Thanks Nismat.  You would have thought that in all the years I have been on GB I would know lol

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RjCLlzdM9Vs

For anyone who doesn't know who she is watch clip.  Her interpretation of Bach is spot on.  My interpretation is not so spot on.  I need precise fingering and lots of forte.  You cannot cheat with Bach.  It is very technical. 
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: horse on Feb 26, 2015, 11:24:09 AM
Dungeon makes me think, punishment, lack of agency, hopelessness and misery.
Like being in an oubliette.

I think this is an interesting point (and it overrides my fear of posting in here)

BDSM appears to split into two groups, the dungeon club scene where the emphasis is on sensation play and themes of physical violence and threat, and I'd include knife/needle/blood play in this.

Then there is the domestic, verbal control type of D/s, to which the idea of a "dungeon" is out of place, and annoyingly the Shades of Grey film perpetuates this narrow image of domestic D/s by associating it with fantasies of abuse. When really it follows exactly the same principles of love, communication and care as any other relationship.

(I'm sure there are other ways of identifying this, I'm not intending to exclude any one group)

I don't feel comfortable about being associated with the whips and chains group, yes I'm taking on the usual vanilla predujuice in reacting this way, but nobody outside of D/s sees this identity as valid anyway and it's just something they feel quite happy about openly rejecting. Even the other day someone said this isn't what nice people do.
The concept of a menacing black dungeon just perpetuates this stereotype I think.

The fact that vanilla people use this section for hypocritical titillation just makes it a non safe space regardless of how anyone defines their kink. But labelling D/s as something that somehow requires a dungeon isn't helpful.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Feb 26, 2015, 01:11:03 PM
Dungeon seems fine as a shorthand word for kink friendly/BDSM themed. I would hope that in the space people could practice the ethos of 'your kink is not my kink': meaning that I might not be into the same kink as another person but can accept it's a matter of taste NOT judge others for what they are into.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Jeepster on Feb 26, 2015, 01:21:25 PM
Please will someone tell me what vanilla refers to? Please.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Feb 26, 2015, 01:26:08 PM
Please will someone tell me what vanilla refers to? Please.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vanilla_sex (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vanilla_sex) google is your friend.... tho check out what wiki says about lesbians! Like really ? ? ?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Feb 26, 2015, 01:30:40 PM
Vanilla = non-kinky/non-BDSM sex

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Cas73 on Feb 26, 2015, 01:50:43 PM
I loathe the term vanilla, brings to mind two lesbians holding hands above the duvet staring lovingly into each other's eyes, when it's anything but, and a lot of so called vanilla read the interesting and thought provoking threads in the Dungeon because our so called vanilla actually overlaps into what would be considered kink.

Just saying  :)

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: horse on Feb 26, 2015, 02:05:11 PM
Dungeon seems fine as a shorthand word for kink friendly/BDSM themed.
But as a forum label it is defining what kink is, as dark and scary place.
Which is the exact opposite of D/s, which for the most part is a safe, sane and ordered environment.

I mean who actually wants to talk openly in a forum called the dungeon while it is attached to a group of vanilla people. Its very nature runs counter to much of their sexually correct ideology about respecting women and their concept of sexual abuse, and in practice it gets treated as 'other'.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Feb 26, 2015, 02:11:38 PM
Well, the description on the main page describes The Dungeon as a safe, sane and consensual space. Which it is. Plus, it's not an actual dungeon, y'know? It's a section on an internet message board. You couldn't actually get physically hurt by someone else here...it's pretty safe in that respect.

I'm going to leave the negative characterisation of my sexuality well alone, as I don't really care what anyone thinks about what I do with happily consenting partners.

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Feb 26, 2015, 02:13:22 PM
Dungeon seems fine as a shorthand word for kink friendly/BDSM themed.
But as a forum label it is defining what kink is, as dark and scary place.
Which is the exact opposite of D/s, which for the most part is a safe, sane and ordered environment.

erm...no. no more than the vault implies that there are a load of lesbians inside a bank vault having a wank.

This is YOUR perception of a dungeon and YOUR perception of hwere and how D/S takes place

Quote
I mean who actually wants to talk openly in a forum called the dungeon while it is attached to a group of vanilla people. Its very nature runs counter to much of their sexually correct ideology about respecting women and their concept of sexual abuse, and in practice it gets treated as 'other'.

THE WORLD is attached to a group of vanilla people, plus that's not an impermeable membrane. I'm not up for the dungeon being a place where people come to dis or judge kink but I'm fine with it being a place where people can learn things or discuss curiously. I could keep it all on Fetlife, but occasionally it's nice to chat with a few people I know on here and hear the opinions of others.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Feb 26, 2015, 02:15:33 PM
Off to see 'The Duke of Burgundy'. I'm slightly worried that my outfit (due to the weather) has the look of 'plastic mac brigade'  :P
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: horse on Feb 26, 2015, 02:21:09 PM
@FK
But all the forums have a string of well meaning platitudes attached, the reality is again pretty much the opposite ?

Umm, I hope you didn't think I was disparaging your flavour of kink, I can't do this all inclusive thinking that GB likes.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: horse on Feb 26, 2015, 02:26:10 PM
erm...no. no more than the vault implies that there are a load of lesbians inside a bank vault having a wank.
This is YOUR perception of a dungeon and YOUR perception of hwere and how D/S takes place
Why give them theatrical secretive names then, why not "sexual talk for women of kink"  (maybe not quite as patronising, but still)


Yep I'm only ever talking about what these words mean to me because that is what it sounds like inside my head, if there were other viewpoints in there I would see a doctor :)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Jeepster on Feb 26, 2015, 02:32:45 PM
Ok, thank you. I get it now.
Perhaps we could have a thesaurus for those of us who are lesbian speak challenged?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Feb 26, 2015, 02:35:46 PM
Ok, thank you. I get it now.
Perhaps we could have a thesaurus for those of us who are lesbian speak challenged?
I am constantly lesbian speak challenged!!  ;)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Slantrhyme on Feb 26, 2015, 02:47:26 PM
Horse, why do you keep coming into these spaces just to have a moan about them? If you don't like it then don't participate.
Just as you don't like people making judgements about your sexual practices, other people don't like you making judgements about their community and safe spaces.
Nobody has asked you to come in here, point out the problems and make it better. You have two choices, you either use this space or you don't. Stop whingeing about what you think it should and shouldn't be And choose one.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Jeepster on Feb 26, 2015, 03:46:01 PM
Oh really glad to hear that pure evil, I was beginning to think I was being a right numpty.  ::)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: rosa amaya on Feb 26, 2015, 04:10:41 PM


what is the difference between the Dungeon and the Vault.  I don't post in either but wondered what the difference is.

My perception of it is that the Vault is more general sex/longing stuff. Whereas the Dungeon is more specifically sub/dom(me) and BDSM interests. Your less vanilla leanings  ;) Not of interest to everyone.

But yes, it's all got a bit more mixed up recently. Although both spaces should be "safe" spaces to share information that wouldn't then be used against you in any way for external discussion, on other boards or elsewhere. And no judging/sex-shaming. Both of these things have happened recently  ::)

Thanks Nismat.  You would have thought that in all the years I have been on GB I would know lol

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RjCLlzdM9Vs

For anyone who doesn't know who she is watch clip.  Her interpretation of Bach is spot on.  My interpretation is not so spot on.  I need precise fingering and lots of forte.  You cannot cheat with Bach.  It is very technical.


Bach played  in any variation is always a pleasure.  :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: horse on Feb 26, 2015, 05:31:11 PM
Horse, why do you keep coming into these spaces just to have a moan about them? If you don't like it then don't participate.
Just as you don't like people making judgements about your sexual practices, other people don't like you making judgements about their community and safe spaces.
Nobody has asked you to come in here, point out the problems and make it better. You have two choices, you either use this space or you don't. Stop whingeing about what you think it should and shouldn't be And choose one.
This is my first post in here for ages ?

If this is my space and yours then I'll make whatever comment I like on whatever issue I like.

Nobody asked you to come in here and whinge about my opinion,
What exactly was your amazing contribution to this space anyway  ::)


This was the OP's issue - "but who choose the words?"
I was responding to that.

You are here once again to moan about anything and everything to do with what I think and honestly I'm ****ed off with hearing about the endless things you don't like about me. Naff off.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Feb 26, 2015, 05:57:41 PM
Now now...play nicely, or no spankings for you!

;D

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Feb 26, 2015, 06:05:58 PM
Hmmmm....not sure what I thought of 'The Duke of Burgundy'.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Groke on Feb 26, 2015, 06:14:46 PM
Please will someone tell me what vanilla refers to? Please.
If you don't know, you should be in the Vault.  ;)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Jeepster on Feb 26, 2015, 06:25:54 PM
You're never too young to learn new things.  ;)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Feb 26, 2015, 06:29:11 PM
Please will someone tell me what vanilla refers to? Please.
If you don't know, you should be in the Vault.  ;)

 ;D

Vanilla, in a sexual context, means non-BDSM/non-kinky.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: bizoute on Feb 26, 2015, 06:40:57 PM
I can't do this all inclusive thinking that GB likes.

Oh c'mon. Since when is a basic premise of YKIOK a GB thing? I never get why this is difficult: some people will have kinks that you're not into. But guess what? Unless those are people with whom you are playing, it doesn't actually harm or concern you. And actually I have some kinks my last serious partner wasn't particularly immediately drawn towards. So I reframed them in terms of stuff he did like, and hey presto, he was able to meet me in them. But either way he managed to not judge me in an 'OMG WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU' sort of way. So that's always nice. Y'know...a bit of kink positivity.

I kind of think of it as good manners. I try to mostly save my moral outrage for Tory politics, not other people's consensual fun & assume however the hell people want to consensually fuck or play, it's entirely their business and if it makes them feel good/meets their needs, cool. And if they can afford me the same courtesy, I generally appreciate it.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: bizoute on Feb 26, 2015, 06:51:30 PM
Oh and my RD: I recently caught up with an old friend (we'd drifted for years) and somewhere in the course of the conversation there was a nice relevant context for me to come out to her as a kinkster (yay) and for her to beam ME TOO. (I'd had a feeling). 

Just as we were bonding in a conversation over it, my parents knocked at her door. (They live not far from her; I was meeting them for dinner). So at that point I figured there were aspects of my sex life my parents just don't need to know about (i.e. any of it)  :) and we stopped the conversation there.

I'd really rather 'our daughter, the masochist' is never a conversation topic around my parents dinner table.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: scouser on Feb 26, 2015, 06:56:19 PM
I can understand that! :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Feb 26, 2015, 06:58:27 PM
@Bizoute...i found out quite recently that my brother is kinky. Definitely TMI.

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: horse on Feb 26, 2015, 06:58:58 PM
Oh c'mon.

Well actually I couldn't work out if the comment related to me or something else  ???
either way I wasn't actually aware that I had stepped on anyone's kink, I'm normally OK with most of them, I just thought I should say something just in case  :)



I can never tell in here, other than everyone objects to everything about anything, even to people who don't exist, and then everyone forms a queue to defend the rights of everyone else just in case they were offended too, or they invent an offence just to defend some more imaginary people who probably wouldn't be offended even if they did exist. And that's just a thread about real or instant coffee  :-\
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: bizoute on Feb 26, 2015, 07:05:05 PM
@Bizoute...i found out quite recently that my brother is kinky. Definitely TMI.

kitty

I found out the same thing about one of my siblings. (MAYBE THEY ALL ARE).

I'm actually pretty non-squicked when it's my siblings - I just don't need to know the details. But definitely sex talk with my parents is TMI.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Feb 26, 2015, 07:13:54 PM
Oh and my RD: I recently caught up with an old friend (we'd drifted for years) and somewhere in the course of the conversation there was a nice relevant context for me to come out to her as a kinkster (yay) and for her to beam ME TOO. (I'd had a feeling).

 ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Feb 26, 2015, 07:52:01 PM
Oh c'mon.

Well actually I couldn't work out if the comment related to me or something else  ???
either way I wasn't actually aware that I had stepped on anyone's kink, I'm normally OK with most of them, I just thought I should say something just in case  :)


I don't feel comfortable about being associated with the whips and chains group, yes I'm taking on the usual vanilla predujuice in reacting this way, but nobody outside of D/s sees this identity as valid anyway and it's just something they feel quite happy about openly rejecting. Even the other day someone said this isn't what nice people do.
The concept of a menacing black dungeon just perpetuates this stereotype I think.

You can really not see how that ^^^ might read as pretty offensive?

Seriously? Wow.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Feb 26, 2015, 07:59:23 PM

I don't feel comfortable about being associated with the whips and chains group, yes I'm taking on the usual vanilla predujuice in reacting this way, but nobody outside of D/s sees this identity as valid anyway and it's just something they feel quite happy about openly rejecting. Even the other day someone said this isn't what nice people do.
The concept of a menacing black dungeon just perpetuates this stereotype I think.

You can really not see how that ^^^ might read as pretty offensive?

Seriously? Wow.

actually had some one say 'is that all that whips and chains stuff?' once at the beginning of (and very quick end to) a flirtation. I mentioned I was into BDSM, their response told me very clearly that things did not bode well.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: nismat on Feb 26, 2015, 08:07:59 PM
Oh horse   ::)
I'm pretty tolerant generally, and I'm not intending this as a personal attack.
But can you not just leave it?

My eyes are starting to bleed with the same old, same old :(
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Groke on Feb 26, 2015, 08:12:23 PM
I suggest people report the post for breaching sex positive guidelines for the dungeon then. Or she'll keep on doing it.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Feb 26, 2015, 08:27:35 PM
Hmmmm....not sure what I thought of 'The Duke of Burgundy'.

What did you think?

I really want it to be good.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: horse on Feb 26, 2015, 08:33:18 PM
You can really not see how that ^^^ might read as pretty offensive?

Seriously? Wow.

Seriously, no.
it's a fair description of club BDSM IMO, if you seriously want to construe something awful from a quick description then you have more imagination than me.


My eyes are starting to bleed with the same old, same old :(

As I'm generally on the receiving end of the moronic GB Panto Clown Show, then I'm probably more ****ed off with the endless "Oh Noes, I'm really really offended on behalf of someone else!!!" BS.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Feb 26, 2015, 08:34:56 PM
Hmmmm....not sure what I thought of 'The Duke of Burgundy'.

What did you think?

I really want it to be good.

I'm still weighing it up, plus in the midst of a personal crisis... so slightly distracted and only capable of cats on the internet and crumpled hankies (not the flagging kind).

Possibly the film might come down to how you feel about '70s asthetics, tho I thought the exploration of power dynamics in D/s was bitingly accurate. Tho hard to say more without it becoming a spoiler.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Feb 26, 2015, 08:39:45 PM
You can really not see how that ^^^ might read as pretty offensive?

Seriously? Wow.

Seriously, no.
it's a fair description of club BDSM IMO, if you seriously want to construe something awful from a quick description then you have more imagination than me.

this is so far off the wall I don't even know what to say.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Feb 26, 2015, 08:41:29 PM
Hmmmm....not sure what I thought of 'The Duke of Burgundy'.

What did you think?

I really want it to be good.

I'm still weighing it up, plus in the midst of a personal crisis... so slightly distracted and only capable of cats on the internet and crumpled hankies (not the flagging kind).

Possibly the film might come down to how you feel about '70s asthetics, tho I thought the exploration of power dynamics in D/s was bitingly accurate. Tho hard to say more without it becoming a spoiler.

I hope the healing power of the internet cats does its magic for you. x
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Feb 26, 2015, 08:43:03 PM
^^^ thanks  :)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Feb 26, 2015, 08:44:47 PM
You can really not see how that ^^^ might read as pretty offensive?

Seriously? Wow.

Seriously, no.
it's a fair description of club BDSM IMO, if you seriously want to construe something awful from a quick description then you have more imagination than me.

this is so far off the wall I don't even know what to say.

I actually L-O-L'ed.

 
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: horse on Feb 26, 2015, 08:45:13 PM
this is so far off the wall I don't even know what to say.

Good, not interested in yet a ten page bitchfest about what people think I said

the last dungeon event I went to had
a) whips
b) chains

As a way of differentiating that from domestic D/s, that is adequate IMO, so stop looking for boring crap to be upset about FFS
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Feb 26, 2015, 08:47:51 PM
this is so far off the wall I don't even know what to say.

Good, not interested in yet a ten page bitchfest about what people think I said

the last dungeon event I went to had
a) whips
b) chains

As a way of differentiating that from domestic D/s, that is adequate IMO, so stop looking for boring crap to be upset about FFS

please take your phobic ass elsewhere

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Feb 26, 2015, 08:49:51 PM
Hmmmm....not sure what I thought of 'The Duke of Burgundy'.

What did you think?

I really want it to be good.

I'm still weighing it up, plus in the midst of a personal crisis... so slightly distracted and only capable of cats on the internet and crumpled hankies (not the flagging kind).

Possibly the film might come down to how you feel about '70s asthetics, tho I thought the exploration of power dynamics in D/s was bitingly accurate. Tho hard to say more without it becoming a spoiler.

I liked it because of the bitingly accurate exploration!  Won't say more here tho cause it would spoil.  :)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Feb 26, 2015, 08:54:45 PM
Okay, I want to see this movie now.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: horse on Feb 26, 2015, 08:56:15 PM
please take your phobic ass elsewhere
Why, because I didn't have the space to write a 100 page essay defining what BDSM dungeon events consist of ?
FFS get over yourself  ::) ::) ::)

Why don't you get upset over my definition of domestic D/s as "verbal" ?

OMG I only used one word !
how phobic must my ass be to only use one word, seriously what was I thinking ! Wow, I have no words to describe how offended someone else must be.


I really can't believe how petty this place gets day in day out.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Feb 26, 2015, 08:57:06 PM
Hmmmm....not sure what I thought of 'The Duke of Burgundy'.

What did you think?

I really want it to be good.

I'm still weighing it up, plus in the midst of a personal crisis... so slightly distracted and only capable of cats on the internet and crumpled hankies (not the flagging kind).

Possibly the film might come down to how you feel about '70s asthetics, tho I thought the exploration of power dynamics in D/s was bitingly accurate. Tho hard to say more without it becoming a spoiler.

I liked it because of the bitingly accurate exploration!  Won't say more here tho cause it would spoil.  :)

It's a funny one because that trope is something I've seen occur and experienced myself in D/s over and over - yet I can't say I've ever really seen an open discussion of the phenomena.... which we can't discuss cos of spoilers!!!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Feb 26, 2015, 09:04:22 PM
GAAA! I want spoilers.
I'm terrible with suspense.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Feb 26, 2015, 09:08:47 PM
GAAA! I want spoilers.
I'm terrible with suspense.

we know.  which a very good reason not to share   ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Feb 26, 2015, 09:09:53 PM
GAAA! I want spoilers.
I'm terrible with suspense.

Remaining schtum
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: horse on Feb 26, 2015, 09:12:41 PM
There are a few new trailers on Youtube.

I did actually squee a little, it is much kinkier than I expected  8)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Feb 26, 2015, 09:13:36 PM
GAAA! I want spoilers.
I'm terrible with suspense.

we know.  which a very good reason not to share   ;D

So. Evil.  :(

I should probably stop telling people that I hate suspense.
I had an (unrelated) message today telling me to 'enjoy the not knowing'. It's borderline cruel.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Feb 26, 2015, 09:16:41 PM
GAAA! I want spoilers.
I'm terrible with suspense.

we know.  which a very good reason not to share   ;D

So. Evil.  :(

I should probably stop telling people that I hate suspense.
I had an (unrelated) message today telling me to 'enjoy the not knowing'. It's borderline cruel.

I'm flexing my fingers over the keyboard  :P
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Feb 26, 2015, 09:17:27 PM
Meep. Watched this trailer:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P-xIMBnclyA

A+ for trailer efficacy. I am now desperate to see it and also have the chills thanks to the repeated phrases.

MEEP.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Feb 26, 2015, 09:21:29 PM
GAAA! I want spoilers.
I'm terrible with suspense.

we know.  which a very good reason not to share   ;D

So. Evil.  :(

I should probably stop telling people that I hate suspense.
I had an (unrelated) message today telling me to 'enjoy the not knowing'. It's borderline cruel.

I'm flexing my fingers over the keyboard  :P

Oh, are you.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Feb 26, 2015, 09:26:09 PM
'enjoy the not knowing'

MWAHAHAHAHAHA!

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Feb 26, 2015, 09:32:32 PM
'enjoy the not knowing'

MWAHAHAHAHAHA!

kitty

ah yes a beautiful mindful moment... that we can't share, cos we already know.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Feb 26, 2015, 09:37:01 PM
And there's so much she doesn't know that she doesn't know...

;D

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Feb 26, 2015, 09:39:09 PM
Et tu, Kitty?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Feb 26, 2015, 09:40:55 PM
And there's so much she doesn't know that she doesn't know...

;D

kitty

is this about the knife in the cake?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Feb 26, 2015, 09:42:53 PM
And there's so much she doesn't know that she doesn't know...

;D

kitty

is this about the knife in the cake?

And the razorblades in the trick or treat apples... ;D

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Feb 26, 2015, 09:43:30 PM
Et tu, Kitty?

Mwahahahaha!

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Feb 26, 2015, 09:53:40 PM
"It's like saying to the school bully, 'I'll wet myself if you tickle me.'" (Terri Coverley, The Thick of It)

*sigh
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Slantrhyme on Feb 26, 2015, 10:52:30 PM
I'm now scouring the listings for when this comes to Oxford.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Riff-R@ff on Feb 26, 2015, 11:50:49 PM
Really? It looked like a terrible B movie.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: bizoute on Feb 27, 2015, 12:00:11 AM
^Is that your inner Goddess speaking?

I'm looking forward to it. So please no spoilers. Or could have a thread about it specifically marked with fact it contains spoilers ?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Feb 27, 2015, 10:05:30 AM
It's deliberately filmed to look like a mid-European porn film from the 1970's. The director did the same with his last film, 'Berberian Sound Studio' which is an amazingly creepy story of an English sound recordist who is hired to overdub an Italian horror film...wonderful...I highly recommend it.

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Feb 27, 2015, 10:20:40 AM
It's deliberately filmed to look like a mid-European porn film from the 1970's. The director did the same with his last film, 'Berberian Sound Studio' which is an amazingly creepy story of an English sound recordist who is hired to overdub an Italian horror film...wonderful...I highly recommend it.

kitty

While I knew the aesthetic was intentional, I found it so contrary to my own that it jarred.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Feb 27, 2015, 10:40:00 AM
I've always had a soft spot for that awful film bersion of The Story of O, which looks very similar, so I quite like it ;D

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: horse on Feb 27, 2015, 11:09:43 AM
It has been a chore to find cinemas showing it, not for some weeks and mostly 50 miles away.

Or rent it online for £9, which would be far cheaper I think.

The clips I have seen remind me of old French films (which I love), so I'm sure I will enjoy this one.
Oh and slow scenes, they are a lost art in modern films.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Feb 27, 2015, 11:39:29 AM
I've always had a soft spot for that awful film bersion of The Story of O, which looks very similar, so I quite like it ;D

kitty

I've never seen the film, but reading 'The story of O' as a book was quite a formative experience. Would the film ruin it for me? Then again I once saw an exhibition of oil paintings based on scenes from the book - done on SOCKS of all things - and I survived that.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Feb 27, 2015, 11:45:01 AM
Oh, don't see the film if you love the book, it's AWFUL. I agree about it being a formative experience. My early kinky education came from the Anne Rice Beauty series. I remember buying them in Foyles and surreptitiously reading them on the tube home!

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: nismat on Feb 27, 2015, 11:58:56 AM
^ I had a Saturday job in a bookshop from age 15-18, which I loved.
And used to sneak off to read various sex books in the corner  ;D

We got staff discount, and could put our own sales through the till, so you could buy whatever you liked without anyone seeing anything you might have been embarrassed about buying.
I managed to buy a fair few lesbian titles without actually realising or even considering that I might be queer myself until I was in my early 20s. I look back and wonder how on earth I was so blind to all the signs!  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: bizoute on Feb 27, 2015, 12:32:55 PM
Ooh, I'm now seeing DoB next week.

I never watched the film of the story of O, but I caught a documentary about it/about the writer at the LLGFF a few years ago, which I found interesting. I do remember there being some snippets of scene from the book in it, which I remember as sexy-ish, but they may not have been from the original film. I remember finding some of the book sexy, some not - kind of felt like how it was intended.

Actually I remember as a young teen I actually found Margaret Atwood novels quite helpful, because the women in them were often revealing their less PC fantasies. And at the time, well...my schoolfriends and out of schoolfriends wouldn't even acknowledge they masturbated and the whole environment felt very sex negative, which is hardly uncommon (actually my family are super-liberal, but still no particular nod to healthy sexuality). So, via reading Margaret Atwood, I found it a relief to realise that not everyone had nice and entirely inoffensive fantasies.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Riff-R@ff on Feb 27, 2015, 06:58:52 PM
^Is that your inner Goddess speaking?


But of course! That said, my inner goddess is also a curious little pervert so I might have to see for myself after these rave reviews/ previews.

My local cinema is showing it at the most inconvenient times. Horse, how does one rent it online? On Netflix?

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: horse on Feb 27, 2015, 07:11:26 PM
My local cinema is showing it at the most inconvenient times. Horse, how does one rent it online? On Netflix?

Just had a quick look around and I've found it for 7.99 in HD

http://www.blinkbox.com/movies/the-duke-of-burgundy-%2869685%29


a free trial at a DVD rental site is also an option if they have stock.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Riff-R@ff on Feb 27, 2015, 07:27:55 PM
^ are you saying I'm lazy and could have found it myself??? The cheek!


But thank you, I will be watching it soon.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fancypants on Feb 27, 2015, 07:37:20 PM
It's also on Curzon Home Cinema. It's £10 now (£8.50 for members) but you can watch it for a lot cheaper if you don't mind waiting a few weeks.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Riff-R@ff on Feb 27, 2015, 09:57:03 PM
^ thanks!

From not wanting to watch it at all - to saving it for a lazy weekend morning in bed...  That's some turnaround.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 01, 2015, 04:15:25 PM
typing the shonkiest, dodgyest porn.... with a romantic edge  ::)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Groke on Mar 01, 2015, 04:41:51 PM
Yeah...that's my kinda porn.  ;)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 01, 2015, 04:47:38 PM
Yeah...that's my kinda porn.  ;)

Urgh! I'm laughing as I do it. It feels like regurgitating every platitude I've unconsciously absorbed over the years. Really makes me wonder about what people respond to and how influenced we are by media and all.

Key words and phrases seem to be a huge part of this.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Groke on Mar 01, 2015, 05:05:53 PM
You read any Mills and Boon lately? It's all about the stock phrases. People settle for really shitty porn writing. ;)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 01, 2015, 05:24:31 PM
I don't think I've ever read any Mills and Boon properly, tho i guess writing that stuff page after is probably trickier than it looks.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Mar 01, 2015, 05:34:41 PM
I don't think I've ever read any Mills and Boon properly, tho i guess writing that stuff page after is probably trickier than it looks.

A friend used to translate an american version of mills n boon and would be cringing and despairing at the drivel written, plus that no care was taken with the stories. they would start out as tall dark and handsome but later he would be blonde and blue eyed.  ::)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 01, 2015, 05:35:42 PM
I don't think I've ever read any Mills and Boon properly, tho i guess writing that stuff page after is probably trickier than it looks.

A friend used to translate an american version of mills n boon and would be cringing and despairing at the drivel written, plus that no care was taken with the stories. they would start out as tall dark and handsome but later he would be blonde and blue eyed.  ::)

Peroxide and coloured contact lenses.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 01, 2015, 05:44:49 PM
I don't think I've ever read any Mills and Boon properly, tho i guess writing that stuff page after is probably trickier than it looks.

A friend used to translate an american version of mills n boon and would be cringing and despairing at the drivel written, plus that no care was taken with the stories. they would start out as tall dark and handsome but later he would be blonde and blue eyed.  ::)

Peroxide and coloured contact lenses.

Ha!! Love this, what a shame there wasn't also a ballgown and a tiarra.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 03, 2015, 07:31:15 AM
It's deliberately filmed to look like a mid-European porn film from the 1970's. The director did the same with his last film, 'Berberian Sound Studio' which is an amazingly creepy story of an English sound recordist who is hired to overdub an Italian horror film...wonderful...I highly recommend it.

kitty

While I knew the aesthetic was intentional, I found it so contrary to my own that it jarred.

Oh really? I enjoyed the aesthetic. I loved their house and I loved Cynthia's clothes (except that horrific ill-fitting spandex corset monster - what the f@ck was that?)
And I very much enjoyed that everyone wore capes. People don't wear capes enough, frankly. (ETA: I'm wearing a cape right now.)

I thought it was funny  in parts but ultimately very sad. I would have wished for a different ending.
My favourite bit was the scene with the cake.
Sidse Babet Knudsen is such a good actress.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 03, 2015, 11:00:19 AM
^^^ I was having an awful day, who knows, perhaps I would have liked the film more if I'd been in a different mood? Or perhaps if I hadn't lived through the '70s in the first place. Evelyn’s hair drove me mad with how awful it was.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 03, 2015, 12:12:13 PM
Evelyn really was irritating. I should start a thread with a SPOILER warning as to not shower people with spoiler shrapnel.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 03, 2015, 12:22:27 PM

Yes do. I'll delete my Evelyn comment.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 03, 2015, 10:23:45 PM
How did March suddenly become all about planning April?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Mar 04, 2015, 09:33:54 AM
Because...it's 29 days until Conference! *runs round excitedly* *falls over*

Ahem

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 04, 2015, 01:26:43 PM
^^^ made me giggle  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Mar 04, 2015, 03:37:53 PM
Cruel...laughing at another's misfortune...

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 04, 2015, 03:52:49 PM
Cruel...laughing at another's misfortune...

kitty

....oh...is it? bugger I always thought it was just bloody good entertainment.  :P

(I'm often the person standing at the edge of a scene and laughing when something particularly mean takes place.)

Had perve dinner with old friends this week and they helped me to recall my sadist mojo.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 05, 2015, 07:18:44 AM
28 days now.   :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 06, 2015, 04:09:11 PM
27!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Guineapig on Mar 06, 2015, 06:54:03 PM
You guys need to make an advent calendar!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Mar 06, 2015, 09:26:01 PM
You guys need to make an advent calendar!

But with little cakes instead of chocs.  :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: nismat on Mar 06, 2015, 09:30:45 PM
Macarons perhaps?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 06, 2015, 10:22:45 PM
There I was more focused on what the pictures would be behind each door.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Mar 06, 2015, 10:29:13 PM
Both equally valid concerns...
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: nismat on Mar 06, 2015, 10:34:34 PM
There I was more focused on what the pictures would be behind each door.

Now you're talking  ;)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 07, 2015, 09:44:15 AM
Sechsundzwanzig
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 07, 2015, 12:27:52 PM
Sechsundzwanzig

And a picture of 26 leather dykes on bikes *ate the chocolate already*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Mar 07, 2015, 04:33:40 PM
Vorfreude...it's a wonderful thing, baby!

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 09, 2015, 02:27:28 PM
It seems wrong that out of all the pairs of shoes I have none of the seem to be the right ones for conference.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 09, 2015, 05:14:01 PM
Oh it's not just shoes.
I literally have nothing to wear.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Mar 09, 2015, 05:26:29 PM
Then wear nothing! :-)

Oh, and fuck the theme...that shit ain't sexy.

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Mar 09, 2015, 05:35:04 PM
Truth!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 09, 2015, 05:38:13 PM
Yeah. I can't really think of the theme without thinking 'smallpox'.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Mar 09, 2015, 05:42:23 PM
I don't know where you're all going, but I am SO JEALOUS.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 09, 2015, 05:42:31 PM
so I just happened to be looking at pictures of medieval shoes on google (cos clearly there is no work to be done) and I came across this example of lingere from the era :( http://www.ecouterre.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/medieval-lingerie-2-537x402.jpg (http://www.ecouterre.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/medieval-lingerie-2-537x402.jpg)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 09, 2015, 05:47:31 PM
so I just happened to be looking at pictures of medieval shoes on google (cos clearly there is no work to be done) and I came across this example of lingere from the era :( http://www.ecouterre.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/medieval-lingerie-2-537x402.jpg (http://www.ecouterre.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/medieval-lingerie-2-537x402.jpg)

*snort*

I spent some time looking online yesterday and it's either a steampunk kinda corset with a skirt.
Or dress like Elsa from 'Frozen'.

The cold never bothered me anyway.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 09, 2015, 05:50:24 PM
(I was joking about the Disney princess outfit.
In case that wasn't clear.)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 09, 2015, 05:55:40 PM
(I was joking about the Disney princess outfit.
In case that wasn't clear.)

I didn't think you were. I'm of the opinion that chainmail is a better choice.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 09, 2015, 06:00:03 PM
Would be this be a good time to admit I've barely glanced at a programme (it was a provisional one a while back), and have done nothing to plan apart from book travel and accommodation?

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 09, 2015, 06:03:01 PM
You have registered though, right?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 09, 2015, 06:10:43 PM
You have registered though, right?
Yes, but I've done nothing apart from the admin and paying for it.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 09, 2015, 06:14:23 PM
Oh, me neither.  :D

Plenty of time, I reckon. I know one workshop I definitely want to do.
The rest I'll play by ear.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 09, 2015, 06:28:57 PM
 :) exactly, can't see the point in spending ages stressing about outfits for a HOLIDAY.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Mar 09, 2015, 06:42:12 PM
Its playtime. And you should never wear your best to play cause you know how it gets dirty or ripped. 
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 09, 2015, 06:50:35 PM
Its playtime. And you should never wear your best to play cause you know how it gets dirty or ripped.

 ;D

I must be ill, all of my current fantasies are about going out to breakfast or how lovely it will be to be in a hotel room alone.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Mar 09, 2015, 07:19:38 PM
I've been made head of one of the houses...now, shall I be a benevolent despot, or....

Mwahahahahaha!

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Mar 09, 2015, 07:22:17 PM
Its playtime. And you should never wear your best to play cause you know how it gets dirty or ripped.

 ;D

I must be ill, all of my current fantasies are about going out to breakfast or how lovely it will be to be in a hotel room alone.

Nah...I keep looking at my little Air BnB studio and cackling with delight!!

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 09, 2015, 07:50:22 PM
:) exactly, can't see the point in spending ages stressing about outfits for a HOLIDAY.

I don't think of it as stressing - I like clothes.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 10, 2015, 01:13:55 PM
:) exactly, can't see the point in spending ages stressing about outfits for a HOLIDAY.

I don't think of it as stressing - I like clothes.

I adore clothes, the 'stressing' comment is not directed at you, more that there is often a lot of chat about outfits, efforts made, money spent, all that jazz and for me that can become a stress if I allow it to.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Mar 10, 2015, 03:04:01 PM
Yeah, me too. I never remember what anyone else has worn before, so I assume the same is true for other people and just wear the same outfits over and over...

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 10, 2015, 06:05:27 PM
:) exactly, can't see the point in spending ages stressing about outfits for a HOLIDAY.

I don't think of it as stressing - I like clothes.

I adore clothes, the 'stressing' comment is not directed at you, more that there is often a lot of chat about outfits, efforts made, money spent, all that jazz and for me that can become a stress if I allow it to.

Well, anything that makes it less fun is best avoided, I reckon.  :)

OHHH! I've seen some great hair shirts to go with those knickers you found.
Made by *actual real-life nuns*.

I know, right.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 10, 2015, 08:35:53 PM
^^^ amusing myself by saying 'nun's hair knickers' over and over again.  ::)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 11, 2015, 09:19:34 PM
22  :D

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 11, 2015, 09:40:30 PM
so.much.better.than.Christmas!!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 11, 2015, 09:47:51 PM
You know, it's my first one, so I'm not entirely sure what to expect, but every single person I've spoken to about it gets happy face and a far away look in their eyes when talking about it.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Mar 11, 2015, 10:07:27 PM
*Happy face*

It's going to be AWESOME

ahem

And NO DRAMA

Double ahem

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 13, 2015, 07:04:58 PM
I've checked in and have started my list of what to pack.

And I've started planning fun things for after Easter.  :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Mar 13, 2015, 09:17:30 PM
I think I might leave my debit card at home tomorrow ;)

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Musette on Mar 14, 2015, 12:29:22 AM
I don't know where you're all going, but I am SO JEALOUS.

I think it's this:
https://www.schmacht.org/konferenzen/konferenz2015/homepage_eng.html
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Mar 15, 2015, 09:40:38 AM
OK...today *is* the day I write my workshop. It is, it is, it is...

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Mar 15, 2015, 09:54:21 AM
OK...today *is* the day I write my workshop. It is, it is, it is...

kitty

Oh no it isn't!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Mar 15, 2015, 10:01:08 AM
Shushy!

I don't even have to write much...it's a discussion. I will cheerfully throttle the person who talked me i to it when I see her...

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Mar 15, 2015, 10:03:27 AM
Lol. Easy then!  Outline points they must know/discuss then you just wing it like all great teachers.  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: nismat on Mar 15, 2015, 11:57:32 AM
OK...today *is* the day I write my workshop. It is, it is, it is...

kitty

Are we allowed to know the workshop topic kitty?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Mar 15, 2015, 12:02:33 PM
It's about sustaining desire in long-term relationships. I stress that it's a facilitated discussion; I do NOT have the answer of how to do this! :)

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Blythe on Mar 15, 2015, 12:35:06 PM
Shushy!

I don't even have to write much...it's a discussion. I will cheerfully throttle the person who talked me i to it when I see her...

kitty


Cheerful throttling, is that another workshop title?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Blythe on Mar 15, 2015, 12:35:49 PM
I know, I know, I've wandered into the Dungeon.    I'll get me coat.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Mar 15, 2015, 12:39:30 PM
Shoo! :)

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Mar 15, 2015, 12:40:08 PM
And...since the person who talked me into it is doing a workshop on breathplay, she might enjoy being throttled! ;D

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Mar 15, 2015, 12:50:16 PM
And...since the person who talked me into it is doing a workshop on breathplay, she might enjoy being throttled! ;D

kitty

Im looking forward to that w/shp 😃
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Mar 15, 2015, 12:57:44 PM
I bet you are...filthy gnome!

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: nismat on Mar 15, 2015, 01:15:29 PM
It's about sustaining desire in long-term relationships. I stress that it's a facilitated discussion; I do NOT have the answer of how to do this! :)

kitty

Ahh, very interesting!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Mar 15, 2015, 01:24:37 PM
Yes, especially in the context of relationships in which the erotic space is based in BDSM. The usual advice for couples looking to keep things going in the bedroom is to 'spice it up' with spanking and toys...but if you started the relationship with sex already based in power exchange/SM/Ds etc, where do you go? Plus the added elements of things like poly...

I'm hoping that it will be an interesting discussion. Hell, I'm hoping that someone else turns up! (It's Sunday morning at 11am...after 3 nights of parties!)

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Mar 15, 2015, 01:36:16 PM
Yes, especially in the context of relationships in which the erotic space is based in BDSM. The usual advice for couples looking to keep things going in the bedroom is to 'spice it up' with spanking and toys...but if you started the relationship with sex already based in power exchange/SM/Ds etc, where do you go? Plus the added elements of things like poly...

I'm hoping that it will be an interesting discussion. Hell, I'm hoping that someone else turns up! (It's Sunday morning at 11am...after 3 nights of parties!)

kitty

Thats the first problem I guess. Too bloody knackered to desire owt but sleep!

Im sure it will be well attended. Its something different. X
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 15, 2015, 03:22:55 PM
Argh, Sunday morning! Your one is on my list... 11am *blink*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 15, 2015, 03:32:43 PM
Sunday morning is the only workshop I definitely want to do. (Needles.)
I'm a bit sad the breath play workshop clashes with my chosen Midori workshop.
And that the negotiation one clashes with first aid.

I may have to flip coins to decide.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Mar 15, 2015, 03:38:13 PM
I would definitely say negotiation over first aid. It will stand you in better stead...plus you're more likely to be the recipient of first aid than the provider! ;D

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Mar 15, 2015, 04:14:34 PM
I would definitely say negotiation over first aid. It will stand you in better stead...plus you're more likely to be the recipient of first aid than the provider! ;D

kitty

Good sensible advice that!  its always the way tho. clashes and then Sunday has nothing for me. guess I will just have to sleep in.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 15, 2015, 04:41:46 PM
I would definitely say negotiation over first aid. It will stand you in better stead...plus you're more likely to be the recipient of first aid than the provider! ;D

kitty

Good sensible advice that!  its always the way tho. clashes and then Sunday has nothing for me. guess I will just have to sleep in.

Negotiation it is then.  :)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Mar 15, 2015, 05:23:23 PM
I didn't even know this conference was a thing until you guys started talking about it, but I SO wish I was going! One day...
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 15, 2015, 05:36:41 PM
I didn't even know this conference was a thing until you guys started talking about it, but I SO wish I was going! One day...
:)
There are others, Manc isn't on this year but there is 'Wish' camp in Sweden.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Mar 15, 2015, 05:47:43 PM
I didn't even know this conference was a thing until you guys started talking about it, but I SO wish I was going! One day...
:)
There are others, Manc isn't on this year but there is 'Wish' camp in Sweden.

Travel to anywhere outside the UK was beyond my budget this year anyway... medieval re-enactment pretty much takes up my travel budget :D

My wife used to go to kink events (not so much conferences) on and off before we met, but so far I haven't been able to persuade her to take me to one ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Mar 15, 2015, 05:57:06 PM
medieval re-enactment...you would have so been in your element this year. 
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Mar 15, 2015, 06:02:10 PM
I know!!!

Mind you, my semi-authentic garb isn't exactly kink-friendly ;)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Mar 15, 2015, 06:19:12 PM
I know!!!

Mind you, my semi-authentic garb isn't exactly kink-friendly ;)

don't be so sure!  there will be folk attempting medieval dresses, court jesters, executioners and the like.  I shall be skipping that bit.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Mar 15, 2015, 06:35:28 PM
(https://scontent-lhr.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-xpa1/v/t1.0-9/154391_10150093518484002_3708365_n.jpg?oh=9855c98c2401dd5539b2c73a81644146&oe=558A2FF5)

Not what I'd usually go for in a kink setting ;)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 15, 2015, 06:41:33 PM
I guess one could wear a corset underneath?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Mar 15, 2015, 06:43:25 PM
It's from a pre-corset era. I do keep meaning to make some later period stuff so I can try out corsetry! I suspect that my patience, sewing machine and budget aren't up to it though :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Mar 15, 2015, 07:07:41 PM
You'd be surprised...some people are *really* perverted!

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Mar 15, 2015, 07:22:12 PM
 ;D Well, if they like 14th century linen cotehardies, I'm their girl :P
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Groke on Mar 15, 2015, 07:25:22 PM
OMG! Are you into those too?
*faints with desire*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Mar 15, 2015, 07:32:34 PM
OMG! Are you into those too?
*faints with desire*

 ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: nismat on Mar 15, 2015, 07:42:42 PM
^ heh heh!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Groke on Mar 15, 2015, 07:57:51 PM
OMG! Are you into those too?
*faints with desire*

 ;D

Buxom wenches.

That is all.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Mar 15, 2015, 08:05:43 PM
OMG! Are you into those too?
*faints with desire*

 ;D

Buxom wenches.

That is all.

This is indeed one of the attractions of medieval re-enactment...
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Mar 16, 2015, 08:51:46 AM
This time in 2 weeks I'll be on my way to Berlin for 9 days of unabashed hedonism. I may be coming home by air ambulance...

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 16, 2015, 10:17:17 AM
9 days! impressive. I thought I was being a pig with 7.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Mar 16, 2015, 10:20:08 AM
I am a very greedy bitch :)

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 16, 2015, 10:26:32 AM
Here's to having the energy to revel in it!  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Mar 16, 2015, 10:34:58 AM
Yeah...I have a full nap schedule planned :)

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 16, 2015, 11:14:29 AM
17 sleeps.  :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Mar 16, 2015, 06:16:22 PM

I said I wasn't going to look... Anyway... Almost two weeks to go and I have nap schedules, extra time for recovery built in, cut myself out of some evenings altogether to make it through the days. Keeping fingers crossed that it works!!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Blythe on Mar 16, 2015, 07:33:20 PM
This time in 2 weeks I'll be on my way to Berlin for 9 days of unabashed hedonism. I may be coming home by air ambulance...

kitty
Knock yourself out.
*literally*

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Mar 16, 2015, 08:18:34 PM
This time in 2 weeks I'll be on my way to Berlin for 9 days of unabashed hedonism. I may be coming home by air ambulance...

kitty
Knock yourself out.
*literally*



Ooooh, I am getting an image of FK slipping on glitter lube whilst holding a big heavy knife between her teeth with both her fists "occupied" elsewhere...
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Mar 16, 2015, 08:24:07 PM
You have a very vivd imagination y'know...

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Mar 16, 2015, 08:50:09 PM
...glitter lube? :o

*crawls back under her rock*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Mar 16, 2015, 08:56:35 PM
Don't fret...there is no such thing as glitter lube, it's just a figment of her imagination.

Glitter enemas on the other hand...

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 16, 2015, 09:06:55 PM
...glitter lube? :o

*crawls back under her rock*

YES glitter lube *mwhahahahah*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 16, 2015, 09:08:28 PM

I said I wasn't going to look...

That's what I said a few months ago, been trying to climb out, up the glitter lube covered walls ever since.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Mar 16, 2015, 09:15:09 PM
I really need to get out more, if only to be able to tell what's real and what's not :P
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Mar 16, 2015, 09:23:17 PM
You really dont want to slip on a glitter enema.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 16, 2015, 09:36:08 PM
Ok, bored at work I (of course) googled 'glitter lube' .... yes it's a real thing. Apparently inspired by the movie 'Twilight' and has the tag line 'for the vampire in you'.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Mar 16, 2015, 09:36:50 PM
Safeword! Safeword!

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Mar 16, 2015, 09:37:24 PM
Ok, bored at work I (of course) googled 'glitter lube' .... yes it's a real thing. Apparently inspired by the movie 'Twilight' and has the tag line 'for the vampire in you'.

Oh dear god.

This reminded me of a glitter body gel / moisturiser that I had as a teenager. I can only be thankful that this was *before* Twilight and that I was safely grown up by the time that came out...
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 16, 2015, 09:40:32 PM
Sorry (and I do mean that!) I was conflicted between sharing the information and how awful it was.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: mint on Mar 16, 2015, 10:33:12 PM
Ha! Because vampires love glitter. That looks painful actually - it doesn't look very fine.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: nismat on Mar 16, 2015, 11:13:05 PM
Scratchy  :o
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: mugz on Mar 17, 2015, 12:52:27 AM
Wondering why no call then I remembered I changed my number dur
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Mar 17, 2015, 10:16:01 AM

I think I need a week long rest in a Spa after having been dragged kicking and screaming back into this den of... ok, no idea what adjective would properly convey the horror...

Is glitter covered lube really what keeps us trapped in this den of... ?

That is worst than pure evil. And she is bat shit bad-ass.


Question, if I cover myself in glitter for the conference and then hug and greet as many people as possible would I be considered the herpes of the conference? That is medieval in theme right? They had a LOT of STD's back then you know?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Grey on Mar 18, 2015, 12:49:25 AM
If you don't mind it here-I have a question
About medical play
Is sounding safe for a woman?
or is the urethra too short for that?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 19, 2015, 06:21:19 AM
Two weeks today I'll be at the airport.
All by myself - autonomy-tastic.  :D

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 19, 2015, 08:41:53 AM
If you don't mind it here-I have a question
About medical play
Is sounding safe for a woman?
or is the urethra too short for that?

grey here's a blog about sounding for women - scroll down to the second half - the first half is about sounding on cocks and has a lot of photos. http://bdsmforbeginners.blogspot.co.uk/2010/07/part-24-urethral-sounding.html?zx=c4c484c1f2e20704 (http://bdsmforbeginners.blogspot.co.uk/2010/07/part-24-urethral-sounding.html?zx=c4c484c1f2e20704)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 19, 2015, 08:43:40 AM
Two weeks today I'll be at the airport.
All by myself - autonomy-tastic.  :D

whoop for autonomy!  ;D

In two weeks I will already be there! currently trying not to think about packing and all as there's a busy time between then and now.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Mar 19, 2015, 10:30:55 AM
Today has been greatly improved by the postman delivering my new electric fly swatter. It ain't for flies...that would be cruel!

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 19, 2015, 06:05:07 PM
whoop for autonomy!  ;D

In two weeks I will already be there! currently trying not to think about packing and all as there's a busy time between then and now.

Big WHOOP.  :D

I wish I could go earlier and stay longer, but I'm lucky to have gotten any time off at all - it's quarter end. I will love my boss forever for letting me go.


Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Mar 19, 2015, 06:12:48 PM
Cannot wait to see what happens to glitter when.it is electrified!!


Instead of workshop preparation My energy only ran enough to do My language course, am hoping to manage homework after food.

My first time living in same city as the conference, lets see if what they kept complaining about is true!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Grey on Mar 19, 2015, 06:15:10 PM
If you don't mind it here-I have a question
About medical play
Is sounding safe for a woman?
or is the urethra too short for that?

grey here's a blog about sounding for women - scroll down to the second half - the first half is about sounding on cocks and has a lot of photos. http://bdsmforbeginners.blogspot.co.uk/2010/07/part-24-urethral-sounding.html?zx=c4c484c1f2e20704 (http://bdsmforbeginners.blogspot.co.uk/2010/07/part-24-urethral-sounding.html?zx=c4c484c1f2e20704)

Cool!! appreciated!
and thanks for the warning
that's appreciated too
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 19, 2015, 06:50:04 PM
whoop for autonomy!  ;D

In two weeks I will already be there! currently trying not to think about packing and all as there's a busy time between then and now.

Big WHOOP.  :D

I wish I could go earlier and stay longer, but I'm lucky to have gotten any time off at all - it's quarter end. I will love my boss forever for letting me go.

Is that something rude?  ;)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 19, 2015, 06:50:50 PM
If you don't mind it here-I have a question
About medical play
Is sounding safe for a woman?
or is the urethra too short for that?

grey here's a blog about sounding for women - scroll down to the second half - the first half is about sounding on cocks and has a lot of photos. http://bdsmforbeginners.blogspot.co.uk/2010/07/part-24-urethral-sounding.html?zx=c4c484c1f2e20704 (http://bdsmforbeginners.blogspot.co.uk/2010/07/part-24-urethral-sounding.html?zx=c4c484c1f2e20704)

Cool!! appreciated!
and thanks for the warning
that's appreciated too

Erm yes, well it's quite graphic.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 19, 2015, 06:59:54 PM
whoop for autonomy!  ;D

In two weeks I will already be there! currently trying not to think about packing and all as there's a busy time between then and now.

Big WHOOP.  :D

I wish I could go earlier and stay longer, but I'm lucky to have gotten any time off at all - it's quarter end. I will love my boss forever for letting me go.

Is that something rude?  ;)

Oh, it's hardcore.
No safewords in our office.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 19, 2015, 07:28:09 PM
^^^ staplers!!  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 19, 2015, 07:31:34 PM
And paper cuts.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 19, 2015, 07:33:11 PM
And paper cuts.

That's a very nice 'twisted fucker' badge you're wearing.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 19, 2015, 07:34:18 PM
And paper cuts.

That's a very nice 'twisted fucker' badge you're wearing.

Why, thank you. *bows
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Mar 19, 2015, 07:40:44 PM
That's one of Midori's tricks: papercuts between the toes and a liberal application of lemon juice. Probably whilst dressed as a clown.

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 19, 2015, 07:42:57 PM
That sounds evil.  :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Mar 19, 2015, 07:43:05 PM
That's one of Midori's tricks: papercuts between the toes and a liberal application of lemon juice. Probably whilst dressed as a clown.

kitty

Aieeeeeeeeee. Brb flinching forever.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Mar 19, 2015, 08:02:19 PM
That sounds evil.  :D

Would you like an introduction? ;D

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Mar 19, 2015, 08:05:26 PM
That's one of Midori's tricks: papercuts between the toes and a liberal application of lemon juice. Probably whilst dressed as a clown.

kitty


That sounds down right adorable! I heart romance.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Musette on Mar 19, 2015, 11:15:03 PM
It's the clown part that bothers me...
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Grey on Mar 20, 2015, 12:06:49 AM
 ;D ^^

I got a PM asking if I would be trying the sounding that's mentioned
and I realised  I have never mentioned being just a kink ally
Since the 80's working an AIDS clinic where we had to grassroots underground outreach to just find dams and info for women and the fights to be inclusive and still ongoing

fucking boring I know
but I didn't feel quite right to only mention to one person
an element of respecting the Dungeon space


Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 20, 2015, 05:29:08 AM
That sounds evil.  :D

Would you like an introduction? ;D

kitty

I'll be most disappointed if she's not dressed as a clown.



I woke up at two to feed the cat, checked Facebook and ended up buying a red latex pencil skirt online. Ooopsie.
http://www.williamwilde.com/collections/sample-sale
I blame the cat. And Facebook friend.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 20, 2015, 01:12:04 PM
;D ^^

I got a PM asking if I would be trying the sounding that's mentioned
and I realised  I have never mentioned being just a kink ally
Since the 80's working an AIDS clinic where we had to grassroots underground outreach to just find dams and info for women and the fights to be inclusive and still ongoing

fucking boring I know
but I didn't feel quite right to only mention to one person
an element of respecting the Dungeon space

Good to hear you do the research! You may be interested in this http://www.writetheremedy.com/call-for-contributions/ call for contributions to a publication on queer and trans voices on healthcare. IMO finding healthcare that is inclusive and nonjudgmental can be difficult especially if there are a number of so called 'atypical' or 'at risk' intersections.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Grey on Mar 20, 2015, 02:50:30 PM
Cool link!
Thanks!
non-judgmental healthcare
imagine
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 20, 2015, 02:56:02 PM
Cool link!
Thanks!
non-judgmental healthcare
imagine

Yes imagine!! Sending them a submission about battling for healthcare here, such a shit fight. I know I have some advantages, so god help those who deal with an even greater level of structural inequality.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Mar 20, 2015, 08:19:59 PM
It is NOT that I haven't done research, I have, honest. Looking for good descriptions of consensual non consent play, as well as head fucks, but even though I think I have covered the usual suspects online nothing has struck me as very well defined, or even an attempt to define it better. If anyone knows of interesting sources I could access online about these subjects, be it blogs or forums that have actual information, I would appreciate names or links. Thanks in advance.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 21, 2015, 12:57:40 PM
12. Approaching single digit number of sleeps.

I hope my new skirt gets here before I go away.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Mar 25, 2015, 11:10:33 PM
The ad at the top of the page is for the UK's biggest furry forums.

It's probably at the top of yours now too :)

Don't thank me.

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Mar 25, 2015, 11:37:40 PM
I have exclusively eve, accessories for women, exclusive collection. No furries where are the furries??
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 25, 2015, 11:40:04 PM
I get the same as Arig and something about lesbian bed death  >:( bring on the furries!!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Musette on Mar 26, 2015, 12:52:18 AM
Elf calls her pets the Furries. It makes me twitch slightly...
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 26, 2015, 04:27:08 PM
According to the Royal Mail tracking, my skirt was delivered.
Which is a bit annoying as I'm not home until tomorrow now.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 26, 2015, 11:04:07 PM
Last night thinking about how the hell to get all my shoes packed I decided I need 'The Luggage' (Terry Pratchett). A huge case that walks by itself and shows sadistic tendencies - perfect for conference.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 27, 2015, 06:00:09 AM
Does it pack itself too?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 27, 2015, 09:10:37 AM
Does it pack itself too?

Hmmm, that's the catch. It's probably more likely to gulp down your clothes and then refuse to give them back or to bite you when you try to look inside. http://www.farshiftnovel.com/luggage/the-luggage.jpg (http://www.farshiftnovel.com/luggage/the-luggage.jpg)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 27, 2015, 09:40:34 AM
Darn it.
There is always a catch, isn't it.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 27, 2015, 02:54:29 PM
I suppose there's also the risk it might start wearing all of the pairs of shoes at once.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 27, 2015, 03:34:07 PM
What a greedy fucker of a valise!

My skirt came.
And it doesn't have a zip. *squeeeeeeewze*

Walking up stairs in it is hilarious. I hope the venue has step free access.  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Mar 27, 2015, 04:00:44 PM


NOPE!  ;D

MASSIVE staircase in the MIDDLE of big room everyone comes into, many many sofas to sit and admire people struggling up the stairs in tight clothes and high heels. You shall be the belle of the ball...
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 27, 2015, 04:12:41 PM
Oh.

Note to self: practise stairs.

I'm so relieved I finally found some medieval latex.
Phew.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Mar 27, 2015, 04:12:51 PM
We'll find someone(s) to carry you, millicent, no worries...

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Mar 27, 2015, 04:14:50 PM
Medieval latex...guffaw. That deserves a fetish...

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 27, 2015, 04:18:07 PM
Hehehe.

In other news: I have to go food shopping,but I'm too busy looking at shiny things.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Mar 27, 2015, 04:18:39 PM
You were going food shopping aaaaages ago...

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 27, 2015, 04:28:46 PM
I know. SQUIRRELS. Dressed in latex.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 27, 2015, 04:47:10 PM
I like greedy fuckers.

There is a lift in the building (when I asked about disabled access, they told me I could call some one who would have a key if I needed to use the lift  ::) ) but also appparently it's a longish walk to the lift and then back to the central space once on the next level.

Latex covered squirrels are wrong in so.many.ways.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 27, 2015, 06:07:33 PM
^^^ I'm sure if you ask Fetishkitty nicely, she'll make someone carry you too.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 28, 2015, 12:33:01 AM
^^^ I'm sure if you ask Fetishkitty nicely, she'll make someone carry you too.

A teeny tiny team of latex clad squrrels?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 28, 2015, 12:34:28 AM
Oh good lord, waiting for the come down.... there is gonna be an almighty CRASH probs in about 15 minutes. Blah.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 28, 2015, 07:46:58 AM
^^^ I'm sure if you ask Fetishkitty nicely, she'll make someone carry you too.

A teeny tiny team of latex clad squrrels?

YES. I picture her plying them with pie like so: http://img1.wikia.nocookie.net/__cb20130202073902/disney/images/4/49/Baking_a_Pie.jpg


Hope you didn't crash.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 28, 2015, 08:30:33 AM
^^^ I'm sure if you ask Fetishkitty nicely, she'll make someone carry you too.

A teeny tiny team of latex clad squirrels?

YES. I picture her plying them with pie like so: http://img1.wikia.nocookie.net/__cb20130202073902/disney/images/4/49/Baking_a_Pie.jpg

Yes that's exactly her sweet face!

Hope you didn't crash.
The crash is harsh and ongoing, a timely re miner that top drop exists and can be a right fucker.... altho the pre-crash bit has perked up my interest in the parties at conference.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Mar 28, 2015, 08:37:50 AM
*ahem* Standing right here...

Ugh...top drop...I feel for you, PE. One thing I like about conference is the constant high. Although the comedown at the end is brutal!

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 28, 2015, 09:04:17 AM
*ahem* Standing right here...
Are you holding a pie?

Ugh...top drop...I feel for you, PE. One thing I like about conference is the constant high. Although the comedown at the end is brutal!

kitty

it's grim today.

I've had top drop before that felt like the crazier emotional side of PMS, I wonder if the chemistry is similar?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Mar 28, 2015, 09:39:41 AM
Hmmm...as far as I'm aware PMS is hormone related whilst top drop is more likely endorphine depletion due to dopamine. But yeah, the feelings can be similar.

And no, no pie...there will be brownies though...

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Dizz on Mar 28, 2015, 12:08:02 PM
Just popped in here to wish all of the conference goers a fab time.  8)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 28, 2015, 01:52:07 PM
^^^  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 28, 2015, 05:54:21 PM
Having packed about half (basically all the fun stuff), I've slowed right down.
Packing the none fun stuff is - well - no fun.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 29, 2015, 08:19:43 AM
FINISHED.

On a scale from 'one' to 'smug', I'm feeling 'smug'.

Now planning nice things to look forward to for after Easter, so I don't feel too horribly depressed when I come back.
Suggestions on a postcard, please.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on Mar 29, 2015, 08:55:06 AM
Ooooh.so I just scrolled back a few pages and see the conference you are going to. I am so jealous! *hiding my green eyes  8)*

My first conference experience (not in Berlin) wasn't exactly what I'd hoped it would be and I'm so eager to attend another to get a better experience this time but sadly it won't be at this one  :-\

I love ANY excuse to dress up for a themed event.

I hope you all have a fantastic time  :D

Quote
Now planning nice things to look forward to for after Easter, so I don't feel too horribly depressed when I come back.
Suggestions on a postcard, please.

I found meeting up in person with others who attended once I got back helped a tad  :-\

Well done in getting it all Finished
 ;D

KJ xoxo
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 29, 2015, 01:38:58 PM
The banner at the bottom of the page is trying to sell me a suitcase.  ::)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Mar 29, 2015, 01:39:51 PM
Hahaha!

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 29, 2015, 01:45:08 PM
^^^ shouldn't you be packing?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Mar 29, 2015, 01:48:06 PM
I'm being a cat bed and watching an episode of Law & Order which I've only seen 6 times before.

kitty

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 29, 2015, 02:02:07 PM
I'm being a cat bed and watching an episode of Law & Order which I've only seen 6 times before.

kitty

Uhuh, that does sound urgent, I can see how distracting it might be.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Mar 29, 2015, 03:48:49 PM
45kg. I think I might cry.

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 29, 2015, 03:58:41 PM
Oh noes. Don't cry.
How much were you aiming for?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 29, 2015, 04:00:24 PM

Well done in getting it all Finished
 ;D

KJ xoxo

Fanku  :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 29, 2015, 04:04:55 PM
Oh noes. Don't cry.
How much were you aiming for?

And who the fuck is carrying all that?

I've started making a packing list.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Mar 29, 2015, 04:20:30 PM
45kg. I think I might cry.

kitty

I am impressed you have that much you want to take. I'd suggest leaving L behind but I know its probably the shoes causing the problem. 😀
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Mar 29, 2015, 04:48:40 PM
More the floggers...some will not be coming on holiday after all. They are very sad.

Anyway, 40.1 now, and if my check-in agent last time is to be believed I'm allowed 40.9. So I can buy a single tail there :)

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Mar 29, 2015, 04:54:21 PM
Ahh and luggage loses weighton holiday too!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Mar 29, 2015, 05:19:46 PM
Well, mine will...

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Mar 30, 2015, 07:33:20 AM
I fly to Berlin today. I wish I felt more excited. Mainly I feel tired and grouchy.

There's some potential drama I'm fretting about. Along with some totally unrelated stress. Hopefully once it all kicks off on Thursday and I see all my lovely friends I'll be more in the mood.

Meh

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 30, 2015, 08:10:04 AM
I'm sure the excitement will kick in once you get there.

I hope the potential drama gets kicked in the ass.
And both shins.
And then pushed down the stairs.
Metaphorically speaking.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Mar 30, 2015, 08:30:44 AM
Or even literally. Mwahahahaha.

Ahem

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Guineapig on Mar 30, 2015, 08:44:15 AM
Bon voyage!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 30, 2015, 10:56:18 AM
FK, good travels!! Here's to drama fucking right off, the relaxation of a nice tranquil space and BREAKFAST.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: mint on Mar 30, 2015, 12:16:42 PM
I think with everything that's something to look forward to and requires a lot of organisation and travel, there also comes a certain kind of pressure. I'm not talking about Berlin for me, but I often find the direct run up to things the worst part. And that, combined with additional stress, must be a bit of a bummer. I can't comment on the additional stress and drama. But I often find that worries melt away once I arrive at wherever I'm heading. I hope you all have a great time and any worries or drama melt away once you get there. Have fun!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 30, 2015, 12:18:06 PM
Not too tranquil though, eh. Let's not go overboard on the 'tranquil'.  :D

I'd quite happily go on holiday today, but NO. It's all work, work, work until Wednesday.
 >:(

(I'm on lunch now.)

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 30, 2015, 12:45:18 PM
Millicent I'm (still) thinking of tranquil hotel rooms. I don't imagine there will be much on the way of 'tranquil' at conference itself.

Mint, thanks  ;D So looking forward to a whole week of pervert company.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 30, 2015, 06:20:36 PM
@ Pure Evil - Oh good. Just saying, like.  :D

@ Mint - thank you. And agreed. I usually stress until I'm at the airport. Once I'm at the airport, it's all good.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Mar 31, 2015, 06:27:12 PM
REALLY not enjoying this packing lark  :( I've thrown loads of shoes, toys, bling, fru-fru bits into a suitcase (which is full). Unfortunately I haven't yet unpacked the bag that has all my freshly laundered clothes in it. *sigh*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Mar 31, 2015, 07:35:45 PM
I've just re-packed, into two bags.
I know I could have taken the smaller bag as hand luggage if I'd been more disciplined at packing, but I didn't want to be disciplined.
Fuck it. I'm making the most of not travelling with the luggage police.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Mar 31, 2015, 07:36:38 PM
I didn't want to be disciplined.

Presented without comment.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Mar 31, 2015, 08:05:20 PM
^  ^    ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: M.I.A on Mar 31, 2015, 08:12:42 PM
It seems a lifetime ago... or altogether a different one.
Trying to be yourself is ..testing, when you dont have a clue anymore of who you are
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 01, 2015, 07:05:34 AM
The luggage of some people I know from Vienna got lost en route to Berlin.

Worst. Nightmare.

Oh, and DRD: my grumpiness has all gone. Funny that. Bring on the Conference.

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 01, 2015, 06:08:59 PM
^^^ Oh that sucks.
But surely the airline will manage to get it to them by Thursday?



I just finished work. So. Happy.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 01, 2015, 06:21:57 PM
Nope, they've been told 7 days. It will be sent back to Vienna if it is found!

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 01, 2015, 06:37:23 PM
SEVEN DAYS?  :o
Holy fuck.

What will they do?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 01, 2015, 07:02:38 PM
They went to H&M today for clothes :(

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 01, 2015, 09:02:28 PM
^^^Nightmare.  :(

In other news: I'm ready. All packed. Alarm set. Cat sitter instructions written.

Bring it on.  :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 01, 2015, 10:00:47 PM
Managed to double book myself for tomorrow nite - didn't realise there was a play party on so have made dinner plans with friends who aren't going to conference.  ::) Ah well.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 02, 2015, 03:03:52 PM
Well I'm in Berlin. And found a place that sells Mozartkugel ice cream. (Mix of marzipan, Nutella like chocolate and pistachio. With chocolate bits.) (drool)

If I find conference isn't for me after all I shall spend the rest if my weekend here and eat myself into a diabetic coma.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Apr 02, 2015, 03:14:20 PM
Mozartkugel ice cream. (Mix of marzipan, Nutella like chocolate and pistachio. With chocolate bits.)

I'm just going to sit here and cry.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 02, 2015, 03:21:28 PM
Don't cry. Think of it as one more reason so visit Berlin.  :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 02, 2015, 04:08:54 PM
Well I'm in Berlin. And found a place that sells Mozartkugel ice cream. (Mix of marzipan, Nutella like chocolate and pistachio. With chocolate bits.) (drool)

Phwoar!!!

Went as company with some one else who was whip shopping.... ended up buying a new whip. (surprise, surprise).

Rescheduled non-conference dinner.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 02, 2015, 04:30:53 PM
^^^ Are you dressing up for registration?

I was so excited, but I'm just tired now.
Work have been texting me too.  ::)
Lucky I like them.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 02, 2015, 05:17:10 PM
I woke up at 4 this morning. At 6 I gave up on the idea of more sleep and reorganised my day so I could have a nap this afternoon. Fat chance.

Berlin doesn't want me to sleep.

It's a good job Easyjet don't charge for eyebags. Badoom tish!

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 02, 2015, 10:48:09 PM
^^^ Are you dressing up for registration?


Yes, as a slightly unsteady pirate.

Lovely to meet you in person Millicent  :)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 03, 2015, 12:08:06 AM
^^^ Are you dressing up for registration?


Yes, as a slightly unsteady pirate.

Lovely to meet you in person Millicent  :)

Ditto.  :D


I think it's going to be an awesome weekend.


Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 03, 2015, 12:17:26 AM
Number 22 walked past me several times...game on, I reckon.

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: nismat on Apr 03, 2015, 02:56:50 AM
Have a fabulous time in Berlin all those of you at/going to conference  :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 03, 2015, 04:27:20 AM
^^^ Thank you.  :D

I'm chuffed I decided to go.

I managed a whole 2 and a half hours sleep.
Magic.  ::)

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on Apr 03, 2015, 02:16:20 PM
Have a fabulous time in Berlin all those of you at/going to conference  :D

THAT!

.I'm so green with envy right now I could give the hulk a right run for his money, if I didn't have an ankle the size of the Berlin TV tower that is  :'(

Fetishkitty- you approached number 22 yet?  ;D

KJ xoxo
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 03, 2015, 03:57:37 PM
number 20 came over introduced themself and shook my hand.  :P
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on Apr 03, 2015, 04:24:48 PM
Ooooohhh!' ;D :D

Erm.. Are you number 22 by any chance? Lol
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 03, 2015, 05:59:00 PM
I'm having a really nice time.
It's just so lovely to see so many happy smiling people.

I really hope I get some sleep tonight though. I may attempt an early night.
(Hmm.)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 03, 2015, 06:18:24 PM
Millicent, napping is the way forward.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on Apr 03, 2015, 06:22:31 PM
I am not moving from this thread....  ;D

grabbing the popcorn
KJ xoxo
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 03, 2015, 06:45:41 PM
^lol

@Pure Evil: I went for a snooze just after 5.
I was in bed with my eyes closed and everything.

I'm not sure I was actually asleep.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 03, 2015, 11:51:37 PM
That terrible moment in the femdom group play when none of the other dommes immediately turn up to the 'service' area and you are left with seven subs staring at you and waiting to be told what to do. Oh how I suffered :P

Loved every fucking minute of it.  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 04, 2015, 12:15:55 AM
You poor poor thing. My heart bleeds!

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 04, 2015, 07:12:41 AM
'Pure Evil and the seven subs'  :D

I'm learning so much about myself - like, apparently I can only do 2.5 hour bursts of sleep when I'm in Berlin.
But at least I had more than one last night.
Also, I'm only doing one workshop today and hopefully some planning.
I'll be fresh as a daisy tonight.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 04, 2015, 08:08:22 AM
^^^ OMG I should have given them names!

Are you fresh as a daisy? I'm going to do the full day of workshops today but definitely taking the night off tonight.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 04, 2015, 08:09:06 AM
You poor poor thing. My heart bleeds!

kitty

I shall look forward to the group hug  :P
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 04, 2015, 08:13:48 AM
^^^ OMG I should have given them names!

Are you fresh as a daisy? I'm going to do the full day of workshops today but definitely taking the night off tonight.

You missed a trick by not naming them.

I'm not exactly fresh as a daisy. But I don't feel like death either.
So, probably as fresh as a bunch of flowers in a petrol station at about 4 pm on a Thursday.

Approximately.

I'm not taking the evening off.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 04, 2015, 08:15:47 AM
I actually think I might take a change of clothes for the dancing.
Corsets aren't great for dancing in, are they.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 04, 2015, 08:23:02 AM
^^^ OMG I should have given them names!

Are you fresh as a daisy? I'm going to do the full day of workshops today but definitely taking the night off tonight.

probably as fresh as a bunch of flowers in a petrol station at about 4 pm on a Thursday.


I know that feeling.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 04, 2015, 08:24:13 AM
I actually think I might take a change of clothes for the dancing.
Corsets aren't great for dancing in, are they.

The jury is still out on this as we manage to do a great many athletic things in them just fine.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 04, 2015, 12:02:02 PM
I think no. 22 might love herself a bit too much. Either that or she's just German. Ahem.

Aaaaaanyway. I am determined not to be dateless again tonight. Although Midori's 'Good Clown/Bad Clown' scene story made up for my sorry state.

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 04, 2015, 04:59:35 PM
FK, that was number 14 kicking your chair.

Think I may be over extending myself by saying 'yes' too much.... ::) oh well.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 04, 2015, 05:31:52 PM
But was she doing it in purpose...cos that would be very interesting. VERY INTERESTING INDEED! Ahem

Sorry

And now it feels like no. 22 is semi stalking me. She came and read the noticeboard next to me for a very long time. But, if she isn't brave enough to say hello she isn't going to be much use to me, is she? Hehehehe

OK...I think I'm feeling it again after this morning's little drama fest ::)

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 04, 2015, 06:03:48 PM
Number 14 seems pleasantly self possessed, we did the mutual smiling thing several times the first night, then they came over and said hello.

*edit* Have no idea if they even bottom, but they did at least pick up on the joke of me saying they were kicking your chair.

Semi-stalking and silent reading?.... uh, too much like hard work for me!!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 04, 2015, 06:16:52 PM
I'm ready.
I can't believe the doors are shut until 8.
Pah.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 04, 2015, 06:24:39 PM
Number 14 is delicious...and switches :-)

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 04, 2015, 06:28:42 PM
Number 14 is delicious...and switches :-)

kitty

:D They're actually number 20 but my brain is muzzy.


@ Millicent - have fun with the dress-ups I'm having a quiet dinner with poly family, then exploring my fetish for early nights and duvets.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 04, 2015, 06:29:56 PM
Mixing up the numbers is likely to cause issues!

Anyway, I know their name...mwahahahaha. Ahem.

Have a nice relaxed evening, PE. Watch out for those duvets though...they can be addictive.

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 04, 2015, 06:32:47 PM
Enjoy your quiet evening, Pure Evil.

I hope mine won't be. *ahem

In other news, I'm getting there early tomorrow and will camp out I front of the needle play room.
There is no way I'll repeat what happened with the breathplay one.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 04, 2015, 06:40:32 PM
Oh - and with the duvets - remember today's advice.
Start slowly and then build up.

Safety first.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 04, 2015, 09:15:42 PM
In other news, I'm getting there early tomorrow and will camp out I front of the needle play room.
There is no way I'll repeat what happened with the breathplay one.

Heh! Having talked to a couple of people who went to the breathplay workshop it sounds like the impromptu breathplay skill share might have been more comprehensive.  :P

Goodluck!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 04, 2015, 09:19:28 PM
FK I shall enjoy number 20 vicariously.

About to succumb duvet thrall.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 05, 2015, 04:06:52 AM
In other news, I'm getting there early tomorrow and will camp out I front of the needle play room.
There is no way I'll repeat what happened with the breathplay one.

Heh! Having talked to a couple of people who went to the breathplay workshop it sounds like the impromptu breathplay skill share might have been more comprehensive.  :P

Goodluck!

The skill share was really good.

I was just so annoyed that the people who gave the workshop hadn't said the places were limited, changed rooms twice and then just closed the door. Pah.

Anyway, I'm off to attempt my second 2.5 hour sleep burst.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 05, 2015, 06:31:53 AM
I was good and went home alone. My reward was a whole 4 hours of sleep. Whoop di do.

Fuck being good.

I have some very interesting scenes developing. And one I have yet to instigate...but time seems to have speeded up.

kitty

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Apr 05, 2015, 07:43:57 AM
No. 14 or is it No. 20 agreed to be my houseboi. Result!  :D

By the end of the night tho, I was pretty sure she was just humouring me.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 05, 2015, 07:56:32 AM
I was just so annoyed that the people who gave the workshop hadn't said the places were limited, changed rooms twice and then just closed the door. Pah.


Yes, they deserve to be held under water at least for a little while. LOVED walking all the way to the other end of the building, managing to get a seat, then the trek back to where we started to and a closed door.  >:(

Hope the needle camp out goes well.... alternately I know the person doing the workshop, and could introduce you.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 05, 2015, 07:59:43 AM
No. 14 or is it No. 20 agreed to be my houseboi. Result!  :D

By the end of the night tho, I was pretty sure she was just humouring me.

 ;D heh!!

That's number 20. Number 14 keeps drifting past in some kind of 'punker/straight edge' look.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 05, 2015, 08:30:07 AM
I was just so annoyed that the people who gave the workshop hadn't said the places were limited, changed rooms twice and then just closed the door. Pah.


Yes, they deserve to be held under water at least for a little while. LOVED walking all the way to the other end of the building, managing to get a seat, then the trek back to where we started to and a closed door.  >:(

Hope the needle camp out goes well.... alternately I know the person doing the workshop, and could introduce you.

Ooooohh! Yes please @ introduction.

Some people were doing a scene with a water bucket yesterday evening and I watched for a bit.
I had never even thought of breathplay in that way before.
I am loving conference so far - it's been quite inspirational.

If that is the right word.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 05, 2015, 08:39:56 AM
I was playing next to the water bucket...it was so hot. I've done it both ways and it's amazing!

@MG...a houseboi?! Lucky you! Did you manage to clean the drink off your face last night? Hehehe

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Apr 05, 2015, 08:45:04 AM

@MG...a houseboi?! Lucky you! Did you manage to clean the drink off your face last night? Hehehe


Well, the houseboi was not going to. So yes, I did.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Apr 05, 2015, 08:48:38 AM


Some people were doing a scene with a water bucket yesterday evening and I watched for a bit.
I had never even thought of breathplay in that way before.
I am loving conference so far - it's been quite inspirational.

If that is the right word.

Sounds a good word Mills.  Glad you are enjoying yourself. I dont think I saw you last night so you must be having fun ;)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 05, 2015, 08:49:13 AM
You should have got them to lick it clean...although on second thoughts...

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 05, 2015, 03:00:51 PM
Funny thing happened on the way to my hotel room (not). Currently STUCK IN THE FUCKING ELEVATOR ON THE 6TH FLOOR.  :( :( :( Apologetic hotel person tells me the elevator repair person will be here in TWENTY MINUTES.

This is totally grim non-consensual claustrophobia and fear play.  :(

I've told the hotel I expect a refund but it's hard to be assertively uppity when stuck in a steel box.

I have a date tonight with a cute couple and all I wanted was to have a shower, relax for a while and then get ready.

20 minutes later.....*phew* and I'm out!!

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Goblin Flump on Apr 05, 2015, 03:41:11 PM
Hopefully you're out by now. horrible experience.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 05, 2015, 03:45:20 PM
Hopefully you're out by now. horrible experience.

yeah thank goodness 20 minutes really meant 20 minutes. URGH.... not a good intro to the hotel.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Goblin Flump on Apr 05, 2015, 04:20:47 PM
Hope you have a fantastic night from now on.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Sorted. on Apr 05, 2015, 05:44:45 PM
Can we do 'stuck in lift' puns in the dungeon?

Or is that taking it to a whole new level?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 05, 2015, 05:46:10 PM
@ Pure Evil: Oh no - I'm so sorry to hear you were stuck - how very awful.
I hope you still got plenty of time to chill out and rest.

@ Marzipan Gnome: I had fun, yes - the whole weekend has been great. The workshop, the parties, the just hanging out with and talking to so many other perverts.
It feels like a very safe space to explore things, maybe it's because I'm new and don't know the politics yet, but it's felt like the most egalitarian space I've ever been to.
Not a single person has asked me what I do for a living or how old I am. It's nice that people relate to you on a different kind of level.
It's been so helpful to articulate stuff I didn't really have words for before.

I'm probably not articulating well as my brain is a bit mushy.

I have some really fun (or mildly terrifying) plans for tomorrow.  ;D


Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: M.I.A on Apr 05, 2015, 06:08:13 PM
Does anyone have contact with descent societies in South africa, Please?
Everything is so underground here that its hard to trust sources u may come across..

Insanity feels like an invited guest to be welcomed soon
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 05, 2015, 06:41:46 PM
@ M.I.A. - a friend of mine gave a workshop in Capetown last year.
I'll ask her.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Blythe on Apr 05, 2015, 07:04:07 PM
Can we do 'stuck in lift' puns in the dungeon?

Or is that taking it to a whole new level?

Maybe pure evil is now too busy going down to care ....
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Apr 05, 2015, 07:09:12 PM
Can we do 'stuck in lift' puns in the dungeon?

Or is that taking it to a whole new level?

Maybe pure evil is now too busy going down to care ....

*snort*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on Apr 05, 2015, 08:11:22 PM
Can we do 'stuck in lift' puns in the dungeon?

Or is that taking it to a whole new level?

Maybe pure evil is now too busy going down to care ....

*snort*

See...you lot are mean, pushing PE's buttons like that.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Blythe on Apr 05, 2015, 09:01:50 PM
Can we do 'stuck in lift' puns in the dungeon?

Or is that taking it to a whole new level?

Maybe pure evil is now too busy going down to care ....

*snort*

See...you lot are mean, pushing PE's buttons like that.

It's good to see us elevating the post count down here in the dungeon.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Apr 05, 2015, 09:13:23 PM
Can we do 'stuck in lift' puns in the dungeon?

Or is that taking it to a whole new level?

Maybe pure evil is now too busy going down to care ....

*snort*

See...you lot are mean, pushing PE's buttons like that.

It's good to see us elevating the post count down here in the dungeon.

We'd better be careful if PE gets to the end of her rope...
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on Apr 05, 2015, 09:45:51 PM
Can we do 'stuck in lift' puns in the dungeon?

Or is that taking it to a whole new level?

Maybe pure evil is now too busy going down to care ....

*snort*

See...you lot are mean, pushing PE's buttons like that.

It's good to see us elevating the post count down here in the dungeon.

We'd better be careful if PE gets to the end of her rope...

^ :D

This maybe seen as Pulleying....
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 05, 2015, 10:05:39 PM
Can we do 'stuck in lift' puns in the dungeon?

Or is that taking it to a whole new level?

Maybe pure evil is now too busy going down to care ....

*snort*

See...you lot are mean, pushing PE's buttons like that.

It's good to see us elevating the post count down here in the dungeon.

We'd better be careful if PE gets to the end of her rope...

^ :D

This maybe seen as Pulleying....

suitably uplifted by my evening.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 05, 2015, 10:07:13 PM
*satisfied sigh*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 05, 2015, 10:08:56 PM
Hard core pun play.  :D

I had the best evening EVAH today.
Being a pervert rocks.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Apr 05, 2015, 10:18:04 PM
Hard core pun play.  :D

This is an actual thing in my house. My wife safewords out when I make puns ;)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on Apr 05, 2015, 10:32:09 PM
Hard core pun play.  :D

This is an actual thing in my house. My wife safewords out when I make puns ;)
:D
My Mrs isn't even kinky but she safewords whenever I cook a new dish  :-[...Anyway.....I digress!

Glad you're feeling good PE and you too millicent.

KJ xoxo
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 05, 2015, 10:41:33 PM
Hard core pun play.  :D

I had the best evening EVAH today.
Being a pervert rocks.

I'm laying in bed eating chocolate and wishing I had the strength to take my make up off.

Happy flashbacks of the evening keep occuring. So.fucking.delightful!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 05, 2015, 10:59:07 PM

I'm laying in bed eating chocolate and wishing I had the strength to take my make up off.

Happy flashbacks of the evening keep occuring. So.fucking.delightful!

All of that.  :D
But my make-up is off.

Plus I'm googling something someone has requested as a potential 'present'.
Ay CARAMBA.




Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 06, 2015, 12:50:01 AM
I got stood up!

But then I had a scene that made up for it.

Not impressed by t'other one though. (No number, we'll call them shitforbrains, shall we?)

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Apr 06, 2015, 04:53:42 AM
I didnt get stood up. Im quite sore in places.
Maybe I have shit for brains.   ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 06, 2015, 05:27:58 AM
I sure hope I don't get stood up tonight, my date speaks fluent masochist.
And I think there is quite a bit more to say.  ;D

I don't have shit for brains, I have endorphin mush.

@ Fetishkitty - maybe t'other got too scared?


Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 06, 2015, 06:37:42 AM
I got stood up!

But then I had a scene that made up for it.

Not impressed by t'other one though. (No number, we'll call them shitforbrains, shall we?)

kitty

ugh to stander uppers!!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 06, 2015, 06:39:28 AM
I didnt get stood up. Im quite sore in places.
Maybe I have shit for brains.   ;D

I have really sore shoulder muscles as I did lots of punching last night.  :D

Today I have a date in my hotel room.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 06, 2015, 08:01:27 AM
I'm fisting my valise (packing my suitcase) and somehow there is less stuff now.
I mean, I know I ditched the useless latex shine spray, but the rest seems to have shrunk.
How does that work, I wonder. Is it physics?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 06, 2015, 09:07:10 AM
I think the person who stood me up has a rather elastic concept of time. We shall see if they have the manners to apologise. Anyway, they missed their chance to get fucked up by me. Their loss.

Mostly my DRD is....MY FEET HURT. I don't think they will ever forgive me. :)

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 06, 2015, 10:50:55 AM
Yes My feet hurt. Just slept for ages. My date is in 2hours time and I feel VERY blurry around the edges.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 06, 2015, 03:55:43 PM
I think a corsellette is the fetish equivalent of sweatpants.
Almost too comfortable.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 06, 2015, 11:32:57 PM
omg that was a marathon date. not complaining.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 06, 2015, 11:40:58 PM
I'm going home in a few hours.
Which is probably a good thing.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Blythe on Apr 06, 2015, 11:50:10 PM
Well I'm glad to hear you've all had a good time.

Marathon running doesn't sound very dungeony though ...

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 06, 2015, 11:57:31 PM
I'm going home in a few hours.
Which is probably a good thing.

apparently it might not be realistic or healthy to keep trying to do this every single day for the rest of the year.  >:(

*sulks*

my friend just sent a message saying our date was 'amazorriefying'.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 07, 2015, 12:16:36 AM
I'm going home in a few hours.
Which is probably a good thing.

apparently it might not be realistic or healthy to keep trying to do this every single day for the rest of the year.  >:(

Do you think?

Lol @ 'amazorrifying'

Last Thursday feels about 100 years ago.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 07, 2015, 03:11:06 AM
^^^
Good travelling millicent. You twisted fucker.  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Apr 07, 2015, 08:34:14 AM
Ahh Millicent. Ditto what the Evil one said.  :D


My drd. Searching high n low for an item of clothing and becoming a bit annoyed at not finding it, then I remembered it had an accident with a knife. 
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 07, 2015, 08:45:38 AM
Hahaha @ twisted fucker. Too right.  8)

I got to the airport in good time but got so engrossed in something that I nearly forgot to get on the plane. Luckily my phone reminded me and I could still run to the gate.
I always wondered what kind of person gets to the airport, checks in and then forgets they were getting on a plane. Now I know.

Alarmingly I also had the best night's sleep I've had for f*cking ages.
Maybe I discovered a new acupuncture spot by fluke?

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 07, 2015, 09:11:30 AM
@marzipan gnome - heh! I can just imagine you doing the hunting and getting annoyed bit.  :P will you be flagging a small sliver of clothing next time I see you?

@millicent - the airport thing sounds like something I could do, two hours early and then caught up in a book or intense though process. I will have to watch it tomorrow. ARGH to the accupuncture point. I once slept for ten hours after a hook pull - such deep sleep is almost unheard of in my world.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 07, 2015, 07:51:38 PM
I re-entered normal life by eating ice cream. Vanilla, obviously.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 08, 2015, 07:41:00 AM
Packing...but not the fun kind. Meh.

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 08, 2015, 07:42:00 AM
FK, what was the 'dog fight' party like?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 08, 2015, 08:03:51 AM
Good and bad...I got my times mixed up and ended up going from PJs to out of the house in 12 minutes (it's a good job I'm not butch, I'd have had no chance!). Luckily they ran on Berlin time, so I got there just in time to see the films. I thought they were awesome. Really hot, well shot, well edited, good music. Excellent. And usually porn leaves me pretty cold.

The venue was horrible: hot, smokey everywhere, badly laid out so if one person stopped to have a chat 20 people had to wait to get past. Oh, and the walk from the Ubahn was lined with dodgy as fuck drug dealers. Lovely.

I spoke to a couple of people and was then escorted part way home by the lovely Marzipan Gnome...who I felt could probably pick up a drug dealer and throw him if required :)

Glad I went though, just for the films.

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 08, 2015, 08:08:52 AM
Will look out for the films elsewhere, the venue sounds like my version of hell. Glad you had the Marzipan Gnome bodyguarding  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Apr 08, 2015, 08:40:19 AM

I spoke to a couple of people and was then escorted part way home by the lovely Marzipan Gnome...who I felt could probably pick up a drug dealer and throw him if required :)

Glad I went though, just for the films.

kitty

You are too kind.

And now strength is turning against me. A conversation last night went something like....

"oh, I did not realise you are so small"
"Well yes, I just use it to my advantage, it means I am easy to pick up and carry"
"Oh, I think I could pick you up but I could not fight you. I hear you are so strong"

I cannot win anyway I try! I know I dont want to but thats not the point here.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Apr 08, 2015, 10:40:36 PM
drd - I keep seeing the word 'nightshift' on this forum front page and cannot help but think its a thread about the film short.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 09, 2015, 05:56:22 AM
^^^ I wish I'd seen the film. Is it available to watch anywhere else?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Apr 09, 2015, 03:02:48 PM
Not sure if they will get shown anytime in London Mills.  Will let you know if hear owt.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 09, 2015, 03:35:06 PM
Threw floggers into my hand luggage on the trip home. They came up as a mystery item in the security xray, so security person hunted through my bag. Once she found out what it was she ceased to care. I guess they see a lot of this around Easter.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 09, 2015, 10:27:37 PM
I very much love that the Dungeon on here isn't dead any more.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Apr 09, 2015, 10:47:08 PM
I very much love that the Dungeon on here isn't dead any more.

Agreed!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 10, 2015, 09:18:34 PM
I still haven't unpacked.

I'm going away again beginning of May, there almost seems no point, right?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Apr 10, 2015, 09:30:29 PM
I still haven't unpacked.

I'm going away again beginning of May, there almost seems no point, right?

is your date into musk?   ;)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 10, 2015, 09:35:49 PM
I still haven't unpacked.

I'm going away again beginning of May, there almost seems no point, right?

is your date into musk?   ;)

Funny.

I'll unpack tomorrow.
Probably.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 10, 2015, 09:53:15 PM
I'm amazed that I've managed to unpack, it's entirely out of character.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 10, 2015, 10:17:35 PM
On the plus side I've been fairly productive at work, booked two lots of flights (Amsterdam and Berlin) and chatted to lots of people online.
That has to count for something, right?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 11, 2015, 08:44:48 AM
Slightly creepy friend request from some one in interacted with 'filters up' during a big group thing, but obvs they were very open to impression. Note to self, this is a definite downside of that kind of 'open' format.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 11, 2015, 09:09:22 AM
I hear ya! Last year I ended up with an annoying little stalker after the intro session. They even demanded my email address at the end of Conference...I wonder how many bouncebacks they got before they realised...

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Apr 11, 2015, 09:15:08 AM
^ ^ ^

I knew there had to be some benefits to being slightly anti social/introverted.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 11, 2015, 09:26:25 AM
^ ^ ^

I knew there had to be some benefits to being slightly anti social/introverted.

I AM Introverted!!

FK, it was more that an intro but something feels off key and I've learned to listen to that feeling.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Apr 11, 2015, 09:45:15 AM
^ ^ ^

I knew there had to be some benefits to being slightly anti social/introverted.

I AM Introverted!!


  :-*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 11, 2015, 01:29:17 PM
I have officially unpacked.

Go me! I'm totally a fully functioning adult.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Apr 11, 2015, 03:16:03 PM
I have officially unpacked.

Go me! I'm totally a fully functioning masochistic slut.

Yeh we know.   ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 11, 2015, 05:25:48 PM
I have officially unpacked.

Go me! I'm totally a fully functioning masochistic slut.

Yeh we know.   ;D

Hahaha.

I just laughed out loud and scared the cat.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 11, 2015, 05:28:36 PM
I have officially unpacked.

Go me! I'm totally a fully functioning masochistic slut.

Yeh we know.   ;D

Hahaha.

I just laughed out loud and scared the cat.

 ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Riff-R@ff on Apr 12, 2015, 08:14:06 AM
(http://)

I passed this sign the other day and thought 'that's very open-minded'.
But I had read it as, "Get Wise, Get Fisted."
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 12, 2015, 02:15:25 PM
A certain social media site is suggesting I join the group 'Surrey Swingers'. Is this a 'friends in common' thing or is it algorithmic weirdness?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Apr 12, 2015, 05:03:23 PM
A certain social media site is suggesting I join the group 'Surrey Swingers'. Is this a 'friends in common' thing or is it algorithmic weirdness?

Oh no, I most definitely are not to blame for that one!!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on Apr 13, 2015, 07:59:45 AM
Its always nice to receive support..... :) :-*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Apr 13, 2015, 03:45:41 PM

I wasn't aware of being a part of ANY of the small drama vortexes around the conference... Could one be part of a drama vortex and be unaware? If that is the case, should I wait to see if anyone sends a card to warn me: "You were in the Drama Vortex!!" Or should I actively inquire as to my possible unknown participation in dramas? I could post on the lost and found: Wanted, any information relating to my alleged participation in any conference drama.


If I truly was part of no drama, was I at the conference? Do I exist?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 13, 2015, 06:31:53 PM
I think I had a drama free time because I didn't know anyone that well.
Clearly that's the way forward.
I'm planning to have my memory wiped before the next event.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 13, 2015, 06:52:18 PM
Yeah, last year was drama-free for me cos I didn't really know anyone.

Does this mean it will just get worse? *sob*

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 13, 2015, 07:45:42 PM
It's ok. We'll wipe your memory too.
*dangles watch
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 13, 2015, 07:51:19 PM
Phew! It does get a tad incestuous...*ahem*

My DRD is that New Zealand is a long way away, but Whatsapp still works. Intermittently. ;)

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 13, 2015, 08:14:17 PM
Phew! It does get a tad incestuous...*ahem*

Do you think?
I hadn't noticed.


Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 13, 2015, 08:22:07 PM
Hahahaha! Liar...

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 13, 2015, 08:55:23 PM
Phew! It does get a tad incestuous...*ahem*

Do you think?
I hadn't noticed.

That brain wipe is bloody effective!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 13, 2015, 09:16:48 PM
I'm practically a goldfish.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 13, 2015, 09:26:33 PM
I'm practically a goldfish.

'Oh, were we talking? I was watching videos of cats' ;D

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 13, 2015, 09:29:41 PM
I'm practically a goldfish.

'Oh, were we talking? I was watching videos of cats' ;D

kitty

Ha!  :D

They were really good videos.  :-[
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Apr 14, 2015, 11:32:05 AM
Drama avoidance can only work with memory wipe/goldfish memory, or the other way altogether, knowing enough people that you know whom to avoid. Whom? Who? For grammar drama avoidance maybe "what to avoid".
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Apr 14, 2015, 11:33:49 AM
During conference week My cat suffered from luck of attention, bring on the lonely pussy puns.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 14, 2015, 06:03:06 PM
My day has got lots better.

Hehehehehe.
Hehehehehehe.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Apr 15, 2015, 08:05:16 PM
I have a weird. As in I feel weird. It is not bad or good, just weird. Not sure if it is part of recuperating from post conference blues. Or recuperating form how exhausting conference time was overall and it is now catching up to me. But hey, at least I went to the doctors office yesterday and trying to explain about having ptsd and sleeping problems and exhaustion I kept being interrupted by the dr to be asked important things like: "why are you here then?" (meaning why am I living here), "if you have ptsd and get so tired why don't you stop doing what you are doing?", "why don't you go home" and last but not least: "why can you not speak my language if you live here"

Answer to the others escaped me, but the last one is easy, I don't speak your language because I don't have to, it seems it is easy enough to be insulted by a dr in English, why give you the home advantage and allow you to do it in your language on top of it??
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 15, 2015, 08:19:51 PM
^^^extreme unlike!!  >:( :(

I have another question. Why are so many GP's capable of being so deeply unpleasant and ignorant?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Apr 15, 2015, 08:32:34 PM

As soon as I told her my diagnosis, I have ptsd, the woman made hum hum sounds like she knows all about it, but then cut me off as I explained further why I was there to ask when was I diagnosed, what had I "done" etc etc. This not being a psychotherapist or psychiatrist I was not there for any ptsd related help, so it got quite pointless explaing it all... And I am not sure she was listening.

Many GP's are deeply unpleasant BECAUSE they are ignorant, and they have the power.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 15, 2015, 08:36:31 PM
That sounds rubbish.  :(

Can you change GPs? I don't actually know how it works in Germany now.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Apr 15, 2015, 08:40:37 PM


I can change, I just have to find one that isn't xenophobic, ignorant of mental health issues and respectful. It's too much to ask from a GP here.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 15, 2015, 08:43:11 PM
:(

I feel like I should apologise on behalf of my country.
There must be others? Maybe ask around some friends if they have a good one?

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Apr 15, 2015, 08:51:08 PM


 ;D No need to apologise on behalf of your country. Just knowing there is acupuncture "out there" is enough consolation.


Have had some "interesting" issues with GPs here, but half have been also extra marvellous, so it's like they have to balance each other out...
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 15, 2015, 08:54:11 PM

 ;D No need to apologise on behalf of your country. Just knowing there is acupuncture "out there" is enough consolation.


Hehehe.

Maybe you should do a workshop on that next year.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 15, 2015, 09:04:56 PM
My GP is pleasingly obedient. I generally go to see her with a specific request for a specific drug at a specific dosage...and she complies. She did once ring me up with some rather intimate test results whilst I was on a date...but otherwise she's golden.

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Apr 15, 2015, 09:08:12 PM


Is she your GP or your "prescription manager" (aka dealer)?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Apr 15, 2015, 09:09:16 PM

 ;D No need to apologise on behalf of your country. Just knowing there is acupuncture "out there" is enough consolation.


Hehehe.

Maybe you should do a workshop on that next year.

No, but I will ask "someone" to do it!!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 15, 2015, 09:14:07 PM

 ;D No need to apologise on behalf of your country. Just knowing there is acupuncture "out there" is enough consolation.


Hehehe.

Maybe you should do a workshop on that next year.

No, but I will ask "someone" to do it!!

I'm sure 'someone' wouldn't need asking twice.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 16, 2015, 01:25:22 PM
Browsing candy on that other site.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 17, 2015, 05:46:11 AM
I'm looking at flats for July and I found a place that is called 'DRAMA DREAM'.
Is this the equivalent of calling a restaurant 'FOOD POISONING'?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 17, 2015, 08:34:51 AM
Maybe steer clear...just in case! Lol

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 17, 2015, 09:05:26 AM
It's a shame - lovely area, enough bedrooms, wireless internet, the curtains look decent and the smoker could smoke.

But still. DRAMA DREAM (note the ALLCAPS too)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 17, 2015, 09:10:46 AM
Maybe it just means you dream about drama...

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 17, 2015, 09:45:02 AM
Maybe it just means you dream about drama...

kitty

My nights sleep summed up *twitch*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Apr 17, 2015, 11:28:54 AM
I think it would be fun, how many times can you go somewhere KNOWING you will be in the middle of a vortex drama?? Sounds FUN!!


RD: My throat hurts. I am not pleased at possibility of getting post conference cold or flu. I will be sending out death wishes to all who had a cold or flu during conference, even though it is so long I probably got it elsewhere. But I don't care.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 17, 2015, 05:55:17 PM
where are the clowns service submissives?
Quick, send in the clowns service submissives.
............
There ought to be clowns service submissives.



rather tired after a hard day at the office, saltmines, whatever.



Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 17, 2015, 07:27:46 PM
DRD 1: Arig, I think only butches have reported flu symptoms. All the femmes were talking about 'mild cold'. I think you'll be ok.

DRD 2: poor Pure Evil. I hope a bus full of service submissives breaks down outside your house and you manage to lure them.  :-*
If you have one spare, send them to do my hoovering. Now, I'm no dominant, but I fucking hate cleaning.

DRD 3: I had my first counselling session since conference and my therapist did really well. Bless her.

DRD 4: I really like whatsapp.

DRD 5: I must be mad.  :D

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Goblin Flump on Apr 17, 2015, 07:40:41 PM
The maintenence crew where I work were all talking about harnesses, ropes and submission paperwork. Bastards. All I could think about all afternoon was ropework.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 17, 2015, 07:43:18 PM
Dear millicent, hurrah for your therapist! One of the best I ever had was absolutely vanilla/heterosexual but %100 professional....managed to keep a straight face all of the time!

No sign of the bus as yet  >:(

I have a slight cold and dropped my laptop (edge wise) onto my big toe this morning! *sniffle* *limp*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 17, 2015, 08:07:47 PM
@ Pure Evil: You know what it's like with buses - none for ages and then three in a row.  ;)
Ouchy @ toe. That must have hurt.

@ Flump:  :D


Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Apr 17, 2015, 08:23:04 PM
One can only hope it STAYS a mild cold... My stupid lungs have"butch" tendencies, they exaggerateevery little cold into full blown infections or as near as...

Pure evil, if 3 buses filled with clown submissive servants stop in front of your house, please YouTube it. And sorry about your toe, see if one of those clown submissive servants is a pony and ride them around house and neighborhood until toe is better.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 17, 2015, 08:39:41 PM
DRD, I've made clown porn in the past. So I don't really want the several buses to be full of clown subs, I'm trying to forget all that for now.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 17, 2015, 09:16:38 PM
Oh.

* picks up phone
* cancels submissive clown buses



Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Apr 17, 2015, 11:22:10 PM
On the A3 there's a turn-off signposting Hurtmore and Shackleford. I can't help but feel that, if there were to be a queer kinky commune, that would be the place for it.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 18, 2015, 07:36:14 AM
11 hour time differences SUCK.

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on Apr 18, 2015, 08:18:01 AM
I have a slight cold and dropped my laptop (edge wise) onto my big toe this morning! *sniffle* *limp*
Ouchie!! PE , sorry bout ya toe. I am so clumsy I stub my little one all the time on door corners, book cases I feel your pain.

One can only hope it STAYS a mild cold... My stupid lungs have"butch" tendencies, they exaggerateevery little cold into full blown infections or as near as...

Pure evil, if 3 buses filled with clown submissive servants stop in front of your house, please YouTube it. And sorry about your toe, see if one of those clown submissive servants is a pony and ride them around house and neighborhood until toe is better.

Arig, its horrible having lung pain, my Mrs has to go for a chest xray this morning, think she has viral pneumonia, I thought she was being a typical butch but turns out its at best a chest infection, she's gutted as she has a run coming up soon. So I'm being extra nice, especially as she has to swallow these massive horse pills.

On the A3 there's a turn-off signposting Hurtmore and Shackleford. I can't help but feel that, if there were to be a queer kinky commune, that would be the place for it.
I used to fantasise about being in a queer commune, Amphelise, sadly I never found one.... Interested in the queer kinky one should anyone set one up though :D. What a great alternative to a retirement home  :D ;D


DRD1 ...Vampire kink party dream last night......mmmm didn't see that coming, was nice though.
DRD2 ...This bloody slimming coffee better work to curb my cravings....but maybe I'm eating because I'm not craving food

KJ xoxo
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 18, 2015, 09:58:48 AM
11 hour time differences SUCK.

kitty

On the other hand one hour ahead is totally convenient of you are an early riser anyway.  :)



My bruises are definitely fading now.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 18, 2015, 10:07:37 AM
Thanks KJ, omg today the cold is standing on me and laughing.  :-\
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 18, 2015, 10:10:31 AM
^^^next time I see you I will give you some Erkältungsbad.
You put it in the bath and it kicks the cold's arse.
I'll bring some next Saturday.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on Apr 18, 2015, 10:45:16 AM
^^^next time I see you I will give you some Erkältungsbad.
You put it in the bath and it kicks the cold's arse.
I'll bring some next Saturday.

I heard that stuff is really some serious cold kicker!   ;D

DRD - I was really looking forward to my new DM Geraldo sandals, but sadly they make me look like Herman Munster in drag  :'(  I must be the only femme who hates show shopping but loves shoes  :-\

KJ

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 18, 2015, 10:46:38 AM
^^^next time I see you I will give you some Erkältungsbad.
You put it in the bath and it kicks the cold's arse.
I'll bring some next Saturday.

Ah finally I understand
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 18, 2015, 10:48:01 AM
DRD - I was really looking forward to my new DM Geraldo sandals, but sadly they make me look like Herman Munster in drag  :'(  I must be the only femme who hates show shopping but loves shoes  :-\

KJ

I like shoe shopping with company - preferably some one who has a shoe fetish and pays for the shoes  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on Apr 18, 2015, 10:57:01 AM
DRD - I was really looking forward to my new DM Geraldo sandals, but sadly they make me look like Herman Munster in drag  :'(  I must be the only femme who hates show shopping but loves shoes  :-\

KJ

I like shoe shopping with company - preferably some one who has a shoe fetish and pays for the shoes  ;D

 :D I wish I was a "show stopper" LOL.... Glad you saw through my typo.

I can't ever shoe shop with anyone other than my mum and my yang, but that's because they are used to my frustrations, thankfully yang spoils me rotten and buys me shoes....I heart my butch  ;D. But I bet she is glad these are going back ...£110  :o. Bless her!

KJ xoxo
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 19, 2015, 11:40:19 AM
Oh, I do love the internet so very much.
FB and GB and FL and whatsapp.

I bet being a pervert was a lot harder before the internet.  :)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 19, 2015, 12:38:15 PM
^^^some of use still use hand written letters! (and the tecnology.)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 19, 2015, 01:00:28 PM
Wow. Watch out for paper cuts.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 19, 2015, 01:13:52 PM
Wow. Watch out for paper cuts.

millicent if you keep going on about paper cuts then eventually it will get back to certain people.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Apr 19, 2015, 03:30:00 PM
Wow. Watch out for paper cuts.

millicent if you keep going on about paper cuts then eventually it will get back to certain people.

 ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 19, 2015, 05:24:28 PM
So I see. 

That'll teach me be concerned about your health and well-being when handling paper.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 19, 2015, 05:37:57 PM
So I see. 

That'll teach me be concerned about your health and well-being when handling paper.

I just find it odd that you keep bringing up the idea of papercuts, am I wrong to ascribe meaning to that?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 19, 2015, 05:43:07 PM
Wherever there are papercuts there also needs to be lemon juice...

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 19, 2015, 05:44:19 PM
Wherever there are papercuts there also needs to be lemon juice...

kitty

The very definition of a thoughtful friend.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 19, 2015, 05:44:25 PM
Do I keep bringing them up?
Oh.

It's not a weird fetish of mine.

I don't think.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 19, 2015, 05:45:33 PM
^^^bet that's what you said about twisted accupuncture.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 19, 2015, 05:48:31 PM
Oh god. You're right.
My counsellor did warn me about things escalating.

IT'S HAPPENING RIGHT NOW ISN'T IT?

I feel strangely relaxed about it.
It's ok, Fetishkitty offered to re-home my cat if I accidentally get myself killed.  :)

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 19, 2015, 05:50:19 PM
(I'm joking. I case there is any doubt.)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Apr 19, 2015, 05:52:11 PM
^^ That made me think of this article, which I thought was good (if blindingly obvious to the likes of us):

http://qz.com/342268/why-doctors-need-to-pay-more-attention-to-their-kinky-patients/

A friend of my wife's ended up in A&E because of a kinky thing gone wrong and had quite a hard time convincing the medical professionals not to call in the police.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 19, 2015, 05:55:25 PM

It's ok, Fetishkitty offered to re-home my cat if I accidentally get myself killed.  :)



I'm pretty sure nobody ever died from papercuts. Although I have it on good authority that whenthey're done between the toes it feels like you are going to...

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Apr 19, 2015, 05:56:49 PM
I am sure they hurt more in the groin, especially with added lemon juice.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Apr 19, 2015, 05:57:33 PM
Ok, we need to research this, we need a volunteer to experience both!! <3
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 19, 2015, 06:04:42 PM
*tumbleweed*

I suspect you might have to volunteer someone, Arig.

;)

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: horse on Apr 19, 2015, 06:10:30 PM
I'm pretty sure nobody ever died from papercuts.

not just an idiom.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lingchi

the papercut thing just seems so wrong somehow,
I just feel that every action needs a point or a direction, and this doesn't seem to have one ?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 19, 2015, 06:12:13 PM

It's ok, Fetishkitty offered to re-home my cat if I accidentally get myself killed.  :)



I'm pretty sure nobody ever died from papercuts. Although I have it on good authority that whenthey're done between the toes it feels like you are going to...

kitty

Let's not talk about feet.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 19, 2015, 06:16:27 PM
*tumbleweed*

*avoids eye contact
This is a lot like being at work.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 19, 2015, 06:17:54 PM
^^ That made me think of this article, which I thought was good (if blindingly obvious to the likes of us):

http://qz.com/342268/why-doctors-need-to-pay-more-attention-to-their-kinky-patients/

A friend of my wife's ended up in A&E because of a kinky thing gone wrong and had quite a hard time convincing the medical professionals not to call in the police.

Good article Amphelise, I was googling yesterday to see which (if any) countries include BDSM people in their anti discrimination laws. I know there was a push in Sweden a while back to address this, but not sure how far it got. What had prompted me was (yet another) snipe about BDSM on the boards here and the irony that a group of people who are subject to discrimination, would in turn discriminate against another group.

I've had some really mixed reactions from healthcare people. From really excellent 'instant recognition' of D/s relationships (often by female nurses) to less pleasant and utterly weird collisions of homophobia/transphobia/kinkphobia ...bleurgh!

I hope to never have to call an ambulance or go to A&E with a kink related injury.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Apr 19, 2015, 06:43:02 PM
If no one volunteers I definitely will have to just cherry pick someone for it...


I also hope to never need A&E assistance from a bdsm encounter, or for any reason!


I wonder how ginger would improve the feeling of paper cuts...
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 19, 2015, 07:10:43 PM
Good article Amphelise, I was googling yesterday to see which (if any) countries include BDSM people in their anti discrimination laws. I know there was a push in Sweden a while back to address this, but not sure how far it got. What had prompted me was (yet another) snipe about BDSM on the boards here and the irony that a group of people who are subject to discrimination, would in turn discriminate against another group.

I wonder if you mean the same snipe I noticed.
I don't think it's surprising that groups that are discriminated against discriminate themselves. Discriminated groups are just as susceptible to Othering as the mainstream. Maybe even more so? 'We might be weird, but we are not as weird as those weird people over there.'

Quote
According to Michel Foucault, othering is strongly connected with power and knowledge. When we “other” another group, we point out their perceived weaknesses to make ourselves look stronger or better. It implies a hierarchy, and it serves to keep power where it already lies.
https://newnarratives.wordpress.com/issue-2-the-other/other-and-othering-2/

It still annoys me when it happens, but I think it is their issue and not mine.
I know there is nothing wrong or bad about what I'm into and I don't care if anyone thinks there is.
Some people will never, ever get it and I was not put on this planet to explain it to them. :)


Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 19, 2015, 07:11:25 PM
I wonder how ginger would improve the feeling of paper cuts...

LOL. So creative.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Apr 19, 2015, 07:14:07 PM
Good article Amphelise, I was googling yesterday to see which (if any) countries include BDSM people in their anti discrimination laws. I know there was a push in Sweden a while back to address this, but not sure how far it got. What had prompted me was (yet another) snipe about BDSM on the boards here and the irony that a group of people who are subject to discrimination, would in turn discriminate against another group.

I wonder if you mean the same snipe I noticed.
I don't think it's surprising that groups that are discriminated against discriminate themselves. Discriminated groups are just as susceptible to Othering as the mainstream. Maybe even more so? 'We might be weird, but we are not as weird as those weird people over there.'

Quote
According to Michel Foucault, othering is strongly connected with power and knowledge. When we “other” another group, we point out their perceived weaknesses to make ourselves look stronger or better. It implies a hierarchy, and it serves to keep power where it already lies.
https://newnarratives.wordpress.com/issue-2-the-other/other-and-othering-2/

It still annoys me when it happens, but I think it is their issue and not mine.
I know there is nothing wrong or bad about what I'm into and I don't care if anyone thinks there is.
Some people will never, ever get it and I was not put on this planet to explain it to them. :)

I suspect it's the one I noticed too, but it came from someone who seems to only turn up when there's an opportunity to other us, so I rolled my eyes and carried on.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 19, 2015, 07:40:48 PM
Good article Amphelise, I was googling yesterday to see which (if any) countries include BDSM people in their anti discrimination laws. I know there was a push in Sweden a while back to address this, but not sure how far it got. What had prompted me was (yet another) snipe about BDSM on the boards here and the irony that a group of people who are subject to discrimination, would in turn discriminate against another group.

I wonder if you mean the same snipe I noticed.
I don't think it's surprising that groups that are discriminated against discriminate themselves. Discriminated groups are just as susceptible to Othering as the mainstream. Maybe even more so? 'We might be weird, but we are not as weird as those weird people over there.'

Quote
According to Michel Foucault, othering is strongly connected with power and knowledge. When we “other” another group, we point out their perceived weaknesses to make ourselves look stronger or better. It implies a hierarchy, and it serves to keep power where it already lies.
https://newnarratives.wordpress.com/issue-2-the-other/other-and-othering-2/

It still annoys me when it happens, but I think it is their issue and not mine.
I know there is nothing wrong or bad about what I'm into and I don't care if anyone thinks there is.
Some people will never, ever get it and I was not put on this planet to explain it to them. :)

Is this what he calls 'will to power?' haven't read Foucault in ages.

Also known more recently as 'throwing under the bus.'

In terms of GB I see it more as a continuation of 'lesbian sex wars' (no prequels) and yeah i don't take it personally but I am ongoingly curious about group fragmentation as a social phenomena.

um.... also curious about the effect of chilli's.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on Apr 19, 2015, 07:52:45 PM
Good article Amphelise, I was googling yesterday to see which (if any) countries include BDSM people in their anti discrimination laws. I know there was a push in Sweden a while back to address this, but not sure how far it got. What had prompted me was (yet another) snipe about BDSM on the boards here and the irony that a group of people who are subject to discrimination, would in turn discriminate against another group.

I wonder if you mean the same snipe I noticed.
I don't think it's surprising that groups that are discriminated against discriminate themselves. Discriminated groups are just as susceptible to Othering as the mainstream. Maybe even more so? 'We might be weird, but we are not as weird as those weird people over there.'

Quote
According to Michel Foucault, othering is strongly connected with power and knowledge. When we “other” another group, we point out their perceived weaknesses to make ourselves look stronger or better. It implies a hierarchy, and it serves to keep power where it already lies.
https://newnarratives.wordpress.com/issue-2-the-other/other-and-othering-2/

It still annoys me when it happens, but I think it is their issue and not mine.
I know there is nothing wrong or bad about what I'm into and I don't care if anyone thinks there is.
Some people will never, ever get it and I was not put on this planet to explain it to them. :)

I get so annoyed when this happens, for example I didn't think LGBTQ community and Kink community would have race issues, misogynistic view points  and those who had negative constructs based on nothing more than a singular/isolated experience and fraternising with equally ignorant bedfellows ::)

I used to work for the ambulance service and we used to get some kink related injuries, many if which made us giggle, non of the serious injuries did of course but a few did beg the question, not out loud of course,.." What were you thinking putting that up there?   :o "  :D

*off to seek out Foucault*

KJ
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Goblin Flump on Apr 19, 2015, 08:07:33 PM
Foucault is a hard limit for me. Not a massive fan of his brand of postmodernism.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Apr 19, 2015, 08:18:47 PM
But maybe we are overthinking it. There is an obvious and very annoying easy little thing... Disinfectant spray.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on Apr 19, 2015, 08:24:17 PM
Foucault is a hard limit for me. Not a massive fan of his brand of postmodernism.

I like being introduced and re introduced to some theorists because as I age I'm able to view some things differently then when I was younger, even if fundamentally my opinions were the same.

<......A tad sappiosexual :)

KJ xoxo
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 19, 2015, 08:33:47 PM
But maybe we are overthinking it. There is an obvious and very annoying easy little thing... Disinfectant spray.

you're right.... alcohol spray!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 19, 2015, 08:33:57 PM
I studied Foucault at uni and found him mostly incomprehensible. Weirdly, years later I read a novel called 'Hallucinating Foucault' by Patricia Duncker, which I highly recommend. It clarified a few points for me, as well as being an interesting piece of writing in its own right.

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: mint on Apr 19, 2015, 08:35:17 PM
OKCupid just asked me "Are some sex acts with consenting adults inherently wrong or immoral? Assume no unusual risk of injury" and it made me think of the Fifty Shades of Grey thread.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 19, 2015, 09:02:10 PM
But maybe we are overthinking it. There is an obvious and very annoying easy little thing... Disinfectant spray.

you're right.... alcohol spray!

You're all on fire this evening.

(Not literally.)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Apr 19, 2015, 09:05:26 PM
But maybe we are overthinking it. There is an obvious and very annoying easy little thing... Disinfectant spray.

you're right.... alcohol spray!

You're all on fire this evening.

(Not literally.)

The paper cuts would be though.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on Apr 19, 2015, 09:08:24 PM
OKCupid just asked me "Are some sex acts with consenting adults inherently wrong or immoral? Assume no unusual risk of injury" and it made me think of the Fifty Shades of Grey thread.

 :D
I have answered over 200 of those questions...don't think my matches are improving though....  :-\  So far my best matches appear to live in Germany or USA. Where are all the butches and Transguys hanging out on dating sites? I miss BFT at times like this.

KJ
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Apr 19, 2015, 09:08:55 PM
But maybe we are overthinking it. There is an obvious and very annoying easy little thing... Disinfectant spray.

you're right.... alcohol spray!

You're all on fire this evening.

(Not literally.)

The paper cuts would be though.

 ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 19, 2015, 09:38:48 PM
OKCupid just asked me "Are some sex acts with consenting adults inherently wrong or immoral? Assume no unusual risk of injury" and it made me think of the Fifty Shades of Grey thread.

 :D
I have answered over 200 of those questions...don't think my matches are improving though....  :-\  So far my best matches appear to live in Germany or USA. Where are all the butches and Transguys hanging out on dating sites? I miss BFT at times like this.

KJ

All the butches are in Germany (and Austria, which is nearly Germany). *nods*

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Apr 19, 2015, 09:44:15 PM
OKCupid just asked me "Are some sex acts with consenting adults inherently wrong or immoral? Assume no unusual risk of injury" and it made me think of the Fifty Shades of Grey thread.

 :D
I have answered over 200 of those questions...don't think my matches are improving though....  :-\  So far my best matches appear to live in Germany or USA. Where are all the butches and Transguys hanging out on dating sites? I miss BFT at times like this.

KJ

All the butches are in Germany (and Austria, which is nearly Germany). *nods*

kitty

Easter KJ   ;)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 19, 2015, 09:45:24 PM
OKCupid just asked me "Are some sex acts with consenting adults inherently wrong or immoral? Assume no unusual risk of injury" and it made me think of the Fifty Shades of Grey thread.

 :D
I have answered over 200 of those questions...don't think my matches are improving though....  :-\  So far my best matches appear to live in Germany or USA. Where are all the butches and Transguys hanging out on dating sites? I miss BFT at times like this.

KJ

All the butches are in Germany (and Austria, which is nearly Germany). *nods*

kitty

Easter KJ   ;)
Only 340 sleeps, KJ
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 19, 2015, 09:53:00 PM
Only 144 sleeps until Berlin Folsom though...

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 19, 2015, 10:08:37 PM
90 sleeps to the summer party
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Apr 19, 2015, 10:21:12 PM
Well look even fewer days til experiment party. So ner!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on Apr 19, 2015, 11:00:16 PM
OK, so after stirring myself up something rotten by reading yet another book by D. L. King (http://www.amazon.com/Slave-Girls-Erotic-Stories-Submission/dp/1627780327) I am back to find your responses.

OKCupid just asked me "Are some sex acts with consenting adults inherently wrong or immoral? Assume no unusual risk of injury" and it made me think of the Fifty Shades of Grey thread.

 :D
I have answered over 200 of those questions...don't think my matches are improving though....  :-\  So far my best matches appear to live in Germany or USA. Where are all the butches and Transguys hanging out on dating sites? I miss BFT at times like this.

KJ

All the butches are in Germany (and Austria, which is nearly Germany). *nods*

kitty

I wouldn't mind but its going to be tricky coordinating dates more than once a month, been over a decade since I had a LDR.  :-\  are many in your exp more into other butches FK?


Easter KJ   ;)
You keep winking at me when you slip in and mention Berlin Easter conference it makes me giggle, almost as though you are my conscience.  :D


Only 340 sleeps, KJ

Well that's plenty of time to get my pennies saved up but what a long time to keep my SF in check for.  :-\  :D

Only 144 sleeps until Berlin Folsom though...

kitty

Tease!  :D
Sadly I won't be able to make that one  :-\

90 sleeps to the summer party

What is this you speak of?

Well look even fewer days til experiment party. So ner!

Experiment party?

I have been away too long  :-\

DRD - after just finishing one particular story and being shocked at my physical response  :o  :-[ I think ......I think I'm curious enough to make pony play a soft limit. Maybe my height and strength might make me even more desirable, but I'm shy  :-[

KJ
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 19, 2015, 11:17:10 PM
90 sleeps to the summer party

Seems like ages.  :(

*edit*

KJ - Femme Fatalities summer party - Berlin - July 18th.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on Apr 19, 2015, 11:26:11 PM
Thanks PE, just seen it on the "other" website 😘

KJ
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Apr 20, 2015, 07:23:26 AM
Even less sleeps until Dungeons Deluxe... na na na naa  naa naa.


*feeling childish*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 20, 2015, 07:37:15 AM
I updated my countdown app this morning.  :D
It's good to have things to look forward to.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on Apr 20, 2015, 08:56:29 AM
Even less sleeps until Dungeons Deluxe... na na na naa  naa naa.


*feeling childish*

Is this in Germany too?

KJ xoxo
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 20, 2015, 10:54:29 AM
@KJtheFemme
I've never carried out a full survey to find out which butches like other butches and which butches like femmes. I would probably say that the butches who like other butches think more butches like femmes than other butches and the femmes think more butches like other butches than like femmes.

;D

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on Apr 20, 2015, 12:21:29 PM
@KJtheFemme
I've never carried out a full survey to find out which butches like other butches and which butches like femmes. I would probably say that the butches who like other butches think more butches like femmes than other butches and the femmes think more butches like other butches than like femmes.

;D

kitty

How could I have forgotten what a sassy mouth  you possess and execute so wittily  :-[  ;D

I was merely enquiring to your personal experience as a femme presenting woman when over there ( if you ID as such of course from my recollection you do but I could be wrong it has been years and I think I still have baby brain 4 yrs on)

Having been out the loop and feeling like a relative outsider I have a few questions swirling in my head about the LGBT kink scene in Germany, some of which i dont fancy finding out when i get there if you know what I mean. At least on home ground I know a few people and not as nervous, but maybe thats just "newbie nerves" about what factors can impact a conference virgin.  In hindsight my naive question does sound a bit stupid.....how longs a piece of string right...:-[

DRD - "Nothing tastes as good as being thinner feels" if I keep telling myself that I'll be a size 10 in time for my June All inclusive holiday where I will inevitably put it all back on again   ::)

KJ
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 20, 2015, 01:27:43 PM
Argh! I just wrote a long reply and my iPad refreshed the tab. Grrrr....

So, my comment wasn't meant to be nasty in any way. It's just that, as in any scene, there will be people who like what you are offering, and people who don't. And whilst the Berlin WLT*I scene does have a tendency to celebrate masculinity, there are plenty of people who like and appreciate femininity. It's also a fairly body positive and age positive community. There are sometimes language issues, but most people speak English to a very high standard.

There are basically two main events in Berlin:
Easter Conference - a single venue event with workshops, parties and other events. You have to pre-register and pay up front.
Folsom Europe - started as a gay man's event, but the WLT*I community organise events around it. These are held in different venues and no pre-registration is required (although some promoters sell tickets in advance). The current programme for 2015 looks like this:
10/9 - Honey & Spices at Quägeist
11/9 - Vorfreude at Darkside
12/9 - Folsom Street Fair (no evening event)
13/9 - Dungeons Deluxe (all gender queer party) at Darkside and Femme Fatalities at Böse Busen

More info on Folsom is here: http://folsomeurope.info

Compared the woeful lack of venues in London, Berlin offers a very real alternative. The main events attract people from all over mainland Europe (Sweden, France, Holland, Spain etc), bringing small local communities together. It's a unique opportunity.

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 20, 2015, 01:32:46 PM
^^^ Excellent, thanks for the summary. I've been trying to keep track of all the separate event pages and it's been doing my head in.

I think one of the beauties of Berlin is the number large and not so expensive dungeons, plus the size of the crowd that support the events. Where as with London the venues are (mostly) smaller and organisers have difficulty filling them.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on Apr 20, 2015, 01:38:13 PM
Oh no, you didn't come across as nasty at all, I've seen you in action your witty playful response was just that  :) besides... You added a big grin at the end.

Thank you for breaking it down for me FK, I sincerely appreciated that and even more so, knowing your device erased your previous attempt.  :). I think I really need to explore the Berlin scene, I just need to just do it and not over think it.

Thanks again FK  ;)

KJ xoxo
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 20, 2015, 02:06:45 PM
I am on a tea break - I'm so looking forward to Folsom.
It'll be my one year slutaversary and I'm determined not to lose nearly two days to toothache this time.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 20, 2015, 02:16:59 PM
I am on a tea break - I'm so looking forward to Folsom.
It'll be my one year slutaversary and I'm determined not to lose nearly two days to toothache this time.

Slutaversary cake!!  ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: horse on Apr 20, 2015, 02:56:28 PM
^ Cake is nothing without a nice cup of tea

http://www.whokilledbambi.co.uk/public/2013/09/Whore-Slut-Bitch-tea-set--550x412.jpg
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 20, 2015, 03:05:43 PM
I like these ones a lot

http://ego-alterego.com/2012/02/naked-girls-tea-set-by-esther-horchner/#.VTUGMGZVEnI (http://ego-alterego.com/2012/02/naked-girls-tea-set-by-esther-horchner/#.VTUGMGZVEnI)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: horse on Apr 20, 2015, 03:26:34 PM
^ yes, much nicer :)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on Apr 20, 2015, 03:51:27 PM
I like these ones a lot

http://ego-alterego.com/2012/02/naked-girls-tea-set-by-esther-horchner/#.VTUGMGZVEnI (http://ego-alterego.com/2012/02/naked-girls-tea-set-by-esther-horchner/#.VTUGMGZVEnI)

Brilliant  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: nismat on Apr 20, 2015, 04:10:49 PM
I like these ones a lot

http://ego-alterego.com/2012/02/naked-girls-tea-set-by-esther-horchner/#.VTUGMGZVEnI (http://ego-alterego.com/2012/02/naked-girls-tea-set-by-esther-horchner/#.VTUGMGZVEnI)
Ooh, lovely! Erotic art in a teacup.

Although I do like the first lot too  ;) delightfully subversive.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: nismat on Apr 20, 2015, 04:17:27 PM
@KJtheFemme
I've never carried out a full survey to find out which butches like other butches and which butches like femmes. I would probably say that the butches who like other butches think more butches like femmes than other butches and the femmes think more butches like other butches than like femmes.

;D

kitty

Now there's a tongue twister!  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 20, 2015, 05:37:55 PM
Slutaversary cake!!  ;D ;D ;D

 :D


And I like both tea sets.  :)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 20, 2015, 08:51:31 PM
I missed a health care appointment last week, probaby still a bit brain scrambled from conference. I have been given a new appointment date.....for the day before Folsom.  ::)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Apr 20, 2015, 10:28:58 PM
Dungeons Deluxe is a queer play party in Berlin :-D


I burned two fingers today :-( not whilst having fun at all! Plain kitchen accident. It's a sad day for double handed spanking.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 21, 2015, 07:22:21 PM
My sharps bin came.
It's tiny.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Apr 21, 2015, 07:40:32 PM
Quote from: millicent link=to pic=114619.msg3579299#msg3579299 date=1429640541
My sharps bin came.
It's tiny.

Thats probably a useful guide for you right now.  :P
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 21, 2015, 07:47:37 PM
Quote from: millicent link=to pic=114619.msg3579299#msg3579299 date=1429640541
My sharps bin came.
It's tiny.

Thats probably a useful guide for you right now.  :P

Yeah. I'll save the spears for later.
Also, it fits in my handbag.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Apr 21, 2015, 08:02:48 PM
I was gonna say wow that is small! But then I remembered the size of handbags these days.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 21, 2015, 08:06:50 PM
Yeah, my handbag is blooming massive, to be fair.
I probably could have fitted the 2 litre bin in too.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 22, 2015, 02:41:27 PM
Considering how I'm feeling, I'm starting to think that watching Secretary this afternoon was not my best idea.

;D

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on Apr 22, 2015, 03:10:37 PM
My fave ^ kink movie to date always ges me in the mood but yet to watch 'The Duke of Burgandy' .....

KJ xoxo
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 23, 2015, 08:27:36 AM
Some of my bruises are fading really rather slowly. I started to wonder if some of them will actually ever go.
But I googled and google says 'don't be so ridiculous, millicent, of course they will.'
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Apr 23, 2015, 12:13:36 PM
My goodgle doesn't adress me by first name, how cheeky of yours!  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 23, 2015, 01:06:36 PM
^^^ me and Google talk a lot. You could say we're close.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: mint on Apr 23, 2015, 02:13:08 PM
First name terms! My phone keeps trying to get me to talk to google... not quite sure why.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Apr 23, 2015, 03:10:58 PM
Well I too talk a lot with Google, almost every day about all sorts! It's clearly just not that into me :-(


*feeling rejected*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 23, 2015, 07:48:00 PM
I wouldn't take it personally.
You're probably just missing a plug-in.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 23, 2015, 07:51:23 PM
Oh and: this tread clearly needs more countdowns.

8 sleeps to Amsterdam
57 sleeps to Paris
86 sleeps to FF
141 sleeps to Folsom
336 sleeps to Easter

 :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 23, 2015, 07:51:53 PM
I wouldn't take it personally.
You're probably just missing a plug-in.


^^^ *cough* what kind of plug?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 23, 2015, 07:53:15 PM
Oh and: this tread clearly needs more countdowns.

8 sleeps to Amsterdam
57 sleeps to Paris
86 sleeps to FF
141 sleeps to Folsom
336 sleeps to Easter

 :D

 ;D ;D ;D

I prefer to think of FF as 'just a couple of months away'....sounds shorter.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Apr 23, 2015, 08:48:19 PM
I wouldn't take it personally.
You're probably just missing a plug-in.


^^^ *cough* what kind of plug?

And is it battery operated??


What is happening in Amsterdam, travelling for acupunture now are you?


I also have countdowns only I don't actually count days or sleeps, are they real or not then? Dungeons Deluxe, Experiment and wish power exchange... with play dates and kinky meets and workshops peppered between now and then...


<-- lucky bitch :-D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 23, 2015, 09:23:21 PM
35...ahem

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 23, 2015, 09:42:13 PM
35...ahem

kitty

Is that a countdown or a score?  ;)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 23, 2015, 09:59:13 PM
 :o :o :o

It's a countdown.

The score is much higher!

 ;D

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Apr 23, 2015, 10:10:15 PM
Could you people please not make me laugh/snort out loud? My dominant femme feline is trying to sleep, I scared her out of hypnotic purring state.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 24, 2015, 05:13:29 AM
What is happening in Amsterdam, travelling for acupunture now are you?

Something like that. There is a queer party on the Saturday and your sister asked me if I'd like to go.

I'm wondering which smiley to put. I'm going with this one:  :D

I also have countdowns only I don't actually count days or sleeps, are they real or not then? Dungeons Deluxe, Experiment and wish power exchange... with play dates and kinky meets and workshops peppered between now and then...

You are lucky! And countdowns are still countdowns if you don't actually count.
I just like numbers.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Apr 24, 2015, 09:52:32 AM
Oh I wish you a very **heathy** weekend!!

wondering which smiley to put, but I will go with these:  ;D :P

 And this weekend, My Chado/tea ceremony teacher is in Berlin so I will have the opportunity to attend an okeiko/class!

I am a lucky lucky bitch, I have a lovely life!!  :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 24, 2015, 02:44:00 PM
*twiddles fingers in well set up dungeon*  ::)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 24, 2015, 02:58:57 PM
@ Arig: thank you. I'm sure I'll enjoy my 'health and well being' mini break.

@ Pure evil: elaborate please.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 24, 2015, 03:07:57 PM
Rather than putting men on the moon, why didn't we invent teleporters and/or time machines? Eh? Eh?!?!

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 24, 2015, 03:11:01 PM
Rather than putting men on the moon, why didn't we invent teleporters and/or time machines? Eh? Eh?!?!

kitty

So fucking true!! (unless we just left the men on the moon).

mills I have a fully kitted out space at my disposal for 2 hours this eve, it's paid for, but erm.... yes.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: MzB on Apr 24, 2015, 03:19:51 PM
Imagining
 FK presiding over a laboratory stuffed with sweating geek subs in white
 coats. 'Try harder! I want warps in the space-time-continuum! Big ones!
 And I want them now!' 
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: mint on Apr 24, 2015, 03:21:05 PM
Fuck. I'd love a teleporter. Would make my life easier.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 24, 2015, 03:42:30 PM
Fuck. I'd love a teleporter. Would make my life easier.

Although I've never quite gotten over seeing 'The Fly'  :-\
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: mint on Apr 24, 2015, 03:48:23 PM
Oh God. I hate that film! Urgh.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 24, 2015, 03:50:13 PM
Fuck. I'd love a teleporter. Would make my life easier.

I want one too!

Imagining
 FK presiding over a laboratory stuffed with sweating geek subs in white
 coats. 'Try harder! I want warps in the space-time-continuum! Big ones!
 And I want them now!' 

 ;D

@ pure evil - oh no. That's rubbish.  :(
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 24, 2015, 03:54:33 PM
Can you not get a credit note?
Too short notice?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Apr 24, 2015, 04:03:39 PM
(unless we just left the men on the moon).

Actually snorted out loud.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 24, 2015, 04:05:19 PM
Can you not get a credit note?
Too short notice?

No credit note, but I didn't pay for it...some one else did  :) I'm going to take a short nap then toddle over and probably make a few little films. I still have a great space and my own significant exhibitionism to work with.  :P
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 24, 2015, 08:27:17 PM
^^^hope it was productive  :)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 24, 2015, 08:42:22 PM
^^^ Hey nice tag line  :) I only just noticed it. Making clips was ok, I find it rather hard to feel inspired in those kinds of spaces without an actual person to play with. I guess I'm really not that much of a fetishist, at least not in the traditional sense.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Apr 24, 2015, 10:45:09 PM
PE, sorry about your thumb twirling day, but there is at least one nice pic in t'other place  ;D

Millicent I have a feeling.it will ne a very *restorative* holiday!

I loved the film the fly!! Not sure about teletransporters though... Maybe if it has a good anti insect net cover on the door.

After a marvellous time with cling film last week I find myself eyeing up the industrial sized plastic film rolls in tow supermarket and wondering if I could nick one... But My handbag is not so big :-(
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 25, 2015, 08:33:42 AM
It's always a nice ego boost to receive a message telling you that two really hot people were sitting around talking about you and how much they want to play with you.

Hehehehe...life in the old dog yet! ;D

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Apr 25, 2015, 09:23:10 AM
It's always a nice ego boost to receive a message telling you that two really hot people were sitting around talking about you and how much they want to play with you.

Hehehehe...life in the old dog yet! ;D

kitty

 :D

Still waiting for mine. Must be lost in the post.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 25, 2015, 09:58:43 AM
It's always a nice ego boost to receive a message telling you that two really hot people were sitting around talking about you and how much they want to play with you.

Hehehehe...life in the old dog yet! ;D

kitty

 :D

Still waiting for mine. Must be lost in the post.

I think it's a general problem, gnomey. Mine's not here yet either.
Maybe one of the FL servers is down.

  :P
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Apr 25, 2015, 11:36:19 AM
Mills and Gnome , two hot people could be having such a conversation about you RIGHT now, it's just that they may not admit to it! Just because you don't know it doesn't mean it isn't happening.


Off to okeiko now and so excited, I cannot hide it, people on the bus think I am weird...
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 25, 2015, 09:31:40 PM
I'm sure they don't think you are weird.
Whenever I'm excited and grinning like a loon, people always smile back, because smiling is catching.
Like yawning. Or measles.
 :-*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Apr 25, 2015, 09:34:04 PM
measles.

I read that as 'needles' the first time. :o

Then yawned. >:(
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 25, 2015, 09:40:04 PM
Don't worry. Needles aren't catching.
Just super fun.  :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Apr 25, 2015, 10:36:20 PM
^ They don't make me yawn either.  ;D


Home after great afternoon of watching watching and.more watching, drinking macha tea and then making it whilst teacher tsked at me and corrected every gesture to the millimeter.

Just thought today how DS-ish the student teacher relationship is there...


Also crazy happy to be back in kimono!! I.am not into corsets but in kimono I feel free, sexy, perfect! Love it. Maybe this is my equivalent of a corset fetish.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Goblin Flump on Apr 26, 2015, 03:23:16 PM
my hairdresser's so dominant I suspect she could announce she was giving me a corkscrew perm interspersed with dreads and I'd just go "ok Miss."
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 26, 2015, 04:15:13 PM
^^^This made me cackle out loud. More so imagining you turning up to the next meet looking like Shirley Temple.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Goblin Flump on Apr 26, 2015, 04:21:00 PM
hard limit!hard limit!:D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on Apr 26, 2015, 05:37:38 PM
^^^This made me cackle out loud. More so imagining you turning up to the next meet looking like Shirley Temple.

Me too LOL ...poor Flump (http://www.vectis.co.uk/AuctionImages/382/1554_l.jpg) :D

KJ xoxo  ;)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 26, 2015, 09:16:23 PM
Ugh...OK Cupid idiocy...

Person who has looked at my profile (but is only a 45% match): What does fwb mean? Female with brains?
Me: Friendship with benefits
PWHLAMP(BIOAFPM): But you are so far away :(
Me: That's OK - you 're not my type anyway :-)

Presumptious much?

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 26, 2015, 09:24:04 PM
And it goes on...

'You're just saying that to make yourself feel better - you don't even know me - what's your type? Barbie dolls?'

 ::)  ::)  ::)

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Goblin Flump on Apr 26, 2015, 09:38:19 PM
Did you not know? You're obligated to find someone with a match % of 40 or over attractive.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: mint on Apr 27, 2015, 05:01:53 PM
^ Lol.

I had a message from someone on there recently:
Let's meet tomorrow afternoon, around 5pm. Sorry for the short notice.

The short notice wasn't exactly the problem - the fact that we'd never spoken before this (that was literally the first message) was a bit more of an issue.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 27, 2015, 05:35:08 PM
^^^ LOL

Where did they propose to meet? Registry office?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 27, 2015, 06:22:09 PM
There's that question, 'if someone said they loved you at the end of the first date, would you think it was (a) scary or (b) sweet'

What's very scary is how many people respond (b)

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 27, 2015, 07:07:10 PM
Are there actually people who say that kind of thing after the first date though?
Surely not.

Post orgasm Tourette's maybe. And that doesn't count.
But after a first date?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 27, 2015, 07:14:04 PM
Someone once drunk texted me that after we'd been dating for a fortnight. I didn't heed the warning sign...

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 27, 2015, 07:52:09 PM
Wow. A couple of weeks!

It's weird and I've not been in love often but for me it's never been some 'cupid's arrow' type thing I've not had any cognitive input over.
I have been thinking about it a lot lately and I actually remember thinking when I first got together with S. that I'd really fall for her if I didn't stop sleeping with her.

But then maybe I'm faulty. Or just very, very niche.
Or Vulcan.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on Apr 27, 2015, 07:53:13 PM
I've run out of any matches higher than 79% .....hmmm...maybe I should up the age limit to 35-100....  And lower the height restriction to 4'11  ::)  :D

KJ



 
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 27, 2015, 08:00:46 PM
I have been thinking about it a lot lately and I actually remember thinking when I first got together with S. that I'd really fall for her if I didn't stop sleeping with her.

But then maybe I'm faulty. Or just very, very niche.
Or Vulcan.

That sounds kind of 'normal' (whatever that is) to me. I usually have a sense of where things could go for me with a person, gauging if there is the kind of limerance which would mean it's likely I could become involved on a romantic level.

then there are the other people where the blazing chemistry means I have failed to note where the exit signs are even after several red flags.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 27, 2015, 09:11:23 PM
I'M SO BORED OF MAKING DECISIONS.

This isn't even dungeonesque. Just in general.
But I can't be asked to click into WYF.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 27, 2015, 09:13:05 PM
WLTM service submissive who feels the need to massage me LOTS. I miss that about Berlin.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 27, 2015, 09:45:33 PM
I have been thinking about it a lot lately and I actually remember thinking when I first got together with S. that I'd really fall for her if I didn't stop sleeping with her.

But then maybe I'm faulty. Or just very, very niche.
Or Vulcan.

That sounds kind of 'normal' (whatever that is) to me. I usually have a sense of where things could go for me with a person, gauging if there is the kind of limerance which would mean it's likely I could become involved on a romantic level.

then there are the other people where the blazing chemistry means I have failed to note where the exit signs are even after several red flags.

Oh, normal, really.
Cool!  :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 27, 2015, 09:51:08 PM
I have been thinking about it a lot lately and I actually remember thinking when I first got together with S. that I'd really fall for her if I didn't stop sleeping with her.

But then maybe I'm faulty. Or just very, very niche.
Or Vulcan.

That sounds kind of 'normal' (whatever that is) to me. I usually have a sense of where things could go for me with a person, gauging if there is the kind of limerance which would mean it's likely I could become involved on a romantic level.

then there are the other people where the blazing chemistry means I have failed to note where the exit signs are even after several red flags.

Oh, normal, really.
Cool!  :D

Well, normal from my perspective. So 'Live long and prosper'.  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 27, 2015, 10:11:30 PM
*high five*  :D

That's it though, isn't it. It depends on the perspective.
I think that's why Berlin was so lovely - so many people with a similar 'outlook'.
I didn't appreciate how nice that would be.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Apr 27, 2015, 10:17:16 PM
I find that a normal way of being able to sense and assess feelings. I don't date, I interview for sexual compatibility and start playing - friendship outside of this interaction develops  -or not- together with sexual/play relationship. Quite early on I can tell if this has potential for me to develop romantic feelings, as well as being able to sense if it is only a play crush with friendship or a play crush without friendship or just a good couple of plays but they won't develop even into play crush. People find this odd, "how can you know that?", I DO, but now I am better at recognising creepy behaviour that can spell drama or bullshit, which is a better superpower, and one I hope to manage to keep and develop more!! I mean, some people it is just too easy to see trouble at a.distance, others are better at hiding it...
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 28, 2015, 01:55:34 PM
I don't date, I interview for sexual compatibility and start playing

That sounds refreshingly efficient.  :D


Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Apr 28, 2015, 02:36:58 PM

Not sure if it is refreshing or not, I just never managed to understand "dating". I am simply odd.

Only did some "dates"once but these can quite honestly be said to have been "done to me"! I found it amusing, dinner? A movie? A coffee? What was the point, I am not looking for a relationship, simply good chemistry for playing, why the "dating"? I was bewildered, although amused.
It was interesting, in that it showed me that in the end, this person, trying to create a friendship or emotional connection, was then unable to accept it or live up to that friendship or connection when the "playing/sexual" side was not a part of it anymore. THIS is extremely odd behaviour to me. I found it stupid and told them so. They said no no, that is not the case, met me again for one more coffee to prove they are capable of making friendship last, and then disappeared with some excuse about friendship's waning and changing over time. Sure... And also the fact that once you slept with someone you are unable to be friends with them if nothing else is on offer, but you are not able to see it or admit it.

I make friends with some play partners, and we continue friends after our play connection has fizzled out, other play partners, I had nothing in common with to make a friendship, shallow pools of egocentricity that are a delight to have fun/abuse with, but not to allow too close or expect them to be around if you are not offering more fun/abuse, they scatter faster than cockroaches looking for the next provider of their one track mind needs.

I try not to fall into playing with people who cannot offer a human connection outside play anymore. Once in a while it is OK, but becoming play partners with that kind is ultimately soul sucking to me.

Before anyone asks, no, I have seriously NEVER dated anyone, except for that one time when dates happened to me, amusing, but not to be repeated. I mean "romantic/flirty" dates BEFORE you got to interview someone for sexual compatibility!

I do not get the point. I am not looking for a relationship, I am NEVER looking for a relationship.

Relationships happen, yes, but what I am only ever looking for, is a decent communication with someone I can respect that has a good sexual/play chemistry with me, that is all I have ever looked for from when I first had sexual connections.

I ran into quite a lot of the shallow pool types but they were so hot and the play was so good, it took me a long while to realise they had nothing else to offer  :P And dating? That would not have changed anything, the sexual chemistry infatuation would have held my attention long enough to keep "meeting without sex/play" for a while until we then ultimately get to what we want, to play. And it would all just have rolled the same way, I do not get the point of dating. It is utterly lost on me.

Connecting at a higher level, sure, but I need hormones out of the way first, so play now, talk later. Then we see if we can be friends or not even, just to start with.

I am completely weird, I know , I do not care, I am happy!!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 28, 2015, 03:02:34 PM
I don't find it weird. I hope you didn't think I implied that.
I will write more later, but right now, my tea break isn't long enough.


Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 28, 2015, 04:17:18 PM
What an interesting read Arig.  :-*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Apr 28, 2015, 05:11:20 PM
I did not thinkk.anyone was implying here that I am weird, I am just used to being the odd one out on talk of "dates"!
 ;D


My otherwise random disclosure is: Why is it so bloody cold?!?! I want to wear slutty outfits outside damm it!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Apr 28, 2015, 05:31:32 PM
Some good cpd today, partly on sexual exploitation. I was attentive and did the activities but my second brain did whirr on in the background with some thoughts...ideas.  :P
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 28, 2015, 08:04:55 PM
I just accepted an offer on our flat.
It is a tiny bit inconvenient I'm not here this weekend, but nothing will move over the weekend anyway.
And is there a better way to celebrate than twisted acupuncture?
No, I don't think there is.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Apr 28, 2015, 08:06:09 PM
I just accepted an offer on our flat.
It is a tiny bit inconvenient I'm not here this weekend, but nothing will move over the weekend anyway.
And is there a better way to celebrate than twisted acupuncture?
No, I don't think there is.

perverted congrats fembot  :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Dizz on Apr 28, 2015, 08:06:50 PM
^ ^ Congrats - and enjoy! :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on Apr 28, 2015, 08:12:59 PM
I just accepted an offer on our flat.
It is a tiny bit inconvenient I'm not here this weekend, but nothing will move over the weekend anyway.
And is there a better way to celebrate than twisted acupuncture?
No, I don't think there is.

Congratulations!!

KJ xoxo
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 28, 2015, 08:16:42 PM
I just accepted an offer on our flat.
It is a tiny bit inconvenient I'm not here this weekend, but nothing will move over the weekend anyway.
And is there a better way to celebrate than twisted acupuncture?
No, I don't think there is.

Wahay!! Excellent news!! Flat selling AND twisted accupuncture.  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 28, 2015, 08:19:43 PM
Thank you all!

Me so happy!  :D

And the best thing is that I don't have to clean for tomorrow's viewing.
Because it's off the market now. Hurray!
*wallows in filth*

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 28, 2015, 08:31:07 PM
No, the best thing is I get to go and look at flats to buy with you :)

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 28, 2015, 08:32:15 PM
YES!
In fact, it's all good.  :D
Today is a good day.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Apr 28, 2015, 08:35:20 PM
Ausgezeichenet Mills!! So you can wallow in filth at home AND on your holiday?!?! :-D

And FK gets to.enjoy some flat search fetish...

So gnome, were there interesting *ideas* you could share? Research and educational value only, you understand...

I am still bloody cold but Friday is a holiday here and I have a lovely civilized afternoon meet, tea, water boarding, some cake and caning. That just warms me right up, it really does!!
 ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 28, 2015, 08:46:47 PM
Yes! Filth all the way.

Are you feeling warm because you are the Dalai Lama of caning, Arig?

And yes, Gnomey. Do share.
Sharing is caring.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Apr 28, 2015, 09:20:00 PM
You may joke oh filthy one, but My job is very important, and spiritual!! It is important to disseminate caning around the world, the next generations deserve a better quality of kink, ass, and.canes. I do it not for me, but for your children, and your children's children. Won't someone think.of the children?!?!


The water boarding, I mean tea... the thought of tea is also warming me up.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: nismat on Apr 28, 2015, 10:14:13 PM
I just accepted an offer on our flat.
It is a tiny bit inconvenient I'm not here this weekend, but nothing will move over the weekend anyway.
And is there a better way to celebrate than twisted acupuncture?
No, I don't think there is.

Excellent news!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 29, 2015, 05:26:11 PM
sometimes I think the dungeon is the most savory place to be.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Apr 29, 2015, 05:42:02 PM


And yes, Gnomey. Do share.
Sharing is caring.

I have shared.  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Apr 29, 2015, 05:43:18 PM
@PE: absolutely, I found that if I look outside the vault or dungeon then I am compelled to leave GB for a few months at a time, at least.


I am looking forward to elaborate violence on Sunday, now all I need is the energy to manage!!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 29, 2015, 05:50:47 PM


And yes, Gnomey. Do share.
Sharing is caring.

I have shared.  ;D

Is that what they call it these days?  :P
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 29, 2015, 07:02:31 PM
sometimes I think the dungeon is the most savory place to be.

Word.  :D
I've practically moved in.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Apr 29, 2015, 07:43:39 PM
sometimes I think the dungeon is the most savory place to be.

Word.  :D
I've practically moved in.



You're part of the (human) furniture now...

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 29, 2015, 08:06:22 PM
Emergency biscuit holder.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Apr 29, 2015, 08:08:39 PM
Emergency biscuit eater.

Fixed that for you.

With icing.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 29, 2015, 08:11:13 PM
Right now, I am seriously regretting my recent icing excesses.
I can't even begin do describe just how much.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Apr 29, 2015, 08:12:13 PM
Because of indigestion, or because there's now no icing left?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 29, 2015, 08:20:32 PM
Because the road to obesity is paved with icing.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Apr 29, 2015, 08:22:09 PM
Mine's currently paved with the 48-piece box of Cherry Ripes a friend brought over from Australia for me. I've made a not-on-weekdays rule and also a soup-for-dinner rule and a do-some-damn-exercise rule to try to mitigate it...
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 29, 2015, 08:25:20 PM
Oooohhh -what's a cherry ripe?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 29, 2015, 08:27:52 PM
Mine's currently paved with the 48-piece box of Cherry Ripes a friend brought over from Australia for me.

PHWOAR that's a fetish catergory!!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Apr 29, 2015, 08:28:51 PM
It's a Cadbury's chocolate bar variety that you can't get in England except at exorbitant prices. :'( Essentially, juicy glace cherries and dessicated coconut in a dark chocolate coating. I moaned about craving them once on FB, and a fellow re-enactor whom I'd never met before made a side-trip to a re-enactment event she wasn't even attending while on a brief trip to England, just to bring me some!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 29, 2015, 08:30:32 PM
Wow. That is such a lovely thing to to!
I think sharing a hobby totally bonds people.

They do sound delicious.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Apr 29, 2015, 08:33:06 PM
There's recipes on the internet for tray-slice versions, I really should learn how to make one. That way if I ever actually made it to a meetup I could share. Heh.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 29, 2015, 08:35:17 PM
Oooohhh -what's a cherry ripe?

DELISH that's what. I think you can buy them at 'long white cloud' on Hackney road, possibly at the sweets store in Angel that sells off world stuff too.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Apr 29, 2015, 09:30:01 PM
Oooohhh -what's a cherry ripe?

DELISH that's what. I think you can buy them at 'long white cloud' on Hackney road, possibly at the sweets store in Angel that sells off world stuff too.

 :o :o :o Really?!?!?! I hadn't tracked anywhere else that had them down since the Aussie shop in Covent Garden closed.

Are you an Aussie too, PE, or just a connoisseur?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 29, 2015, 11:00:35 PM
Amphelise, not an Aussie but I did live in Syd for a few years. Apparently 'Cyber Candy' in covent garden stock Cherry Ripes.  :D

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Apr 29, 2015, 11:04:45 PM
Amphelise, not an Aussie but I did live in Syd for a few years. Apparently 'Cyber Candy' in covent garden stock Cherry Ripes.  :D

:D I really must make a trip into London! It's only 20 minutes away ffs.

I lived in Sydney for a while too (2004-05), though Perth is home.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 30, 2015, 04:18:18 AM
Amphelise - there is a Cyber Candy Store in Brighton too.
According to their Facebook page they have them back in stock.

You're just 20 minutes from London? You should definitely come to a meet then.  :)



DRD: I must be mad.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 30, 2015, 06:10:51 AM
Excellent news!

Thank you!  :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 30, 2015, 07:23:51 PM
I'm packing my suitcase.

I feel like I should take the small one, but. I'm. So. Bad. At. Packing. Light.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Apr 30, 2015, 08:29:14 PM
I'm packing my suitcase.

I feel like I should take the small one, but. I'm. So. Bad. At. Packing. Light.

Remember half of it will end up in the bin.  :P
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on Apr 30, 2015, 08:58:50 PM
I'm packing my suitcase.

I feel like I should take the small one, but. I'm. So. Bad. At. Packing. Light.

Remember half of it will end up in the bin.  :P

 :D  ;)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Apr 30, 2015, 09:43:19 PM
^ :-D


What is the appropriate outfit for *I don't have any fucking clue if the mad storm will continue or warmth will actually hit*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 30, 2015, 09:54:05 PM
Well, as usually, I have packed A LOT.

It might be her who is scared. (When she sees the size of my suitcase. It does look like I'm permanently relocating.)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 30, 2015, 09:55:04 PM
^ :-D


What is the appropriate outfit for *I don't have any fucking clue if the mad storm will continue or warmth will actually hit*

Beautiful shoes and good heating.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Apr 30, 2015, 10:33:31 PM
 ;D  good idea!!


Mills, that is some serious fear play, *the lesbian who came to stay*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: mint on Apr 30, 2015, 10:35:38 PM
^ just don't bring a cat.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Apr 30, 2015, 10:38:11 PM
*takes cat out of suitcase*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Apr 30, 2015, 10:45:40 PM
Go Mills!!

Its us bottoms who have the best, meanest, scariest ideas.  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 30, 2015, 11:02:47 PM
mills, does it say 'U HAUL' on the side of your case?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: nismat on Apr 30, 2015, 11:10:14 PM
mills, does it say 'U HAUL' on the side of your case?

Heh  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on Apr 30, 2015, 11:31:51 PM
mills, does it say 'U HAUL' on the side of your case?

'U-HAUL' Sounds very Dominant..  Maybe it says..." I-HAUL"...with question mark  ;D

KJ xoxo
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Apr 30, 2015, 11:37:17 PM
mills, does it say 'U HAUL' on the side of your case?

'U-HAUL' Sounds very Dominant..  Maybe it says..." I-HAUL"...with question mark  ;D

KJ xoxo

 :P
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: mint on May 01, 2015, 11:45:39 AM
i-crawl
a designer range of luggage for the submissive in you

DRD:
I'm thinking of giving up alcohol or at least having a one drink rule. Every time I drink I feel like polluted toxic crap the next day... I don't know if I have some kind of intolerance. And because I drink infrequently anyway, I can't handle it, and it makes me loud and not myself. Do not like. Maybe the 1st of May is as good a time as any.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on May 01, 2015, 12:20:58 PM
 :D "i-Crawl"

KJ xoxo.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 01, 2015, 01:41:37 PM
LOL. @ 'i-crawl'
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on May 01, 2015, 03:42:09 PM
DRD- Watching Hoarders....O :o M:o G :o... I'm going to 'Vom'  :-X

KJ
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on May 01, 2015, 04:49:55 PM
LOL. @ 'i-crawl'

   ^^^^^

    ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 01, 2015, 08:30:18 PM
I think I WILL go to ELSC tomorrow, I hate staying up late and boozy environments (meh) but it's been forever (about 10 years) since I've been to a self organised strip club and I DEFO support collective organising, unionisation and better working conditions!!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 02, 2015, 08:19:14 AM
I *heart* clogs.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on May 02, 2015, 08:31:29 AM
I think I WILL go to ELSC tomorrow, I hate staying up late and boozy environments (meh) but it's been forever (about 10 years) since I've been to a self organised strip club and I DEFO support collective organising, unionisation and better working conditions!!

Heh. You ARE going now. We got tickets.   :P
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on May 02, 2015, 08:36:16 AM
I had some incredibly filthy dreams...I don't usually dream about people I know, or if I do, I dream about doing rude things with highly inappropriate people. It made a nice change. ;)

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on May 02, 2015, 09:04:27 AM
I had some incredibly filthy dreams...I don't usually dream about people I know, or if I do, I dream about doing rude things with highly inappropriate people. It made a nice change. ;)

kitty

Oh thats good.
I usually wake up and immediately forget the good ones but the horror stays.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 02, 2015, 09:40:40 AM
I had some incredibly filthy dreams...I don't usually dream about people I know, or if I do, I dream about doing rude things with highly inappropriate people. It made a nice change. ;)

kitty

Oh thats good.
I usually wake up and immediately forget the good ones but the horror stays.

I'm glad I remembered my dreams: pages and pages of sketch book drawings working out the concept for some creative plan, all of this some how intertwined with watching some ones play scene and then a conversation in which we agreed we would like to play in future. Woke up with the feeling of 'Yeah! cool things ahead!' (FK I also seldom dream about people I know sex wise, in this case it was a friend but not some one I would be allowed to play with)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: mint on May 02, 2015, 10:15:48 AM
Seems like last night was the night for dreams. Mine didn't even make sense.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on May 02, 2015, 03:08:51 PM
I'm starting to think I made the right decision in eschewing Wish Camp and doing a week in Berlin and the summer party instead...someone I played with at Conference is now changing her summer travel plans to be in Berlin then too. Mwahahahaha! *ahem*

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on May 02, 2015, 04:10:32 PM
I'm starting to think I made the right decision in eschewing Wish Camp and doing a week in Berlin and the summer party instead...someone I played with at Conference is now changing her summer travel plans to be in Berlin then too. Mwahahahaha! *ahem*

kitty

Oh to possess such power .....  ;) ;D
A good time will be had, go get 'em FK

KJ xoxo
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on May 02, 2015, 10:00:07 PM
I am so looking forward to.wish, I wish it was here already... No wait, don't want to miss tomorrow's party, or experiment... never mind.



Apparently, after one of My *I am just working some stress off My shoulders* caning, someone has an ass that radiates heat. They tel me that sitting on ice packs is an interesting sensation  ;D


Dreams, remember them often, plenty of ODD ones. Question, should one vividly remember a dream where someone was staying at a communal occupied mansion filled with kinky queers  and said someone was murdered in manner unknown but subsequently dismembered and.distributed throughout the building and one spends the whole dream attempting to retrieve the various bloodied body parts from the building whilst some areas seem to be.filled with different parties and others with sleeping groups and yet others with.play parties...
Should one tell who said someone was that they dreamt of.in such odd way?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 03, 2015, 01:30:04 AM
^^^^blimey

DRD... I kept thinking of various things to write about how bizarre this evening was, but nothing seems to sum it up. VOLUMES, I could write volumes.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 03, 2015, 06:44:32 AM
^^^please do.  :D

(I will be writing up my homework later. Maybe on the plane.)

DRD: coat hanger smile.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: mint on May 03, 2015, 09:12:33 AM
^ :)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on May 03, 2015, 10:01:22 AM
Current countdown status:
Brighton visitor: 25
Paris: 47
Berlin summer party: 76
Folsom: 130
Easter Conference: 326

;D

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 03, 2015, 10:07:10 AM
^^^ You forgot: WKD & meat: 13
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on May 03, 2015, 12:24:39 PM
Goodness, so I did!  :D

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on May 03, 2015, 12:58:41 PM
^^^^blimey




So... no?


I am having one of those fetish/play wear isn't doing it for me, so will probably be attending play party and attacking My gf whilst wearing plain blue trousers, blue trainers and a summary t-shirt with light orange butterflies and flowers. Dressed to kill.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 03, 2015, 01:16:06 PM
^^^^blimey




So... no?

Just blimey at all the dismemberment really, no idea on the other stuff.

I am having one of those fetish/play wear isn't doing it for me, so will probably be attending play party and attacking My gf whilst wearing plain blue trousers, blue trainers and a summary t-shirt with light orange butterflies and flowers. Dressed to kill.

I think my tastes are not particularly fetishy. I rather greet the dayplay, in street clothes and holding a knife, than head to toe in rubber.

ENJOY!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on May 03, 2015, 01:34:48 PM

I have ODD dreams remember? I told you about two you were in, years ago, first one was slightly upsetting, but a couple of years later I had one that you liked the vision of. I have the strangest dreams, let's not even speak of My grandfather cloning Michael Jackson and Madonna .


My fetish is just pretty femmey vintagey wear with cute accessories, not particularly sm looking, not bothered by rubber or leather. Rather wear a.kimono! I often play in day clothes, or naked at home with gf or in pajamas but it will bey first time going to actual play party completely non dressed up :-P I wonder how that will feel, with.others more dressed up?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 03, 2015, 03:12:58 PM
This weekend went quite fast.  :(
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on May 03, 2015, 03:25:52 PM
This weekend went quite fast.  :(

There is tomorrow too. But I get ya.

You all in one piece..and all bits in right order? 😀
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 03, 2015, 03:46:21 PM
This weekend went quite fast.  :(

There is tomorrow too. But I get ya.

You all in one piece..and all bits in right order? 😀

I'm working tomorrow - Easter payback, innit.

I'm all good. I had a really lovely time.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on May 03, 2015, 06:18:02 PM
^^^^ ;D

KJ
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 03, 2015, 08:57:33 PM
I am back home and I feel happy and a bit sad and excited and grateful for the internet, Easyjet, feminism, having options and ethical sluttery.

I also have a jar of Dutch peanut butter, because I want to find out what the fuss is about.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Sorted. on May 03, 2015, 09:01:05 PM
Come to.poison Ivy. 

Its erm...
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 03, 2015, 09:08:06 PM
I am back home and I feel happy and a bit sad and excited and grateful for the internet, Easyjet, feminism, having options and ethical sluttery.

I also have a jar of Dutch peanut butter, because I want to find out what the fuss is about.

Glad you had a great time and look forward to the Dungeon thread titled 'Dutch peanut butter, a review'  ;)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on May 03, 2015, 09:18:44 PM
I am back home and I feel happy and a bit sad and excited and grateful for the internet, Easyjet, feminism, having options and ethical sluttery.

I also have a jar of Dutch peanut butter, because I want to find out what the fuss is about.

Glad you had a great time and look forward to the Dungeon thread titled 'Dutch peanut butter, a review'  ;)

'Experiments with Dutch peanut butter: a kink perspective'
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 03, 2015, 09:28:38 PM
I am back home and I feel happy and a bit sad and excited and grateful for the internet, Easyjet, feminism, having options and ethical sluttery.

I also have a jar of Dutch peanut butter, because I want to find out what the fuss is about.

Glad you had a great time and look forward to the Dungeon thread titled 'Dutch peanut butter, a review'  ;)

'Experiments with Dutch peanut butter: a kink perspective'

^^^ so much better!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 03, 2015, 09:34:46 PM
I am back home and I feel happy and a bit sad and excited and grateful for the internet, Easyjet, feminism, having options and ethical sluttery.

I also have a jar of Dutch peanut butter, because I want to find out what the fuss is about.

Glad you had a great time and look forward to the Dungeon thread titled 'Dutch peanut butter, a review'  ;)

'Experiments with Dutch peanut butter: a kink perspective'

^^^ so much better!

More homework?
More homework.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on May 03, 2015, 09:51:46 PM
I am back home and I feel happy and a bit sad and excited and grateful for the internet, Easyjet, feminism, having options and ethical sluttery.

I also have a jar of Dutch peanut butter, because I want to find out what the fuss is about.

Glad you had a great time and look forward to the Dungeon thread titled 'Dutch peanut butter, a review'  ;)

'Experiments with Dutch peanut butter: a kink perspective'

^^^ so much better!

More homework?
More homework.

for you own good.  helps with drop prevention.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on May 03, 2015, 09:58:12 PM
I am back home and I feel happy and a bit sad and excited and grateful for the internet, Easyjet, feminism, having options and ethical sluttery.

I also have a jar of Dutch peanut butter, because I want to find out what the fuss is about.

Glad you had a great time and look forward to the Dungeon thread titled 'Dutch peanut butter, a review'  ;)

'Experiments with Dutch peanut butter: a kink perspective'

^^^ so much better!

More homework?
More homework.

for you own good.  helps with drop prevention.

Yeah don't drop that peanut butter....  :P  ;)

Its so nice to hear when things go well guys...I get all fizzy and warm inside  :-*


KJ xoxo
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 03, 2015, 10:06:36 PM
I am back home and I feel happy and a bit sad and excited and grateful for the internet, Easyjet, feminism, having options and ethical sluttery.

I also have a jar of Dutch peanut butter, because I want to find out what the fuss is about.

Glad you had a great time and look forward to the Dungeon thread titled 'Dutch peanut butter, a review'  ;)

'Experiments with Dutch peanut butter: a kink perspective'

^^^ so much better!

More homework?
More homework.

for you own good.  helps with drop prevention.

uhuh.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on May 03, 2015, 10:23:17 PM
Come to.poison Ivy. 

Its erm...

Really, don't...

You are a bad influence, Sorted :D

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 04, 2015, 07:31:41 AM

for you own good.  helps with drop prevention.

uhuh.

Such concern for my well-being.
I'm touched.


Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 04, 2015, 10:21:38 AM
Come to.poison Ivy. 

Its erm...

Really, don't...

You are a bad influence, Sorted :D

kitty

I googled to find out what this was. 'Drag queen glassed in karaoke incident'  :(
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on May 04, 2015, 10:39:27 AM
Yup! Also a big story about a benefits fraud case involving a drag queen. I've looked in but never been brave enough to step inside...

Sorted and Blythe are very brave...or stupid. ;D

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 04, 2015, 10:48:27 AM
Yup! Also a big story about a benefits fraud case involving a drag queen. I've looked in but never been brave enough to step inside...

Sorted and Blythe are very brave...or stupid. ;D

kitty

Sounds like there is a reporter nearby twitching the net curtains.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 04, 2015, 07:29:56 PM
Dutch peanut butter is nicer.
It's somehow more peanuttier than the stuff you get here.
And the mouthfeel is nicer - you don't get that thing where it sticks your tongue to the roof of your mouth.

None of those are euphemisms.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on May 04, 2015, 07:35:30 PM
The acid test is peanut butter on ryvita...if you are left with any saliva after that combination then it's a winner!

My random disclosure: not very dungeony...I am watching Macgyver. With my Dad. Somebody shoot me with a gun improvised from a microwave and some garden hose.

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 04, 2015, 07:37:39 PM
I could try cramming you into a microwave.
Would that help?

I'm drafting an email.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Goblin Flump on May 04, 2015, 07:38:56 PM
^^I loved macgyver as a kid.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on May 04, 2015, 07:40:35 PM
It hasn't aged well. There are a lot of mullets, and frosted pink lipstick.

@millicent - how's it going?

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on May 04, 2015, 07:44:35 PM
Mills I do not believe you, I think all of those.were.euphemism!

How on earth can one be watching Macgyver?? Is it on telly again?


I am officially been naturalized and assimilated as a Berlinerin. I went to a play party in jeans and trainers. This, I have been told, means I am a REAL Berlinerin, so many parties we don't worry about dressing up for.them all.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 04, 2015, 07:53:11 PM
@ Arig: I'm even struggling to think of what those might be euphemisms for.

@ Fetishkitty: not so great and I just remembered that I have to write it in fucking German. Bollocks.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 04, 2015, 07:55:50 PM
I also have to arrange to have the boiler serviced.
Again, not a euphemism and not in the least dungeon-y.

I'm so scared it'll cost loads of money.
I can't even remember the last time we had it looked at.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on May 04, 2015, 08:14:25 PM

@ Fetishkitty: not so great and I just remembered that I have to write it in fucking German. Bollocks.



Bullcrap. Pretend you don't speak German anymore. Really, you shot yourself in the foot way back at Folsom when you let everyone know you were German. You should have just pretended to be English, you would have got away with it easily.

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on May 04, 2015, 08:36:48 PM
@Millicent I have a great plumber/boilerman. Shout if you want his details.

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 04, 2015, 08:41:21 PM
Yes please @ boilerman details!  :D

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on May 04, 2015, 08:42:01 PM
@Millicent I have a great plumber

You did not declare this not to be an euphemism, so I say it is one.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on May 04, 2015, 08:49:07 PM
Actually, it's the start of a really bad porn movie.

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on May 04, 2015, 08:50:22 PM
Actually, it's the start of a really bad porn movie.

kitty

 ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 04, 2015, 09:32:35 PM
It hasn't aged well. There are a lot of mullets, and frosted pink lipstick.

@millicent - how's it going?

kitty

I never noticed he was wearing frosted pink lipstick.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on May 04, 2015, 09:55:24 PM
He made it himself from some old rusty nails and fishing twine. Probably.

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 05, 2015, 07:22:43 PM
Someone mentioned something about trying the Dutch peanut butter on ryvita, right?

Well I don't have ryvita in my house (I may be a masochist, but there are limits), so I tried it on a biscuit, because it's the same principle.

Fucking. Delicious.
I may have found the substance with which the road to obesity is paved.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 05, 2015, 07:38:30 PM
millicent I'm still not sure what the difference is between Dutch peanut butter and other types. I like this stuff https://www.ocado.com/webshop/product/Meridian-No-Added-Salt-Crunchy-Peanut-Butter/32162011?kpid=32162011&gclid=CI60_qyfq8UCFQLlwgodl3IAzQ (https://www.ocado.com/webshop/product/Meridian-No-Added-Salt-Crunchy-Peanut-Butter/32162011?kpid=32162011&gclid=CI60_qyfq8UCFQLlwgodl3IAzQ), I don't like the stuff crammed full of sugar.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on May 05, 2015, 07:44:32 PM
your homework?


@ Fetishkitty: not so great and I just remembered that I have to write it in fucking German. Bollocks.

but you will also write it in English so us monolinguists can perve err read it too?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 05, 2015, 07:48:01 PM
your homework?


@ Fetishkitty: not so great and I just remembered that I have to write it in fucking German. Bollocks.

but you will also write it in English so us monolinguists can perve err read it too?

Yes our ability to PERVE check in and make sure you had a lovely time is paramount!!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 05, 2015, 08:15:58 PM
your homework?


@ Fetishkitty: not so great and I just remembered that I have to write it in fucking German. Bollocks.

but you will also write it in English so us monolinguists can perve err read it too?

Yes our ability to PERVE check in and make sure you had a lovely time is paramount!!

No, the homework is going well.
And English. Obv.
So fear not, dear pervert friends.

The German thing is something else. And less pleasant.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 05, 2015, 08:17:27 PM
millicent I'm still not sure what the difference is between Dutch peanut butter and other types. I like this stuff https://www.ocado.com/webshop/product/Meridian-No-Added-Salt-Crunchy-Peanut-Butter/32162011?kpid=32162011&gclid=CI60_qyfq8UCFQLlwgodl3IAzQ (https://www.ocado.com/webshop/product/Meridian-No-Added-Salt-Crunchy-Peanut-Butter/32162011?kpid=32162011&gclid=CI60_qyfq8UCFQLlwgodl3IAzQ), I don't like the stuff crammed full of sugar.

Ooooohhh.
It do wonder if the one I have has sugar in it.

That is probably what makes it so damn delicious.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 07, 2015, 08:30:30 PM
Irrationally horny about the weirdest fucking things.
guess nothing much has changed then
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on May 07, 2015, 09:02:45 PM
Being back in (nearly) the same time zone fucking rocks. :D

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on May 07, 2015, 09:29:38 PM
Wondering what a kinky Twilight Zone would be like....

KJ
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 07, 2015, 09:34:17 PM
FINISHED.

Ahem. As you were.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on May 07, 2015, 09:39:28 PM
FINISHED.

Ahem. As you were.

Yay! Will it be in the other place?

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 07, 2015, 09:40:04 PM
I'm not sure. Maybe, if she likes it.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 07, 2015, 09:42:16 PM
I'm not sure. Maybe, if she likes it.

Oooh...  :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on May 07, 2015, 09:53:10 PM
Ausgezeichnet!

I am sooo looking forward to tomorrow, silk kimono and Chado clarity and peace of mind... Quasi kinky.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on May 07, 2015, 10:12:32 PM
FINISHED.

Ahem. As you were.

Have you requested one too?   :)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 08, 2015, 07:01:21 AM
FINISHED.

Ahem. As you were.

Have you requested one too?   :)

Hehehe. I wonder if she would write one for me.

I'm finding I quite like writing up scenes, but I think I forget loads and muddle stuff up because of mush-brain.
It would be fun to read her version of events. 
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on May 08, 2015, 07:18:14 AM
I thought you did really well. Especially if it was your first time doing such recounting. Yes indeed her version would be really nice to read to. Good job millicent  :)

KJ xoxo
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 08, 2015, 07:32:09 AM
Aw. Thank you.  :-*
To be fair it was my second one - I also wrote one for the scene we did at H&S. But the first scene was a lot easier to write up, because I feel like I made it to end and finished it properly, if that makes sense.
I read your post in the service tread and I empathise re. the perfectionism.  :-[

It's a strange feeling to see the reports on her profile on FL and to know people actually read them. Strange, but not unpleasant.  :)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: nismat on May 08, 2015, 07:43:15 AM
Can we all just hide away here in the Dungeon today?
Safer than the world outside.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 08, 2015, 07:45:49 AM
 :D

I'm up for that.
I just looked at BBC news. Ugh.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 08, 2015, 08:37:47 AM
Urgh, woke up looked at the election results, went and disappeared into FL for a while to escape.  :-\

Enjoyed reading your report Mills.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on May 08, 2015, 09:12:55 AM
Aw. Thank you.  :-*
To be fair it was my second one - I also wrote one for the scene we did at H&S. But the first scene was a lot easier to write up, because I feel like I made it to end and finished it properly, if that makes sense.
I read your post in the service tread and I empathise re. the perfectionism.  :-[

It's a strange feeling to see the reports on her profile on FL and to know people actually read them. Strange, but not unpleasant.  :)

Yes it does, you obviously at the time felt you had to "complete" being a fellow perfectionist ( if I am understanding you correctly) but I don't think the aim was to complete, you know that now I'm sure, it was incredibly brave.

To me bravery is doing something you don't have to do due to risk and or fears, yet you do it anyway because from it comes either growth, reward, positive progress, inner strength reinforcement or all  of the above. (This can be personal or societal)

@PE after reading and voting in the how to deal with trolls thread I was about to reply but thought "fuck it" and spent the rest of the evening/morning on FL. So between voting here and the elections...I'm done!  ::)

KJ xoxo
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 08, 2015, 09:29:03 AM
Aw. Thank you.  :-*
To be fair it was my second one - I also wrote one for the scene we did at H&S. But the first scene was a lot easier to write up, because I feel like I made it to end and finished it properly, if that makes sense.
I read your post in the service tread and I empathise re. the perfectionism.  :-[

It's a strange feeling to see the reports on her profile on FL and to know people actually read them. Strange, but not unpleasant.  :)

Yes it does, you obviously at the time felt you had to "complete" being a fellow perfectionist ( if I am understanding you correctly) but I don't think the aim was to complete, you know that now I'm sure, it was incredibly brave.



Yes what KJ said. I think the feeling of 'not able to do enough' is a very common one, especially if relatively new, the important bit is knowing the perception/expectation of self is out of whack!!
Loved your description of flying Mills.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on May 08, 2015, 09:56:38 AM
 DRD - I can only summise that the fact it's not happened yet the universe doesnt agree that I'm ready....

KJ
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on May 08, 2015, 10:32:03 AM
DRD why on OKC Does EVERYONE answer "Left hand" to this question...
"If you turn a left-handed glove inside out it fits..."...???  >:(

The fucking answer is ya right hand ya bunch of ignits * :D :D ..try it...I use marigolds to wash up and trust me, when one gets damaged I keep the undamaged glove knowing I will in time damage the other hand of another pair at some point....so if I damage a right hand glove and only have a spare lefty I turn it inside out to use on my right hand... ::)


*Disclaimer: my use of the term ignit is in jest only, clearly I don't want to offend the <1% left who appear to be potential matches  ;)

KJ xoxo
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 08, 2015, 06:52:55 PM
Aw. Thank you.  :-*
To be fair it was my second one - I also wrote one for the scene we did at H&S. But the first scene was a lot easier to write up, because I feel like I made it to end and finished it properly, if that makes sense.
I read your post in the service tread and I empathise re. the perfectionism.  :-[

It's a strange feeling to see the reports on her profile on FL and to know people actually read them. Strange, but not unpleasant.  :)

Yes it does, you obviously at the time felt you had to "complete" being a fellow perfectionist ( if I am understanding you correctly) but I don't think the aim was to complete, you know that now I'm sure, it was incredibly brave.



Yes what KJ said. I think the feeling of 'not able to do enough' is a very common one, especially if relatively new, the important bit is knowing the perception/expectation of self is out of whack!!
Loved your description of flying Mills.
I know. I know.

And thank you.


Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 08, 2015, 06:54:48 PM
DRD why on OKC Does EVERYONE answer "Left hand" to this question...
"If you turn a left-handed glove inside out it fits..."...???  >:(

The fucking answer is ya right hand ya bunch of ignits * :D :D ..try it...I use marigolds to wash up and trust me, when one gets damaged I keep the undamaged glove knowing I will in time damage the other hand of another pair at some point....so if I damage a right hand glove and only have a spare lefty I turn it inside out to use on my right hand... ::)


*Disclaimer: my use of the term ignit is in jest only, clearly I don't want to offend the <1% left who appear to be potential matches  ;)

KJ xoxo

That seems like a weird question for a dating profile.
What is it trying to achieve?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on May 08, 2015, 07:13:25 PM
That's nothing.....theres many more like that   ::)

KJ xoxo
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 08, 2015, 07:17:03 PM
How strange.  :D
What else do they ask, and why?

Although at the moment just thinking about having another relationship again makes me feel a bit sick and my arms feel heavy.
I don't know if this is a temporary thing or if this is it now, but I reckon I should stay away from dating sites while I feel like that.  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on May 08, 2015, 07:37:51 PM
Some downright silly....aptitude tests etc...

Example;
Quote
   STALE is to STEAL as 89475 is to... 
  ::)

Don't get me wrong I love my relationship but f*%# its hard work, especially negotiating sex/kink etc...but you make singledom look so good right now. I think you are making the right choice for right now, be it another 12 months or 2years. You will know when you find someone you feel strongly about. You seem to be having so much fun. Enjoy it, you deserve it  ;).

I'm on there and to be honest I get disappointed and dispondent and wonder why I bother but I don't have any other resource or connections to really find my match and LGBTQ kink club nights seem not be on weekends because going out on a school night is fine for the carefree majority in LGBTQ spaces. So sadly my options are limited.

OK I think I've just depressed damn myself .... ::)  :-\


KJ xoxo

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 08, 2015, 09:18:54 PM
Noooo, don't be depressed. You should really come to conference next Easter.  :-*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on May 08, 2015, 09:34:53 PM
Noooo, don't be depressed. You should really come to conference next Easter.  :-*

I know, its just a long way away.

In the mean time I'm doing everything I can to combat and distract from SF ...reading, holiday planning, reading, holiday planning..and much to Yang's dismay... shopping sprees... :D :D

To be honest I don't want to attend with all my hopes pinned on it and any expectation other than just being in kinky space with friends and with or without a kinky partner, as I want to attend with an open mind and body not a starved one.  ::)

KJ xoxo
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on May 08, 2015, 09:43:06 PM
Not very Dungeony but....JML have some cool products/inventions ....


DRD2 - I don't know why but I feel like I'm sulking a lot about not finding a match and its kind of embarassing.
When I was single in the Vanilla sense I wasn't bothered at all but for some reason I get all sulky and emotional about all this pent up kinkiness I have with no way to release it.. I think maybe I need to have down time to think about why that is..   ???

KJ
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Goblin Flump on May 09, 2015, 10:03:12 AM
^ absolutely. Stoopid Cupid *huffs*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on May 09, 2015, 10:30:17 AM
^ absolutely. Stoopid Cupid *huffs*

 :D  :-*


KJ xoxo
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 09, 2015, 12:05:50 PM
When I was single in the Vanilla sense I wasn't bothered at all but for some reason I get all sulky and emotional about all this pent up kinkiness I have with no way to release it.

No, I understand.
I know I'm a more well rounded person when I get to play.
I hope you find someone who is perfect for you really soon.

What we need is more parties in the UK, I reckon. Lure the tops out of their lairs.  ;)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 09, 2015, 01:08:42 PM

I know I'm a more well rounded person when I get to play.


THIS, absolutely!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on May 09, 2015, 05:14:15 PM
Not very Dungeony but....JML have some cool products/inventions ....


DRD2 - I don't know why but I feel like I'm sulking a lot about not finding a match and its kind of embarassing.
When I was single in the Vanilla sense I wasn't bothered at all but for some reason I get all sulky and emotional about all this pent up kinkiness I have with no way to release it.. I think maybe I need to have down time to think about why that is..   ???

KJ

oh I think someone somewhere would be able to kink JML products.

And don't feel embarrassed about not finding a match - one has requirements and it would only be a disappointment to amend them in the hope it will mean you and whomever will 'fit'. That never works in the long term. Sometimes not even in the short.

And be sulky and emotional. The unwanted emotions creep up on me even when the rational part says its all going to be fine, but as someone said to me, its ok to let them out.    :)

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on May 10, 2015, 08:38:23 AM
When I was single in the Vanilla sense I wasn't bothered at all but for some reason I get all sulky and emotional about all this pent up kinkiness I have with no way to release it.

No, I understand.
I know I'm a more well rounded person when I get to play.
I hope you find someone who is perfect for you really soon.

What we need is more parties in the UK, I reckon. Lure the tops out of their lairs.  ;)

Hey millicent

Thank you  :-*

Being here and reading all your views and experiences are helping me to understand mine. Especially as a submissive and/or bottom hearing from others.
Yes maybe we should start lurring them out, may be with an LGBTQ submissives auction, all proceeds going to charity and only Dominants/Tops bid  :D
*enter affected dream music and swirly visions*  ;D


I know I'm a more well rounded person when I get to play.


THIS, absolutely!

That was my sentiment when I read that too, much like when I read Millicent's description of her experience stilling her mind and thoughts.

Not very Dungeony but....JML have some cool products/inventions ....


DRD2 - I don't know why but I feel like I'm sulking a lot about not finding a match and its kind of embarassing.
When I was single in the Vanilla sense I wasn't bothered at all but for some reason I get all sulky and emotional about all this pent up kinkiness I have with no way to release it.. I think maybe I need to have down time to think about why that is..   ???

KJ

oh I think someone somewhere would be able to kink JML products.


 :D @your JML comment...I've just purchased that radiator duster thingy...very bendy and scratchy...   :o...oops I think I'm becoming that "someone somewhere"  :-[ :D :D

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And don't feel embarrassed about not finding a match - one has requirements and it would only be a disappointment to amend them in the hope it will mean you and whomever will 'fit'. That never works in the long term. Sometimes not even in the short.

And be sulky and emotional. The unwanted emotions creep up on me even when the rational part says its all going to be fine, but as someone said to me, its ok to let them out.    :)

Thank you mg. You are totally right, it has occurred to me to make changes and amendments, even to just try being a Domme but its not me and if it ever becomes something I'm interested in, as I'm not totally ruling it out, its in very specific types of situations.

I think I don't feel so bad privately sulking, its when it spills out publicly that I get embarrassed and try to reign myself in. Thanks for the support and encouragement it means a lot especially as I've actually met you guys in person.

KJ  :-*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 10, 2015, 09:30:57 AM

Yes maybe we should start lurring them out, may be with an LGBTQ submissives auction, all proceeds going to charity and only Dominants/Tops bid  :D
*enter affected dream music and swirly visions*  ;D


I think I'd sit this one out.  ;)
Too many bad memories of PE lessons.  ;D

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And don't feel embarrassed about not finding a match - one has requirements and it would only be a disappointment to amend them in the hope it will mean you and whomever will 'fit'. That never works in the long term. Sometimes not even in the short.

And be sulky and emotional. The unwanted emotions creep up on me even when the rational part says its all going to be fine, but as someone said to me, its ok to let them out.    :)

Thank you mg. You are totally right, it has occurred to me to make changes and amendments, even to just try being a Domme but its not me and if it ever becomes something I'm interested in, as I'm not totally ruling it out, its in very specific types of situations.

I think I don't feel so bad privately sulking, its when it spills out publicly that I get embarrassed and try to reign myself in. Thanks for the support and encouragement it means a lot especially as I've actually met you guys in person.


The gnome is really rather wise.  :)


DRD: I think real life would be greatly enhanced if safewords worked IRL.

I'm trying to work out if I'm over-reacting (I may be, I guess), but at the moment it feels like [METAPHOR ALERT] I'm in a rubber dinghy and I'm paddling along, only my ex has tied firework bangers to the outside and lights one when she feels like it. And when I complain that it makes my rubber dinghy do most unpleasant things when she does that, she doesn't really see what the fuss is about and then I start doubting my reaction. [/METAPHOR ALERT].

But yeah - how awesome would it be if you could just ask people to stop doing stuff you don't want them to do and they actually stop doing it, just because you asked?
Very awesome.


Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on May 10, 2015, 11:02:37 AM


The gnome is really rather wise.  :)


DRD:

I'm trying to work out if I'm over-reacting (I may be, I guess



No, not wise, just experienced.

and no you are not overreacting. x
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on May 10, 2015, 11:08:05 AM
I never did physical education....knockers made me knackered. But I do have a fear of not being picked, if that isn't already apparent but I counter that by adding the greater good being the proceeds from those successfully auctioned going to charity, voila! I'd feel somewhat better for having organised it.

Mg does seem to come out with some sage words. We all love a wise old gnome.  :D

And no, you are not overreacting at all.  :-*

DRD- Watching Dexter on Netflix was really cathartic last night, alone, in the dark.... I think I will fit in another episode before I start tidying up and before anyone returns from their weekend away doing fun things.

KJ
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 10, 2015, 11:40:40 AM
how awesome would it be if you could just ask people to stop doing stuff you don't want them to do and they actually stop doing it, just because you asked?
Very awesome.

Wry laughter. I hear you on the 'Am I just over reacting??'. What I watch for is how my denial works as an assistant to other peoples bad behaviour. A complex little mind fuck but it can be stopped  - where as other peoples behaviour can't.

Very curious about PE lessons  :P
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 10, 2015, 12:43:31 PM
Very curious about PE lessons  :P

I was always picked last.
Apparently with most team sports at school it didn't matter how funny, charming or otherwise engaging you were, only how well you handled balls.
And I was shit at that, to be fair.
Still am.

ETA:
Final DRD before I continue with the chores: 4 more days until Easyjet makes the flexible fares for the Folsom dates available.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 10, 2015, 12:57:17 PM

Final DRD before I continue with the chores: 4 more days until Easyjet makes the flexible fares for the Folsom dates available.

there goes my budget!  ::)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on May 10, 2015, 12:57:32 PM

I was always picked last.
Apparently with most team sports at school it didn't matter how funny, charming or otherwise engaging you were, only how well you handled balls.
And I was shit at that, to be fair.
Still am.



*snigger*   ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 10, 2015, 05:30:58 PM
Urgh, I wonder what that level of self deception must feel like? You blow, like flotsam in the wind.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on May 10, 2015, 07:04:37 PM
My DRD,  seeing SexGeek mentioned in service thread reminded me that SexGeek gives a good firm weighty punch.  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 10, 2015, 07:20:58 PM
My DRD,  seeing SexGeek mentioned in service thread reminded me that SexGeek gives a good firm weighty punch.  ;D

 ;D ;D I've also seen her really sink her teeth in.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on May 10, 2015, 07:24:38 PM
My DRD,  seeing SexGeek mentioned in service thread reminded me that SexGeek gives a good firm weighty punch.  ;D

 ;D ;D I've also seen her really sink her teeth in.

he he.

do you think her ears are burning!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 10, 2015, 07:29:58 PM
My DRD,  seeing SexGeek mentioned in service thread reminded me that SexGeek gives a good firm weighty punch.  ;D

 ;D ;D I've also seen her really sink her teeth in.

he he.

do you think her ears are burning!

God what a horrifying thought! Imagine if that really happened, sometimes peoples ears would burst into FLAMES.

*fluffs magicians cotton*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on May 10, 2015, 07:31:49 PM
My DRD,  seeing SexGeek mentioned in service thread reminded me that SexGeek gives a good firm weighty punch.  ;D

 ;D ;D I've also seen her really sink her teeth in.

he he.

do you think her ears are burning!

God what a horrifying thought! Imagine if that really happened, sometimes peoples ears would burst into FLAMES.

*fluffs magicians cotton*

 :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 10, 2015, 08:11:43 PM
Is FL down? Or is it just me?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on May 10, 2015, 08:15:03 PM
Just you...what did you do?

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 10, 2015, 08:18:44 PM
Is FL down? Or is it just me?

Maybe you've been banned  :P
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on May 10, 2015, 08:24:31 PM
Is FL down? Or is it just me?

Maybe you've been banned  :P

I don't know why but this made me laugh very loud. Ok, truthfully it was more of a cackle ... ok ok, it was a full on sadistic glee cackle. But I feel bad about it! Sort of. Almost.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 10, 2015, 08:31:15 PM
Hehehe.

I wonder what you would have to do to get banned.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: mint on May 11, 2015, 10:38:40 AM
^ Violate the terms of service/terms of use or whatever it's called

DRD
That should put it all in perspective but somehow it doesn't.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 11, 2015, 07:31:42 PM
DRD: It's harder than it looks.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 11, 2015, 10:53:11 PM
went shopping at Regulation today and stocked up on lube and gloves, I have no idea why.

<<<< unnerved by my subconscious.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on May 12, 2015, 04:28:38 AM
DRD: It's harder than it looks.

Phnarr

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 12, 2015, 09:09:50 PM
went shopping at Regulation today and stocked up on lube and gloves, I have no idea why.

<<<< unnerved by my subconscious.

Can you ever have too many gloves? Not really.



There are certain aspects of my life I feel a little bit apprehensive about.

But about all the aspects of my life that relate to me being a pervert I feel the opposite of apprehensive.  :)
I feel lucky, and grateful. *does a little twirl* *skips*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 12, 2015, 09:16:39 PM


There are certain aspects of my life I feel a little bit apprehensive about.

But about all the aspects of my life that relate to me being a pervert I feel the opposite of apprehensive.  :)
I feel lucky, and grateful. *does a little twirl* *skips*

like a music box ballerina, but with cane marks on her thighs  :D

as for the gloves, well erm... wtf am I going to do with them? I do understand what gloves are for It's an impulse purchase I feel emotionally unprepared for!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 13, 2015, 07:23:00 PM

like a music box ballerina, but with cane marks on her thighs  :D


I love that.  :D


as for the gloves, well erm... wtf am I going to do with them? I do understand what gloves are for It's an impulse purchase I feel emotionally unprepared for!

They are very handy for chopping chillies.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 13, 2015, 10:40:21 PM
I really love negotiation, especially when it involves being mean to the other person via head fucks. *cough*


*snigger*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on May 13, 2015, 11:06:34 PM
yey  on evil negotiations, I love those... Wait, is there any other kind? :-P


PE about the box of gloves, I thought you may want to take up a little hobby and.make yourself a.little box cover, it is a relaxing activity and delays the issue of being emotionally unprepared for them, and for some inspiration:

 http://www.antiquetissuecovers.com/victorian-tissue-box-covers.html


If.you start making these can I have one with red and tiger print ruffled lace?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 13, 2015, 11:11:44 PM
^^^^ ;D ;D ;D Excellent!!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: nismat on May 14, 2015, 08:13:43 AM
Oh. My. Eyes.  :o :o :o
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on May 14, 2015, 10:53:55 PM
Piss play today. Aspargus on dinner plate last night.  ;D

Bloody hilarious!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 16, 2015, 12:26:53 PM
Browsing a bookshelf today the title of the book (can't recall it) was vanilla, but the authours name was Dick Leatherman.  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: mint on May 16, 2015, 01:25:07 PM
^ That made me laugh. What a name!

Almost as bad as Jack Goff :/
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 16, 2015, 01:46:18 PM
I looked it up and apparently Dick Leatherman writes rather dull sounding management/human resources books. Can't help but thinking there must be a bit of sniggering in the front row.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on May 16, 2015, 03:08:44 PM
Tired, throat inflamed, it looks like the whole weekend is being cancelled due to My body deciding I need to rest. Fine day for it, it's grey out and all so I am pleased to be stuck in sofa! :-)


Is it a great luck or a great embarrassment to find yourself saddled with the name Dick  Leatherman? Or is it an embarrassment of riches :-P
There is a woman working ad a receptionist somewhere in UK whose last name is Whore. True story!! And she was married, which made me wonder did she choose ro keep this family name or side she chose to take on her husband's name...

Meanwhile, at lingerie department helping gf find something yesterday, I chattered away in My poor German to the helpful lingerie lady and as she told us the silicone nipple covers (non kinky) could be washed I asked:
Can it be washed easily with some water and mustard? (seife /soap ; senf /mustard - I mix this up all the time)
Lingerie lady, very seriously says: No, do NOT do that.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 16, 2015, 03:40:59 PM
senf  ;D

Serbian words for tits and cheese are very close. I have asked for 'some tits please' in a cheese shop and been laughed at accordingly.

Hope you feel better soon x
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: mint on May 16, 2015, 04:17:04 PM
There's a Willie Stroker (judge) in the US.

I've used estoy caliente (meaning I'm hot - but not in the way I intended) in a horribly inappropriate setting once and then realised, which was a bit mortifying, but aside from that think I've managed to avoid asking for anything out of the ordinary. Although, who knows! (my Spanish is shit)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on May 16, 2015, 07:29:41 PM
Hope you recovered from your spoons crash too PE, and just for *educational purposes* could you tell us HOW does one ask for tits in Serbia, just curious like... :P


A whole life time ago, with Greek partner and her parents visiting, I speak no Greek but managed to recognize a word her mother used as similar to another I had heard often from partner so I asked "is that like blablabla?" which was followed by a heavy silence from gf and both her parents and furtive looks of "not now" from gf...

I sort of forgot the only Greek I knew.and heard regularly was from sex talk where.gf reverted to Greek very often, and that which I.repeated was a firm of a verb, same verb her.mother was using, but the form I.repeated is used only in the sexual sense of "take me/fuck  me".
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 17, 2015, 12:12:49 AM
^^^ priceless!!

Energy crash was much improved by a solid nights sleep, one day I may learn about pacing myself  ::)

sir is cheese, sise ...tits. outloud they sound quite close.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 17, 2015, 06:14:11 AM
This weekend was exactly what I needed after last week's crappiness.  :)

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 17, 2015, 12:05:49 PM
This weekend was exactly what I needed after last week's crappiness.  :)

Did you get the crepes?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 17, 2015, 03:10:39 PM
This weekend was exactly what I needed after last week's crappiness.  :)

Did you get the crepes?

No crepes. Still stuffed.  :)

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: mint on May 17, 2015, 06:51:09 PM
^ Replacing crappiness with crepeyness - sounds good :)
Oh, that's made me hungry now.

Arig, that's funny!
kind of reminds me of baiser
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on May 17, 2015, 09:54:01 PM

I wanna go to Serbia and ask for tits.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 18, 2015, 07:09:43 AM
There weren't actually any crepes.
There was creme brûlée and ice cream though.

And other stuff.  :)
I was saying yesterday that I feel like I've been on holiday or something.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 18, 2015, 01:58:04 PM
Spellcheck wants to change dollification into jollification  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on May 18, 2015, 08:30:42 PM
My countdowns are currently:
Brighton visitor - 10
Paris - 32
Berlin summer party - 61
Folsom - 115

:)

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 18, 2015, 09:03:18 PM
Hurrah for countdowns!

Mine are:
SanFran visitor: 4 days!!
PKL: 9 days
Berlin summer party - 61
Folsom - 115
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on May 18, 2015, 09:06:11 PM
Mine:

Jealousy of other peoples' play freedom: 0 days.

More jealousy: 0 days.

*sulks*

 :P
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 18, 2015, 09:06:59 PM
^^^heh!!  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 18, 2015, 09:41:25 PM
She really, really liked it.   :) :) :)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on May 18, 2015, 09:42:35 PM
Hurrah!!! :) :) :)

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on May 18, 2015, 10:40:40 PM

Jollification sounds like a kink one could jolly well get into!!


My countdown is however many minutes it takes for pain killer to be innefective against period pain again, I get exhausted anyway and get into bed where hot hot long bodied gf sleeps and grab her ass to soothe me to sleep too.

I fear I am boring, but only polite fear, the kind that doesn't count or scare anyone at all. Which means I don't really give a fuck. So... I don't care if I am classified as boring.

Today I was exhausted from second day of period pain, unable to resume normal day routine, with limited capacitaty brain activity but happy happy happy. Because I have managed to learn to occasionaly be happy independent of circumstances, it's quite an handy thing!!

Was that random enough?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 19, 2015, 05:37:21 AM
I keep doing little schoolgirl type giggles.

But as afflictions go, there are worse ones.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on May 19, 2015, 07:15:09 PM
The new Mad Max film is deliciously pervy at times. And Charlize Theron is totally dreamy.

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 19, 2015, 08:39:00 PM
Today is a good day.
All the stars aligned and everyone* is happy.

*Disclaimer: not 'everyone' everyone. You know, my people.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on May 19, 2015, 09:08:09 PM


I imagine a small locker opening and a town of little happy people inside residing in your living room. Once in a while you open it and put a slice of cake and a tiny glass of bubbly in there.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 19, 2015, 09:16:42 PM
^^^and there is tiny cheering.

less DRD, more RRDQ: Why do the athletic things done in high heels, which seem so easy at the time, hurt SO MUCH afterwards?

and


OW.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on May 19, 2015, 10:08:27 PM


Even without any athletics, just an evening in heels gives me pain next day, damn leg muscles! If I get enough energy and manage to start going swimming, will that work up necessary muscles for high jinxs? High heel wearing that is...


Will try to sleep now and stop day dreaming about My shower and having nice servant in there with me or having submissive packed into clingfilm sitting on shower floor awaiting more pain and water torture...

I WILL go to sleep and stop thinking about that...
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 20, 2015, 07:21:55 AM


I imagine a small locker opening and a town of little happy people inside residing in your living room. Once in a while you open it and put a slice of cake and a tiny glass of bubbly in there.

Wow! Spot on! It's like you've been to my house!

^^^and there is tiny cheering.

And tiny macrame floggers and electric daisies.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on May 20, 2015, 01:44:37 PM
Looking on eBay for weaving thread, noticed cut resistant fillet knife glove appeared in the search results... Now thats random

KJ
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 20, 2015, 09:20:54 PM
You know I generally think of myself as a pervert with fairly simple tastes, meaning that there are a few basic things I like which always hit the spot. Lately the idea of dollification has completely done my head in. I'm both pleased and surprised....and horny!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 20, 2015, 09:32:08 PM
I find people and what they are into endlessly fascinating.
Talk about 'life's rich tapestry'.  :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on May 20, 2015, 09:42:04 PM
You know I generally think of myself as a pervert with fairly simple tastes, meaning that there are a few basic things I like which always hit the spot. Lately the idea of dollification has completely done my head in. I'm both pleased and surprised....and horny!

dolls are quite simple tho.  totally dumb actually.  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 20, 2015, 09:48:16 PM
You know I generally think of myself as a pervert with fairly simple tastes, meaning that there are a few basic things I like which always hit the spot. Lately the idea of dollification has completely done my head in. I'm both pleased and surprised....and horny!

dolls are quite simple tho.  totally dumb actually.  ;D

nope, I'm fairly sure that if you thump them hard enough those little voice box things inside of them make noises.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 20, 2015, 09:54:13 PM
marzipan gnome, do you want to be Chip or Ken?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on May 20, 2015, 09:55:53 PM
marzipan gnome, do you want to be Chip or Ken?

Who is Chip?  I am no Ken !
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 20, 2015, 09:56:46 PM
marzipan gnome, do you want to be Chip or Ken?

Who is Chip?  I am no Ken !

Action man?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on May 20, 2015, 09:59:16 PM
marzipan gnome, do you want to be Chip or Ken?

Who is Chip?  I am no Ken !

Action man?

lol.  Did action man have a name?  Ken is Barbie's boyfriend.   'Chip' sounds as cheezy as Ken. Not very action man
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: nismat on May 20, 2015, 10:03:30 PM
Was he Sindy's boyfriend?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on May 20, 2015, 10:08:05 PM
Was he Sindy's boyfriend?

Sindy had a boyfriend? 
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 20, 2015, 10:08:49 PM
Was he Sindy's boyfriend?

Well that's what he and Ken said.  ::)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: mint on May 20, 2015, 10:23:15 PM
I always thought Ken was creepy as fuck.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on May 21, 2015, 07:01:52 AM
 :D
Sindy's boyfriend was called 'Paul'....

KJ
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 21, 2015, 10:10:03 AM
:D
Sindy's boyfriend was called 'Paul'....

KJ

I'm glad someone is properly informed :P
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: mint on May 21, 2015, 11:05:13 AM
55 gallons of lube
http://www.amazon.com/Passion-Natural-Water-Based-Lubricant-Gallon/dp/B005MR3IVO
Why?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on May 21, 2015, 12:37:24 PM
I think the more pertinent question would be, 55 gallons of lube? Why not?

In My case it comes down to space, a small one bedroom just doesn't have the  space for gallons of lube, however, I will look into buying it together with various friends so we can dose it out amongst various bodies... I mean, places. Houses.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Bizoute on May 21, 2015, 12:43:49 PM
55 gallons of lube
http://www.amazon.com/Passion-Natural-Water-Based-Lubricant-Gallon/dp/B005MR3IVO
Why?

To drown Ken.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 21, 2015, 12:59:28 PM
55 gallons of lube
http://www.amazon.com/Passion-Natural-Water-Based-Lubricant-Gallon/dp/B005MR3IVO
Why?

To drown Ken.

Liking your style  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on May 21, 2015, 09:14:43 PM
55 gallons of lube
http://www.amazon.com/Passion-Natural-Water-Based-Lubricant-Gallon/dp/B005MR3IVO
Why?

To drown Ken.

 :D...take barbie while ya at it. Skinny bitch

KJ xoxo
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 21, 2015, 10:52:47 PM
55 gallons of lube
http://www.amazon.com/Passion-Natural-Water-Based-Lubricant-Gallon/dp/B005MR3IVO
Why?

To drown Ken.

 :D...take barbie while ya at it. Skinny bitch

KJ xoxo

I have uses for Barbie. *stares hard at human doll*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 21, 2015, 10:55:04 PM
And in other news

;D ;D ;D CANES  ;D ;D ;D CANES ;D ;D ;D CANES  ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 22, 2015, 05:50:30 AM
^^^ :D

Plural. Nice.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on May 22, 2015, 07:51:41 AM
55 gallons of lube
http://www.amazon.com/Passion-Natural-Water-Based-Lubricant-Gallon/dp/B005MR3IVO
Why?

To drown Ken.

 :D...take barbie while ya at it. Skinny bitch

KJ xoxo

I have uses for Barbie. *stares hard at human doll*

 :D

DRD- 2 weeks to go....H-o-l-i-d-a-y. Sun, sand, blue sea and the Spanish language... *swoon*

KJ
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: mint on May 22, 2015, 11:15:48 AM
Ooh. Have fun x
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 22, 2015, 07:17:48 PM
This disclosure isn't really dungeonesque, but hey:

I have to fill in my last divorce form now and I'm dreading it because it looks boring as hell.
But I'm meeting my ex for breakfast tomorrow to go through it, so it's not optional.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 22, 2015, 07:34:15 PM
^^erm kind of torture? *edit* Mills, I mean the paper work.

My DRD, waiting for my 'friend date' to pick me up. CANES. Hoping the mood grabs me and the violence gives me a boost, as it's been an emotional day.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on May 22, 2015, 07:43:26 PM
Omg  :o :o :o I just sent my driving instructor an inappropriate text cancelling my lesson tomorrow....

It read
Quote
Hi Chris. Dirty git...
in fact should have read
Quote
Hi Chris. Sorry for...

 :-[ :-[

KJ
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 22, 2015, 07:52:07 PM
^^^ Hahahaha ;D
Excellent.

^^erm kind of torture? *edit* Mills, I mean the paper work.

Plus, where there's paper there is the risk of paper cuts.
It wasn't so bad actually. I've done enough to see her tomorrow. Some of the questions I don't understand.
Also disappointed that there is no 'HELL, NO' box for the question if the applicant (that's me) is planning to co-habit or form another civil partnership.

My DRD, waiting for my 'friend date' to pick me up. CANES. Hoping the mood grabs me and the violence gives me a boost, as it's been an emotional day.

Yay for de-stressing friend play-date. I hope you'll have an amazing time.  :-*

If I was only allowed to do one kinky activity for the rest of my life, I would pick needles.
But canes would be close seconds.
I *heart* canes.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: nismat on May 22, 2015, 08:34:22 PM
Omg  :o :o :o I just sent my driving instructor an inappropriate text cancelling my lesson tomorrow....

It read
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Hi Chris. Dirty git...
in fact should have read
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Hi Chris. Sorry for...

 :-[ :-[

KJ


bwahahaha  ;D

Sorry, shouldn't laugh quite so much...
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on May 22, 2015, 11:04:15 PM
Kj, I *have to* ask, how did your auto correct go from "sorry but" to "dirty git"? And has the dirty git replied??.

Hope canes revived you PE, although one of My absolute favourites, reading Millicent comment on *if* having to.choose obey kinky activity almost made me scream, it's like Sophie's choice in My heart. Only worse. Canes? Needles? Blood? Tape? Gags? Heels torture? Head bondage?

Words fail me, what an horrible horrible thought to put in someone's head, having to choose ONE kinky activity????
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 23, 2015, 06:25:24 AM
Words fail me, what an horrible horrible thought to put in someone's head, having to choose ONE kinky activity????

I'm sorry.
I'm clearly twisted.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on May 23, 2015, 08:06:49 AM
Omg  :o :o :o I just sent my driving instructor an inappropriate text cancelling my lesson tomorrow....

It read
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Hi Chris. Dirty git...
in fact should have read
Quote
Hi Chris. Sorry for...

 :-[ :-[

KJ


bwahahaha  ;D

Sorry, shouldn't laugh quite so much...

No,you shouldn't  ;D

Kj, I *have to* ask, how did your auto correct go from "sorry but" to "dirty git"? And has the dirty git replied??.


I seriously don't know ??? I don't use my phone to text my perversions I prefer whatsapp on my tablet...

Yeah he replied just before I realised and said
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Hi. Predictive text can be embarrassing just check the message you sent me. Thanks for letting me know.

 :-[  ;D I wanted to reply;
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what thanks for letting you know I think you're a dirty git?
as I often try humour to deflect my embarrassments, but thought better of it. ::)

KJ
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 23, 2015, 09:10:38 AM
Canes did totally revive me  :D to a suprising degree. Even fugued into an impromtu mini-demo of using an ordinary plastic shopping bag for breath play....just for laughs.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on May 23, 2015, 09:12:25 AM
 ;D *clapping* ...  :-*

KJ
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on May 23, 2015, 11:13:27 AM
I cannot stand Dexters sister >:( she is highly annoying, whiney, and generally a really irritating character.
Does she die? True to my contrarian nature, I'm only on season 2.

KJ
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 23, 2015, 06:43:56 PM
Hurrah for canes revival.  :D

Divorce breakfast went well, we have agreed on what we'll put on the form (it's called a consent order) and hopefully the court will agree that what we want to do is fair.
I said that I still worry about her (mostly about her finances and the new woman being mean to her) and then she said that she still worried about me (mostly about the kink - she saw some of my Easter bruises and was more shocked than she admitted at the time) and then she said that she loved me so much for such a long time and that she's pleased I still worry about her and then we both started crying, right in the middle of our favourite cafe.  ::) ;D

We had a big hug and recovered fairly quickly.
I guess 17 years is a long time to be with someone.

I spent the rest of the day going through stuff and started packing.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 23, 2015, 07:30:12 PM
^^^ awww
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: mint on May 23, 2015, 08:14:00 PM
millicent, glad it went well :).
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on May 23, 2015, 10:52:51 PM
It sounds like a lot of good results for all today, glad to read, My DRD is that I think I may be a twisted sick pessimist. I cannot feel any gladness or any kind of positive feelings at hearing great news from some vote gone a good way. All I can feel is My teeth grinding at the thought that *I TOO* want to travel somewhere to vote on straight marriage.

And I would vote against, fuck ' em.

I have turned into a cynical hard to please bitch, it's a good thing I love masochists.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on May 23, 2015, 10:55:54 PM
Yeah...I don't want a seat at the table. I want to smash the table to smithereens and make everyone eat off the floor!

Equality shmequality

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 23, 2015, 10:57:53 PM
uhuh. Arig, please don't think you are alone in bitterness, this would be untrue!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on May 23, 2015, 11:41:44 PM
Oh? There is so much.joy and glad tidings at *results* I started to think I must be a bitter fucked up individual who finds the whole *vote.on My life now* disgusting. Sometimes it seems we are all supposed to be happy at the dirty crums some sick people have decided to throw our way?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Bizoute on May 24, 2015, 12:07:07 AM
^I am simultaneously pleased about it and really mixed. Because...pinkwashing. And in general, my feelings about it are still catching up with me.

And because I really hate heteronormativity. So much. I hate how many people buy into it without noticing. I hate how many inequalities (subtle and overt) it sets up; I hate the values (relationship escalator / life escalator) a heteronormative world deems desirable. I kind of dip out of it by being selective about who I spend my time with and then inadvertently it slaps me round the face - and not in a fun way. And within that loathing of all those hetero norms, I wonder if we really want to replicate those and why instead we don't want to tear it all down and make something better.  (But then, I have that reaction to so many social constructs that make no sense to me).

So...I mean it when I say I'm glad same sex couples have the right to marry now in Ireland, should they want to. I'm glad so many people went back there to vote. But, beyond that, all those things.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Groke on May 24, 2015, 12:09:32 AM
Yes, I'm finding the gay rights thing sinister, within the context of a brutal and repressive British regime. I think we're being used as the tolerant face of right wing nastiness.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Bizoute on May 24, 2015, 12:14:45 AM
^Yeah...I hadn't quite framed it in those terms, but I always think gay marriage is quite an easy win to give the LGBT community in some ways (if that makes sense). It makes respective governments look tolerant; it helps to convince LGBT people we have equality, and more than that, it helps to convince straight people we have. (Because it's always straight people who've wanted to convince me homophobia doesn't exist in the UK). So...As I said, at it goes, I actually am glad that L/B people in Ireland who want to be able to marry now have the opportunity. But it feels quite a surface thing to give us, and quite a neat way to deflect attention from other inequalities. 
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on May 24, 2015, 12:48:07 AM
My disgust is simpler. I am simple. Anyone wants to have an heteronormative fucking experience they should be able to do it. The marriage the house the 2.4 kids. But it shouldn't be subjected to a VOTE!

It is as appalling as voting on whether women should have the right to decide on their own bodies. It is not called a "right" due to a spelling mistake, if.it's a.right one should get it, not depend on VOTING!


It creeps me out.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 24, 2015, 07:21:37 AM
I just discarded my blood stained wedding dress, despite it sparking a little bit of joy.
I still have the photos and the memories.


(Fake blood, from the Zombie walk)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: mint on May 24, 2015, 09:47:21 AM
The thing is though, without a vote, legal change, often things don't change. As much as I don't think it's right that it happens this way, attitude change often follows legal or policy change. I know many people in Ireland who want to have the right to marry. Why should they be denied that? I for one was celebrating...

I think sometimes people forget the legal rights marriage affords. And the situations where, sometimes, you see people being torn apart by not having those rights. I mean especially with regard to death/dying.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 24, 2015, 11:03:55 AM
Well. I do think anyone who wants to marry should by all means be allowed to do so.
I would be lying if I pretended that this wasn't very important to me.
When S. was having treatment, I carried our CP certificate around with me like a magic contract, to ward off hostile healthcare providers.
And some of the advantages even extend to splitting up - if an unmarried couple splits up and one half is buying the other out, the half that's buying is being slapped with stamp duty. Married couples who divorce aren't. So, you know - gift horse, mouth etc.

However, my perspective on many a thing has changed somewhat drastically over the last 11 months.
I'm still working on articulating them all, some more successfully than others.
I do wonder how much of this particular progress is actually just extending the whole 'rights for conformists and fuck everyone else' to the gay community.

I'm rambling.

I should be sorting clothes.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on May 24, 2015, 11:24:24 AM
For me, it's bestowing rights and privileges as a 'reward' for wanting to and being able to have a 1 on 1 romantic relationship. There are lots and lots of people who can't or don't want to do that, for any number of reasons: poly people, asexual people, aromantic people, people with mental or physical issues that preclude such a relationship...the list is bloody endless.

It would be easy enough to give everyone those rights without requiring marriage. You could nominate someone as your 'next of kin' and someone to inherit your estate tax free. You could enshrine in law the responsibilities of parents, regardless of relationship status.

Marriage has a darker side...the biggest cause of homelessness amongst men aged 30-50 is divorce. Divorce causes mental health problems, financial problems, impacts children.

It would be simple to remove all state and religious involvement in love and commitment. People who wanted to could have commitment ceremonies in whatever configuration they pleased. Those 'commitments' could then be ended without any financial burden.

It will never happen, but it's a nice dream...

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on May 24, 2015, 11:43:26 AM
For me, it's bestowing rights and privileges as a 'reward' for wanting to and being able to have a 1 on 1 romantic relationship. There are lots and lots of people who can't or don't want to do that, for any number of reasons: poly people, asexual people, aromantic people, people with mental or physical issues that preclude such a relationship...the list is bloody endless.

It would be easy enough to give everyone those rights without requiring marriage. You could nominate someone as your 'next of kin' and someone to inherit your estate tax free. You could enshrine in law the responsibilities of parents, regardless of relationship status.

Marriage has a darker side...the biggest cause of homelessness amongst men aged 30-50 is divorce. Divorce causes mental health problems, financial problems, impacts children.

It would be simple to remove all state and religious involvement in love and commitment. People who wanted to could have commitment ceremonies in whatever configuration they pleased. Those 'commitments' could then be ended without any financial burden.

It will never happen, but it's a nice dream...

kitty

^^^^^ I knew there was a reason I liked you...

KJ xoxo :) :)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 24, 2015, 12:03:28 PM
So good to see a complex discussion about marriage and all of the 'winning equality' stuff. I'm all for people being able to celebrate their relationships of all kinds, however they wish, but find the tractor beam of 'acceptable normality' has never done me any real favours. On the one hand pleased for the yes vote and deeply ambivalent about exactly what this brings us.

Wondering why there are deletions - Scully, Bizoute - did hell break loose somewhere on the boards while I slept?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on May 24, 2015, 12:22:27 PM
Wondering why there are deletions - Scully, Bizoute - did hell break loose somewhere on the boards while I slept?

I don't know about Biz, but in th mothers thread Scully said that attitudes like Maria Ryan's were why she was now wary of mothers. LfL decided to make a song-and-dance about this being a swipe at Scully's ex, who is a mother. FFS.  ::) ::) ::)

It went downhill from there.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 24, 2015, 12:37:45 PM
Wondering why there are deletions - Scully, Bizoute - did hell break loose somewhere on the boards while I slept?

I don't know about Biz, but in th mothers thread Scully said that attitudes like Maria Ryan's were why she was now wary of mothers. LfL decided to make a song-and-dance about this being a swipe at Scully's ex, who is a mother. FFS.  ::) ::) ::)

It went downhill from there.

I adore sleeping through drama.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 24, 2015, 12:45:54 PM
It would be easy enough to give everyone those rights without requiring marriage. You could nominate someone as your 'next of kin' and someone to inherit your estate tax free. You could enshrine in law the responsibilities of parents, regardless of relationship status.

Genius idea. Why don't we do that?

Marriage has a darker side...the biggest cause of homelessness amongst men aged 30-50 is divorce. Divorce causes mental health problems, financial problems, impacts children.

I'm not sure it's 'divorce' that's doing that though. It's 'breakdown of relationships'.
I had a long conversation with my divorce lawyer (when it sunk in that my ex would have rights to my pension, even after we split up).
She said that she deals with a lot of 'common law wives' who are being left with nothing when their partner kicks them out.
Marriage does provide some protection if you are the financially weaker partner.

Those 'commitments' could then be ended without any financial burden.

I'm not sure that is true either - 'financial burden' doesn't come in via marriage/ divorce, it starts when you pool resources, buy property together, have joint accounts, spawn offspring etc.
The downside of doing that without marriage is that you are completely dependent on the person you are with not turning out to be a complete and utter fuckwit when the chips are down.  :-\

 
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on May 24, 2015, 03:57:08 PM
It would be easy enough to give everyone those rights without requiring marriage. You could nominate someone as your 'next of kin' and someone to inherit your estate tax free. You could enshrine in law the responsibilities of parents, regardless of relationship status.

Genius idea. Why don't we do that?

Marriage has a darker side...the biggest cause of homelessness amongst men aged 30-50 is divorce. Divorce causes mental health problems, financial problems, impacts children.

I'm not sure it's 'divorce' that's doing that though. It's 'breakdown of relationships'.
I had a long conversation with my divorce lawyer (when it sunk in that my ex would have rights to my pension, even after we split up).
She said that she deals with a lot of 'common law wives' who are being left with nothing when their partner kicks them out.
Marriage does provide some protection if you are the financially weaker partner.

Those 'commitments' could then be ended without any financial burden.

I'm not sure that is true either - 'financial burden' doesn't come in via marriage/ divorce, it starts when you pool resources, buy property together, have joint accounts, spawn offspring etc.
The downside of doing that without marriage is that you are completely dependent on the person you are with not turning out to be a complete and utter fuckwit when the chips are down.  :-\

From what I have seen and read and having sat and spoken to numerous homeless people mostly men over the years, divorce is a huge factor in homeless men and mental health in said group. I do think it is correct that many financial burdens are created and sustained through divorce.

You can pool resources and have as many offspring as you like together but without a doubt divorce and legalities surrounding rights through marriage and after make this a very stressful issue and a burden.

Yes it offers some protection for financially weaker partners/ex partners but what about the burdens that can outweigh those?

May i ask as im curious; What if you found another partner but didn't re marry and they were there the whole time before your death...what then, who gets your pension  ??? Would it still be S?

To be honest, I steer clear of marriage as much as possible. I wish all who want to marry, goodluck and they should be free to do that but for those that are almost forced to marry just so spouses get the house and have rights to the deceased partners belongings and dependents if any don't get taken away I think its very sad!


DRD- my solo night of sushi, wine and Dexter ( with his irritating ......bleep...of a sister) awaits
KJ xoxo
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 24, 2015, 04:51:56 PM
I have no idea what would happen to the pension.
It's a moot point for us as neither is applying for a share in the other's pension.

You can pretty much agree what you want, and then a court decides if it's fair or not and can over rule it.
But we said that even if the court said it wasn't fair, we'd sort it out between us.
(We are both of similar age and earn similar amounts, so I don't think it'll be an issue.)
 
When you talk about 'additional burden', do you mean spousal maintenance?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 24, 2015, 06:13:46 PM
We briefly discussed a 'Hunger Games' style till-death-do-us-part-the-winner-takes-it-all-type settlement, but neither of our hearts were really in it.




(That was a joke.)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on May 24, 2015, 06:21:02 PM
I have no idea what would happen to the pension.
It's a moot point for us as neither is applying for a share in the other's pension.

You can pretty much agree what you want, and then a court decides if it's fair or not and can over rule it.
But we said that even if the court said it wasn't fair, we'd sort it out between us.
(We are both of similar age and earn similar amounts, so I don't think it'll be an issue.)
 
When you talk about 'additional burden', do you mean spousal maintenance?


I understand now.

I think my response about added burden was everything that can happen on top of the emotional, physical and basic financial stresses of divorce, Like having to relocate and find accommodation even when the joint home hasn't yet been sold so the mortgage as well as the addiditional rent when one person can't afford the mortgage alone puts on financial pressure, debt consolidation etc... All adds up and the debt management alone can last for years and become unbearable forcing some to end their lives after losing their jobs through depression etc.

I am not aware of spousal maintenance being an issue here in the UK... Other than childcare/maintenance..  ???

I think some experience this process easier than others. I knew someone whose life was turned upsidedown by divorce he was homeless, his ex wife didn't have sufficient income so he had to pay for everything including the joint debts. The stress made him unfit for work, the bank only allowed him 6months total of paying only the interest on the house but he had rent to pay also and so the crap hit the fan and he lost his job a place for his kids to see him and his confidence.

It was horrible. But I think sadly all too common. :-\
A tad tipsy and stuffed like a pig so hope I'm making sense

KJ xoxo
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 24, 2015, 06:49:20 PM
I have no idea what would happen to the pension.
It's a moot point for us as neither is applying for a share in the other's pension.

You can pretty much agree what you want, and then a court decides if it's fair or not and can over rule it.
But we said that even if the court said it wasn't fair, we'd sort it out between us.
(We are both of similar age and earn similar amounts, so I don't think it'll be an issue.)
 
When you talk about 'additional burden', do you mean spousal maintenance?


I understand now.

I think my response about added burden was everything that can happen on top of the emotional, physical and basic financial stresses of divorce, Like having to relocate and find accommodation even when the joint home hasn't yet been sold so the mortgage as well as the addiditional rent when one person can't afford the mortgage alone puts on financial pressure, debt consolidation etc... All adds up and the debt management alone can last for years and become unbearable forcing some to end their lives after losing their jobs through depression etc.

I am not aware of spousal maintenance being an issue here in the UK... Other than childcare/maintenance..  ???

I think some experience this process easier than others. I knew someone whose life was turned upsidedown by divorce he was homeless, his ex wife didn't have sufficient income so he had to pay for everything including the joint debts. The stress made him unfit for work, the bank only allowed him 6months total of paying only the interest on the house but he had rent to pay also and so the crap hit the fan and he lost his job a place for his kids to see him and his confidence.

It was horrible. But I think sadly all too common. :-\
A tad tipsy and stuffed like a pig so hope I'm making sense

KJ xoxo

Well, yes, that is horrible.
But it's the breakdown of the relationship and the financial consequences of that, not the fact that they were married, isn't it? Would it have been different if they hadn't been married?
Am is being dense?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on May 24, 2015, 06:55:12 PM
I'm thinking along the same lines, Millicent. I don't think the fact of being married changes the financial fallout of the breakup of a family that much.

I also wanted to take issue with the earlier statement that divorce harms kids (as an argument against marriage). Firstly, the harm that's done to kids when their household breaks up is the same whether or not the parents were married. Secondly, the harm that's done by unsuited people staying together and bringing kids up in an environment of neverending tension can be just as bad as the harm done by a breakup, if not worse as it allows the modelling of terrible relationship habits to go on for much longer. A well-handled breakup can be much kinder to the children.

<-- child of divorced parents who waited WAY too long to go through with it.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 24, 2015, 07:12:59 PM
We briefly discussed a 'Hunger Games' style till-death-do-us-part-the-winner-takes-it-all-type settlement, but neither of our hearts were really in it.




(That was a joke.)

but, but..... http://images.halloweencostumes.com/products/15523/1-1/adult-hunteress-costume.jpg (http://images.halloweencostumes.com/products/15523/1-1/adult-hunteress-costume.jpg)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 24, 2015, 07:35:24 PM
We briefly discussed a 'Hunger Games' style till-death-do-us-part-the-winner-takes-it-all-type settlement, but neither of our hearts were really in it.




(That was a joke.)

but, but..... http://images.halloweencostumes.com/products/15523/1-1/adult-hunteress-costume.jpg (http://images.halloweencostumes.com/products/15523/1-1/adult-hunteress-costume.jpg)

Wow. That is SO me.

Maybe I should reconsider.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Goblin Flump on May 24, 2015, 08:14:48 PM
^ If you're coming to pride you should definitely wear that. ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 24, 2015, 08:20:28 PM
We briefly discussed a 'Hunger Games' style till-death-do-us-part-the-winner-takes-it-all-type settlement, but neither of our hearts were really in it.




(That was a joke.)

but, but..... http://images.halloweencostumes.com/products/15523/1-1/adult-hunteress-costume.jpg (http://images.halloweencostumes.com/products/15523/1-1/adult-hunteress-costume.jpg)

Wow. That is SO me.

Maybe I should reconsider.

Divorce just became so.much.more.fun.  ;D Agree it's very 'You' Millicent.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 24, 2015, 10:01:09 PM
Tempting, Flump. Very tempting.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on May 24, 2015, 11:04:09 PM

My main objection to the vote is that there should be a vote on wether we (gays) can have the same rights as they (straights). I was never asked to vote on straight rights!! It pisses me off.

And the thought of a thing as FK describes is great, doesnt't France still have this? There was something called Pax in france, a sort of financial joining via a contract with benefits similar to those of marriage that could be done between any two individuals, be they same sex or not or even family relations, cousins or whatever, and/or friends who wished to have some security/contractual responsibility towards each other. But it was still only available to two individuals, no more.

And I say if ireland is going to vote, why can't we vote on Millicent's outfit for Pride? Why do you want to deprive us of this fun and most worthy activity Millie?

I vote for: https://callmesmiler.files.wordpress.com/2010/08/hello-kitty-dress.jpg

Today dinning outside with gf and thinking of tomorrow's play party plans and for *some reason* started singing "It's a hard knock life, FOR US" which prompted gf to ask please sing something else quick as she hates this song and it would now be stuck in her head, so I followed it up with "Tomorrow, tomorrow, I'll fuck you, tomorrow, it's only a day awaaaaaay". Double odd reactions, neighbouring table is english speaking there was some momentary silence from there and gf looked apalled and distressed "Only tomorrow?"

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 24, 2015, 11:26:31 PM
I got to observe the results of my handiwork tonight  :D

AND

I became friends with Number 14 on fb AND they messaged me to say hello!! (They may not actually be number 14, it could be 16 or 21 or some other number. The whole numbering system got a bit confused after several days of perve madness.)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on May 24, 2015, 11:29:51 PM
If you can describe the buttocks in detail I may be able to work out who it is. And if not, it would still be extremely amusing and hot.


<--- gay daddy ass bandit trapped in a femme body
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 24, 2015, 11:36:07 PM
If you can describe the buttocks in detail I may be able to work out who it is. And if not, it would still be extremely amusing and hot.


<--- gay daddy ass bandit trapped in a femme body

I'm not sure why but I didn't actually cane their buttocks, but HELL the insides of their thighs are looking quite spectacular  ;D
such a nice tender spot.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on May 25, 2015, 12:14:49 AM
 ;D Good to hear, I heart the insides of thighs... *sigh* and especially very top, so soft and yummi  :P

But actually I meant the newly befriended number 14 or 16 or 21, if you describe THAT ass, maybe I remember it from conference. I notice asses. No idea why...
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 25, 2015, 07:21:54 AM
While I am a believer in the democratic process, I draw the line at voting on my outfits.
Such matters are simply too important to be placed in the hand of the mob.
The recently formed independent free state of Millicent (population: one) will continue to choose its policy of choose-one's-own.

Inner thigh? Blimey.
Now I'm wondering about logistics.

And hurrah for number 14 making FB friends

Is anyone going to pride? I'm not even sure when it is or where I'll be. I might be wandering the planet.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on May 25, 2015, 08:51:33 AM
Many years ago I played with quite a well known Dominatrix from California (she's in that Nick Broomfield documentary about Pandora's Box). She caned my inner thighs. The next day I was getting on a plane to New York...and of course it was boarding at the furthest gate in Heathrow. I cursed her name with every step :D

Logistically, it helps to have one of those cool medical chairs with stirrups and plenty of straps...

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on May 25, 2015, 08:59:59 AM
Millicent, London pride is the 27th of June. I'll be marching with the trade unions then heading to Soho Theatre Bar where good quantities of beeries can usually be found.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on May 25, 2015, 11:27:38 AM

Millicent, I am shocked! That is a genuine awesome kitsch hello kitty dress!!! It would look FAB parading around any Pride march.


I just cannot stress how much I HEART the inside of thighs... Although having caned many insides of thighs I never once used one of those contraptions FK, I shall look around next Dungeon I am in and give that a try!  :D

I love caning the *sweet spot* and bruising the whole area of the fold between ass and thigh, it almost always leads to texts or messages, during the week after, of *I can STILL feel you everytime I sit/walk up steps/cycle*  ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Goblin Flump on May 25, 2015, 11:36:38 AM
I'm marching with the Queer Alternative and then going to an afterparty or the soho bar or going home and shaking depending on how well I've coped with the crowds. Trying to find a lesbian heroine.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Goblin Flump on May 25, 2015, 12:51:28 PM
Nooooo! My PVC skirt and top don't fit me. :'(
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 25, 2015, 03:33:49 PM
I just cannot stress how much I HEART the inside of thighs...

Uhuh! Insides of thighs, tender backs of legs, backs of arms, inside of the upper arm. *gleeful grin*

*edit*

minus contraptions as this is a 'circling around the subject* sort of thing, selecting the next tender target. Mwhaha.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on May 25, 2015, 08:01:09 PM

Uhuh! Insides of thighs, tender backs of legs, backs of arms, inside of the upper arm. *gleeful grin*


OH yes, inside upper arm too, and I have a weird fascination with the fold of skin in between top of arm and breast, small pillow of flesh forms there... I heart hurting and gnawing and hiting and piercing and and and and... that. That bit. As well as inside of thighs, towards the top  :P
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 25, 2015, 08:27:03 PM
Logistically, it helps to have one of those cool medical chairs with stirrups and plenty of straps...

I really like those.

And actually not that expensive, when you compare them to other furniture.
I have  been looking at A LOT of furniture over the last 72 hours. Most of it bland and overpriced. There are bedside tables for £250 (A bedside table! It's just a bit of wood. They're not even nice. All you're going to use it for is put your phone and a glass of water on it. Maybe a book. I think that is really expensive. Compare that to a brand new gyno chair for only £745 with free delivery. *

*ETA: Just found one for £286.69. A mere £36.69 more than that bedside table.

I'm not in the market for a gyno chair. But, you know.

@Amphelise - Pride is the weekend after Paris - I think I may have to do house stuff.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 25, 2015, 08:43:07 PM
I'm not in the market for a gyno chair. But, you know.

Great talking point with dinner guests  :P and the rest
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 25, 2015, 08:45:02 PM
I'm not in the market for a gyno chair. But, you know.

Great talking point with dinner guests  :P and the rest

Can you imagine?  :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 25, 2015, 08:56:57 PM
I'm not in the market for a gyno chair. But, you know.

Great talking point with dinner guests  :P and the rest

Can you imagine?  :D

 ;D Although it would make 'de-perving' the house very difficult.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 25, 2015, 09:02:56 PM
I'm not in the market for a gyno chair. But, you know.

Great talking point with dinner guests  :P and the rest

Can you imagine?  :D

 ;D Although it would make 'de-perving' the house very difficult.

'No, Mama, it's a bedside table. It's designer.'
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on May 25, 2015, 09:34:21 PM
I'm not in the market for a gyno chair. But, you know.

Great talking point with dinner guests  :P and the rest

Can you imagine?  :D

 ;D Although it would make 'de-perving' the house very difficult.

'No, Mama, it's a bedside table. It's designer.'

Or "It's my gyno chair, don't you have one? How do you get examined by your gyno when it does house calls then?"
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 26, 2015, 09:43:28 AM
Today is my exes birthday. We're not in touch and I don't want to be. I does feel strange tho as this was a day on which I lavished attention on them over the past few years. If only my birthdays had merited similar attention.... now there's a reality check. Anyhow, one or two Femme Daddy sighs today. Going to focus on writing and doing nice things for ME. Currently editing a script about non-consensual topping from the bottom in chosen power imbalance relationships.

*edit* the script is a small fragment of a comedy about the adventures of two queer femme dykes: one of whom is a pro-wrestler, the other a pro-mistress. :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on May 26, 2015, 10:31:13 AM
Oh, PE, that sounds rubbish. Hope your day is as good as it can be...a bit of self-care sounds just the ticket.  :-* :-* :-*

My DRD: 2 days!!!  :o :o :o

Halp!

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on May 26, 2015, 10:53:19 AM
I can empathyse with the feeling of inequal attention lavishing, when you are away and out of it for a while you look back and think WTF???

Maybe today is definitely a day for that script,  ;D as well as breaking out some sugary things if you are so inclined!

FK, as if you need help!! Pah!

I have one panther, but somehow, it looks a bit... stocky. Waiting for the three others to arrive and see if they are a bit more svelte...  ebay seller taking it's time to post! None of them are *black black black like some evil heart* mind you, so a lot of the BEST graffiti spray will be layered on it until it is black black. I can only achieve double black, not triple. Life is a bitch, and then your panthers are only double black.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on May 26, 2015, 10:59:20 AM


I have one panther, but somehow, it looks a bit... stocky. Waiting for the three others to arrive and see if they are a bit more svelte...  ebay seller taking it's time to post! None of them are *black black black like some evil heart* mind you, so a lot of the BEST graffiti spray will be layered on it until it is black black. I can only achieve double black, not triple. Life is a bitch, and then your panthers are only double black.

:D :D :D

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 26, 2015, 11:59:28 AM
FK and Arig thanks for the ups, I've had breakfast out and the doctor has stared into my ears ...dead glam!!

What is all this about stocky black black panthers?

TWO DAYS ... ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 26, 2015, 12:00:44 PM
Oh and I'm editing the topping from the bottom script into a two hander so I can share it with the wrestler.... believe me these stories are NOT uncommon at all.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 26, 2015, 12:38:19 PM
It's not all bad, FK.
At least you know you won't have to eat a whole ice cream sundae all by yourself.
(Not a euphemism.)

I know, I'm such a good friend.  :)

And: ((((pure evil))))


Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on May 26, 2015, 02:08:36 PM
You are the best friend...so selfless. And we won't have to cut any dimsum in half! :)

kitty

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on May 26, 2015, 02:56:11 PM

PE, wow, a dr stared into your ears? Was it dead romantic and did he say they were as deep as a deep ocean?

And for Random: The stereotype that women want to be with a dr always amused me immensely, there is a song from Spanish group where the chorus, a man singing of an amazing woman, says: ¨You that are so gorgeous and so smart, you that deserve a prince or a dentist"  (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6UBwtL__280) ;D

FK and Mills, it is a wonder that in such a hard world you two have found each other. Or maybe it was inevitable, as you both frequent the same food joints...


PANTHERS! BLACK panthers are for next hat. Well, maybe just the one panther on the actual hat, but I have to find a good panther, this one is distinctly... a bit on the over muscly side?  (http://www.ebay.de/itm/SCHLEICH-schwarzer-Panther-sehr-guter-Zustand-14126-black-panther-/381237875019?ssPageName=STRK%3AMEBIDX%3AIT&_trksid=p2047675.l2557&nma=true&si=BrloDtRHqqR%252F5epvdx9033qBS1k%253D&orig_cvip=true&rt=nc)  Maybe it's on steroids?
But I also ordered these, a little more svelte, even though they are toothy (http://www.ebay.de/itm/131501741550?_trksid=p2060353.m2749.l2648&ssPageName=STRK%3AMEBIDX%3AIT)... Which can look good, once all in black, we shall see! I found another one and also bought it, because it is svelte but without teeth cleavage... (http://www.ebay.de/itm/380438608448?_trksid=p2060353.m2749.l2648&ssPageName=STRK%3AMEBIDX%3AIT)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 26, 2015, 04:00:02 PM

PE, wow, a dr stared into your ears? Was it dead romantic and did he say they were as deep as a deep ocean?

SHE was very kind (I dislike medical appointments) and even shared matrilineal wisdom: 'As my mother always said, never put anything but your elbows in your ears'
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 26, 2015, 04:03:50 PM
Plus I vote for panther number 3, now that the dungeon has been declared some sort of skewed democracy. BTW, what was the outcome of the vote on Millicent's pride outfit?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on May 26, 2015, 04:15:23 PM


Millicent has declared mutiny and refuses to wear the Hello Kitty dress. Outrageous and disgusting behaviour!

And yes, I think the last is the best, even though I had to buy 4 frogs before finding that one... But once they are here in the felsh... Well, in the plastic, one can get a better sense, no idea of size or porportions being good unless it is life, pictures are not trustworthy.

Had troubles making paper cuts in flesh yesterday, forgotten scisors to make fresh edges on paper. Tsk!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on May 26, 2015, 04:54:06 PM
I like toothy... :)

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: mint on May 26, 2015, 05:10:08 PM
I like panthers 2 > 3 > 1.

I've forgotten my DRD.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 26, 2015, 05:10:59 PM
Millicent has declared mutiny and refuses to wear the Hello Kitty dress. Outrageous and disgusting behaviour!

You say mutiny, I say VIVE LA REVOLUTION!

I got rid of almost all my HK things (apart from the figurine collection) on account of not being 8 years  old.

I'm not sure about my panther preference yet.
Give me a moment.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on May 26, 2015, 05:13:45 PM
Is today 'have a stilted conversation with an ex' day? I've had to do it twice today already...

At least this time the Brighton-based one didn't try and run me over. But still.

And WHY for the love of all that is holy do I always see her when I'm dressed like a slob?

Sigh

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 26, 2015, 06:34:15 PM
Is today 'have a stilted conversation with an ex' day? I've had to do it twice today already...


God I sincerely hope not!!


...and better than turning up in the woods.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on May 26, 2015, 06:52:39 PM



...and better than turning up in the woods.

Fuck yes...

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on May 26, 2015, 07:40:48 PM
But at least in the woods you wouldn't be dressed like a slob. Every cloud, silver lining, awkward Blah Blah...


I shall spray all panthers to get them double black and then the black hearted witch of the west can see which in she prefers, although their size will make a difference as to what hat shape they can fit in...

I just noticed I am running low on pig hats. Wanna make some more.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on May 26, 2015, 07:50:15 PM
I like toothy... :)

kitty


*snort*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on May 26, 2015, 08:33:28 PM
No...in the woods I will be wearing the delightful frock I bought for a whole £5 in New Look sale. Gee, I hope it doesn't get *ahem* damaged...

My DRD: i've been bitten by some annoying critter(s). Great. Covered in itchy lumps. That's attractive. Sigh.

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: mint on May 26, 2015, 08:43:53 PM
Oh dear, get the aloe vera out. I've been bitten too  >:(. On my knee. On the plus side, I had a (nice) conversation with my ex earlier this evening.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 26, 2015, 09:07:53 PM
On the plus side, I had a (nice) conversation with my ex earlier this evening.

Maybe I will turn my phone off. (no offence to you or your ex mint).
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on May 26, 2015, 09:11:04 PM
On the plus side, I had a (nice) conversation with my ex earlier this evening.

Maybe I will turn my phone off. (no offence to you or your ex mint).


Shit, me too, phone and maybe an email blocking is in order???

Itchy lumps sound like a good outfit for the woods! What will you accessorize them with :-D


I NEED *something* soon, if only I could decide on what me and the gf could find the time!!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: mint on May 26, 2015, 09:25:58 PM
I don't get the reference above... which may be to do with my complete lack of sleep as I'm actually starting to feel a bit odd, but switching phones off is the right thing to do if something is intentionally unpleasant or distressing, in my opinion anyway, because that just isn't nice. For me it was one plus moment in a fairly horrible/stressful day, so I'll take that.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on May 26, 2015, 09:32:38 PM
Mint, there has been a.misunderstanding! FK asked if today was the day for awkward talks with exes , and then u.mentioned having spoken to your ex, me and PE, not being as lucky as you, would have.our day fairly upset from a talk with ex, and thought that it may.be safer.for us to prevent from having the day for.talk.with exes happen to us by disconnecting phones.

Nothing against u or ur ex.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: mint on May 26, 2015, 09:47:31 PM
I think we're saying the pretty much the same thing, as in, it's best to switch your phone off if something really isn't nice. Oh gosh. It was easier when we were talking about panthers, heh.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 26, 2015, 10:01:11 PM
minty it wasn't about you.... track back a few pages FK said 'is this the day for running into exes?', plus I mentioned it's my (estranged) exes birthday. We were chatting about a general 'ex' theme which your post matched and we picked up on the theme again.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: mint on May 26, 2015, 10:17:33 PM
No, I know (thanks) - I didn't think it was about me. I just meant I didn't get what it was referring to, but I understand now I've read back! I just meant in general, phone off = good idea if something is aggravating.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 27, 2015, 04:35:21 AM
I was feeling shattered yesterday, so I went to bed and was asleep before 8.
Of course NOW it's just after 4am and I'm wide awake.

I'm not complaining, I totally appreciate how lucky I am. (It would take too long to list everything I'm grateful for. Although I hope I tell people enough that I appreciate them.)
It just seems like everything has been up in the air for a long time and the uncertainty is quite draining.
I'm looking forward to having a date to count down to and make some more concrete plans and order a washing machine and a bed and plan my interior decor properly, with or without gyno chair.
(Probably without, to be fair.)
 


Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: mint on May 27, 2015, 10:07:30 AM
I think moving in itself is stressful enough without all the additional things you're having to deal with. It's no wonder you're feeling like that. I still remember the stress of my last move! Hope you get your date soon  :-*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 27, 2015, 08:35:42 PM
@ Mint - thank you.

I think I'm only weeks away from getting this all sorted.






Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 27, 2015, 10:20:32 PM
^^^ b r e a t h e

 :-*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on May 28, 2015, 01:38:01 PM
Time has stopped. FFS.

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 28, 2015, 01:44:31 PM
Time has stopped. FFS.

kitty

Waiting for a train to pull in?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on May 28, 2015, 03:18:20 PM
No, I'm on my way to the airport! I should have made a sign saying 'Evil Bastard'...:)

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 28, 2015, 05:35:57 PM
No, I'm on my way to the airport! I should have made a sign saying 'Evil Bastard'...:)

kitty

 ;D ;D Have the BEST time!! x
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 28, 2015, 06:42:07 PM
Just booked my flights for Folsom :D very close moment there as I only just noticed the return flight I was booking was for OCTOBER. Would have been a very long weekend. *adds another thing to countdown*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 28, 2015, 07:02:47 PM
Just booked my flights for Folsom :D very close moment there as I only just noticed the return flight I was booking was for OCTOBER. Would have been a very long weekend. *adds another thing to countdown*

Awesome. :D

When are you going out?
I'm flying on the 10th.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 28, 2015, 07:16:29 PM
9th - 14th  :) *dances about a bit*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 28, 2015, 07:37:21 PM
Oohhh.

I booked flexible tickets - at the moment I've booked the minimum of time off. Once I know what happens with the move I might book some more.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on May 28, 2015, 08:22:52 PM

I have red metallic nail polish.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 30, 2015, 12:35:40 PM
I had my first hep b vaccination jab today. (You need three, one month apart and then a booster a year after.)

Nurse: 'Why do you want a Hepatitis B vaccination?'

Me: 'Well, I like playing with needles. I went to a needle play workshop and they said it was a good idea to get it.'

Nurse: 'But - why do you play with needles?'

Me:' For fun?'

I don't think she'd heard of it before.
Now I probably have a big M for MENTAL on my file.

The jab didn't hurt and no, she didn't tell me that I'd been a 'good girl' afterwards.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on May 31, 2015, 11:33:39 AM
Thankfully, the note slipped under our hotel room door was to inform us of the fire alarm test later, and not complaining about the noise.  :-X :-X :-X

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 31, 2015, 05:27:06 PM
12 / 19 / 47 / 102 / 116 / 298
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 31, 2015, 06:08:21 PM
And now, I'm planning outfits.  :D

You know, it's totally lovely to have a hobby that makes you feel like skipping.

 :D :D :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on May 31, 2015, 06:10:43 PM
12 / 19 / 47 / 102 / 116 / 298

12 and 19 are kinky? 

*envy*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 31, 2015, 06:25:00 PM
12 / 19 / 47 / 102 / 116 / 298

12 and 19 are kinky? 

*envy*

12, 47, 102 and 298 are.

19 is wall-to-wall cake and meat.

How was Berlin, Gnomey?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 31, 2015, 06:40:24 PM

How was Berlin, Gnomey?

Yeah, SPILL.  :P
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on May 31, 2015, 06:42:55 PM

How was Berlin, Gnomey?

Yeah, SPILL.  :P

I want to know what 12 is   ;D

Nothing to spill.  Berlin is full of filthy kinky people - but you knew that already.  :)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on May 31, 2015, 06:44:26 PM

How was Berlin, Gnomey?

Yeah, SPILL.  :P

I want to know what 12 is   ;D

Nothing to spill.  Berlin is full of filthy kinky people - but you knew that already.  :)



Pish, you hold out!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on May 31, 2015, 06:48:00 PM
I reckon there is loads to spill too.
How was the venue?
And how was the weather? And how overlooked was it?

I'm going to a fetish thing with L. I think it's mostly straight, but there are a few people I know going and my sense of adventure is humongous.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on May 31, 2015, 06:56:38 PM
I reckon there is loads to spill too.
How was the venue?
And how was the weather? And how overlooked was it?

I'm going to a fetish thing with L. I think it's mostly straight, but there are a few people I know going and my sense of adventure is humongous.

I had been to the venue before I realised once there. I liked it, the outside space was good. Partly overlooked but you could play in plenty of areas that were not.  It was overlooked from an office block - where people were living - and watching!  Initially hot enough to get your kit off but later too chilly for me.  :)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jun 01, 2015, 08:11:45 PM
I still haven't got a moving date.
(My solicitor said 'oh, it is far too early to give an indication'. I mean, really? 'Far too early?' What kind of a timeframe do these people work on?)
So I cheered myself up by booking accommodation for Folsom.

Wheee!

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 01, 2015, 10:42:23 PM
^^^ the Folsom fix, I swear by it!  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 02, 2015, 10:34:02 PM
The person I caned over ten days ago is still sending me 'bruise progress' pictures.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jun 03, 2015, 06:06:00 AM
^^^Aww, that's lovely.
Cane marks are a gift that keeps on giving. They can last for ages.  :)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Jun 03, 2015, 03:04:06 PM
I was just very rude to a guy in a call centre. I might have a teensy weensy bit of drop...

 :-\ :-\ :-\

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on Jun 03, 2015, 08:07:12 PM
Ooohh nice to pop bk and see you're all having glorious little things happening/have happened.  ;D

KJ xoxo
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jun 04, 2015, 08:09:18 PM
I want to fast forward.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 04, 2015, 09:47:25 PM
I've had a confuzzled sort of day (seem to ricochet between GREAT and grim lately) I'm sure doing violence would help.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Jun 04, 2015, 10:12:52 PM
I've had a confuzzled sort of day (seem to ricochet between GREAT and grim lately) I'm sure doing violence would help.

Yup.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jun 05, 2015, 06:37:39 AM
I've had a confuzzled sort of day (seem to ricochet between GREAT and grim lately) I'm sure doing violence would help.

Yup.

Most definitely.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: nismat on Jun 05, 2015, 09:45:24 AM
Oh, the power of words.

The right words...
... and the imagination  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Jun 05, 2015, 12:57:54 PM
14 days until Paris
43 days until the Summer Party
97 days until Folsom
109 days until New York
293 days until Easter Conference 2016

Speaking of which...not in Berlin? Are they fucking nuts?!?

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Jun 05, 2015, 02:15:24 PM
It was in Hamburg many years ago, it was nice!! Maybe not as many people as last years in Berlin. And Hamburg is an expensive city, everything much more expensive, staying there, public transports, taxis, food. Hope they don't do it there again, for the extra expense, but I.think they wouldn't exactly because of that.

I got new canes and My bottom is not available until who knows when... *taps fingers*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 05, 2015, 02:50:38 PM
Funny how after a decade of popping back and forth doing perve things (mostly) Berlin has become a bit of a home away from home.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jun 05, 2015, 07:20:25 PM
I know I've only been on the scene for all of 5 minutes, but I think it would be a shame if it wasn't in Berlin.
I just think no other city has the same kinky infrastructure as Berlin.
Or is as cheap or easy to get to.

I'd be sad.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 05, 2015, 07:49:28 PM
mills I think there was a time where it was supposed to bounce back and forth between Berlin and Hamburg, but the bouncing never quite took off.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Jun 05, 2015, 08:13:27 PM
I think the problem is that the majority of attendants currently are Berliners. If it moves, they all have to find the funds for travel and accomodation....and all the out of towners who stay with their Berlin friends also have to pay for accomodation.

There just isn't another city with as many attendees who could fulfill this role. Not to mention finding a suitable venue...

I'm pretty sure any new team would want to benefit from the known issues of the current set up. Well, I hope so...

DRD: I have a new countdown: 75 (Vienna :) )


kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jun 05, 2015, 08:26:50 PM
Well, I hope some other Berliner takes over from this year's organisers.

I had such a good time this year.  :) :) :)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Goblin Flump on Jun 05, 2015, 08:34:07 PM
If I wanted to go to the conference, what would it take to apply? How does it work?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jun 05, 2015, 08:44:23 PM
This year, you registered via a website.
There was also a group on Fetlife where they put up links of where to go.

It was really straight forward.  :)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Jun 05, 2015, 08:46:23 PM
If I wanted to go to the conference, what would it take to apply? How does it work?

Further to what Mills said..
And submitted a photo with the words 'fresh meat' tattooed across your backside.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jun 05, 2015, 08:49:29 PM
If I wanted to go to the conference, what would it take to apply? How does it work?

Further to what Mills said..
And submitted a photo with the words 'fresh meat' tattooed across your backside.

Shhhh...

I was keeping that as a surprise.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jun 05, 2015, 08:51:13 PM
DRD: I wish it was next Friday.  :(
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Jun 05, 2015, 09:01:03 PM
DRD: I wish it was next Friday.  :(

fast forward further to july Mills - school finishes on the Friday now, not Monday. But its ok. I get the day off still.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jun 05, 2015, 09:08:49 PM
DRD: I wish it was next Friday.  :(

fast forward further to july Mills - school finishes on the Friday now, not Monday. But its ok. I get the day off still.

Oh yay. July. :D
So pleased you still get the day off.

42 sleeps.
We should all do brunch together on the Saturday morning.




Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Jun 05, 2015, 09:51:15 PM
DRD: I wish it was next Friday.  :(
e

Caaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaake!

Ahem

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 06, 2015, 09:27:36 AM
Brunch with cake. I'm still trying to figure out what to do post birthday in Berlin.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Jun 06, 2015, 11:57:21 AM
How long are you staying in Berlin?

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 06, 2015, 01:24:56 PM
How long are you staying in Berlin?

kitty
Arrive Monday afternoon, Fly out Friday early eve. Oh this jetset life :P

RD, a friend just told me I am making 'single' look like a lot of fun!!  :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Jun 06, 2015, 04:39:08 PM
Wow! Nearly a fortnight. Lucky thing...

I'm sure you'll find plenty to 'entertain' you :)

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 06, 2015, 05:35:39 PM
Oops!! sadly not a fortnight, a weekend!! My scrambled brain switched around Monday and Friday. Told you I have issues with calendars.  ::) Came dangerously close to booking my flight back from Folsom for OCTOBER.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Jun 06, 2015, 05:43:20 PM
Ah...that makes more sense :)

I think we need late brunch on Sunday too...you can never have too much brunch!

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jun 06, 2015, 07:05:06 PM
Yay to brunch!  :D
We don't have to be at the airport until 4.
(Although I think A's train is around lunchtime.)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Goblin Flump on Jun 06, 2015, 08:03:37 PM
^^ thank yous. Can the tattoo be henna?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Jun 06, 2015, 08:22:16 PM
No, but it can be a brand instead ;D

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Jun 06, 2015, 08:28:25 PM
No, but it can be a brand instead ;D

kitty

 ;D

kinda more appropriate than a tattoo on meat
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jun 06, 2015, 09:04:41 PM
Tattoo / brand is far too permanent.
Meat does not stay fresh forever, does it.

Maybe pin on a note with some needles.
Or - OH! - surgical staples.  :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 07, 2015, 07:03:48 PM
Posted ages ago in DCG 'netflix' thread about starting to watch a law themed series called 'Suits' - I've just finished THREE seasons. Have to say it features a helluva lot of face slapping  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Jun 07, 2015, 08:15:32 PM
Posted ages ago in DCG 'netflix' thread about starting to watch a law themed series called 'Suits' - I've just finished THREE seasons. Have to say it features a helluva lot of face slapping  ;D


and finding someone that can give a good face slap can be hit n miss       ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Jun 07, 2015, 08:16:47 PM
Posted ages ago in DCG 'netflix' thread about starting to watch a law themed series called 'Suits' - I've just finished THREE seasons. Have to say it features a helluva lot of face slapping  ;D


and finding someone that can give a good face slap can be hit n miss       ;D

*snort*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 07, 2015, 08:45:19 PM
Posted ages ago in DCG 'netflix' thread about starting to watch a law themed series called 'Suits' - I've just finished THREE seasons. Have to say it features a helluva lot of face slapping  ;D


and finding someone that can give a good face slap can be hit n miss       ;D

*snort*

It's also a series where the wardrobe department have seriously taken on board the 'Hot woman in a pencil skirt' meme.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Goblin Flump on Jun 07, 2015, 08:48:37 PM
^my love of pencil skirts was recently destroyed when I bought one and discovered I can't walk in it without waddling.
Doesn't stop the admiration though. Suits you say?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 07, 2015, 08:58:13 PM
^my love of pencil skirts was recently destroyed when I bought one and discovered I can't walk in it without waddling.
Doesn't stop the admiration though. Suits you say?

Pencil skirts and SKY HIGH heels. At first I thought I wouldn't like the series as it seemed so focused on the male leads but as it went on the female characters developed and the subtle comic elements started to shine. Also worth it if you have a thing for all seeing, all knowing red haired femmes.

Can't recall if it's season 2 but one of the characters starts a hilariously kinky relationship.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Jun 07, 2015, 09:13:02 PM
Also worth it if you have a thing for all seeing, all knowing red haired femmes.

This is relevant to my interests.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 07, 2015, 09:25:22 PM
Also worth it if you have a thing for all seeing, all knowing red haired femmes.

This is relevant to my interests.

http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_mb4bbw1NJB1qae1dyo6_250.gif (http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_mb4bbw1NJB1qae1dyo6_250.gif)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Jun 07, 2015, 09:26:08 PM
Also worth it if you have a thing for all seeing, all knowing red haired femmes.

This is relevant to my interests.

http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_mb4bbw1NJB1qae1dyo6_250.gif (http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_mb4bbw1NJB1qae1dyo6_250.gif)

.... I'll be in my bunk.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Jun 07, 2015, 10:13:25 PM
My DRD: I've booked a hotel in Vienna with a bath tub on the balcony. Mwahahahahaha!

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jun 08, 2015, 08:28:01 AM
^^^ It's like the last days of Rome.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 08, 2015, 09:52:13 AM
^^^ It's like the last days of Rome.

Brilliant!!

I've been wondering if FK will be splashing people in the street below.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Jun 08, 2015, 10:03:38 AM
I shall try my best! :)

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 08, 2015, 02:40:02 PM
Day 16 after play and my friend STILL has marks and is delighted by this, they say they are usually very hard to mark. Those last three incredibly vicious WALLOPS seem to have gone down well.

Thinking a fair bit about co-topping and top on top energy at the moment. I don't think I have EVER played as an egalitarian co-top.... curious.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jun 08, 2015, 07:52:53 PM
I still have a couple of faint cane marks on my calves.
61 days later. From rawhide cane.




I think a short attention span is a gift from the universe.
Just like being shallow.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 08, 2015, 08:28:11 PM
I still have a couple of faint cane marks on my calves.
61 days later. From rawhide cane.



Good gravy!!

Rawhide cane? *ears prick up*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 08, 2015, 08:29:48 PM
Just went out to dinner with a perve friend, the conversation drifted around to dollification, they looked very excited about the idea. The neighbouring table also looked interested.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Jun 08, 2015, 11:26:47 PM
Hehehehehe...

I *really* want to hold a tea party at Folsom...and I think we should have more dolls than owners, so some just get...left...in position...

*fans self*

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 09, 2015, 12:00:09 AM
Hehehehehe...

I *really* want to hold a tea party at Folsom...and I think we should have more dolls than owners, so some just get...left...in position...

*fans self*

kitty

 ;D ;D ;D

When I mentioned the dolls tea party idea they said 'Wow, that sounds great.' ...I also mentioned sugar water and inserting Barbie dolls.

oh happy thoughts.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Jun 09, 2015, 09:00:19 AM
I have 2 new corsets to wear in. Life is pain.

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Jun 09, 2015, 10:03:09 AM
Update: owowowowow!!!

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 09, 2015, 05:22:15 PM
Update: owowowowow!!!

kitty

I recall going on a school visit to a victorian house museum, in it was an example of the posture devices children were sometimes required to wear at the tea-table. https://staylace.com/gallery/gallery32/posture_corrector_1872.jpg (https://staylace.com/gallery/gallery32/posture_corrector_1872.jpg)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jun 09, 2015, 06:12:23 PM
I quite like wearing in new corsets.

But then I also quite like cable ties.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 09, 2015, 07:06:50 PM
I quite like wearing in new corsets.

But then I also quite like cable ties.

Sick fuck  :-*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jun 09, 2015, 07:29:59 PM
I quite like wearing in new corsets.

But then I also quite like cable ties.

Sick fuck  :-*

 :-*

I've had better compliments, but not many and not recently, so I'll take that.
 ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: wishfulthinking on Jun 09, 2015, 09:28:00 PM
Also worth it if you have a thing for all seeing, all knowing red haired femmes.

This is relevant to my interests.

http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_mb4bbw1NJB1qae1dyo6_250.gif (http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_mb4bbw1NJB1qae1dyo6_250.gif)

.... I'll be in my bunk.

Yay Firefly.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Jun 10, 2015, 06:36:20 PM

Bloody hell I am bleeding again. Period.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jun 10, 2015, 07:02:29 PM
I really want to sit down, but I need to do laundry and pack my weekend bag.

I can probably do it all in an hour if I get off my arse now.
Right.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Jun 10, 2015, 07:07:02 PM
Seasoning my corset day 2: much better. A firm squeeze rather than a vice-like grip. It's going to look wonderful in July :)

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Jun 10, 2015, 07:18:16 PM
Seasoning my corset day 2: much better. A firm squeeze rather than a vice-like grip. It's going to look wonderful in July :)

kitty

yeh, and you will be  bitching about being hot and uncomfortable. 

*Can you tell I am hopeful there will be a hot summer*  :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jun 10, 2015, 07:26:13 PM
Seasoning my corset day 2: much better. A firm squeeze rather than a vice-like grip. It's going to look wonderful in July :)

kitty

yeh, and you will be  bitching about being hot and uncomfortable. 

*Can you tell I am hopeful there will be a hot summer*  :D


37!!!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Jun 10, 2015, 07:34:21 PM

*Seasoning* corset? Are there spices involved, is this a marinade?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Jun 10, 2015, 07:43:12 PM
No, Arig...it's just wearing it in so that the boning moulds to your shape properly.

It's somewhat annoying, but worth doing it.

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Jun 10, 2015, 07:50:14 PM
Seasoning my corset day 2: much better. A firm squeeze rather than a vice-like grip. It's going to look wonderful in July :)

kitty

yeh, and you will be  bitching about being hot and uncomfortable. 

*Can you tell I am hopeful there will be a hot summer*  :D


37!!!

:)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jun 10, 2015, 09:11:30 PM
I have mostly packed. Just wash bag and makeup and embroidery to go.
It took longer than expected because I got distracted by outfits.

Berlin has done wonders for my body image.
Who knew.  :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Jun 10, 2015, 11:47:10 PM
FK does it involve food at all though? Like sitting in your corset and eating spicy cake or liqueur chocolates?

Mills, you jetsetter of the kinky world!!   ;D

Are you back in Berlin again? Coffee?


I just settled my sister and her friend at my flat and left to stay at gf's, forgot to tell them not to open 3 boxes near bed unless they want to be shocked by the amount and diversity of sex supplements and toys I have... Should I text her? "Hi sis, just a reminder, unless wanting to be shocked, do not open 3 big boxes near bed, good night!! xxx"
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Jun 10, 2015, 11:49:57 PM


Just got this message on t'other site from a Male, 36 years old:

"nice fetisches... How are you?"


My reply: "Lesbian."

Is that self explanatory enough or will he write back?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jun 11, 2015, 06:00:49 AM
Is your sister likely to open random boxes?

I will be back in Berlin, but not until July and coffee would be great - A. will be there too.  :D
(This weekend is London. And dancing. There will be lots of dancing.)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 11, 2015, 10:43:44 AM
I wonder if this will later be known as 'The summer of the dolls'?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Jun 11, 2015, 10:49:03 AM
Or the "Year of the Dolls" more like...


I have no idea if my sister is likely to open random boxes or not, should one know such things about one's sister?


July I shall move ooopnorth innit?! I'm gonna grab me some sweed ol'time!!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Jun 11, 2015, 10:52:25 AM

The 36M Switch actually answered to the dry reply of "Lesbian."

He says: "J know... I read your profile, I still like your schoes and fetisches"

Do I ignore and block (my usual procedure) or is there something more amusing to be said?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 11, 2015, 01:27:05 PM
Or the "Year of the Dolls" more like...


accompanied by an exceedingly strange documentary.

Enjoy Sweeeeed summer.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jun 11, 2015, 07:18:57 PM
July I shall move ooopnorth innit?! I'm gonna grab me some sweed ol'time!!

Oh of course!  :D
I forgot.

I am such a goldfish.

It was also pointed out to me that I have been to a straight fetish thing before.
I had completely forgotten about having been to TG.


Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 11, 2015, 07:35:38 PM
millicent your tag line has me thinking....

'If you love something, set it free.'

.....then stare at your hand thinking 'what the fuck was I holding onto that for??'
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jun 12, 2015, 11:20:57 PM
I pretty much look like I'm playing a prostitute in an 80s episode of Columbo.

 ;D


Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jun 13, 2015, 04:50:10 AM
I'm just about to go to bed - I had rather a nice time.  :) :) :)

I might wear what I wore today for the summer party.  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Jun 13, 2015, 09:31:08 AM
I pretty much look like I'm playing a prostitute in an 80s episode of Columbo.

 ;D

Who played the dirty old man in a raincoat?  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jun 14, 2015, 06:47:21 AM
I pretty much look like I'm playing a prostitute in an 80s episode of Columbo.

 ;D

Who played the dirty old man in a raincoat?  ;D

Hehehe

I wondered how I'd feel about it being a straight club.
It felt surprisingly un-weird - like so many things I wondered about in the last 12 months.
I don't think I'd ever go on my own/ without a date but being there with friends was fine.
The venue was spacious, the toilets were clean (they had a lady handing out hand towels and lollipops. There should be more lollipops in toilets.)


Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 15, 2015, 09:51:59 AM
Pondering how to get a date for the queer prom (FF - Berlin)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jun 15, 2015, 08:19:10 PM
I was going to suggest starting a thread in the FF group on FL.

But apparently there isn't a FF group, so that's not going to work.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Jun 15, 2015, 09:33:24 PM
I was going to suggest starting a thread in the FF group on FL.

But apparently there isn't a FF group, so that's not going to work.


You could start a thread for us in maybe the berlin lesbo dykee tranny queery folk group.   ;)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 15, 2015, 10:57:48 PM
I was going to suggest starting a thread in the FF group on FL.

But apparently there isn't a FF group, so that's not going to work.


You could start a thread for us in maybe the berlin lesbo dykee tranny queery folk group.   ;)

The 'so pimp me out' thread  :P
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jun 16, 2015, 10:31:46 AM
I was going to suggest starting a thread in the FF group on FL.

But apparently there isn't a FF group, so that's not going to work.


You could start a thread for us in maybe the berlin lesbo dykee tranny queery folk group.   ;)

The 'so pimp me out' thread  :P

Well, give me some input of what you want me to write and where you want me to put it.

Does 'pimping' imply that money will change hands?
I do want a new kitchen...
We could make this work for all of us. :D

(Disclaimer: I'm joking about the money aspect)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 16, 2015, 11:49:59 AM
You know mills I can see you in pinstripe.

I like the pimping idea as last time in Berlin I sought out ZERO dates, just played with people who approached - I figure this put the mockers on my tendency to find 'axe murderers'.

WLTM: service orientated, masochist. Preference for games with more than 1 player. D/s, humiliation, cruelty, genderfucked, femme worshiping.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Jun 16, 2015, 06:11:22 PM


WLTM: service orientated, masochist. Preference for games with more than 1 player. D/s, humiliation, cruelty, genderfucked, femme worshiping.

I doubt you will have a problem being pimped with that profile.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 16, 2015, 10:51:57 PM


WLTM: service orientated, masochist. Preference for games with more than 1 player. D/s, humiliation, cruelty, genderfucked, femme worshiping.

I doubt you will have a problem being pimped with that profile.

I'm having a wallflower phase.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: mint on Jun 17, 2015, 01:03:20 PM
I found some actual parma violets. They were in Wilkinson for 28p!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: mint on Jun 17, 2015, 01:41:12 PM
I ate them all  :o lol.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 17, 2015, 02:22:13 PM
I found some actual parma violets. They were in Wilkinson for 28p!

There's something incredibly quaint about this.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jun 20, 2015, 05:11:11 AM
I find eating parma violets is a lot like eating soap.  :)



I'm in bed with a cup of tea, looking out over the rooftops of Paris.
Happy dumpaversary to me.  :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Jun 20, 2015, 08:26:07 AM


Happy Dumpaversary to you!!!


Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: nismat on Jun 20, 2015, 09:22:29 AM
Happy dumpaversary  :)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 20, 2015, 09:48:04 AM
Yes! Happy dumpaversary!  ;D

Looking forward to your Perve-aversary.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: mint on Jun 20, 2015, 11:42:04 AM
millicent! Have a great time in Paris.
:).
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jun 20, 2015, 04:18:31 PM
Thank you!  :D
I'm having a really fab time.

Yes, I'm already looking forward to my slutaversary too.
(82 sleeps)
Bring. It. On.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 21, 2015, 08:10:34 PM
Thank you!  :D
I'm having a really fab time.

Yes, I'm already looking forward to my slutaversary too.
(82 sleeps)
Bring. It. On.


I looked at this and thought '82 sleeps? Is Easter really that close?' (Poor brain) Then realised it's Berlin Folsom and that I've already booked flights and then forgotten about it. 3 kinky trips to Berlin in one year, after too many years of missing out.  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jun 21, 2015, 08:56:41 PM
Here's to no more missing out.  :-*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 22, 2015, 10:06:18 AM
Here's to no more missing out.  :-*

This morning my NY friend wrote and again mentioned 'Let's plan your trip': the idea is I go there in December. This is another thing that got put off and pushed aside. NO MORE!!!  :)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on Jun 22, 2015, 09:03:14 PM
Milli hope you're having a fab time ! Can't wait to catch up again xoxo  ;D

DRD

They say sometimes the hardest decisions are the right ones. So i guess in those moments when irrational fears threaten to prevent you from making the jump and it all seems so uncertain just trust in growth, be it your own or that of the situation you're in.  ???  :-\

KJ
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 23, 2015, 10:55:03 PM
I've had an incredibly weird day, most of it was just standard run of the mill perverted incredibly weird. All in a days work. The other stuff was uncomfortable emotional boundary pushing and inappropriate behaviour weird. On the upside the experience has left me thinking that actually my boundaries are WAY better than I thought. Have washed the whole thing outta my hair (yes its a rogers and Hammerstein musical reference https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zzu8ZxBHMWk (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zzu8ZxBHMWk)) with a bubble bath and am off to bed.

Note to self, must find date for FF!!!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Jun 24, 2015, 01:14:14 PM
^ When I was a teenager I was sent to a psychologist and the woman spend large portions of the sessions telling me all about how her father wouldn't allow her to wear mini skirts and was very strict about her attire. The rest of the time she gave me little cards with cartoon pics of some little pigs and asked me to put them in order to make a story and explain the story and the reasons for the order.

I was 15.

I am NOT kidding!!

Still today I wonder if she ever got treatment for her trauma over her father's control over her skirt's lenght.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 24, 2015, 05:20:50 PM

I am NOT kidding!!


I don't doubt you for a moment. The extreme contrasts I've observed in this so called 'helping profession' are discombobulating. It's one of the things that makes me a. want to continue training b. wonder if I'm a complete nutter because of 'a'.  ::)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Jun 24, 2015, 05:40:29 PM


I put I am not kidding not because I think people won't believe me but because it is so surreal. She spent weeks killing 10 or 15 minutes with silly cards and then complaining to a 15 year old about her daddy issues... Seriously? I can hardly believe it happened myself...

BUT I have since met a very good counselour as an adult, in the UK, a sort of odd one also in the UK and then in Germany two excellent professionals. They are not ALL weird, crazy, self obsessed, megalomaniac time wasters.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 24, 2015, 05:48:11 PM
^^^ understood!!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 24, 2015, 07:54:19 PM
My friend from SF and long ago caning date has been quite religiously sending me 'bruise progress' photos. Today they sent me a photo '32 days later'....slowly fading out now. It's nice to see how happy they are about consentingly made marks.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Jun 24, 2015, 07:59:33 PM


I <3 bruises.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jun 25, 2015, 07:44:48 PM
I *heart* bruises too and find it fascinating how different implements leave different marks and fade at different rates.
It's my mini science project.
I was really surprised at how quickly single tail marks fade, because initially they looked dead impressive.
But I guess they are really shallow.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Jun 25, 2015, 08:17:46 PM
I'm looking forward to doing some marks experimenting at the summer party. My victim play partner has requested that she still be able to wear shorts/vests after we play. So the marks will have to be concentrated in a much smaller area than I had originally planned. Oh dear.

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Jun 25, 2015, 08:43:01 PM


Oh dear indeed...

And I think it is not fair to call single tails shallow!!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jun 25, 2015, 09:02:42 PM
The marks were quite superficial though.
(Disclaimer: not a criticism, merely an observation. For science, innit.)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Jun 25, 2015, 09:05:45 PM
The marks were quite superficial though.
(Disclaimer: not a criticism, merely an observation. For science, innit.)

Skin types differ in how easily they mark and how long they remain/fade away - if they do. Superficial or not.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jun 25, 2015, 09:25:56 PM
The marks were quite superficial though.
(Disclaimer: not a criticism, merely an observation. For science, innit.)

Skin types differ in how easily they mark and how long they remain/fade away - if they do. Superficial or not.


I think it's more likely that I had shallow bruises than that my skin type has spontaneously changed, nes't-ce pas.


I'm really cranky.
Premenstrual and massively fucked off about the lack of progress with flat purchase.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 25, 2015, 10:22:15 PM
My victim play partner has requested that she still be able to wear shorts/vests after we play.
kitty

Shorts! Damn, that's challenging.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 25, 2015, 10:24:23 PM
@millicent, is there a spreadsheet with listed implements, how hard you were hit, where, how long bruising lasted?

If not can there be one?  :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Jun 25, 2015, 10:29:25 PM
My victim play partner has requested that she still be able to wear shorts/vests after we play.
kitty

Shorts! Damn, that's challenging.
Innit? I'm hoping they're long shorts. I'm going to draw my boundaries on her with a magic marker...I have such a lousy memory!

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Jun 25, 2015, 10:42:23 PM
@FK I think it is very responsible of you to use a magic marker, especially if you have memory problems, well done, great problem solving there! I am not too bothered by these constraints as parts I most love to attack... I mean, massage, are covered by such items... They must mean long-ish shorts though, they cannot possibly be denying you the top of their thighs, that is just too cruel!



I am wondering how much longer till I can abuse someone's mind and body till they cry and beg to be let go... Oh that's right, I have a date on Sunday! Well done me, carry on.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jun 26, 2015, 05:07:39 AM
@millicent, is there a spreadsheet with listed implements, how hard you were hit, where, how long bruising lasted?

If not can there be one?  :D

Hm. There isn't one at the moment, but there probably should be.
At the moment there are just photos on my phone. Hehehe.

I also think warm-up (or lack of) makes a massive difference to bruising, but that's currently just a hypothesis and needs more testing.  :P
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 26, 2015, 09:30:43 AM
@millicent, is there a spreadsheet with listed implements, how hard you were hit, where, how long bruising lasted?

If not can there be one?  :D

Hm. There isn't one at the moment, but there probably should be.
At the moment there are just photos on my phone. Hehehe.

I also think warm-up (or lack of) makes a massive difference to bruising, but that's currently just a hypothesis and needs more testing.  :P

Gawd now I'm trying to recall a workshop I went to in which they described changes in the skin and the qualities thereof in minute detail.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Jun 26, 2015, 06:26:58 PM
I think I'll have to stay off FB. For a couple of days, for the sake of my blood pressure and the few friends I have left.

Equality Schmequality.

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 26, 2015, 06:40:48 PM
I think I'll have to stay off FB. For a couple of days, for the sake of my blood pressure and the few friends I have left.

Equality Schmequality.

kitty
Had to bite my tongue and fingers when a friend posted 'marriage equality and cis in the dictionary, what next?' ......erm, more mainstreaming?

I DO (no pun intended) support equal rights but fuck.this.system.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Jun 27, 2015, 06:11:58 PM

^Glad I am not the only one. I think I may get high blood pressure BECAUSE of some very trivial/small-beans/pretend-advancement-while-beating-you-in-the-head-with-heteronormative-sticks being met with a We-have-been-saved attitude. Have we? Have we really?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 27, 2015, 06:47:22 PM
I've just booked a flight to NY, I have been promising to visit my dear friend there since she was granted asylum, plus she will pay half of my fare. Still, I'm an awful traveller.... actually get agoraphobic in new places.
I am going to research pervert parties on in that city while I am there.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Jun 27, 2015, 07:44:58 PM
I've heard this is good, in Brooklyn: https://fetlife.com/groups/19762/about

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Jun 27, 2015, 08:17:17 PM


UKIP sneaks in and marches with Pride. Some gays vote UKIP get over it the banners and poster say. Yeah... Some gays are racist, bigoted, misogynistic, anti-choice, rape apologists so should we all just get over it? We are SO fucking dramatic and over the top, what the fuck is wrong with "us". And I seriously get irritated at being lumped in with Pride as it is today, an exercise in alcohol and advertising opportunities.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 27, 2015, 08:52:33 PM
I've heard this is good, in Brooklyn: https://fetlife.com/groups/19762/about

kitty

Excellent, I'm going to be there for 3 weeks (hopefully my friend and I will not be tempted to kill each other), I'm absolutely CERTAIN she needs to be dragged out to more play parties.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 27, 2015, 08:54:55 PM


UKIP sneaks in and marches with Pride. Some gays vote UKIP get over it the banners and poster say. Yeah... Some gays are racist, bigoted, misogynistic, anti-choice, rape apologists so should we all just get over it? We are SO fucking dramatic and over the top, what the fuck is wrong with "us". And I seriously get irritated at being lumped in with Pride as it is today, an exercise in alcohol and advertising opportunities.

 :-\  How can they 'sneak in'?? Does that mean everyone else on the march is looking the other way?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Jun 27, 2015, 09:12:01 PM


They managed to sneak in because they were wearing army camouflage, everyone thought they were just the perverts having an army workout outing. The boots were sooo shiny...
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Jun 28, 2015, 08:03:53 AM
Is it true that you can't just join the march any longer? You have to be part of an organised group? Regulated. Controlled. A well-behaved gayer who pays their taxes, gets married, has babies and doesn't make trouble...

Simply marvellous.

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Jun 28, 2015, 08:29:08 AM


Is that true??? Well, it certainly isn't in any of the Pride Marches in Berlin I believe as I hear of all friends joining for parts or the whole. It never occurred to me it would come to that!!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Jun 28, 2015, 09:16:22 AM
It is true, and also a lot of little groups that used to march seem not to be in it any longer.

Blythe and I snuck in one year, we waited until the teachers' unions went by then slipped through the barrier behind them :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Goblin Flump on Jun 28, 2015, 09:47:05 AM
It sucks that you have to register beforehand. Gotta admit, I'd much rather throw the organisers a few quid during the year than be sponsered by scum like barclays.
The barriers and 'not letting people pop in and out' is sposed to be to keep things moving and to reduce marchers being harrassed/safety blah blah.

Didn't really stop one of my co-marchers getting her boobs grabbed by various gay men in the crowd last year. 'it's ok, I'm gay' is not really the get-out clause they seem to think it is.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Jun 28, 2015, 10:07:13 PM
Oh my goodness...

I bought a dragon tail whip today, and before I've even hit anyone with it I think it's my favourite whip. My pillow is certainly looking happy after the pounding it just took...

:D

Roll on Berlin...my 'mini' play kit now consists of: dragon tail, tazapper, giant rubber bands and  2 delrin canes. What more do I need?

Mwahahahaha!

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Jun 29, 2015, 12:30:44 PM

That is your MINI kit? Ok, now one needs to know what is the maxi like??

I love delrin canes, although canes are so long to travel and all I would not have thought of it as a Mini-item!



If I had to quickly put together a mini kit it would be bondage tape, clingfilm roll, knife, high heels, rounders bat, fat plastic slapper.




PS. Do NOT FORGET batteries.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 29, 2015, 01:21:50 PM
Now you've got me thinking 'mini-kit': Mine is usually, 2x delrin canes, leather gloves, dick/harness, vicious old fashioned riding whip (not at all like a crop, its solid oiled leather and very flexi), high heels, heavy but softish flogger, length of chain.

I'm not that much of a 'toy' person, I love to see a bit of well made kit, but am just as happy to play with punches, slaps, kicks and words.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Jun 29, 2015, 01:39:20 PM


I am going through a phase of loving clingfilm, otherwise my usual mini kit wouldn't include clingfilm or bondage tape. I am having a bit of a love affair with clingfilm and bondage tape, as bondage tape makes great masks and I love the feel, look and the cutting it off process :-P


A mini kit is definitely going to look different depending on what I am more into at certain times.

It is seasonal...
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 29, 2015, 01:45:54 PM
oh yes! In that case adding an old plastic shopping bag to my mini kit.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Jun 29, 2015, 01:50:56 PM
My delrin canes are short and fit in my mid-sized suitcase diagonally easily...

I forgot I also need a magic marker and I might chuck in some nipple clamps with bells on, just for a giggle.

And the bigger kit looks like this, remember? https://fetlife.com/users/892566/pictures/37033528

:)

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Jun 29, 2015, 02:15:14 PM


Mini sized delrin canes are very helpful, only two of my delrin canes fit in small bag diagonally, the other three need the poster tube thingy.


And your Maxi sized kit is crazy, always carry bowls to make brownies do you?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Jun 29, 2015, 06:19:36 PM
Of course, doesn't everyone?

That's not even all of it. I think I should pitch a TV show: Perverted Hoarders.

Ahem

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Jun 29, 2015, 06:48:56 PM


Between your full pervert kit and the mini one there is a mahossive gulf, are there no baking implements of any kind on the mini kit? A whisk perhaps?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Jun 29, 2015, 06:51:14 PM
Maybe a wooden spoon. Multi-purpose, innit?

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Jun 30, 2015, 01:31:48 AM


Is it a one meter long one?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jun 30, 2015, 09:30:05 PM
I don't have a kit. I just turn up.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Jun 30, 2015, 10:01:02 PM
I don't have a kit. I just turn up.

That always used to be me. Then it changed. And now sometimes I have to bring kit too. 

I guess I should not complain.  :P
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 30, 2015, 10:10:41 PM
I don't have a kit. I just turn up.

I can imagine you building up a collection of super evil canes (based on careful research noted down on the spreadsheet) and occasionally tutting at the canes brought by tops as being too 'wimpy'.  :P
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Jun 30, 2015, 10:32:07 PM
I don't have a kit. I just turn up.

I can imagine you building up a collection of super evil canes (based on careful research noted down on the spreadsheet) and occasionally tutting at the canes brought by tops as being too 'wimpy'.  :P

...and then she will start quibbling about their handling of said canes.  That will be another spreadsheet with assessment marks.   ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jun 30, 2015, 11:00:04 PM
I don't have a kit. I just turn up.

I can imagine you building up a collection of super evil canes (based on careful research noted down on the spreadsheet) and occasionally tutting at the canes brought by tops as being too 'wimpy'.  :P

...and then she will start quibbling about their handling of said canes.  That will be another spreadsheet with assessment marks.   ;D

Then there will probably be a few arched eyebrows and stern looks, followed by some one (consensually) beating the living crap out of her. Most likely followed by everyone being extremely happy and going off for tea and cake.

I love a happy ending.
*cough*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jul 01, 2015, 05:55:29 AM
*snarf

I'm far too polite to ever do that.

What is true though is that having the living crap (consensually) beaten out of me does amake me extremely happy.
Even more so if there's tea and cake.
Or hot chocolate. (I carry my own sachets for after, but it's not always practical.)

What's in your kit, Marzipan Gnome?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jul 01, 2015, 07:50:34 AM
Did I ever mention the person who turned up to do aftercare service with a choice of scented handcreams? (she brought other things too, snacks, a cushion for my back.) I know I have mentioned this before, 'cos I go on and on about her, she was excellent.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Jul 01, 2015, 07:31:56 PM

^ That sounds like excellent commitment to service indeed. Looking forward to being pampered by my S. in the Land of Salmon for the week we spend there. Hummm... salmon...


My DRD:

I am very hot. 
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jul 01, 2015, 09:02:27 PM
One thing the negotiation process has brought me is an added awareness that I have a 'type': slutty devoted painsluts, or devoted service sluts, or ..well.....sluts.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Jul 01, 2015, 09:03:21 PM
Define slutty, please...

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jul 01, 2015, 09:39:15 PM
I just checked into my flight for Berlin.
I wasn't sure if I was looking forward to it, because the house and divorce stagnation is really draining but since I assembled the chair yesterday I feel much better about it all.
And OF COURSE I'm looking forward to it, duh.

I have three more chairs in unassembled state that I hold back for another slump emergency.

I'm totally packing the wig.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Jul 01, 2015, 09:42:19 PM
This time in two weeks I'll be in Berlin. Happy happy joy joy!

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jul 01, 2015, 09:46:38 PM
:D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jul 01, 2015, 10:16:43 PM
Define slutty, please...

kitty

It would have made more sense if I had just written 'painsluts, or devoted service sluts, or ..well.....sluts.'

More self explanatory.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jul 01, 2015, 10:17:26 PM
Also grinning about Berlin  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Jul 03, 2015, 04:43:59 PM
I think the Summer Party might have to be a tale of two outifts...the first one is just too uncomfortable to wear all night...

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jul 03, 2015, 06:49:42 PM
I think the Summer Party might have to be a tale of two outifts...the first one is just too uncomfortable to wear all night...

kitty

Tsk.

Schönheit muss leiden.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jul 03, 2015, 07:59:24 PM
I think the Summer Party might have to be a tale of two outifts...the first one is just too uncomfortable to wear all night...

kitty

Tsk.

Schönheit muss leiden.

Pish to all that (the suffering), I've been wondering if I would have the guts to take my clothes off if it's too bloody hot (while playing) as that venue can be like a sauna in the summer time. I look in the mirror and see someone 2 stone heavier than I have been most of my adult life but hey ho... if there's one thing the scene has taught me it's an acceptance and celebration of different body types!! (obvs a bit tougher when it's MY body  ::))

yes! comfort!!

I've also been thinking about navigating all those sodding stairs in heels.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Jul 03, 2015, 08:03:55 PM
sauna and stairs.  noted.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jul 03, 2015, 08:19:59 PM
Stairs isn't the first thing I remember when I think of that venue.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Jul 03, 2015, 08:27:23 PM
Stairs isn't the first thing I remember when I think of that venue.



It is when I do...loads of bloody stairs...

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jul 03, 2015, 08:38:03 PM
Stairs isn't the first thing I remember when I think of that venue.



It is when I do...loads of bloody stairs...

kitty

I remember absolutely dripping with sweat in the place, thunder and lightening storm going on outside.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Jul 03, 2015, 08:39:47 PM
Stairs isn't the first thing I remember when I think of that venue.

needles?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jul 03, 2015, 08:49:55 PM
Stairs isn't the first thing I remember when I think of that venue.

needles?

Cane and belt. Ahem.

And my corset was done up so tight I couldn't sit down, but could only kind of lean against walls.
I remember thinking the downstairs but was a lot like someone's living room.
Someone who didn't really care about interior design.

 ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jul 03, 2015, 09:00:59 PM
Stairs isn't the first thing I remember when I think of that venue.

needles?

Cane and belt. Ahem.

And my corset was done up so tight I couldn't sit down, but could only kind of lean against walls.
I remember thinking the downstairs but was a lot like someone's living room.
Someone who didn't really care about interior design.

 ;D

And who owned a lot of cages.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jul 03, 2015, 09:13:08 PM
I don't remember cages.
But there was a paddling pool.

Are we talking about the same venue?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jul 03, 2015, 09:17:09 PM
I believe so but I haven't been there for a few years!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Jul 03, 2015, 10:55:32 PM
Yeah, I'll be doing the standing up thing in outfit #1. So there definitely needs to be an outfit #2!

Plus...access *cough*

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jul 04, 2015, 07:06:08 AM
Access is important.

My DRD: THIRTEEN
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Jul 04, 2015, 10:39:20 AM


PLENTY of stairs, oh yes. Not much you can do about it, they are winding tall stairs  :-\ No lift or ramps possible. I think you do have the same place, downstairs occasionally has some cages in corners, otherwise it is like a bad bachelor pad, black leather sitting furniture and functional tables. Some plain chairs kicking about too.


FK hope you are not developing a cough...  :P

DRD I have period and I am in pain, I hate the world.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jul 04, 2015, 12:23:19 PM
downstairs occasionally has some cages in corners, otherwise it is like a bad bachelor pad, black leather sitting furniture .....
Definitely the same place!!!!  ;D

DRD I have period and I am in pain, I hate the world.
may chocolate and gentle massages come your way if you would choose those things.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jul 04, 2015, 08:24:29 PM
I am so grateful that we live in a world with internet.
And whatsapp. And FB messenger.
And tea.



Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Jul 04, 2015, 09:17:55 PM
Me too :)

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Jul 04, 2015, 11:57:11 PM

I hated almost everything today, as I have period. And I am not nice.

But apart from that I had a really great day, with friends and bbq trying to survive heat bomb with buckets of cold water to put ur feet in, cold salads, wet clothes and lots of laying around melting.

The cat was NOT impressed by my offer of a small pool for her. Some felines do not know what is good for them!


Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jul 05, 2015, 12:59:35 PM
About to go and run rampage have late lunch with visiting out of town Femme Pack  :D ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jul 05, 2015, 08:17:05 PM
There is a mosquito in my bedroom.
 >:(

Mother. Fucker.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jul 05, 2015, 09:01:01 PM
Today there was a discussion about organising a Femme only play/social/BDSM space....London/Berlin.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jul 06, 2015, 06:39:47 PM
*does an little excited dance* Apart from being a little bit not so rich and a bit not so well, pretty much everything else is GOOD. It's slightly nerve wracking. I hope this is allowed. *carries on with little dance*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Jul 06, 2015, 09:06:02 PM
*does an little excited dance* Apart from being a little bit not so rich and a bit not so well, pretty much everything else is GOOD. It's slightly nerve wracking. I hope this is allowed. *carries on with little dance*

just make sure you are well for your birthday bash   :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jul 06, 2015, 09:10:46 PM
*does an little excited dance* Apart from being a little bit not so rich and a bit not so well, pretty much everything else is GOOD. It's slightly nerve wracking. I hope this is allowed. *carries on with little dance*

just make sure you are well for your birthday bash   :D

 ;D ;D ;D the current 'not so well' is just a flare: either the fluctuating heat or slight money stress have lead to some joint pain, tho in general my health is so.much.better. Haven't used my cane (the walking one not the other collection) since Easter!!!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Jul 06, 2015, 09:16:55 PM
Wow! That's so cool... :)

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jul 06, 2015, 09:17:55 PM
Health and wellbeing Conference Magic strikes again.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jul 06, 2015, 09:24:33 PM
Health and wellbeing Conference Magic strikes again.

 ;D and thanks FK.

I think it is due to an absence of fuckwitism in my personal life.

(love how spell check offered me 5 different ways of rendering 'fuckwitism'... all of them variations of punctuation, no difference in the actual spelling :P)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jul 07, 2015, 07:26:18 AM
TEN. Ten, ten, ten, ten, ten, ten, TEN.
(*to music, with a dance routine, involving arms.)

I'm also really looking forward to brunch on the Sunday.
I want pancakes with Nutella and cherries.
I'm bringing my own teabags.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Jul 07, 2015, 09:03:57 AM
Oh good, you have time before your flight? The usual place?

:)

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Jul 07, 2015, 09:09:00 AM
My DRD: why is it you wait ages for a potential local FB, and then several come along at once? ;)

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jul 07, 2015, 09:51:40 AM
Oh good, you have time before your flight? The usual place?

:)

kitty

Should do. We don't have to be at the airport until 4.
Not sure when A's train is though. Will check.
My DRD: why is it you wait ages for a potential local FB, and then several come along at once? ;)

kitty

Have you considered one of those queueing systems like they do at the deli in Sainsbury's?
*runs
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jul 07, 2015, 01:30:09 PM
My DRD: why is it you wait ages for a potential local FB, and then several come along at once? ;)

kitty

Because: gangbang  :P
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Jul 07, 2015, 02:21:17 PM
My DRD: why is it you wait ages for a potential local FB, and then several come along at once? ;)

kitty

Because: gangbang  :P

Hmmm...I've never found enough people who play well with others for this. Unfortunately.

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jul 07, 2015, 02:36:53 PM
My DRD: why is it you wait ages for a potential local FB, and then several come along at once? ;)

kitty

Because: gangbang  :P

Hmmm...I've never found enough people who play well with others for this. Unfortunately.

kitty

*nods* can be a bit of a nightmare to organise, sort of like herding cats but ruder.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jul 09, 2015, 07:23:36 PM
I may live to regret that message.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Jul 09, 2015, 07:46:31 PM


After 20 years of looking for one, I finally was able to join a women only self defense workshop! It was great, hot Frenchies taught it at the occupied house festival to celebrate the house's 25th anniversary.


And on other news heard from Hot French today that party you are all going to is not at usual venue, it is at darkside, only one set of stairs on arrival, all one level once down there. Uneven cobblestone floors in some areas, but that is all.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jul 09, 2015, 07:57:06 PM
That's cool on one hand, because darkside is so much nicer, but also annoying because we chose an airbnb flat close to the (original) venue.

They've not updated the listing on FL yet.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jul 09, 2015, 07:57:32 PM
And on other news heard from Hot French today that party you are all going to is not at usual venue, it is at darkside, only one set of stairs on arrival, all one level once down there. Uneven cobblestone floors in some areas, but that is all.

Hot Frenchie IS hot  :P

Darkside ...hmmmm...bloody hate those cobbled floors, plus some of the sealed floors are quite slippery (hallways). However LOADS easier to get to and if all of it is open it's a great space.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jul 09, 2015, 08:01:41 PM
They also have quite a nice indoor smoking bit, don't they.
That'll be nice for aftercare.
Note to self: no cigarette for me. Absolutely none.

Last time I was at darkside I had the worst toothache ever.
Memorable for all the wrong reasons.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Jul 09, 2015, 08:11:00 PM


I had the best time at self defense workshop as I love watching Hot Frenchie's tattoos, she had the tiniest skirt and was doing loads of kicks  ;D And awesome easy to use techniques that were great to trial and practice so as to feel more confident. I am SO HAPPY! Waited 20 years to find such a workshop! Music for relaxing and stretching at the end was from a French feminist band Van Van, playing Pussy Gang. Hilarious lyrics, gotta find it!


Hot Frenchie and queer Berliner neighbour both heard it was Darkside and not Bose Buben but I actually do not know WHERE they heard or found this out...

And Yiiikes to toothache... Yu don't have one planned this time do you? Or will you be seeing a nurse?  :P
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jul 09, 2015, 08:36:20 PM
Self defence classes are really good.
I'm still fairly confident I could break an attacker's arm.

And Yiiikes to toothache... Yu don't have one planned this time do you? Or will you be seeing a nurse?  :P

No tooth ache this time.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Jul 09, 2015, 08:57:25 PM


My class wasn't so advanced, only a beginners workshop for basics, but boxing champion Hot Frenchie did give us great pointers on punching and kicking  :D

We also had great exercises from her boxing background about trying to keep your eyes open should you be hit in the face, and how to lean into it and not let your head go back so as not to damage your neck, it was hard but with practice I can see it being easier. And we had then four easy exercises to break someone's hold on you and/or attempt to hurt.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jul 09, 2015, 08:58:54 PM
I love watching Hot Frenchie's tattoos, she had the tiniest skirt and was doing loads of kicks  ;D

Totally putting that one in the wank bank  :P Hot girls in tiny skirts teaching self defence, phwoar!!  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Jul 09, 2015, 09:04:12 PM

I know. I can be such a pervy old gay man sometimes...
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Jul 09, 2015, 09:21:27 PM
It's always at BB though...Darkside isn't available on Saturday nights as they have a regular thing of their own on. I think the rumour mill is wrong!

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Jul 09, 2015, 09:40:31 PM
So...Copenhagen! Yay! I was just saying i need somewhere to go in November. :D

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Jul 09, 2015, 09:41:24 PM


It could really just be wishful thinking, I don't know!! My party is in Salmon Land so...
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jul 09, 2015, 10:51:13 PM
So...Copenhagen! Yay! I was just saying i need somewhere to go in November. :D

kitty

I may see you there, if I get a place at school then Copenhagen is the week prior to a residential training weekend. I can't figure if this will be a bad thing: cos financial ruin or a good thing: cos antidote for immersive time with do goody smiley people.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Jul 10, 2015, 08:09:50 AM
It's surprisingly cheap: 250 Danish Kroner is about £24, easyjet flight for me would be about £100 and even the Airbnb apartments aren't silly money. I know it's expensive when you're there though.

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jul 10, 2015, 01:11:42 PM
It's surprisingly cheap: 250 Danish Kroner is about £24, easyjet flight for me would be about £100 and even the Airbnb apartments aren't silly money. I know it's expensive when you're there though.

kitty

Hmm, see the flights were about a hundred quid, then baggage and then because they depart from Gatwick transport starts to get ugly and complicated, then the train to the centre of Copenhagen. *gets out calculator*. In some ways more than money I need to think about budgeting physical energy, I LOVE dashing about doing exciting things but I can get a bit 'no brakes and then the wheels fall off.'  ::) ....fly to NYC in December.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on Jul 10, 2015, 03:42:57 PM
DRD-You wait for what feeks like forever for a bus....then 5 come along at once!!

KJ xoxo
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jul 11, 2015, 06:28:58 PM
Todays announcement from FF on FL says the party is at BB.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Jul 11, 2015, 06:39:24 PM
OK TY

:)

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jul 11, 2015, 07:05:54 PM
This time next week.  :D :D :D

I'm packing.
Attempting to take the small suitcase.
I'm still taking three potential outfits.
Choice matters, am I right?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Jul 11, 2015, 07:34:02 PM
Choice is vital...the weather looks very changeable.

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jul 11, 2015, 07:50:43 PM
Oh, right. Actual clothes.
I'm taking a skirt & top and two dresses.
That'll do.  :)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jul 11, 2015, 09:22:26 PM
I think I just got a rude proposition  :D *looks around slightly puzzled* I'm still not used to this sort of thing!!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jul 12, 2015, 09:18:22 AM
I should be in the gym.

Clearly, I'm not in the gym, as mein innerer Schweinehund is glued to the IKEA room planner.
Stop it, innerer Schweinehund. Stop it, you total bastard.

But I'm going right now, and I'll do intervals until my lungs beg for mercy.
Or something.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jul 12, 2015, 09:21:35 AM
The room planner is really good though.
Once you get the hang of it.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jul 13, 2015, 05:56:41 PM
Currently finding out what kind of chaos ensues when the organisation goes awry on your clusterfuck. *twitch* *fiddle* *swoosh*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jul 16, 2015, 08:24:45 PM
My ex used to always say 'you can't plan these things'.
Turns out you can.
And it's half the fun.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jul 16, 2015, 09:52:19 PM
My ex used to always say 'you can't plan these things'.
Turns out you can.
And it's half the fun.

Yes absolutely!!

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jul 19, 2015, 01:17:32 AM
Heh.

Turns out a gas mask and a remote control electric dog training collar are extremely effective at dealing with cigarette cravings while doing aftercare in the smoking area.

Funnily enough I didn't smoke a single drag.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jul 19, 2015, 09:30:34 PM
Heh.

Turns out a gas mask and a remote control electric dog training collar are extremely effective at dealing with cigarette cravings while doing aftercare in the smoking area.

Funnily enough I didn't smoke a single drag.

Can you get that on the NHS.?

my RD.... I keep having shower flashbacks, that and the drowning bit.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jul 20, 2015, 08:05:30 AM

Can you get that on the NHS.?


They should definitely consider it. It's super effective.
They should do health and wellbeing packages on the NHS too.

In other news: 12, 32, 52  :D :D :D


Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jul 20, 2015, 09:29:00 AM

Can you get that on the NHS.?

They should do health and wellbeing packages on the NHS too.

A cure like no other!!

I think I have a matching 12 :D

oh, probably a 32, and 52 as well....chances are.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jul 20, 2015, 07:48:56 PM
DRD: Sometimes, logistics are difficult.  >:(


Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jul 21, 2015, 01:35:10 PM
Post GREAT weekend brain fluff.
babble babble
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jul 23, 2015, 06:03:17 PM
Today was a good day.

I think.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jul 23, 2015, 06:45:37 PM
Today was a good day.

I think.

Hurrah!! Did the squirrel throw the brick?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jul 23, 2015, 07:14:41 PM
Today was a good day.

I think.

Hurrah!! Did the squirrel throw the brick?

I think it threw the brick, climbed into her office and then kicked her shin until she did something.

Go squirrel!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jul 23, 2015, 07:19:07 PM
Today was a good day.

I think.

Hurrah!! Did the squirrel throw the brick?

I think it threw the brick, climbed into her office and then kicked her shin until she did something.

Go squirrel!

Woohoo!! Go squirrel go!!  ;D ;D ;D

Glad to hear this mills  :)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jul 23, 2015, 07:38:53 PM
Me too.

I also feel a little bit sick with nerves.
I'm pleased I have counselling tomorrow.
I'm feeling a lot of feels - not in a bad way, necessarily.

My counsellor thinks that I'm holding on to a lot of emotion which she thinks will come out at some point.
I'm still taking bets on what emotion it will be.
I'm hoping for elation. Or glee.
Nothing shitty involving sobbing.

I'm also determined that the move isn't going to mess up any play dates.
Fuck that shit.

My ex called yesterday for a chat - she asked if I was glad that we split up.
It's weird. I don't regret any of our time together, but honestly if I had known what I learnt about myself in the last 12 months before we got together I would not have had a 17 year monogamous relationship with her.

Life is strange, isn't it?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jul 23, 2015, 08:01:22 PM
Yes life is a funny old bean. Stored up emotions *sigh* I will probably start some short term counselling soon just to make sure I've fully dealt with my last relationship. It's odd, in many ways I feel a bit 'who?'... but I also know that there is more deep down that needs to be sorted through. Better out than in!! Tears are alright, I really believe it is a release. Personally I'm more worried about anger - I figure it must be there somewhere.

Many years ago a friend made a painting called 'alphabet for children' messily painted single block letters which spelled out 'C.R.AZ.Y. F.U.C.K.I.N.G. W.O.R.L.D.'
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jul 24, 2015, 05:05:19 AM
Isn't it just.  :)

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Jul 24, 2015, 08:27:13 AM
Ditto.
As much as I am a believer in time being a great healer I do wish it moved a bit faster on the shitty stuff. I don't like this rollercoaster right now.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jul 24, 2015, 01:29:28 PM
^^^ bum to that sort of rollercoaster xx

I feel like I'm on a different kind of rollercoaster: each time I've recovered from the high of play (and subsequent god awful comedown a couple of days later), I then play again.... and the fairground ride kicks off for another round. I hear some people say things like 'I don't play that hard anymore because I can't stand the come down'....but, but.  ::)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jul 25, 2015, 07:01:47 AM
I hope the rollercoaster gets to a fun bit soon, Gnomey.  :-*



DRD: It's so nice when the top likes your write up.  :) :) :)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jul 25, 2015, 07:07:12 AM
I hear some people say things like 'I don't play that hard anymore because I can't stand the come down'....but, but.  ::)

Innit?

Where's the fun in that?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jul 25, 2015, 01:03:33 PM
You know, I quite like making 'wish lists', it doesn't mean any of it's going to happen but it feels like good practice in imagining fun possibilities. Weird how for a while I forgot there were such things.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jul 25, 2015, 02:09:04 PM
It's a lovely wish list.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jul 25, 2015, 02:57:18 PM
It's a lovely wish list.

It makes me happy just reading it  ;D I wonder how I might survive doing it.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jul 25, 2015, 09:47:35 PM
Soooo... When it says 'sent' on FB messenger, it hasn't actually been delivered?
Because that would explain some things.

Stupid Facebook.  >:(
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jul 26, 2015, 11:21:20 AM
Slow communication is probably one of my deal breakers.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jul 28, 2015, 06:25:52 PM
I'm having a small wardrobe crisis about Saturday.  :-\

Which makes a change from stressing about buying the flat.  :)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jul 29, 2015, 08:31:36 PM
I'm gradually realising that I actually enjoy organising annoyingly fiddly 'herding cats' type situations.
Games for more than two players here we come!  :D Control freak x admin masochist.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jul 30, 2015, 08:36:58 PM
I aspire to the day where I'll just be able to pack my overnight bag without trying umpteenth outfits first.

I also think I'll be rather underdressed compared to everyone else who'll be really shiny.
But. But. It's that or access.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Jul 30, 2015, 09:58:16 PM

I also think I'll be rather underdressed compared to everyone else who'll be really shiny.
But. But. It's that or access.

ha!  ain't that the truth. and as was said to me recently regards what to wear. 'I don't care as long as I have access'. 
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Jul 30, 2015, 11:47:58 PM
Yeah...my words to someone recently were 'I don't care what you wear...you won't be for long'

:)

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jul 31, 2015, 07:23:33 AM
Hehehe.

Outfit crisis non withstanding, I'm very much looking forward to this weekend.
We have members tickets to the Alexander McQueen exhibition tomorrow morning.  :D
All the yays.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Jul 31, 2015, 09:54:42 PM
I just checked Facebook and I realised that it is my soon to be ex parents-in-law's 50th wedding anniversary this weekend which means that right now I'd be stuck up in Scunthorpe.

I'm so pleased I got dumped.  :D :D :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Chewwy on Jul 31, 2015, 11:07:13 PM
^  :D

Why they havn't changed the name of that place I'll never know.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Jul 31, 2015, 11:11:14 PM
hehe...Mills, sounds like all of the WIN!!  ;D

DRD. full of amaze kink friend hangout/service date   ;D

*sorry I've lapsed into valley speak, I've eaten so much good food today, I'm about to pass out.*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Aug 03, 2015, 06:46:49 AM
I had a fab weekend.
I should get up and get ready for work, but I know it means I have it come out of my happy bubble, so I'm putting it off.

5 more minutes.
Maybe 15 more minutes.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Aug 03, 2015, 09:47:55 AM
^^^ hurrah for happy weekends and happy bubbles.  ;D

not very dungeony but I spent some of yesterday sitting in the sun blowing bubbles.

more dungeony, enjoying plotting for Folsom, tho still no doll.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Aug 04, 2015, 07:30:16 PM
It is somewhat ironic how much logistical effort and dedication hedonism takes.
Never mind the comedowns.

They don't tell you that when they recruit.
No, ma'am.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Aug 04, 2015, 07:34:32 PM
^^^ so true, so very true

*shakes head*

Having said that, I am willing to put the work in.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Aug 05, 2015, 04:45:08 PM
Coming back to the logistical workout of kink, I'm finding all the preparations for Folsom a bit exhausting: negotiating scenes/meet ups/plans.  :-\  ::)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Aug 07, 2015, 09:11:03 AM
I'm a true believer in the 'BDSM workout' routine.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on Aug 07, 2015, 10:02:39 AM
Yeah so I deleted it, because its amazing what good communication can do to make someone else feel better. Thanks PE  :-*  ;D

KJ xoxo
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on Aug 07, 2015, 10:10:46 AM
I really don't know why I just told you I had 12 kids and one on the way....  :D :D...oh that's tickled me .  wish I could see your face!!

KJ xoxo
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Aug 09, 2015, 02:44:38 PM
My Dutch friend isn't coming to Folsom now.  :( :( :(
I might just go and raid the buffet at the parties.

In other news, we just realised that she had given me the wrong date for the party in Amsterdam and that I had booked flights for the wrong weekend.

Not for the first time I feel completely validated in my decision to only book flexible tickets.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Aug 10, 2015, 09:35:05 PM
I have a feeling show tunes in the dungeon is bound to piss someone off.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Aug 10, 2015, 09:55:18 PM
My Dutch friend isn't coming to Folsom now.  :( :( :(
I might just go and raid the buffet at the parties.


C'mon mills, isn't it your perve-a-versary?

WISH LIST!!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Aug 10, 2015, 09:55:57 PM
Did I ever tell you about the time someone played 'Ernie, the fastest milkman in the west' by Bennie Hill at a fetish club?

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Aug 10, 2015, 10:43:14 PM
Did I ever tell you about the time someone played 'Ernie, the fastest milkman in the west' by Bennie Hill at a fetish club?

kitty

Um.... no...I don't think you did.

I think I might have mentioned the time several people LOUDLY negotiated and semi-rehearsed their role play about the ROYAL FAMILY next to me while I was playing in Darkside years ago.  ::)

The showtune thing is giving me a lot of laughs.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Aug 10, 2015, 10:57:40 PM
I had to do my doll scene next to someone with a very distinctive (and loud) voice at Honey & Spices after Conference ::) My doll was wearing earplugs...I was tempted to nick them off her!

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Aug 11, 2015, 06:55:25 AM
*snarf

At the party this guy (who in my head I call the David Brent of kink) kept having really loud inane conversations next to people's scenes.
('Well, these rubber sheets are simply marvellous.') ('So do you enjoy the juxtaposition of your day job and BDSM - I'm guessing your day job is mostly office based?')

Thing is, I'm socially inept too, so I kind of felt for him. But that didn't make him any less annoying.


My Dutch friend isn't coming to Folsom now.  :( :( :(
I might just go and raid the buffet at the parties.


C'mon mills, isn't it your perve-a-versary?

WISH LIST!!

Yes, Folsom is my slutaversary.
I just don't really feel in the zone.

On my current wish-list is a fridge, a mattress, wardrobes, in-built storage and that my co-workers would internalise their stress and not take it out on me.
I feel tired and hormonal and my ego is a tiny poodle made of Swarovski crystal.

My fridge will be delivered between 10.45 - 14.45. That's bound to help.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Aug 11, 2015, 09:17:05 AM
The washing machine delivery has already cheered me up.
And I can't even chill milk in it.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Aug 11, 2015, 09:46:08 AM
Dear tiny poodle heart, everything will be much more than ok xxx
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Aug 11, 2015, 12:23:29 PM
Hehe.
No, no. My ego is made of Svarowski crystal.

I think my heart is made of raisin.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Aug 11, 2015, 11:12:43 PM
It's been a very pervert filled day...all varieties.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Aug 15, 2015, 05:54:34 AM
I'm going to IKEA today.
On my own, with a backback and a little wheelie suitcase.
On a SATURDAY.

It's like I'm a masochist or something.



In other news I noticed last night that my default position if someone asks me to play is that a) they'll probably change their mind or b) ask because they somehow feel sorry for me or c) don't really mean it.

That's a bit silly, isn't it?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Aug 15, 2015, 08:27:06 AM
I'm going to IKEA today.
On my own, with a backback and a little wheelie suitcase.
On a SATURDAY.

It's like I'm a masochist or something.

Are you back? Or have you been kidnapped as a unicorn by one of the roving lesbian couples?

Quote

In other news I noticed last night that my default position if someone asks me to play is that a) they'll probably change their mind or b) ask because they somehow feel sorry for me or c) don't really mean it.

That's a bit silly, isn't it?

Well at least if you know it's an internal mechanism rather than an external reality, that might make it a little bit easier to check the thought when it pops up  :-*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Aug 15, 2015, 08:50:19 AM

Are you back? Or have you been kidnapped as a unicorn by one of the roving lesbian couples?


Is that an actual option?  :D
Because that does sound kind of appealing.
Where are the best chances is that happening, do you think?
Kitchen department?

Although there is the risk that they are only after someone doing the hoovering.

I got here far too early.
And now I'm cold outside.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Aug 15, 2015, 09:55:05 AM
^^^maybe if you were tied to a bed before the other shoppers arrived?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Aug 15, 2015, 01:46:10 PM
^^^maybe if you were tied to a bed before the other shoppers arrived?

I saw this too late.  :(
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Aug 15, 2015, 05:40:47 PM
^^^maybe if you were tied to a bed before the other shoppers arrived?

I saw this too late.  :(

IKEA will still be there.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Goblin Flump on Aug 15, 2015, 05:52:09 PM
IKEA will still be there.
My god that sounds menacing. tagline for a horrormovie.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Aug 15, 2015, 06:35:47 PM
IKEA will still be there.
My god that sounds menacing. tagline for a horrormovie.

Or reassuring, comforting and happy making.

I had a proper good IKEA experience today.
I shall be back.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Aug 17, 2015, 12:45:17 PM
excited  ;D

Except dragging my focus back to PROJECTS.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Aug 17, 2015, 05:15:02 PM
Some German words are so to the point and beautiful.

Like 'verkopft' - 'To be lead by one's head' 'intellectualising'

Perfect.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Aug 18, 2015, 07:30:24 PM
Oops, that thing where there really is more work you could be doing.... except you find yourself browsing and buying trashy lingere online.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Aug 18, 2015, 09:06:31 PM
1, 11, 23, 35, 68, 219

:)

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Aug 18, 2015, 11:40:47 PM
Re-reading Kushiel's Dart when the chances of any kind of play in the near future are slim to none (thanks to child at home, renovating house, and general stress) is probably not wise, is it?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Aug 20, 2015, 10:47:25 AM
Waiting for the second installment in my non 1970's porno - 'The gas-man cometh'.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Aug 21, 2015, 06:07:57 PM
We're looking at places in Copenhagen. I'm sharing with the Dutch delegation.  :D

In other news 7, 20, 65, 91, 216.

Yeeeeehhhh.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: nismat on Aug 22, 2015, 10:09:18 PM
I've been having some interesting (IM) conversations around kink stuff with a couple of friends tonight. Both also subs. Intriguing to share some of my initial thoughts/issues I've encountered so far. And just to talk about it openly!

In some ways, I do feel so hopelessly naive. But I suppose everyone has to start somewhere. And I have begun to work out at least some of what I like. But now I've got to work out, what do I do next?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Aug 22, 2015, 11:37:39 PM
But now that that initial exploration/relationship is at an end, I've got to work out, what do I do next?

Fetlife profile.
Easter conference next March.

 :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: nismat on Aug 23, 2015, 10:01:52 AM
As easy as that huh?  :D

I got completely bewildered/overwhelmed when I first signed on to Fetlife. So vast.
I can't even remember what username I had.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Aug 23, 2015, 10:17:10 AM
^^^
*snaps fingers*  ;)

well maybe it's not instant but getting out and about in a community helps :) at least there will be good scenery!!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Aug 23, 2015, 05:25:39 PM
It's not likely to be instant, but I did find that meeting others and talking about stuff is really helpful, it helped me realise a lot of things. (To be fair, doing stuff is also really helpful. Heh.)

And I still have happy face every time I think of conference - I made some really nice connections.

And @Nismat - feel free to IM me for my FL username.  :)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: nismat on Aug 23, 2015, 10:32:56 PM
As I want to both talk about and actually DO some stuff, then yes, I will have to get out there in some way!

And thanks Millicent I will. If/when I can log myself back on!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Aug 25, 2015, 09:10:05 AM
I just realised that I'm a tad nervous about Saturday.
I've never been a demo bunny before.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Aug 25, 2015, 10:26:35 AM
I just realised that I'm a tad nervous about Saturday.
I've never been a demo bunny before.

just be you.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: lil_moomin on Aug 25, 2015, 10:28:22 AM
Hello!  :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Aug 25, 2015, 10:48:06 AM
I just realised that I'm a tad nervous about Saturday.
I've never been a demo bunny before.

just be you.

^^^Uhuh!

I'm sure you will be completely charming.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Aug 25, 2015, 11:09:12 AM
I just realised that I'm a tad nervous about Saturday.
I've never been a demo bunny before.

just be you.

^^^Uhuh!

I'm sure you will be completely charming.

Ha! Yeah, innit.
She'll just probably tap me lightly a couple of times. I'll be fine. (*cough*)

It was just that I had a message from an aquaintance who will be there and she already knew. (Jungle drums). Somehow that made it very real.



Hello lil_moomim. Welcome.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: lil_moomin on Aug 25, 2015, 11:32:33 AM
Thank you  :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Aug 27, 2015, 08:28:08 AM
I have nothing to wear.
Not a stitch.  :(
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Aug 27, 2015, 08:49:05 AM
I have nothing to wear.
Not a stitch.  :(

This is perfect! Now accessorise.  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Aug 27, 2015, 09:27:07 AM
I have nothing to wear.
Not a stitch.  :(

This is perfect! Now accessorise.  ;D

'Like'   ;D

We had this convo. You know what you she must do.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Aug 27, 2015, 12:26:25 PM
I have nothing to wear.
Not a stitch.  :(

This is perfect! Now accessorise.  ;D

'Like'   ;D

We had this convo. You know what you she must do.

*nods* Yes, listen to your delighted and sadistic spectators friends.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Aug 27, 2015, 12:32:37 PM
So now all you need are high heels right??
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Aug 27, 2015, 01:19:09 PM
So now all you need are high heels right??

no, no! much more: high heels, beautiful earrings, perfect manicure, favourite perfume. (leave out perfume in case of fireplay or allergies).
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Aug 27, 2015, 05:13:44 PM
Well, I know what I'm wearing for the workshop.
I just don't know what to wear afterwards.

I guess I could just not get changed.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Aug 27, 2015, 07:44:37 PM

I just don't know what to wear afterwards.


I hear horizontal stripes are very 'in'.  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Aug 27, 2015, 08:12:16 PM

I just don't know what to wear afterwards.


I hear horizontal stripes are very 'in'.  ;D

Hehehe.

Apparently I will cycle across Amsterdam afterwards to a vanilla party with Conchita Wurst and then eat pizza.
It promises to be an interesting weekend.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Aug 27, 2015, 08:45:35 PM
^^^oooh!! get you!  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Aug 27, 2015, 10:05:02 PM
I know, right. Pizza
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Aug 28, 2015, 04:13:22 AM
I know, right. Pizza
And nude cycling!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Aug 28, 2015, 09:03:07 PM
I know, right. Pizza
And nude cycling!

Way to celebrate your upcoming slutiversary!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: lil_moomin on Aug 28, 2015, 11:02:07 PM
Oh god, such a mixed and tiring day. A hospital appointment earlier that was difficult (injury, was worried i might have to have another surgery). and then a really good evening, although i'm exhausted. Think it's time for bed :).
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on Aug 29, 2015, 08:54:15 AM
WOW  :o :o! The scene is indeed small, oh how the universe works in mysterious ways!  * shaking my head*

KJ xoxo
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: lil_moomin on Aug 29, 2015, 03:48:04 PM
None of my random thoughts are kinky...

it was the fucking settings  >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( why did i not notice that for a week? FML.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Aug 30, 2015, 02:52:45 PM
For some reason find myself contemplating what would be the difference in slicing through a jockstrap vs a pair of lacy knickers.... and why. I'm enjoying this contemplation a lot.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Aug 30, 2015, 09:03:13 PM
It wasn't the real Conchita Wurst.
False advertising.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Aug 30, 2015, 10:57:53 PM
This needs a diagram to be explained properly, slightly weird post poly compersion moment where a meta of an exes ex lover messages and asks if you can be friends.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Aug 31, 2015, 12:33:48 PM
I'm a bit knackered.
It would probably help if I stopped poking my marks.

I can't believe it's Folsom in 10 days.  :o
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Aug 31, 2015, 01:18:34 PM
I'm a bit knackered.
It would probably help if I stopped poking my marks.

I can't believe it's Folsom in 10 days.
  :o

10 DAYS!!!!

Don't worry, I will start a 'come-down' thread soon  ;)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Aug 31, 2015, 03:26:23 PM
WOW  :o :o! The scene is indeed small, oh how the universe works in mysterious ways!  * shaking my head*

KJ xoxo

just noticed this.  and yes, it is small.   I hope that has been good for you on this occasion.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Aug 31, 2015, 04:07:29 PM
I am tired. The kind of tired that involves my brain not functioning properly. I NEED to get back to some, ANY kind of artistic/creative outlet or I am going to go down the drain, but get myself to do it is hard. Not "horny hard" just impossible hard.

I have the feeling that if I could have someone under my heels I could feel connected to the ground in a way that would really allow me to get back into any one of my creative outlets. I really want to finish my panther project, it is a head scratcher with the complicated construction...

I REALLY think a rug of submissive flesh under my heels/shoes/feet would help. How odd is that, on a scale of one to 12?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Aug 31, 2015, 04:52:02 PM
It's not that odd.
It probably would help.



I'm a bit bored.
There is stuff I could be doing but the boredness feels too luxurious.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Aug 31, 2015, 07:31:59 PM
I REALLY think a rug of submissive flesh under my heels/shoes/feet would help. How odd is that, on a scale of one to 12?

Wishing your creative mojo to return pronto! Submissive rugs, what wouldn't they help with? (although probably not good for tripping over in the dark). Play is creative xx
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Aug 31, 2015, 11:15:21 PM


Submissive rugs, what wouldn't they help with? It sounds like a game!

Not great for vacuuming...
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Aug 31, 2015, 11:34:41 PM


Submissive rugs, what wouldn't they help with? It sounds like a game!

Not great for vacuuming...

rather noisey when walked on in high heels.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Sep 01, 2015, 12:04:22 AM


Submissive rugs, what wouldn't they help with? It sounds like a game!

Not great for vacuuming...

rather noisey when walked on in high heels.

Meh, that is what gags are for... but rather lumpy for smooth high heel walks. Not great for Tango dancing.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Sep 01, 2015, 08:44:22 AM
Three parallel bruises on my arm/ biceps and no long sleeved gym top.
(They do still hurt like a mo-fo.)

'Oh my gosh, what happened to your arm?'
'Ah, I walked into something.'
And I did. I walked into Dutch sadist.
(I didn't say the last bit.)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Sep 04, 2015, 04:05:24 PM
My package has arrived, the item is not huge...but it is slightly scary.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Sep 04, 2015, 06:33:10 PM
My fishing wire arrived too.
Apparently 500 m will be plenty.

No leads though so I'll go to the Marina anyway.   ::)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Sep 06, 2015, 03:26:38 PM
I've got 15 minutes of my shift to go and then I am SO going out for cake.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Sep 08, 2015, 10:01:15 PM
Meanwhile in 'Slothsville' did sweet bugger all today apart from buy about 100 pegs and some lengths of ribbon. At least my suitcase is underweight. Translated, the name of our hotel means 'honeymoon'  *hysterical giggling*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Sep 09, 2015, 07:11:57 AM
I'm listening to an audiobook that has been translated from Danish to German
They keep using the word 'shitstorm'.
I'm a bit disappointed that German didn't come up with its own word, but lazily appropriated the English.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on Sep 09, 2015, 05:07:13 PM
WOW  :o :o! The scene is indeed small, oh how the universe works in mysterious ways!  * shaking my head*

KJ xoxo

just noticed this.  and yes, it is small.   I hope that has been good for you on this occasion.
Let's just say bad news travels and on this occasion I just so happened to hear about it. Sometimes things are a blessing in disguise and what I heard confirmed this  ;)

I hope all my perverted friends have a wicked time at Folsom  :-*

KJ xoxo
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Sep 10, 2015, 08:01:25 AM
You know what I hate? People who can't take the tray from the conveyor belt after security and keep holding everyone up.

And then, when they've finally been told what they need to do, they just leave the trays anywhere and don't put them back to where they are supposed to go.

Ugh.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Sep 10, 2015, 08:14:08 AM
^^^^ Happy travelling mills! Try not to kick anyone in the shins in the security line  ;D

My DRD: God this is lovely, my room is QUIET, I've got the window open and can hear birds singing. It was a totally random booking online but our apartment is vast.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Sep 10, 2015, 08:29:28 AM
Fanku!  :D

I didn't kick anyone. Go me.
I just judged them quietly.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Sep 10, 2015, 09:41:55 AM
Yesterday the woman was yelling at people who didn't take their trays away. I wanted to give her a round of applause!

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Sep 10, 2015, 12:47:46 PM
The man on our line had the patience of a saint.
I could not do his job without a cattle prod.

I'm standing in the sun, waiting for my airbnb host.
The sun is lovely, but as soon as there's a cloud, you remember that it's not summer anymore.
My outfit for Saturday's street fair may be too cold.

Maybe I can wear it with a cardigan and a summer scarf?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Sep 10, 2015, 10:25:42 PM
A spot of consensual violence has amazingly restorative powers.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Sep 11, 2015, 09:44:25 AM
Isn't it weird how some things don't leave marks.
It felt a lot like there would be an actual chunk of me missing.
Today: nothing.


ETA: correction. Now wearing glasses.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Sep 11, 2015, 12:59:08 PM
It felt a lot like there would be an actual chunk of me missing.

wtf were you doing??

Laughing at the glasses thing  ;D last night I had to stay aware of the fact that if I was more than a metre away from my date they could see fuck all, so any evil grins were wasted on them.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Sep 11, 2015, 04:37:36 PM

wtf were you doing??


*queue theme music from Jaws

I think if I had a middle name it would be 'Hyperbole'.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Sep 12, 2015, 01:33:38 AM

wtf were you doing??


*queue theme music from Jaws

I think if I had a middle name it would be 'Hyperbole'.

I'm going to try and remember to ask about this when I see you tomorrow... or maybe I will see the evidence and be reminded.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Sep 12, 2015, 02:14:57 AM
I. Had such. An amazing time. Tonight.
It's fair to say that I enjoy being delicious sadist candy quite a lot.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Sep 13, 2015, 10:15:22 PM
Holy. Shit.

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Sep 13, 2015, 10:59:04 PM
Holy. Shit.

kitty

I know, right.

What a beautiful time to be alive.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Sep 14, 2015, 09:53:12 PM
I have a big red/purple bruise on my stomach, just above my hip. I have no memory of how that got there. Good job I'm not required to write scene reports...

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Sep 14, 2015, 09:56:59 PM
Holy. Shit.

kitty

I know, right.

What a beautiful time to be alive.

so fucking true.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Sep 15, 2015, 05:34:15 AM
I have a big red/purple bruise on my stomach, just above my hip. I have no memory of how that got there. Good job I'm not required to write scene reports...

kitty

The secret is to wait for a few days, let it all percolate and then to just start writing and you start remembering.
I love doing them.

I'm not required to write any this time, but I think I might anyway, just for me.

I've had really nice feedback on some of my writing this weekend.
Hehe. Hehehe.

I'm other news, I still feel fucking amazing.
Ask me again after I've spent an hour with my PT.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Sep 15, 2015, 08:53:36 AM
I'm other news, I still feel fucking amazing.

Hmm, see this is the bit that's kind of worrying me. I'm thinking it may mean that I haven't come down yet.

bum.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Sep 15, 2015, 10:29:37 AM
I'm other news, I still feel fucking amazing.

Hmm, see this is the bit that's kind of worrying me. I'm thinking it may mean that I haven't come down yet.

bum.

There is that.

Or maybe we've beaten the system and will now feel amazing forever.

#optimism
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Sep 15, 2015, 10:45:28 AM
I'm other news, I still feel fucking amazing.

Hmm, see this is the bit that's kind of worrying me. I'm thinking it may mean that I haven't come down yet.

bum.

There is that.

Or maybe we've beaten the system and will now feel amazing forever.

#optimism
I would LIKE to think that's true, I would like it sooooooo much.

Having been awake for quite a few hours and yet unable to do anything except think about Folsom,talk about Folsom, arrange future shenanigans, and arrange other things which although they are 'work' also include dungeons... I have a feeling that a bejesus of a comedown may occur in the next few days.

oh god.

I don't even really remember what normal life is. *puzzled face*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Sep 15, 2015, 11:17:49 AM
I HEAR YOU.

My colleagues have commented on how well rested and happy I look and one of the secretaries just stopped me in the corridor to tell me I look stunning.

To be fair, my top matches my nail varnish and tights.
And the colour of my thighs.
Kind of a purple-y maroon.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Sep 15, 2015, 02:00:41 PM
Mills I'm sure you DO look stunning, I was told a couple of times during Folsom that I was 'glowing'. Today I seem to be LIMPING, not sure how that works as a top.  :-\
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Sep 17, 2015, 01:07:31 PM
I'm now officially divorced.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Sep 17, 2015, 05:14:18 PM

From life? Reason? Or simply another human?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Sep 17, 2015, 09:22:54 PM

From life? Reason? Or simply another human?

From the wife.
I have a court reference number to prove it.

In other news I feel a little bit droppy today and am seriously considering the parties in early October.
Life is so short and I still have some leave to use up.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Sep 18, 2015, 11:00:04 PM

How cool would it be if one could go to a judge and say "The world doesn't make sense, if this is reason I wan't nothing to do with it" and get a divorce from Reason with a court case number and all. Sort of Kafkaeske. Especially if the judge and courts were all in labyrinth settings guarded by insane metaphors that materialized at the doors of various allegories. 
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Sep 19, 2015, 10:19:10 AM
Or maybe we've beaten the system and will now feel amazing forever.

#optimism

Yeah. So that didn't happen. Yesterday was horrid.

I feel better today, but it still feels like there is a low pressure front in the areas around my eyes with frequent mild to moderate precipitation.
People have been super nice to me though, so that is lovely.

I'm surprised and appalled by how needy I feel.
I don't like it. I don't want to feel like this.  >:(

My ex wanted to do dinner this weekend to celebrate the divorce, but I cancelled.
She kept texting offering herself for chats.
Um, no.


Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Sep 19, 2015, 11:42:04 AM
My ex wanted to do dinner this weekend to celebrate the divorce, but I cancelled.
She kept texting offering herself for chats.
Um, no.

Would she offer to wear the electric dog collar during dinner? *cough* just curious.

On Tuesday I figured I was experiencing a Folsom comedown as I cried about making a piece of toast. I like toast a lot, but not that much.

Big ups Mills, just nipping out to the post box  :-*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Sep 19, 2015, 01:19:27 PM
Big ups Mills, just nipping out to the post box  :-*

Yay.  :D

Comedowns are strange things.. There should be a box you can tick to opt out.
Crying while toasting is probably quite dangerous. Electricity, innit.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Sep 19, 2015, 11:18:08 PM

^Sorry about all Folsom comedowns, hope they ease up soon for all concerned... Because soggy toast is NOT good.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Sep 20, 2015, 03:08:58 AM
I did a double take in town yesterday - there was a man wearing a t-shirt saying 'BLOODPLAY'.
When I looked again, it said 'BLOCPARTY'.

Hm. One track mind much?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Sep 20, 2015, 01:35:02 PM
The smooth transition from Folsom into this other grittier world is not helped by obstacles such as hospital appointments and earning a living. Who put these things here? >:( and why are they interrupting my fun?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Sep 20, 2015, 07:51:50 PM
The smooth transition from Folsom into this other grittier world is not helped by obstacles such as hospital appointments and earning a living. Who put these things here? >:( and why are they interrupting my fun?

It doesn't seem fair, does it.  :(

I have one more day at work, then 8 days off in a row - I can't even remember the last time that happened.
But the chores never stop.



Things that annoy me #349: the way my counsellor uses the phrase 'having feelings for someone'.
There are a lot of different kind of feelings. Not just one sort.
I'm not sure she completely gets that a connection can be significant and meaningful while not being 'romantic' and 'exclusive'.
But it can, you know. It so can.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Sep 20, 2015, 08:31:36 PM

Things that annoy me #349: the way my counsellor uses the phrase 'having feelings for someone'.
There are a lot of different kind of feelings. Not just one sort.
I'm not sure she completely gets that a connection can be significant and meaningful while not being 'romantic' and 'exclusive'.
But it can, you know. It so can.

I just snorted like a prize pig over this as I was about to IM you about similar things *falls about laughing in a semi pathetic way*

WHOOP!! to 8 days off!!!!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Sep 20, 2015, 08:53:23 PM

I just snorted like a prize pig over this as I was about to IM you about similar things *falls about laughing in a semi pathetic way*


IM me anyways.  :D

I changed my profile.
But now I think the kinky meat analogy clashes with the candy comparison.
Hmmm.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Sep 20, 2015, 09:37:28 PM
^^^ I don't think it clashes, seems perfect!  ;D

I will PM you my neurotic woes tomorrow... oh lucky you!  :P
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Sep 21, 2015, 08:17:43 AM
I will PM you my neurotic woes tomorrow... oh lucky you!  :P

I look forward to it.  :)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Sep 21, 2015, 03:27:49 PM
Sending out a few dozen invites does wonders for clearing the mind of all else. Ooooh, deep admin therapy.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Sep 21, 2015, 08:54:35 PM
Non monogamy? Not that easy if you're not used to it.
I occasionally feel guilty for no reason and expect them to turn round and call me a slut like it's a bad thing.

But when all the stars align, it's really, really fab.
*happy dance


Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Sep 22, 2015, 11:53:09 AM
I've been feeling very 'Prince Charming' of late..... that is, once I managed to get up off the floor.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Sep 24, 2015, 08:37:38 PM
^^^ Were there any glass slippers involved?



I feel full of the warm and fuzzies and I have high hopes for November.
And in general.
Really. Good. Birthday.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Sep 25, 2015, 10:05:11 AM
^^^
no slippers, tho I do have the remains of someones knickers  ;D

Are you skipping October??
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Sep 25, 2015, 10:31:11 AM
Remains of knickers.  :D
That could be an interesting version of Cinderella.

As I now appear to be doing both Amsterdam and Copenhagen on consecutive weekends (I know, I must be mad, but I'll be a long time dead) and none of my* sadists (*Disclaimer - they are not 'mine', but you know what I mean) are available in October, October will be a month of quiet contemplation and rest.

*nods sagely

ETA: and dinners. And cake. And cinema.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Sep 25, 2015, 05:55:11 PM
Would all of this 'quiet contemplation and rest' be taking place in a debauched nunnery by any chance?

....meanwhile I will be checking that everyone has their knickers on.  :P
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Sep 25, 2015, 10:41:51 PM
I wish.
Some of my earliest memories involve nuns, a hospital bed and semolina.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on Sep 26, 2015, 11:55:32 AM
FUCK!
I'm so nervous!!! Its finally arrived. I'm confident she knows her stuff.
Must be a good sign?.. I hope so   ;) *heart racing*

KJ xoxo
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Sep 26, 2015, 12:11:07 PM
^^^ Good luck, lovely.  :-*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Sep 26, 2015, 03:43:46 PM
I wish.
Some of my earliest memories involve nuns, a hospital bed and semolina.

Good Lord!!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Sep 27, 2015, 07:56:52 AM
I wish.
Some of my earliest memories involve nuns, a hospital bed and semolina.

Good Lord!!

I had my adenoids out when I was 4.
There was no children's ward, they put me in a room with grown-ups. I don't know if all the nurses were nuns, but there were at least two, stern and unsmiling - I remember being terrified of them. And refusing to eat semolina.
One of the women in my room let me come for cuddles and sleep in her bed and I got a Playmobil policeman on a motorbike, so not all of the memories are bad.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on Sep 27, 2015, 01:36:39 PM
^^^ Good luck, lovely.  :-*

Thank you!!  :-*
Mind blowing!!  :o

I can't believe the criteria of my advert has actually been personified in this woman!  :o
I feel like skipping. I can't feel my face!  ;DD

KJ xoxo
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Sep 27, 2015, 02:11:57 PM
^^^ Good luck, lovely.  :-*

Thank you!!  :-*
Mind blowing!!  :o

I can't believe the criteria of my advert has actually been personified in this woman!  :o
I feel like skipping. I can't feel my face!  ;DD

KJ xoxo

That is awesome.
I'm really, really chuffed for you.  :-*   :-*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Sep 27, 2015, 03:19:50 PM
^^^ Good luck, lovely.  :-*

Thank you!!  :-*
Mind blowing!!  :o

I can't believe the criteria of my advert has actually been personified in this woman!  :o
I feel like skipping. I can't feel my face!  ;DD

KJ xoxo

That is awesome.
I'm really, really chuffed for you.  :-*   :-*

Excellent, hurrah for skipping!  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on Sep 27, 2015, 04:57:47 PM
Thank you both!
 ;D
KJ xoxo
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Sep 29, 2015, 10:44:41 AM
I'm hoping that there will be a Swedish visitor... the email said 'I'm going to check airfares'. I would like to think even quite expensive airfares are worth it to visit ME. If not there is a likelihood of me being grumpy.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Sep 29, 2015, 12:06:32 PM
Fingers crossed for you.  :-*

I'll be going for the cake.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Sep 29, 2015, 02:24:16 PM

I'll be going for the cake.

I thought you were the cake? Oh no, that was the candy...
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Sep 29, 2015, 03:43:42 PM

I'll be going for the cake.

I thought you were the cake? Oh no, that was the candy...

mills is defo the candy, I'm not sure why she is persisting with this bleak 'no one to eat me' riff. I'm beginning to feel tempted to compile a list of evil needle tops living in London.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Sep 29, 2015, 04:47:57 PM

I'll be going for the cake.

I thought you were the cake? Oh no, that was the candy...

mills is defo the candy, I'm not sure why she is persisting with this bleak 'no one to eat me' riff. I'm beginning to feel tempted to compile a list of evil needle tops living in London.

I think it's because neither A nor L can make it and I haven't seen or played with either of them for what seems like about 400 years, possibly longer.
(Sometimes I suspect that my perception of time passing is not dissimilar to that of a cocker spaniel.)

(I felt like that the first half of FF, until I got over it and both of them texted me words of encouragement.)

A list of evil needle tops is always a good idea.

In other news, my first instalment if smut arrived.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Sep 29, 2015, 05:38:26 PM
^^^ *nods* aww... I know, and 400 years is a long time in anyones books. I will make a list.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Sep 30, 2015, 10:23:43 AM
1, 25, 29!  :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Sep 30, 2015, 08:23:20 PM
Yay, countdowns!

1, 25, 44, 52, 176  :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Sep 30, 2015, 08:33:03 PM
I get to have a countdown!! 25... :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Sep 30, 2015, 08:46:13 PM
^^^ Hurrah!  ;D



The thing about liking some people possibly just that little bit too much, is that I end up doing things I don't actually fancy doing, just so I can hang out with them.
Hm.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Sep 30, 2015, 11:30:41 PM
I get to have a countdown!! 25... :D

 ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Oct 01, 2015, 02:41:40 PM
I really like the organisey bits, I admit it I am a logistics, admin and networking nerd.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Grey on Oct 04, 2015, 02:49:33 PM
green handkerchief
I used to know them all
I'm pretty sure it isn't "vegetarian"
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Oct 06, 2015, 05:05:41 PM
^^^ is that Hunter Green?  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Grey on Oct 06, 2015, 10:49:48 PM
Ha! ;D
I will never know
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Oct 07, 2015, 12:44:56 PM
^^^ Isn't there a table to say what's what?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Oct 07, 2015, 05:06:38 PM
Why do I feel like there is something I should know? 
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Oct 07, 2015, 07:17:23 PM
2, 15, 18, 76, 169

;)

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Oct 08, 2015, 09:59:37 AM
Fuck, there's probably quite a lot of fiddly bits that need doing and the past week really sledgehammered my concentration and energy.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Oct 08, 2015, 05:52:35 PM
Fuck, there's probably quite a lot of fiddly bits that need doing and the past week really sledgehammered my concentration and energy.

No, it's all fine...we smashed it this afternoon :-)

I'm making the other spreadsheet right now.

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Oct 08, 2015, 09:07:59 PM
Fuck, there's probably quite a lot of fiddly bits that need doing and the past week really sledgehammered my concentration and energy.

No, it's all fine...we smashed it this afternoon :-)

I'm making the other spreadsheet right now.

kitty

Behold the fearsome admin tops!!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Oct 09, 2015, 06:03:35 PM

I am ALMOST over the hump. I can see the glitter at the end of the shitty winter light tunnel.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Oct 09, 2015, 06:59:02 PM

I am ALMOST over the hump. I can see the glitter at the end of the shitty winter light tunnel.

Good news!

DRD: I think I'm doing pretty well in single handedly reviving the art of letter writing. I've been attempting this for the past 25 years, but have only recently had broad success with motivating others to write back! I've had five hand written letters in the past week, which is a personal record.

In the dungeon cos: fetish.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Grey on Oct 10, 2015, 01:30:28 PM
^^^ Isn't there a table to say what's what?

Ah yes!-I have a Kate Bornstein book here somewhere
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Oct 10, 2015, 10:01:21 PM
I'm so deep in deepest darkest Hove that I had to ask someone which direction goes back into Brighton.

This post isn't in the least bit dungeony.
I wish it was.  :)

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Goblin Flump on Oct 11, 2015, 08:46:19 AM
It has the makings of an absolutely filthy euphemism, just imagine Honor Blackman saying it.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Oct 11, 2015, 06:32:07 PM
13 and 17?? Did time just do some sort of leapy thing? Other random disclosure, my body is not cooperating with earning a lving, something has gone a bit out of whack. Urgh.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Oct 12, 2015, 07:31:52 AM
^^^ Hope you feel better soon, lovely.  :-*



Ok. So I'm not sure if my random selection has just been oddly skewed, but there seems to be a lot of man penis on that reading list.


Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Oct 12, 2015, 10:19:46 AM
^^^Thanks! Doing my best..... and making a what is best described as a 'grumpy cat face' about the skew of that reading list!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Oct 12, 2015, 04:45:56 PM
^^^ Hope you feel better soon, lovely.  :-*



Ok. So I'm not sure if my random selection has just been oddly skewed, but there seems to be a lot of man penis on that reading list.

this from the suggested reading list?  they did not edit perhaps!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Oct 12, 2015, 07:51:40 PM
^^^ Hope you feel better soon, lovely.  :-*



Ok. So I'm not sure if my random selection has just been oddly skewed, but there seems to be a lot of man penis on that reading list.

this from the suggested reading list?  they did not edit perhaps!

Apparently my random picking was unlucky.

I was saying earlier that normally I quite happily edit in my head, I just didn't expect I'd have to edit there.



In other news, I'm really bored of not being over being dumped yet.
Turning into a snotty mess for a pound per minute.
It's fucking boring. And expensive.
And to think that all this time when I thought I was over it and I'd just parked it just seems really stupid and I want to kick something.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Oct 12, 2015, 07:57:52 PM
But I do love my new bathroom cabinet.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Oct 12, 2015, 10:19:41 PM

In other news, I'm really bored of not being over being dumped yet.
Turning into a snotty mess for a pound per minute.
It's fucking boring. And expensive.
And to think that all this time when I thought I was over it and I'd just parked it just seems really stupid and I want to kick something.

It's my relationship explosion, burst into flames and punge off a cliff-aversary soon you should join me to celebrate. Who the fuck knows how long this shit takes! There have been some EXCELLENT times along the way - don't forget that.  :-*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Oct 13, 2015, 07:58:22 AM
Have you decided how you're going to mark the eplodaversary?
I went to Paris for mine and heartily recommend that.

I totally haven't forgotten any of the good times and if I could wave some magic wand I wouldn't use t to wave it and make it all go back to how it was before she dumped me.

I merely regret that there is no option of a small operation to make it all go away.
I had a chalazion once and they clamped my eyelid back with a metal contraption and scooped it out with a special spoon.
It wasn't pleasant and I had to wear an eyepatch for a bit, but then it was gone.
I wish the the processing was more like that.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Oct 13, 2015, 08:07:21 AM
Ok, I will admit that the metal contraption was kind of cool.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Oct 13, 2015, 08:54:59 AM
Mills, I mean the good times this year with us! Not the good times with 'whoever wassaface forget their name'. Explode-a-versary may be marked by a gathering of the Femme Pack. I would not like to be the dyke version of Brad Pit on that day. (gosh that's a curious thought). BTW you would ROCK an eyepatch.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Goblin Flump on Oct 13, 2015, 08:59:05 AM
Left bottom drawer open. Came back to find dog running about with one of my old canes.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Oct 13, 2015, 09:44:25 AM
Mills, I mean the good times this year with us! Not the good times with 'whoever wassaface forget their name'.

Oh god, that's what I meant too.
Fuck yes I had a BLAST.

And good plan re femme pack. *roar

@Flump: Awkward. After  the electrician left I noticed that somehow a receipt for some incredibly overpriced underwear had gotten in with the electricity safety certificate.
Awkward.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Goblin Flump on Oct 13, 2015, 11:27:23 AM
Femme Pack sounds delightful.
Cane now has toothmarks on it.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Oct 14, 2015, 11:45:05 AM
Still browsing hotel rooms/apartments, would it be such a bad thing to blow a bit of cash on? I've decided I need to hang out somewhere a bit plush and pampery. ME first.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Oct 14, 2015, 08:23:36 PM
Plush and pampery sounds lovely.
Self care for the win.  :-*


Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Oct 15, 2015, 03:27:11 PM
I recommend booking plush apartments as a good replacement for being snarky: ended up with a.) time in appartment b.) sense of calm cos...self care c.) resolving the other shite happily and without being mean.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Oct 16, 2015, 11:06:32 AM
9 ARGH!!
13 OOH!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Oct 17, 2015, 07:22:17 AM
8, 27, 34, 159

I hope there will be some more numbers between the 34 and the 159.
And between the 8 and the 27, but that seems increasingly unlikely. *Shakes fist at calendar.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Oct 17, 2015, 08:01:23 AM
5, 8, 66, 97, 159

There's also 113, Millicent (H&S at the beginning of Feb)

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Oct 17, 2015, 03:14:51 PM
Excellent point, FK. Excellent point.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Oct 17, 2015, 04:25:04 PM
^^ I also think 'Wish camp' should be factored into this, I'd like to try and make it there this year.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Goblin Flump on Oct 18, 2015, 05:55:08 PM
this time next week! I'm doing my version of Snoopy's happy dance.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Oct 18, 2015, 06:17:56 PM
this time next week! I'm doing my version of Snoopy's happy dance.

 ;D ;D ;D for some reason I'm still mostly occupied with thoughts of cake??  ::)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Oct 18, 2015, 07:27:36 PM
I think I know what cake I'm making.


Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Oct 18, 2015, 08:47:59 PM
There's an article about harrassment going around on FB at the moment for which the cover picture is a woman's back with the outline of her bra straps picked out with pushpins.

I'm pretty sure this is trick photography not a random bit of kink imagery but it is making it very hard to concentrate on anything.

(Also, are we supposed to bring cake?)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Oct 18, 2015, 08:59:36 PM
^^^in answer to the cake question: there is tea and cake being served  :) cos that's a nice thing to have.
You're not supposed to bring cake.... unless you are the type of person who feels a burning desire to bake.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Goblin Flump on Oct 18, 2015, 09:10:12 PM
Some heartless wench just took the last bra in my size whilst I was dithering over whether to purchase the matching pants.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Oct 19, 2015, 12:11:31 AM
Random conversational bites during after care time:

"Your bites are so excruciatingly painful I reached a point where I just though I would loose a piece of flesh, and immediately thought to myself  "But it is fine, she can have it, it's only a small piece!!""

And:

-When I was following you on all fours down the corridor, wrapped in bondage tape with a butt plug in and already so bruised up, I had a moment of thinking to myself, wow, we are so perverted... did you ever get that?

-No, I was so happy on the way to the bathroom with bucket to drown you in I had to stop myself from skipping and swinging the bucket, mostly because I was worried I would fuck up your wood floor with my stilettos...

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Oct 19, 2015, 06:59:25 PM
God I was EVIL today  ;D ;D ;D not in a 'domely dom way' more in a 'christ thats incredibly cheeky and fucked up, and I might piss my pants laughing at the twisted wrongness of it' sort of way. Plus I bought an awesome stainless steel buttplug ...just cos.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Oct 19, 2015, 09:42:56 PM
Is it one of those with a sparkly jewel on the end?



In other news, I still hate suspense and I still have the time perception of a cocker spaniel. Together with my hyper-vigilant brain it's not easy being me, you know.



I had a moment of thinking to myself, wow, we are so perverted... did you ever get that?


I love that.
Sometimes I think 'what the fuck, <insert my real name here>.'

Unrelated:
@Arig:
Will you give a workshop on beading? I think you should.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Oct 19, 2015, 10:45:02 PM
Is it one of those with a sparkly jewel on the end?

Nope, its from Regulation, very heavy.


What is the time perception of a cocker spaniel?

YES!! Beading workshop!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Oct 19, 2015, 11:03:13 PM
I had a moment of thinking to myself, wow, we are so perverted... did you ever get that?


I love that.
Sometimes I think 'what the fuck, <insert my real name here>.'


Really? I haven't had this, that was my play partner asking me. I do often stop and feel all that is happening, watch the juices or dirt and feel the tension and madness or fears and think, really amazed, "Wow, I am so fucking LUCKY!"


A workshop on beading? Would people need that for anything? It's just that it is sort of... just do it. Not much to it or any difficult technical expertise necessary. If you can use needles, you can easily figure out how to do beading or other decorations.

Am I being thick or weird? I am not sure I have any special inside into this, it is just what it is. Easy. Although I sometimes misunderstand what is easy, and what is hard, if something is very easy and self evident to me, I fail to see why anyone else would need explanations.


I am quite stupid like that, hence why role playing sadistic dumb mean girl was so easy, and totes pleasurable!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Oct 20, 2015, 05:32:25 AM
^^^ yes, I gathered that wasn't you saying that. :)


Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Oct 20, 2015, 05:56:23 AM

What is the time perception of a cocker spaniel?


I'm probably doing cocker spaniels an injustice.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Oct 20, 2015, 01:22:37 PM
So incredibly glad that October is seeming to be less of a nasty fucker than what it looked like starting out.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Oct 21, 2015, 06:12:39 AM
Someone is not very forthcoming about telling me what they have planned.
She is, however, quite happy to answer any of my questions with a yes/ no.
Which is rather evil-y smart, I guess, because now that I'm over being a bit peeved about it, not only am I thinking about it quite a lot, but I also suspect she is keeping my wrong guesses in some sort of evil idea storage for later.

Oh. No. (Hehehehehe.)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Oct 21, 2015, 06:14:13 AM
Muji are probably doing Perspex based storage solutions specifically for evil ideas.
I wouldn't put it past them.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Oct 21, 2015, 12:06:54 PM
4 and 8!! I'm quite excited *does a little dance* :D although I haven't really made a plan for myself this weekend, apart from planning everyone elses plans.  ::)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Oct 21, 2015, 03:31:19 PM

Surely you cannot put evil ideas in perspex boxes, they have to be steel reinforced, with multi locks and completely radioactive!!

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marriednotdead on Oct 21, 2015, 06:07:11 PM
Sweet torment.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Oct 22, 2015, 08:02:16 PM
I hear there may be a few 'imports' in town over the weekend.  :P
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Oct 22, 2015, 08:19:33 PM
3...

... and I still don't know what I'm wearing.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Oct 22, 2015, 08:25:26 PM
I hear there may be a few 'imports' in town over the weekend.  :P

Planes are amazing.

3...

... and I still don't know what I'm wearing.

Honestly - just wear what you feel comfortable and gorgeous in.
I'm wearing a grey wrap dress with an Indian print and a mix of What-Katie-Did & Primark underwear.
(And hopefully a coat hanger smile at some point.)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Oct 22, 2015, 08:28:13 PM
3...

... and I still don't know what I'm wearing.

Honestly - just wear what you feel comfortable and gorgeous in.
I'm wearing a grey wrap dress with an Indian print and a mix of What-Katie-Did & Primark underwear.
(And hopefully a coat hanger smile at some point.)

;D

I don't often feel comfortable or gorgeous though :P Yay, body issues! I have a dress that's kind of a possibility, and also a top that I could possibly find a skirt for. Just need to actually decide on something.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Oct 22, 2015, 08:36:53 PM
Maybe just pick whatever feels good on the day.  :-*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Oct 22, 2015, 09:49:51 PM
Amphelise, it will all be OK on the day. One of the things I have always loved about the perve scene is the RICH VARIETY of bodies.



Dungeon pondering... imagine if the Mona Lisa had been a masochist. The lady and her mysterious coathanger smile.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Oct 23, 2015, 06:22:40 AM
Amphelise, it will all be OK on the day. One of the things I have always loved about the perve scene is the RICH VARIETY of bodies.

YES. I *heart* that. All shapes, all sizes. Variety for the win.  :D

Dungeon pondering... imagine if the Mona Lisa had been a masochist. The lady and her mysterious coathanger smile.

She is probably covered in crocodile clamps waist down.



My weekend starts today.
I'm a bit nervous about my visitor, it's quite a long way to come and I want her to have an exquisite time.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Oct 23, 2015, 11:59:00 PM


It sounds like it is all steam ahead for interesting weekend for some ;-)

Wishing good luck on all fronts! (and the bottoms too)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Oct 24, 2015, 08:12:09 AM
I'm nervous as fuck.
I like being a visitor much better than being a visitee.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Oct 24, 2015, 08:52:32 AM
^^^ for some reason I got mixed up and thought they arrived yesterday. All day I imagined you were off having a nice time!

All will be well.  :-*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Oct 24, 2015, 08:59:39 AM
Thank you.
I just realised I feel responsible for the weather.
I baked an awesome cake for tomorrow though: sunken cherry almond cake with butternut squash.
It's gluten free, but still delicious.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Oct 24, 2015, 09:18:18 AM
^^^ I've also been checking the weather quite a bit for later in the week  ::) it's a special kind of neurosis.

Cake sounds awesome!!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Oct 24, 2015, 03:25:33 PM
Starting to get a little bit excited now  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Oct 24, 2015, 03:27:54 PM
I havd chosen a dress...currently trying on bras for it in M&S lol.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Goblin Flump on Oct 24, 2015, 07:51:44 PM
starting to get a bit nervous now. Heee!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marriednotdead on Oct 25, 2015, 04:32:14 PM
Where did everybody go? Fetlife? Which groups?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Oct 25, 2015, 08:44:43 PM


Hit, Spit and Fuck. If I open a club, I am naming it that.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Oct 25, 2015, 09:54:57 PM
Well that was a rather pleasant evening :)

I went into it all subby but my domme started to come out halfway through... nothing much I could do about it without any kit or the least hint of a plan/scenario though! Further thought to planning is clearly needed.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Oct 25, 2015, 10:25:25 PM
mmmmm, warm duvet. *flopple*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Oct 26, 2015, 12:39:09 AM
That. Was so. Much fun.
I am really rather sore.

18, 19, 25, 104, 150


Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Oct 26, 2015, 08:42:03 AM
^^^that was really rather fun to watch a little bit of.

Fuck I had a good time  ;D  (tho quite a lot of 'making sure everyone/thing is ok nerves')


3
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Oct 26, 2015, 10:09:30 AM
Your nerves didn't show at all.  :-*

I know I spoke to you at one point during, but I have no idea at which point, so I'm not sure which bit you saw.

We took some really nice bruise pictures this morning.  :)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Oct 26, 2015, 12:14:05 PM
Oh, I seem to have booked flights and a very fancy SM apartment for February's Honey & Spices. Happy 45th birthday to me!
:-D

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on Oct 27, 2015, 05:08:52 AM
^ Don't look a day over 55 35, beautiful!    :P :-*

I can never tell when people are flirting with me, especially when I'm nervous  :-[

KJ xoxo
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Oct 27, 2015, 08:58:44 AM
If you're doing an 'entertaining' show about perve stuff..... surely rehearsals should be more fun?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Oct 27, 2015, 11:50:58 AM
I cannot stop giggling.
The stuff with the clamps was mind blowing.
My natural affinity to hyperbole none withstanding.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Oct 27, 2015, 05:02:34 PM
Pondering how to balance up feeling far more natural in a domme role (& not being very good at acting subby) with an earnest, wholly masochistic desire to be beaten rather brutally. Hmm.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Oct 27, 2015, 05:42:16 PM
Pondering how to balance up feeling far more natural in a domme role (& not being very good at acting subby) with an earnest, wholly masochistic desire to be beaten rather brutally. Hmm.

Find yourself a switch with a penchant for service :-) Or a submissive sadist. They do exist.

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Oct 27, 2015, 05:47:31 PM
Pondering how to balance up feeling far more natural in a domme role (& not being very good at acting subby) with an earnest, wholly masochistic desire to be beaten rather brutally. Hmm.

Find yourself a switch with a penchant for service :-) Or a submissive sadist. They do exist.

kitty

 ;D

Or indeed attempt to find more than one person to play with...

I blame you two organisers entirely :P My brain wants everything and is going off in every direction to look for it... must remember that not everything is possible, at least right now lol.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Oct 28, 2015, 06:53:31 AM
I'm at the ever so slightly crushy stage I get after a really amazing scene. (Not after every one, only after the really good ones.)
This used to make me panic but I'm learning that it's a brain chemical thing and nothing to worry about.

It also appears to affect my bravado and I think I just talked myself into all sorts of trouble in November.

Oh dear.  :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on Oct 28, 2015, 07:04:52 AM
I'm at the ever so slightly crushy stage I get after a really amazing scene. (Not after every one, only after the really good ones.)
This used to make me panic but I'm learning that it's a brain chemical thing and nothing to worry about.

It also appears to affect my bravado and I think I just talked myself into all sorts of trouble in November.

Oh dear.  :D


Big hugs and red lipstick kisses  :-* :-*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Oct 28, 2015, 11:35:24 AM
Aw thanks.

My post wasn't a moan though.
I have absolutely no reason to moan or complain, it's all awesomesauce.
Just saying.  :)

(In future I'll start moans with 'this is a moan' - for clarity.)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on Oct 28, 2015, 12:01:39 PM
Aw thanks.

My post wasn't a moan though.
I have absolutely no reason to moan or complain, it's all awesomesauce.
Just saying.  :)

(In future I'll start moans with 'this is a moan' - for clarity.)
I didn't think it was a moan darling! On the contrary   ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Goblin Flump on Oct 29, 2015, 08:14:30 AM
Successfully distracted myself at dentists by considering whether needles could be fun under other circumstances. Conclusion? Absolutely, just not when coupled with pointed comments about the state of my teeth.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on Oct 29, 2015, 08:03:35 PM
What a tough fucking day!!
I wish I could just curl up with a big butch and fall asleep  :-\

KJ xoxo
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Oct 29, 2015, 08:22:15 PM
What a tough fucking day!!
I wish I could just curl up with a big butch and fall asleep  :-\

KJ xoxo

Hugs to you.  :-*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on Oct 29, 2015, 08:44:07 PM
What a tough fucking day!!
I wish I could just curl up with a big butch and fall asleep  :-\

KJ xoxo

Hugs to you.  :-*

 :-* Thank you

KJ xoxo
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Oct 31, 2015, 08:11:21 AM
Writing messages about marks and playing and likes and dislikes really makes me want to play.

Hrmphf.

I'm going to go to the gym now.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Oct 31, 2015, 11:38:39 AM
Someone (could have been me) stuffed my brain in the perve blender these past few days. I'm going to go and hang out in a nice apartment and do Femme slumber party stuff tonight to rest and recuperate.... then give the blender another whizz tomorrow.





Explode-a-versary can fuck right off.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: KJTheFemme on Oct 31, 2015, 11:40:26 AM
Enjoy and happy recuperating!!   :-*

KJ xoxo
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Oct 31, 2015, 08:25:40 PM
Filthy.  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Nov 01, 2015, 09:35:35 PM
Filthy.  ;D

Is this the shortest ever 'what I did on my holiday' essay?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Nov 01, 2015, 11:07:58 PM
Speaking of what people did on their holidays.


I have this friend who lives a long way away so I don't get to see her often. We're very close though because we chat on the internet almost daily, and we had previously had this conversation where she mentioned that she doesn't see me "that way" at all.

Then I told her about going to the party last Sunday.

Monday, Tuesday... flirty texts & FB messages were exchanged, instigated by her.

I told my wife about them, and she sent the friend a flirty message of her own. Friend reciprocated.

Long story short, my wife and I made a ~700 mile round trip this week to have a very kinky threesome with my friend. And we all enjoyed it so much that we may do it again.

What the actual fuck just happened.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Nov 01, 2015, 11:24:08 PM
Hurrah! So pleased for all three of you :)

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Nov 02, 2015, 06:23:47 AM
Amphelise..do it again!! 

Millicent, I don't have essays but if I did.  ;)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Nov 02, 2015, 07:26:56 AM
Amphelise! Whoo hoo, awesome.  :D

Marzipan Gnome - so what you're saying is that if you did write essays they'd be filthy as fuck?
Excellent.  :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Nov 02, 2015, 09:34:01 AM
My brain feels like I've been hit in the head with a hammer.... in a nice way...if that makes any sense, which I know it doesn't but I have to go and lie down now.

Awesome weekend



Hurrah for all the grins and round trips in the dungeon.  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Nov 02, 2015, 11:09:37 AM
Mills, I have this notion that your essay would be very neat, precise sharp and to the point ;) whereas mine a bit torn, stained and goes off on road trips. 
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Nov 02, 2015, 12:19:40 PM
Marzipan Gnome - did the dog eat your essay?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Nov 02, 2015, 05:59:55 PM
I hate to think what kind of state I might be in today if not for the miracle that is 'Shiatsu guy' .... trying to remain in denial about the comedown. *ulp*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Nov 02, 2015, 06:54:38 PM
That moment when you discover that your demure, sweet, vanilla friend... REALLY ISN'T.

I am so incredibly lucky.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Nov 03, 2015, 07:56:29 PM
I've gone all stupid and swoony, I'm annoying myself. Over the weekend I had a conversation with a friend which began with her saying something like: 'I wonder if there have been any researches done on BDSM and it's effects on brain chemistry? Some one should really do that' ..... (we were talking specifically about endorphin highs and bonding responses) ...yes some one really should do that.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Nov 03, 2015, 09:11:36 PM
I think they have. I quite enjoy the swoony stage...

:)

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Nov 03, 2015, 09:20:33 PM
I'm not keen on the swooning.
But luckily never lasts that long.
#deadinside  :P
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Nov 03, 2015, 10:05:09 PM
I think they have. I quite enjoy the swoony stage...

:)

kitty

Stage?.... which lasts how long? Still going through this homo perve 'stage'  :P
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Nov 04, 2015, 04:34:28 AM
I woke up because it was raining so hard and then I couldn't get back to sleep and now I nearly have to get up again. Meh.

The endorphin/ bonding thing is interesting.
I noticed I get school-girl crush-like feelings after a really good scene, and it has taken me some time to realise that those are tied to a situation/ physical response rather than the person; that those feelings go after a few hours. (I'm reminded of how asparagus makes your pee smell for a bit after eating it. Yeah, I know. I'm such a romantic.)
It might sound cold and it may be reductive, but it's also been a helpful learning for me.
(Says the woman who had a 17 year relationship with her first one night stand.)

That said, I feel really very fond of all the people I played with so far. How could I not feel fond of someone who can make my brain shut up so beautifully for a few minutes/ hours.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Goblin Flump on Nov 04, 2015, 08:23:35 AM
I really need to play.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: MzB on Nov 04, 2015, 10:01:06 AM
'I wonder if there have been any researches done on BDSM and it's effects on brain chemistry? Some one should really do that' ..... (we were talking specifically about endorphin highs and bonding responses) ...yes some one really should do that.

Does anyone know of good research on this? Surely it must be out there?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Nov 04, 2015, 10:56:25 AM
'I wonder if there have been any researches done on BDSM and it's effects on brain chemistry? Some one should really do that' ..... (we were talking specifically about endorphin highs and bonding responses) ...yes some one really should do that.

Does anyone know of good research on this? Surely it must be out there?

With this I'm also wondering if it's not just about oxcytocin but also attachment style: those who have an anxious attachment style are more likely to bond quickly under the influence.

*edit*

found a fair bit by googling 'oxytocin BDSM'
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Nov 04, 2015, 07:58:22 PM
All that talk about travel - It would be quite lovely to have some local play people.
Not too local though, mind.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Nov 04, 2015, 08:02:02 PM
^^^ yes, dat.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Nov 04, 2015, 08:02:52 PM
We need traps, pure evil.
Traps.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Nov 04, 2015, 08:17:15 PM
All that talk about travel makes me about three times as keen to go travelling for kink reasons alone.

<-- is contrary.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Nov 04, 2015, 08:18:43 PM
*Lays out under a square of satin what may be a very stingy hitty thing, and some extremely sharp pokey things, and some rather mean clampy things... possibly*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Nov 04, 2015, 08:19:46 PM
All that talk about travel makes me about three times as keen to go travelling for kink reasons alone.

<-- is contrary.

Amphelise I defo checked out airfares yesterday, not to be contrary, just cos. What I wanted was a bit steep tho  :-\
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Nov 04, 2015, 08:20:49 PM
*Lays out under a square of satin what may be a very stingy hitty thing, and some extremely sharp pokey things, and some rather mean clampy things... possibly*

My new playmate has an interest in sharp pain, so I rather suspect your sharp pokey things might be relevant to my interests. Care to elaborate? :)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Nov 04, 2015, 08:25:37 PM
*Lays out under a square of satin what may be a very stingy hitty thing, and some extremely sharp pokey things, and some rather mean clampy things... possibly*

My new playmate has an interest in sharp pain, so I rather suspect your sharp pokey things might be relevant to my interests. Care to elaborate? :)

 ;D In this case I was thinking of needles, particularly Arigs lovely talent for beading. Tho I STILL have three unused peg zippers hanging out in my kit bag, I keep taking them on play dates then not using them.

Rather fond of the Delrin canes too.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Nov 04, 2015, 08:36:04 PM
I wish I'd got a chance to look at your zippers - I still can't imagine that clothes pegs hurt that much, even if there are loads.

Did you see the clamps C brought?
https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B001I2CXDQ/ref=cm_sw_r_awd_SVMowb8ATZJJ7
Be still, my beating heart.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Nov 04, 2015, 08:59:26 PM
^^^ yes I saw those, actually have a huge collection of them at home in varying sizes... not mine: great uncle Bulgaria's.  ::)

I have to say that the harmless looking mawa clamps I bought at Folsom hurt.like.fuck... I can say this on good authority as I tried ONE while laughing at the person covered in them and 'proving' to them that I was super tough by wearing one.  :P

Zippers.... well yes, you wouldn't think they really hurt, but .... I've heard some very convincing screams to the contrary. Disappointingly keep coming across people who don't have enough liftable skin for pegs - bloody annoying.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Nov 04, 2015, 09:09:20 PM
*googles "peg zipper"*

*has ideas*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: MzB on Nov 04, 2015, 09:25:35 PM
found a fair bit by googling 'oxytocin BDSM'

Thank you, yes, I found a couple of useful articles with this Google.

http://sexsciencespirit.blogspot.co.uk/2014/11/altered-states-of-consciousness-in-bdsm.html
http://www.rosecoloredasses.com/sirreal/bdsmscience.htm
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Nov 04, 2015, 09:50:54 PM
I wish I'd got a chance to look at your zippers - I still can't imagine that clothes pegs hurt that much, even if there are loads.


They hurt Mills.  :)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Nov 04, 2015, 10:05:58 PM
I wish I'd got a chance to look at your zippers - I still can't imagine that clothes pegs hurt that much, even if there are loads.


They hurt Mills.  :)

I remember YOU and pegs!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Nov 04, 2015, 10:09:10 PM
I wish I'd got a chance to look at your zippers - I still can't imagine that clothes pegs hurt that much, even if there are loads.


They hurt Mills.  :)

I remember YOU and pegs!

Not sure how to respond to that.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Nov 04, 2015, 10:31:10 PM
*Lays out under a square of satin what may be a very stingy hitty thing, and some extremely sharp pokey things, and some rather mean clampy things... possibly*

My new playmate has an interest in sharp pain, so I rather suspect your sharp pokey things might be relevant to my interests. Care to elaborate? :)

 ;D In this case I was thinking of needles, particularly Arigs lovely talent for beading. Tho I STILL have three unused peg zippers hanging out in my kit bag, I keep taking them on play dates then not using them.

Rather fond of the Delrin canes too.

Delrin is awesome, got myself TWO new Delrin canes. Very looong ones. one thick, one thin double piece.

Are you making necklaces or Xmas decorations? 'Tis the season after all :-P


I wish I'd got a chance to look at your zippers - I still can't imagine that clothes pegs hurt that much, even if there are loads.

Did you see the clamps C brought?
https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B001I2CXDQ/ref=cm_sw_r_awd_SVMowb8ATZJJ7
Be still, my beating heart.


Oh I like these, I also have a HUGE assortment as they were very cheap in large pack of varying sizes at Bauhaus store here. Also have medium 6 ones in lovely lilac. All the rest is "garden colour" dark green. And new pegs:

http://www.aliexpress.com/item-img/Excellent-Quality-10pcs-Stainless-Steel-Spring-Clothes-Socks-Hanging-Pegs-Clips-Clamps-Silver-Laundry/32353599513.html

http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/517T5qRqntL._SY300_.jpg

that my lovely S bought for me (and us to use on our clamp workshop, but mostly me to use on her)

And they are both very painful type ones. My S is lovely, but terribly masochistic and not very bright (as she keeps buying me more and more evil toys even SHE is cared of) but she is very hot.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Nov 04, 2015, 10:32:20 PM
I wish I'd got a chance to look at your zippers - I still can't imagine that clothes pegs hurt that much, even if there are loads.


They hurt Mills.  :)

I remember YOU and pegs!

Not sure how to respond to that.

With a yelp?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Nov 05, 2015, 07:41:19 AM
Zippers.... well yes, you wouldn't think they really hurt, but .... I've heard some very convincing screams to the contrary. Disappointingly keep coming across people who don't have enough liftable skin for pegs - bloody annoying.

I think it's because I associate 'pegs' with 'wooden clothes pegs'.
And they don't do much for me.

C did yank off the clamps in the end.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Nov 05, 2015, 09:44:21 AM
Mills I think its worth looking at some of the very pretty (and painful) arrangements that can be made with hundreds of clothes pegs.


RD: is there a tumblr for hot dykes and their cats? There really should be. I'm feeling less anxious.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Nov 05, 2015, 10:10:37 AM
Pure evil, there is a tumblr for everything.
Like, literally.

Marzipan Gnome imparted that wisdom. *nods
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Nov 05, 2015, 08:45:36 PM
*wolf grin*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Nov 05, 2015, 09:06:37 PM
Oh, I don't recall saying there was one for any and everything Mills.  But a good rummage will probably bring something suitably filthy to the fore. 😀

DRD - feck! It's gonna be weeks.  :-\
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Nov 05, 2015, 09:20:29 PM
^^^  :(
Bummer.

I kind of wish my play dates were a bit more spaced out.
Two consecutive weekends in November and then no plans for quite a while and I don't know when I will see either of them next.
I suspect coming back from Copenhagen might be a bit crappy.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Nov 05, 2015, 09:46:30 PM
Ack its just the way it goes. this is always a dreary bit of the year, dark, dismal, long half term then xmas so that's never a good time for such things.  It's just slowly sinking in after having such a good weekend.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Nov 07, 2015, 09:00:32 AM
I got ready to go to the gym, but then quickly called Vodafone and that made me really angry. Then I made the mistake of sitting down, so the cat came to sit on me to and now I'm still on the sofa. In my gym gear.
And I've missed my slot, because I have quite a few appointments today.
Balls.

In other news, I'm bored of all the feels.
When I have downtime I notice that I'm still reeling - like S snapped something off, a confidence dial or a trust switch or something.
The solution is of course less downtime. Clearly.



Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Nov 07, 2015, 10:22:14 AM
^^^ HUGS!!! In my experience of confidence dials and snapped switches: renting nice apartments and running with the Femme Pack really helps. Life is so much sweeter when you are wandering about somewhere nice in your knickers and chatting to friends who are taking a bubble bath together.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Nov 07, 2015, 10:42:56 AM
I'm hoping dancing in my pants in autonomy towers will eventually have the same effect.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Nov 07, 2015, 09:57:59 PM
Urgh, so wishing there was a person with a bent for service in the house this evening. Having some one to run my bath, help me dry my hair and lay out my clothes and pack a work bag for tomorrow would be divine.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Nov 07, 2015, 10:16:26 PM
^^^ Bum.  :(



I'm not sure what people did before the internet.
I should remember as I was definitely alive then, but then I barely remember last week.  ::)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Nov 07, 2015, 10:22:25 PM
^^^ heh, what we did in regards to? I assure you many things are pretty much unchanged :P

I seem to be writing almost the same amount of letters as I did back then. Gosh I can still recall letters I received 20 years ago, not many emails I remember at all. Very happy with my fetish for paper mail.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Nov 07, 2015, 10:32:18 PM
^^^ I guess I spoke to people on the phone a lot more.

You know, I'm still carrying that card I bought for you in my bag.
It is a really, really good card though and you'll totally love it, when I finally manage to remember to post it.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Nov 07, 2015, 10:36:15 PM
^^^ I guess I spoke to people on the phone a lot more.

You know, I'm still carrying that card I bought for you in my bag.
It is a really, really good card though and you'll totally love it, when I finally manage to remember to post it.

*wiggles in post anticipation*

Yes, I remember 3 hour long phone conversations. I can only think of a few friends I blather with that long on chat or skype, tho I can easily blather for days in person.  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: lil_moomin on Nov 08, 2015, 11:34:37 AM
i remember when to get to someone else in the village you had to dial 3 numbers on the house phone (!) and that was it, then they added another 3 number prefix and i think that still exists to this day...

my mum still says "hello, 123"

the dial where you selected the numbers by turning it and then it would turn all of the way back.

when you said "meet you at 6" and there was no way of contacting someone if you were going to be late, so everyone was on time!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Goblin Flump on Nov 08, 2015, 02:42:01 PM
I can fit comfortably in my dog's crate-cage. Admitedly, the Gizster wasn't toohappy with me being in it but still! Good to know.

The only hard copy post I recieve are bills and the children's edition of Boden catalogue.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Nov 08, 2015, 07:33:40 PM
I can fit comfortably in my dog's crate-cage.

Heh!!

'Sky-mall'  sell a wooden dog crate that has very bad reviews.... 'my elderly dog was able to chew through the bars in one night, would not recommend'
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Nov 08, 2015, 07:38:14 PM
I can fit comfortably in my dog's crate-cage.

And what on earth put it into your head to check that? ;)
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Goblin Flump on Nov 08, 2015, 07:46:15 PM
That must be pretty shoddy wood!  ;D

This is a collapsible metal cage and about £60 from my local pet shop. It was supposed to be for him to sleep in at night, but mostly he uses it as a fortress of solitude or place to hide when he realises its bath-time (which is how I ended up crawling in after him).
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Nov 08, 2015, 07:51:49 PM
That must be pretty shoddy wood!  ;D

This is a collapsible metal cage and about £60 from my local pet shop. It was supposed to be for him to sleep in at night, but mostly he uses it as a fortress of solitude or place to hide when he realises its bath-time (which is how I ended up crawling in after him).

psst! maybe you should get one of these: http://www.skymall.com/pet-crate-end-tables/GIMP396.html (http://www.skymall.com/pet-crate-end-tables/GIMP396.html)  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Goblin Flump on Nov 08, 2015, 07:54:33 PM
I can fit comfortably in my dog's crate-cage.

And what on earth put it into your head to check that? ;)
purely innocent circumstances, I assure you ;P
psst! maybe you should get one of these: http://www.skymall.com/pet-crate-end-tables/GIMP396.html (http://www.skymall.com/pet-crate-end-tables/GIMP396.html)  ;D
regardless of whom that was for, he would chew it to bits :(
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Nov 08, 2015, 08:02:45 PM
ARGH!! Riding the  devil may care attitude of a hard day at the office, I just dashed off a message and asked a London person out on a date. FUCK.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Nov 08, 2015, 08:10:56 PM
^^^ atta girl  :D

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Nov 08, 2015, 08:14:34 PM
It was total endorphine driven bravado..... and they said yes  :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Goblin Flump on Nov 08, 2015, 08:16:29 PM
^^fantastic!
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Nov 08, 2015, 08:18:50 PM
Hurray!  :D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Nov 08, 2015, 08:20:45 PM
FK suggested yesterday that my infatuation with my flat is totes NRE.

But I don't think so.
I think what we have is the real thing.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Nov 08, 2015, 08:22:08 PM
Typically as 'The Queen of Neurosis' I'm wondering what sort of terrible outcome there might be.  ::)

Mills, I'm so disorientated I just spent a while trying to figure out what 'flat totes' were.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Nov 08, 2015, 08:27:33 PM
Oh, that was just lazy language.
Sorry.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Nov 09, 2015, 09:38:04 AM
Oh, that was just lazy language.
Sorry.

*snrt* obvs.  :P ;) :-*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Nov 09, 2015, 04:07:28 PM
C. just sent me the program for the weekend.  :D
Yesterday I was like 'ugh, travelling again, I just want to stay in my flat with the central heating on', but now I'm quite excited.

In other news, I still find it difficult to believe that the zippers hurt so much; zipper gifs non withstanding.
I might just ask C and get it out of the way. Makes sense, right. Totally.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Nov 09, 2015, 04:13:28 PM
I told you they made 'U' scream....

You'll see...

kitty

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Nov 09, 2015, 04:20:29 PM
zipper gifs

What?? Where??!!

Always happy to do a demo Mills...or compare if mine hurt more or less  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Nov 09, 2015, 04:28:24 PM
I told you they made 'U' scream....

You'll see...

kitty

That's what I find the most intriguing.
Mr Oh-single-tail-pain-is-just-like-a-butterfly-kiss.
The mind boggles.

zipper gifs

What?? Where??!!

Always happy to do a demo Mills...or compare if mine hurt more or less  ;D

Tirelessly working in the interest of science. Amazing.
I can't work out how to copy the link here.
I'll try forwarding it on messenger.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Nov 09, 2015, 04:53:11 PM
^^^
and what an awesome gif that was  ;D

Yep, just wishing to serve my community........ and hear a few screams while doing so.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Nov 09, 2015, 08:45:04 PM
^^^ so self-less. *wipes away tear
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Nov 09, 2015, 09:32:39 PM
^^^ offers you my place on the cross instead.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Nov 09, 2015, 09:44:34 PM
I feel this gif may be relevant to my interests too...? *bats eyelashes*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Nov 09, 2015, 09:59:13 PM
I feel this gif may be relevant to my interests too...? *bats eyelashes*

Yet another opportunity to help  :D  http://dreckstueckchen.tumblr.com/post/131527897159 (http://dreckstueckchen.tumblr.com/post/131527897159) and in case anyone is wondering this is not in the slightest bit worksafe and there are some very graphic sexual/BDSM images immediately below the gif in question.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Nov 09, 2015, 10:02:11 PM
I feel this gif may be relevant to my interests too...? *bats eyelashes*

Yet another opportunity to help  :D  http://dreckstueckchen.tumblr.com/post/131527897159 (http://dreckstueckchen.tumblr.com/post/131527897159) and in case anyone is wondering this is not in the slightest bit worksafe and there are some very graphic sexual/BDSM images immediately below the gif in question.

That is indeed a very, very pretty gif.

And HOLY FUCK some of the stuff below it  :o Just when I think I'm getting unshockable...
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Nov 09, 2015, 10:03:35 PM
I feel this gif may be relevant to my interests too...? *bats eyelashes*

Yet another opportunity to help  :D  http://dreckstueckchen.tumblr.com/post/131527897159 (http://dreckstueckchen.tumblr.com/post/131527897159) and in case anyone is wondering this is not in the slightest bit worksafe and there are some very graphic sexual/BDSM images immediately below the gif in question.

That is indeed a very, very pretty gif.

And HOLY FUCK some of the stuff below it  :o Just when I think I'm getting unshockable...

yep, that's why I thought to mention it!!  :o
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: fetishkitty on Nov 09, 2015, 10:20:24 PM
Wooooaaaahhhh!!

*goes and washes eyeballs*
*with bleach*

kitty
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Goblin Flump on Nov 09, 2015, 10:52:38 PM
Gosh.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Nov 10, 2015, 05:46:25 AM
I opened the link in my tumblr app and there is nothing underneath.

Then I clicked on the link above and AAAARRRGGHHH.
MY EYES. MY EYES.



Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: marzipan gnome on Nov 10, 2015, 06:55:24 AM
 ;D

Such sweet innocent gals you all are...not.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Nov 10, 2015, 07:35:14 AM
I'm not good with pink bits.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Nov 10, 2015, 09:33:26 AM
^^^^Well I tell you when I opened it in my fb messages it was ALL there.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Nov 10, 2015, 09:48:22 AM
^^^ oh dear.
Well if I'd known that I wouldn't have forwarded that to you.

My experience was more 'oh, pegs.'
I feel like I've soiled your inbox.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Nov 10, 2015, 10:05:46 AM
HEH!! Well I seem to have survived :D plus feel like I glimpsed another world.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Nov 10, 2015, 11:55:00 AM
As they say, what doesn't kill you makes you stranger.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Earl on Nov 10, 2015, 05:11:28 PM
I feel this gif may be relevant to my interests too...? *bats eyelashes*

Yet another opportunity to help  :D  http://dreckstueckchen.tumblr.com/post/131527897159 (http://dreckstueckchen.tumblr.com/post/131527897159) and in case anyone is wondering this is not in the slightest bit worksafe and there are some very graphic sexual/BDSM images immediately below the gif in question.

Why, WHY did I look at that?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Kish on Nov 10, 2015, 06:44:48 PM
that clips awesome. i love that sh*t

*runs back up the stairs*
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: MzB on Nov 10, 2015, 07:20:31 PM
I am getting flashbacks every time I'm anywhere near the Dungeon!  :o

That'll teach me.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Nov 10, 2015, 08:57:33 PM
I'm having a day that has given me multiple reasons (on multiple fronts, not all kinky) that make me want to dance around in a circle, on tip toes, around a fire, while cackling manically.



Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Nov 10, 2015, 11:00:40 PM

I open the link and saw only one strip of gifs to the left hand side that seem to be small gifs from maybe a movie or something, does not look like a play scene, icked me out, but all other gifs did not seem so extreme, (except for the usual nail shot). Am I dead inside?

Mills, we should definitely compare, "U" is no competition to my S when it comes to taking on clamps, loving them, and wanting more. SO if there is chance we should totes do a comparison study, build up two zippers like the ones in gif, next to each other (me and my S and whomever has the honour of zipping you) and we can compare screaming decibels?

All because I too, am selfless and will do anything for science.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Nov 10, 2015, 11:49:38 PM
^^^^ kindred spirit  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Nov 11, 2015, 12:01:55 AM


I am Saint A + of perpetual torment. What is your Saint name?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Nov 11, 2015, 05:07:30 AM

I open the link and saw only one strip of gifs to the left hand side that seem to be small gifs from maybe a movie or something, does not look like a play scene, icked me out, but all other gifs did not seem so extreme, (except for the usual nail shot). Am I dead inside?

When I click now, I get different clips when I scroll to the ones yesterday. (How does that work? Tumblr is a bit of a mystery to me.)
And I can't see the one that made me go WAAAAAAAA.
This is interesting - I guess now I'll never know if I was freaked out by the same thing the other people were freaked out by. 

Mills, we should definitely compare, "U" is no competition to my S when it comes to taking on clamps, loving them, and wanting more. SO if there is chance we should totes do a comparison study, build up two zippers like the ones in gif, next to each other (me and my S and whomever has the honour of zipping you) and we can compare screaming decibels?

All because I too, am selfless and will do anything for science.

In the first workshop I ever went to they told me that BDSM practitioners are both intrepid explorers and educators. They were not kidding, were they. It's all about the science.

I'm sure there will be a chance at some point. There is always the Easter Science, health and wellbeing break.

Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Nov 11, 2015, 07:58:28 AM


I am Saint A + of perpetual torment. What is your Saint name?

Holy Divestiture of the trampling heels.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Arig on Nov 11, 2015, 05:25:20 PM
Mills and Holy Divestiture of the trampling heels, I found this:

http://www.healthyhearing.com/report/47805-The-best-phone-apps-to-measure-noise-levels

which I think could be used to measure "audible impact"of zippers on one or more subjects.

FK, for science, more test subjects will give us a more accurate research baseline, so maybe you should prepare some zippers for a zip off? Easter maybe?
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Nov 11, 2015, 06:11:35 PM
 :D Epic.

I mentioned the zip off to your sister, Arig.
She said she would only take part if I agreed to scream the loudest as she wants to win.
I'm shocked and saddened.
I think for this, I need someone whose quest is science, not winning.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Nov 11, 2015, 09:54:53 PM
If a zipper is zipped off in the woods does anyone hear the scream?


and


I really don't know about this fake scream qualitative research bizzo, I think there should be points for stoic suffering.... and sheer number of pegs per zipper....and the test where the subs have to RUN AWAY to zip the zippers....and the loudest maniacal laugh from a sadist.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Nov 11, 2015, 11:14:42 PM
and the loudest maniacal laugh from a sadist.

I'm already laughing maniacally and I'm not even part of the experiment  ;D
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: millicent on Nov 12, 2015, 05:22:57 AM
I really don't know about this fake scream qualitative research bizzo, I think there should be points for stoic suffering.... and sheer number of pegs per zipper....and the test where the subs have to RUN AWAY to zip the zippers....and the loudest maniacal laugh from a sadist.

No points, just joy.


Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: pure evil on Nov 12, 2015, 12:13:00 PM
and the loudest maniacal laugh from a sadist.

I'm already laughing maniacally and I'm not even part of the experiment  ;D

BUT WHY SHOULDN'T THERE BE A LONDON VERSION OF THIS EVENT???!!! *eyes gleam*  ;D

perhaps at a certain party.
Title: Re: Dungeon Random Disclosures
Post by: Amphelise on Nov 12, 2015, 08:03:08 PM